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| Benefit of Dating Single Dad.
Posted: 8/21/2009 7:24:43 AM |
My son is 4 I work a full-time job, go to graduate school full time, and sell insurance part-time. It is a matter of time management. And where is your son whilst all this goes on?
A full time job: mimimum 38hrs per week
Full time graduate school: what, at least 6-8hrs of classes a week + study & assignments outside of that
Selling insurance part-time: how many more hours does that add?
I am trying to figure out how you are doing all that on your own. Someone else must be caring for your son for significant number of hours per week.
Not all women have non-present father, or just a man the inseminated them and walked away. This is stero-type. No, it is not a stereotype. It is a real and substantive part of the demographic, particularly in the 15-25 age group, who make up the vast majority of single mothers. I am quite sure it is not "all" women. Doesn't make it over blown or a stereotype however. | |
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| Benefit of Dating Single Dad.
Posted: 8/21/2009 7:29:55 AM |
The first part of you post is about looser men, and women that make poor choices about the men they associate with. IMO women are the socializing factor in society, therefore, if you tolerate the bad behavior of these men, it will continue. If a man enguages in behavior inappropirate and will not have a woman he will tend to cease the poor behavior.
This is true. This is why I get so saddened by so many woman who will sleep with/have children with just anyone, without even requiring a commitment of marriage in return. Women should wait to have children until they find a decent man who is hard working and wants the same things she wants, to be together and to raise a family together.
I did not have an economic advantage over my ex-wife. She wasn't found to be unfit, I was just the better parent. I point of view she agrees with, mind you I was able to mediate my custody arangement with her. It was done to the advantage of our son. He has both his mother and father in his life. On the day custody was finalized I had a negative balance in my bank account. But that day I was the richest man on earth. My lawyer stank, see my eariler post of me being the primary custodial parent but having to pay support. I was able to win for our son when the lawyer got out of the way, all she did was make me broke. My ex's lawyer was amazed how civil we could be. You will never know the amount of personal hell, and economic ruin Iwent through in the quest to remain a full time dad for our (mine and my ex's) son. There was even a point I was living in my car, and couch to couch....while working full time. So tell your class warfare to someone that is gulliable.
Why did you have to fight your ex so hard to get shared custody? Didn't she want you to have some or at least half custody of your son? | |
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| Benefit of Dating Single Dad.
Posted: 8/21/2009 8:46:02 AM | I am a smart woman I just have lousey taste in men. I know how to bake, to cook and clean. Baking is my favorite. With my ex I always made him dinner which he wouldn't come in to eat. Even when I made his favorite roast beef & mashed potatoes the only thing he really liked. But I'm a fabolous cook. And I do know how to boil water. I also know how to make a wonderful cheesecake. I was cooking, working, cleaning and taking care of a newborn and my ex wouldn't even watch her for 15 mins.
You tell me is it fair that a man gets paid for doing the same job as a woman? One out of three women have been abused by men sexually.
I actually need to wear a bra after having my daughter. I agree there has been a lot of moral decay but I would argue its a problem that has inflicted both genders. I have never smoked pot or done drugs my parents brought me up to treat other people with respect, common curtiosy. Its a capitalist society that has created indulgence and a society of materialism that has decayed the family because people care more about possessions then their relationships.
Also the internet has given people (men & womemn) discretion in having affairs like never before.
Its more because the cost of living has rised so much that a married couple can no longer afford to have one parent at home. Women should not feel that the world owes them something nor should men. We should apperciate the earth, lesson our carbon imprint. We should do a better job taking care of the weak and the poor. Women should be equal to men and in many societies they are not.
If a woman is in a work force it is insulting to hear men talk about women as sexual objects. I personally don't like working in that environment its degrading. I don't like having sexual advances but I can turn the other cheek.
But when a man puts his hands on me when he has no business touching me yeah I do take issue with that.
How about men remembering what "no" means and not taking what they feel they are entitled to take. And how about my ex? He wanted our daughter. And he has never done a darn thing for her. Just expected me to buy everything, do all the work and wait on him hand and foot.
And u know when men maybe start acting like men again. Respectful, help raise their children (financially & emotionally) and keep it in their pants rather then trying to seduce younger women maybe women will be better again. Both sexes are guilty of not spending the needed time with their children. Turn off the tv people its rotting ur brian. People are only interested in making the easy money rather then the good honest work. | |
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| Benefit of Dating Single Dad.
Posted: 8/21/2009 8:54:53 AM | Future, It was an ugly custody process. That is all that needs to be said.
Meplustwo. Durring the day, he is at daycare which I now pay for
I attend graduate school on line through Kaplan Univeristy so I can be in my living room attending classes, and studing. I am often studing between 8-11pm everyday after my son is tucked in and sleeping.
