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 bobbajobba

Joined: 4/28/2009
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How do we Unlearn behavior?
Posted: 10/30/2009 1:49:52 PM
Most guys have found that a combination of electroshock and three days and nights in a metal box does the trick every time. I also had a therapist who did miracles by putting hawk-talons with ropes in my pecs and hoisting me up to the ceiling in the B-Street medicine lodge in Sheboygan (the talons weren't nearly as annoying as being in Sheboygan, talk about a massive incentive to never get depressed over a woman again)
I think that worked for RichardHarris one time, also.
 TrueSamurai

Joined: 8/22/2009
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How do we Unlearn behavior?
Posted: 10/31/2009 8:25:06 AM
Confident-Realist

Interesting concept on the concept, no arguments it brings us back to DNA and upbringing which again constitutes the major part of us. So again it would depend on the DNA how flexible / tolerant it may be which determines our flexibility in our lives and the degree of the flexibility hence our capability to change as the topic suggests or hopefully improve.

Allow me just to say this the DNA is as is, flexible or not, but the upbringing and the environment are dynamic and interflowing between each other, not coupled but interflowing, this is where people find most of their confusion and discomfort if you will.

Just a thought.
 janus20

Joined: 1/1/2007
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How do we Unlearn behavior?
Posted: 10/31/2009 11:13:13 AM
You don't. You resort to what is familiar and instinctive. To undo it, you would have to make a conscious effort to stop yourself when it happens. That is a lot of work and effort.
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