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 Deb351974

Joined: 7/24/2009
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Single women prefer married men! (It's true)
Posted: 8/18/2009 2:12:36 PM
They question a small percent of the population.... 60 plus million in the UK..... personaly I wouldn't touch a married man....... and nor would any of my female friends.... these questions are total pump anyway......
 roger_roger

Joined: 11/14/2007
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Posted: 8/18/2009 3:10:16 PM
I've always known this to be true and I think women fall into 2 categories:

1. Those that find attached men attractive - good for shagging only

2. Those that would never go there - good for long term relationship
 pub_genius

Joined: 3/18/2009
Msg: 78
Single women prefer married men! (It's true)
Posted: 8/19/2009 8:26:48 AM
Thanks for the replies people, it was an interesting discussion! I think I'll just pretend I'm attached in future...and I used to wonder why men hired escorts for reasons other than the obvious!
 KTB_86

Joined: 7/27/2009
Msg: 79
Single women prefer married men! (It's true)
Posted: 8/19/2009 9:51:11 AM
quite simply its a challenge

rumour has it sex get predictable once people have been married for long periods of time, the need to "spice things up" and the old memories about dirty, fun, no strings attached sex start popping up.

Single woman sees married man
married man isnt necessarily hot but he is married

single lady is a bit annoyed that shes better looking than the wife and that shes not married - she's still on the shelf and a bit bitter even if she swears through her teeth that this is what she wants.

so sets about reminding husband what sex could be like... fun, naughty, dirty, she'll never tell the wife so whats the problem

or its viewed simply as a game, so what you are married you might still want me...???

men were put here to sow their seed .... many cant resist temptation, many can

its still a challenge, fun, thrilling, exciting to see if you can bed him!!!

*** i do not agree with sleeping with married men but its clear to see the reasons behind it
 ComeSayHi83

Joined: 10/1/2008
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Posted: 8/27/2009 4:38:07 PM
I think it's much the same reason why women often get on with gay guys too. They take these people they "can't get" as less of a threat so all parties can be more themselves with most of the pressure being off the possibility of leading to a proper relationship.
So, flings aside, quite often these platonic folks can get closer more quickly than they would have done otherwise, even if it doesn't always stay that way.
 Miss Enigma

Joined: 8/18/2007
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Posted: 8/27/2009 4:42:20 PM
Is it bollocks. Thats what i think anyway. What type of effing egit would prefer a married man. May read ok in type, but lonely as fuk life in reality me thinks....
 ***Col***

Joined: 7/30/2009
Msg: 82
Single women prefer married men! (It's true)
Posted: 8/27/2009 4:55:02 PM

If you were with someone who you knew commited multiple murders but you had nothing to do with the murder except concealing the gun for them after each slaughter would you be guilty of anything?


Yes, you would be an accessory to the crime - probably perverting the course of justice as well.
 Miss Enigma

Joined: 8/18/2007
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Posted: 8/27/2009 4:59:51 PM
Lmfaao at whom asked the above q even if was a wind up, not at who answered. Thought i was effing naieve not reading all posts,lol
 try1more

Joined: 12/16/2007
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Posted: 8/28/2009 1:38:13 AM
"Single women prefer married men! (It's true)"

thats a load of rubbish! it was always groups of em chasing me til i got divorced.


they all seem to run the other way now
 stew_67

Joined: 7/28/2009
Msg: 85
Single women prefer married men! (It's true)
Posted: 8/28/2009 5:28:51 AM
keeping up with the jones ,how shallow is that ,or they can not get one of their own ...

TBH ... i dont really care
 ***Blueskies***

Joined: 6/27/2009
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Posted: 8/28/2009 6:06:45 AM
If someone is married or in a relationship then they are just totally off limits for me.

I just wouldn't go there.

I'd much rather stay single for the rest of my years if the only offers I ever had were from those in relationships.
I might get a little lonely but t least I'd have peace of mind.
 ***Col***

Joined: 7/30/2009
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Single women prefer married men! (It's true)
Posted: 8/28/2009 6:49:33 AM

its still a challenge, fun, thrilling, exciting to see if you can bed him!!!


Is it just married men or also those in committed but unmarried relationships that are seen as a challenge?
 icarusi

Joined: 2/20/2007
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Posted: 8/28/2009 2:48:26 PM

I prefer men who've committed to someone at least at some point in their lives, even if the relationship failed. After all, you can't learn if you haven't made mistakes or taken chances in life.


But have they really committed or just got something in the bank but still looking for other opportunities when possible. I remember that being the outlook from some of my married friends so I wouldn't necessarily take it too positively.