I set my life insurance sales at a convient time for all. Sometimes he comes with me on sales calls. Not ideal, but necessary. These are usally people I have networked with, otherwise I sell durring his mother's vistiation. Again time management.
I am not raising my cheating wife's child. I do watch her (daughter) from time to time, which is more Christian Charity. I am rasing my son, he also has a sister. I pay support because that is what a judge ordered me to do and I obey the law. I suggest you find Jesus, and quit being a troll.
Divorce in NC is handled as three different proceedings.
Divorce
Child Support
Custody.
The support was decieded before the custody was and at the time she had the kids. | |
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| Benefit of Dating Single Dad.
Posted: 8/21/2009 9:49:56 AM | I suggest you start being a man, maybe thats why your wife cheated on you. You weren't man enough for her. Raising your kid and your ex's lovers child and paying her for it. LOL
You sound like the typical uneducated, short sighted woman who will succumb to the lies of a fast talking, tough sounding, wanna be man. Unfortunately he will soon tire of you and your child, and be off looking for his next conquest.
At that point, you will be wishing you could do it all over again, this time picking a real man, a man like gadgetdoc . | |
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| Benefit of Dating Single Dad.
Posted: 8/21/2009 10:41:39 AM | it seems in OP's world a day has 40 hours or more? Not uncommon phenomonom in single parents forum..
Sagman says men are Superior , I guess he conceived, carried and birthed those great kids he raised?
To leave a smaller carbon footprint, DO NOT breed! | |
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| Benefit of Dating Single Dad.
Posted: 8/21/2009 11:49:53 AM |
More single moms are welfare recipients than single dads.--In my community (Harlem,NY) 70% of children are born out of wedlock and yes alot of those women are on welfare. Where are the fathers of these children? IN JAIL (at a cost of $30,000 a year to the tax payers) NOT IN JAIL YET (drug dealing, gang banging stealing etc...) UNEMPLOYED (living with thier mothers) If the fathers of all these "loser lazy welfare collecting single mothers" got custody thier broke lazy asses would be on welfare too!
Harlem is not representative of the whole nation. Not every single parent lives in the ghetto.
The truth of the matter is, SINGLE FATHERS ARE better parents than MOST SINGLE MOTHERS. Why?? Because as men we HAVE TO LEARN everything from the beginning. How to braid hair, how to do nails, how to buy the right size bra (all things obviously if you have a daughter). All these things are stuff that MOST SINGLE moms take for granted. Most women should know how to do these things with their daughters. Whatever you say mr.misogynist.
I dont have a penis but i did teach my young boy to piss in a toilet.
When is the last time you saw a single mom "throwing a football or baseball" with their son? When is the last time you ever saw a single mom teach their son "how to change the oil" in the car? Excuse, I can't hear you.
For me, about an 2 hours ago. Spent 3 hours with my kids and their friends in the park playing ball with them. And i am going to teach them how to chage their oil, fix their brakes, jumpstart the car, engine repair, etc. when they are of driving age.
As far as what I taught my daughters. Well, I taught them to be "ASSERTIVE", "HONEST", BE EDUCATED, TO ACT LIKE A WOMAN, GIVE RESPECT.......GET RESPECT. They were also taught DON'T ASSUME just because your a woman the world owes you something....because it doesn't. Unlike most of your gender that makes assumptions about us men .
Your woman hating rant doesnt make you sound educated honest and respectful.
You dont like women bashing men, understandable, but you are bashing women. odd. ok whatever work for ya.
Oh boy a history major. Okay Miss History buff, do you remember how the world was before you burned your bra? Do you remember when you knew how to cook a meal. Now, you can't even boil water? Do you remember when you and your husband would "talk things out", now you call your lawyer and kick your husband to the curb. Do you remember when men treated women like queens...even if they didn't deserve it. i know you are talking to Jenn, but i cook meals, talked things ove with my husband, (we only had one disagreement in our marriage), and am treated like a queen. where did you get the idea that is all stuff of the past?
I suggest you start being a man, maybe thats why your wife cheated on you. You weren't man enough for her. Raising your kid and your ex's lovers child and paying her for it. LOL
Shaniqua that was just mean. Perhaps gadget see;s the child as a human being in need of a stable loving home, regardless of how the child was concieved. How is that any different from people who adopt children? Not a lot of people would do that, and it must take a lot of love and character to open your heart and home and commit youself to the wellbeing of a child that was born in the situation that it was.
Whats not "manly" about that? Every child needs love, and he was willing to give this child love because it is a little human being, and doesnt let the faults of the mother stop the child from being loved. Thats a man with a lot of love in his heart. | |
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| Benefit of Dating Single Dad.
