| Oral...is it a dealbreaker?
Posted: 10/6/2009 8:10:19 AM | I echo the sentiments of others who say"well said Nana".You are one of a kind,along with a few others on here and can't help but feel deep respect for you all,you know who.
I agree with your opinion that no two people will agree on everything...be rather boring if we did.Good debate is the basis of friendship,love and respect.Respecting one's opinions even if you disagree is the core basis of a strong relationship whether it be love or friendship.Agree on the fact that too many of us on here deal in mudslinging and personal bulling when they are outdebated on subjects.
So you mentioned 40's..yeah thats me.Do i want drama...he11 no...but i seem to attract it for myself.Soooo"no amount of oral or sex can replace that core stuff".Well i am a guy,so i do like oral sex.As far as sex goes...can give that a miss..."boring".
I think the thing i miss most is the oral...nooooooo,not the sex,but,the oral communication.Think i'm becoming a social recluse even though i do love a good oral talk.Maybe the word i look for is,socially inept.
Keep the core up,i'll continue to keep enjoying it. | |
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| Oral...is it a dealbreaker?
Posted: 10/6/2009 11:27:09 AM | I agree with your opinion that no two people will agree on everything...
I totally disagree!
Oh, but not with that... ^^^
...but with this
Think i'm becoming a social recluse even though i do love a good oral talk.Maybe the word i look for is,socially inept.
I enjoyed our night of oral... (talking... geez people, get your minds out of the gutter) and found you to be more than ept (which is the opposite of inept, and I don't care if a Google search and spellcheck doesn't recognise it).
As regards the OP, has this topic had a darn good rogering, or what?
Time to roll over... and prepare for round two?  | |
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| Oral...is it a dealbreaker?
Posted: 10/6/2009 2:51:51 PM |
Good debate is the basis of friendship,love and respect
Totally agree and WHILE I'm in a more agreeable mood today  (got a decent nights sleep for the first time in a week- hooray!) accepting a differing point of view is paramount in any relationship and debate should be an enriching experience, especially if tackled with wit, respect, admiration, love or friendship. Ideally we look for mutual likes/dislikes in a friend or lover- it's usually the basis of attraction, but that attraction deepens when differences are explored and respected. It's our oppinions that give us our own special magic and make us individual | |
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| Oral...is it a dealbreaker?
Posted: 10/6/2009 5:14:31 PM | and, gee, when a person becomes that bitter, oral would be best avoided...no amount of pineapple juice would mask that taste.
Domestos would be the go I reckon.......kills the bitterness and the cooties in one easy step.
Personally im hanging out to meet a man who hates receiving but looooves giving...strangely enough they seem to be rare! | |
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| Oral...is it a dealbreaker?
Posted: 10/6/2009 5:54:48 PM | Then there was the woman who used to clean the toilet bowl with her
hubby's toothbrush.........Definite dealbreaker!! 
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| Oral...is it a dealbreaker?
Posted: 10/6/2009 5:57:54 PM | Ok I've avoided this one on purpose but I've decided to speak my piece today.
I don't really care either way as long as we get together in an intimate manner and besides most guys don't know what the hell they're doing anyway..................
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| Oral...is it a dealbreaker?
Posted: 10/6/2009 7:08:19 PM | and besides most guys don't know what the hell they're doing anyway..................
Yes, god help us it is true. 
I am at my wits end; I have no idea what more I can do. I have practised at every opportunity, read books on women’s physiology; I have even made a selfless study of countless hours of pornography.
In the end, before push comes to shove comes to push, I have to confess that I have no idea how other men somehow manage to keep the women from all this arching and thrashing around. This, rising and falling, arching and shuddering, she pushs up and I push her down and then again and again and around and around. Lord it is just a nightmare.
I just don’t know, it is hardly romantic, it is very athletic and it makes it very had to read the aforementioned book, even if you can find a way to keep it open at the right page.
I think that the cause of the problem is obvious; a selfish lack of cooperation. For god’s sake, can’t you just lie there quietly while we try to figure it out? | |
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| Oral...is it a dealbreaker?
Posted: 10/6/2009 7:10:24 PM |
...besides most guys don't know what the hell they're doing anyway..........
In your experience you mean?
It's worth pondering that the common denominator in 'your experiences' is you. | |
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| Oral...is it a dealbreaker?
Posted: 10/6/2009 8:04:06 PM | ^^^ Yes, and one must always look on the bright side.
besides most guys don't know what the hell they're doing anyway..................
I was brought up proper like and taught that one must never look a gift horse in the... mouth.
As such, I'm always looking on the bright side of common denominators and whole-heartedly embrace rare opportunities to have a good lie down when such situations arise.
The chance to ponder issues such as house renovations, investment strategies and the next day's shopping list are relatively rare. | |
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| Oral...is it a dealbreaker?
Posted: 10/6/2009 8:30:41 PM | | ^^^The proper attitude from a obviously well brought up woman; now if you could just learn to read out the book and point to the diagrams while you were ruminating you would be a goddess beyond compare. | |
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| Oral...is it a dealbreaker?
Posted: 10/6/2009 9:16:13 PM |
I have even made a selfless study of countless hours of pornography.
No no no no no...nobody should ever learn about how to give a woman oral from porn. They are considering the visuals...getting the camera angles right and closeups....and as a result you see tongues, doing all the work, extended as far as possible to keep a clear view and being used in ways that look erotic but ... ummm, all I'm sayin' is, there are things some men can do with their mouths that wouldn't make good film, but ...oh...my... god....