OTOH I remember getting on well with most of my mate's wives when I was single but assumed it was due to the 'pressure off' situation, as it wasn't like singles meeting. Also (with one exception) I didn't fancy any of my mate's wives, so no date-style awkwardness.
 GatesheadWalking

Joined: 7/14/2009
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Posted: 8/29/2009 4:10:16 PM
(Note that in this modern world this will no doubt often apply to the single man too)
The fact is that most people are extremely weak and a bit stupid.
First off it is right that a married man would be more relaxed because he is has far less need to capture a woman.
The stupid woman however has not realised his confidence is down to the fact that his good wife makes him secre and wants a piece of it. And from day one she let nature takes it's course rather than making sure he was no fraud!

When she finds out it is too late and rather than the extemely painful process of detachment she lies about it all to her friends and herself. She puts up with the now inadequate relationship that still gives some emotional fulfillment.

Of course she has lost the beauty of a trusting relationship. Some or even most of her self confidence has been destroyed. To keep whats left intact she acts 'conservative' and lets it continue using that often weak emotion called 'hope'.

9 times out of 10 the man won't leave the wife unless she herself plots his downfal. Then he himself either loses both or becomes the dominated one.

The sad thing here is because she is weak she has not found a single man with honest potential that she herself can turn into the most wonderful partner ever imaginable.
And not two but three lives might suffer a large emotional fall as a consequence.

Part of wonderful thing called life is lost to her forever all because she stayed in the comfort zone from the start.
 virgo7uk

Joined: 2/27/2008
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Posted: 9/3/2009 12:07:27 AM
When a woman gets involved with a married man, she is delibrately opting for someone that is emotionally unavailable. It is an avoidance of commitment. The attraction is, in theory the deception is already up front. She knows that he will cheat on her and that he tells lies. Alternatively she could try someone single just to find out the same thing.
 enquirer

Joined: 11/8/2008
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Posted: 9/3/2009 9:15:57 AM
well i am married and am looking ,but ive found that the ladies are much more loyal than us chaps ( i'm british by the way ,thats old english for guy) ive found that single men are certainly not interested in you if you are married, but i dont let this put me off because i am not necessarilly looking for a single woman, a nice married one will do just as well thanks.
 Musique08

Joined: 8/10/2008
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Posted: 9/3/2009 5:42:35 PM
I don't prefer married men, you'd know you can't really be with them, unless they left their partner. Why would you be more attracted to someone in a relationship? I could be attracted to a guy who was in relationships if I just happened to, just like I could be attracted to a guy who isn't, but I don't prefer guys who are taken.
 DavyG

Joined: 3/5/2007
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Posted: 9/4/2009 2:52:32 AM
Havent followed every point on this forum but the guys are taking a lot of crap here, in a lot of cases we wouldnt be on this site or ones like it if it was not for cheating WIVES, IT'S NOT ALWAYS THE GUYS FAULT LADIES, or am I being paranoid.
 shabbawanks

Joined: 4/16/2009
Msg: 94
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Posted: 9/4/2009 3:04:50 AM
but ive found that the ladies are much more loyal than us chaps


Rubbish, they have the same needs and urges as men do, they just don't like to share with another woman so are more likely to avoid a married man.. that's not to say they are less likely to play away if they themselves are married, they're just better at it and less likely to get caught out.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1211104/Think-men-unfaithful-sex-A-study-shows-WOMEN-biggest-cheats--theyre-just-better-lying-it.html
 whistle4ahottie

Joined: 8/3/2008
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Posted: 9/4/2009 4:20:23 AM
I think it's the thrill of the chase, it's kind of like i know you want me...but how badly?

not that i've ever done it of course...
 aitche

Joined: 12/22/2007
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Posted: 9/4/2009 4:34:45 AM
Well if it's in the Daily Mail it must be true.

Speaking from personal experience I've never cheated on anyone in my life. I've been chatted up by lots of married men though, however I'm not going to jump to the conclusion that all married men are cheating, lying, b4stards.


H.x
 CB962

Joined: 5/27/2009
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Posted: 9/4/2009 11:10:32 AM
Well if thats the case i'd better find get wed then..wheres the catalogue gone????
 kittythe2nd

Joined: 6/6/2009
Msg: 98
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Posted: 9/5/2009 6:14:24 AM
I have to agree that sometimes attached men are more generous but less desperate.

Plus it's interesting to see how you compare with their partner by seeing if you can bed them and whether they come back for more..lol

Not saying this is right, just saying why this might be true!
 Paulinemab

Joined: 2/12/2009
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Posted: 9/5/2009 6:37:28 AM

I have to agree that sometimes attached men are more generous but less desperate.

Plus it's interesting to see how you compare with their partner by seeing if you can bed them and whether they come back for more..lol


Only if you are extremely shallow and have to validate your self worth on how good you are in the sack.
 brown**eyes

Joined: 7/19/2009
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Posted: 9/5/2009 6:52:47 AM

I have to agree that sometimes attached men are more generous but less desperate.


Their generosity merely highlights their own desperation as to what they are willing to do to secure a shag!
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