OK sure, the women in the porn flick will writhe and groan like it's the best thing ever, but here's the thing...*drumroll*...they are paid actors. (Apologies for any illusions that have been shattered here today. ) Basically, if a guy thinks good oral is demonstrated in porn flicks ...ummm, he is probably going to need a woman who knows no better, or...who is a good actor.  | |
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| Oral...is it a dealbreaker?
Posted: 10/6/2009 9:30:28 PM | | ^^^That is exactly what my research revealed; there is nothing more useful than practice and a physiology textbook; who would have thought that reading had a practical application. | |
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| Oral...is it a dealbreaker?
Posted: 10/7/2009 1:20:29 AM | Well you would have thought Naamah was such an expert on porn, camera angles??? Only thought there was one and that it was a close up 
Have kind of always thought no its not a dealbreaker but then had a thought about squirting. If she let go and kept shooting me in the face with some hidden hose then I would probably call it a day. Usually have sex naked, having to bring a wetsuit and tarp with me seems a tad excessive.
Obviously it would have to take place at her house
Might bring back some hidious childhood memories, playing with the hose and no water, look down hose and whoosh full bore up the nose. Rolling on the floor in the foetal position whimpering just doesnt seem that sexy to me. | |
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| Oral...is it a dealbreaker?
Posted: 10/7/2009 1:30:00 AM |
Well you would have thought Naamah was such an expert on porn, camera angles???
Well, you know, when the training dropped back this year...a girl's gotta eat.
...Probably not a good choice of phrasing for this particular thread. | |
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| Oral...is it a dealbreaker?
Posted: 10/7/2009 1:46:25 AM | The average spurt contains between 5 and 7 calories...apparently.
Be buggered if im gonna ruin my figure........ | |
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| Oral...is it a dealbreaker?
Posted: 10/7/2009 3:43:46 AM |
Well, you know, when the training dropped back this year...a girl's gotta eat.
Could do with some help with the video camera.......................
The average spurt contains between 5 and 7 calories...apparently
There is no written rule that says anything has to be digested, a gargle and a spit is ok.
Sure your jeans can take another couple of calories anyway
My previous post was about squirting not spurting
Female ejaculation (colloquially known as squirting or gushing) refers to the expulsion of noticeable amounts of clear fluid by human females from the paraurethral ducts through and around the urethra during or before orgasm. The exact source and nature of the fluid continues to be the topic of debate among medical professionals. | |
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| Oral...is it a dealbreaker?
Posted: 10/7/2009 3:53:42 AM | Female ejaculation (colloquially known as squirting or gushing) refers to the expulsion of noticeable amounts of clear fluid by human females from the paraurethral ducts through and around the urethra during or before orgasm
Yes....and the Loch Ness monster really exists too........... 
Its called pee. | |
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| Oral...is it a dealbreaker?
Posted: 10/7/2009 4:46:14 AM | | ^^^ Yes I did notice quite a few squirters in the sex forums here.....but they are alongside the women who also claim to love fisting, shagging for weeks on end and taking it up the butt "real hard". Also the women who claim douching is good and its normal to smell like a fish when you have your period...... im inclined to believe very little of what I read......maybe claiming these things improves your chances of getting laid or something! | |
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| Oral...is it a dealbreaker?
Posted: 10/7/2009 4:59:11 AM | | Have you seen how many people have viewed this thread???7000 plus!!Do you think they're taking notes?? | |
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| Oral...is it a dealbreaker?
Posted: 10/7/2009 5:16:08 AM | ^^^^Of course they take notes, though they only note the advice and guidance of the Fabulous Miss Hilly who is the exemplar of decorum and gentility in all things.
Who would have though that women don’t love fisting; you learn something everyday. | |
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| Oral...is it a dealbreaker?
Posted: 10/7/2009 6:05:07 AM |
Yes I did notice quite a few squirters in the sex forums here.....but they are alongside the women who also claim to love fisting, shagging for weeks on end and taking it up the butt "real hard". (etc etc)
'Alongside' but not necessarily the same people, and even if they exactly were it still makes no difference, since it makes no sense to dismiss all of someones point of view because one doesn't agree with part of it.
PETA has some fairly extreme views for example, that many people find hard to swallow, but they also have moderate positions on various issues that are a bit more palatable to the mainstream.
Would you disregard the moderate stuff because you can't get your head around the hard-core aspects?
im inclined to believe very little of what I read.....
Very wise, even seeing it a couple of times wouldn't be very convincing?
But seeing it a thousand times makes it impossible to ignore.
Vanilla is the most popular flavour, so obviously there are many people who are perfectly happy with it. Some, no doubt, exclusively.
But that doesn't mean the other flavours don't exist. They do.
Public Service Announcement: Squirters - You are normal. Don't allow prudish disapproval to spoil your fun!
Cheers! Sante! Hurraa! Skål! Prost! Salute! Bottoms up! | |
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| Oral...is it a dealbreaker?
Posted: 10/7/2009 6:34:18 AM |
Yes I did notice quite a few squirters in the sex forums here.....but they are alongside the women who also claim to love fisting, shagging for weeks on end and taking it up the butt "real hard". Also the women who claim douching is good and its normal to smell like a fish when you have your period....
See, now this is why I hang around with Hilly...she makes me seem so demure by comparison. And I just thank the gods of dating sites that these women she mentions (in the last part of the bit I've quoted) aren't using "dead fish" photos on their profiles.
Thanks for the good belly laugh mate. | |
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