Posted: 8/21/2009 12:39:07 PM | WOW!! ok so apparently none of you can read what the crap this guy said....he said he was tired of seeing "benefits of dating a single mom" and thought he'd post "benefits of dating a single dad"
NOT ONCE...i repeat NOT ONCE did he say that single fathers were better...or that this was the OPPOSITE of single moms...he was simply putting up the benefits of dating a single dad...
there's a million and a half boards about benefits of dating single moms and you don't see one single father going on there claiming that you all are sexist....
quit being so goddamn sensitive and read before you reply... | |
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| Benefit of Dating Single Dad.
Posted: 8/21/2009 1:28:20 PM | I do not see many benefits in dating a single father, I have tried it, will never likely do it again. By the same token, were I a man I doubt I would want to date a single woman. I have very little with respect for most of them as they created their situations through very bad decisions on their parts.
Sagman, it just seems to me you may be trying to flame , SOME men are Superior, as are SOME women. Each to be determined individually. | |
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| Benefit of Dating Single Dad.
Posted: 8/21/2009 2:07:33 PM | ^^^^Your a troll. Please leave you add nothing to the converstaion. Think what you will, but I'm more of a man then your thugs. Your ignorant and rude, and that is why you're loney. You can't win a arguement without a straw man, ad homin attack, or sologism.
Opie last time I checked there is only 24 hours in a day. A typical work week is 40 hours. As far as priorities my insurance sales is lowest. There are days however I only sleep 4 hours a day to accomplish what I need to. | |
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| Benefit of Dating Single Dad.
Posted: 8/21/2009 3:35:26 PM | shaniqua777 have u never had a man cheat on u??? if not consider urself lucky.
I have been cheated on and it wasn't a great feeling. Actually I lost my virginity to a man who didn't feel it was necessary to tell me he had a wife and another woman pregnant.
I think its in bad taste calling a man u know nothing about a ****.
There is nothing more hurtful then having ur loved one cheat on you and unless you know the pain of that I don't think its fair to mock someone that has suffered that kind of betrayal. It's bad taste and makes anything u have to say irrelevant. | |
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| Benefit of Dating Single Dad.
Posted: 8/21/2009 4:49:37 PM |
WOW, you "don't have a penis but you taught your son how to piss in the toilet".
Good for you both. Applause sign please.
Hold that applause sign for the amazing feat of braiding hair and bra shopping.
Oh and trying to use a $25 dollar word like misogynist was very nice. You get an B for trying. Just for the record, I DO NOT hate women. Thats what misogynist means to all the other posters who may not be familiar with that word.
However, I HATE what WOMEN have become. I HATE IGNORANCE( in either gender), I HATE that the world thinks your gender is special....it isn't.
Thats a 25 dollar word? Surely if a lady uses that word it cant be THAT big of a word, right. You sure sound like you hate women. You hate ignorance, yet claim one gender as superior to the other. Are you racist and homophobic as well?
Oh and for your information, I DID NOT HATE my MARRIAGE nor MY WIFE. What I DID HATE was standing with my 4 kids as we watched the plane she was in crash 1,000 yards in front of us, killing her instantly.
Just out of curiosity, is the pain of losing your spouse what is causing you to be so hateful? I watched my spouse die. I do not hate mankind as a result.
BTW i am sorry for your and your childrens loss. Did she die right after giving birth? Or was she a deadbeat? You said you did "everything else" after she gave conceived and gave birth.
if thats the case why did you make such a bad choice in a breeding partner?
As far as "sounding educated" let me just say, I try to say things TRUTHFULLY. Unfortunately, there are alot of spineless, dishonest people in the world who CAN'T HANDLE the truth. If you know what I mean.
I'm plenty educated and my employer pays me well because of my education. I DON'T SUGAR COAT anything. The truth is the truth and people better realize it.
So people who dont want to accept YOUR version of the "truth" that men are superior to women are spineless and dishonest? What are you smoking? People BETTER realize it?
Thats a hefty demand to make. What if people "dont wanna and you cant make them"?
What are you going to do, stage a war? Sendeveryone who doesnt agree with you to a concentration camp? Seriously, we BETTER?
Dude you BETTER go take your blood pressure meds.
And since you hate what women have become, why dont you just stay away from women? Problem solved. | |
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| Benefit of Dating Single Dad.
Posted: 8/22/2009 7:18:46 PM | You stated this comment about your family to OpieDopey
No I didn't give birth to my 4 kids obviously. But I've done everything else since the birth of all my kids until each one of them graduated high school (and 2 who graduated college) with a 3rd one soon to graduate.
You saying you did everything since the births of all of your kids implies your wife did nothing.
My husband died, but he did ]\ake part raising the the kids UP UNTIL he died.
No need for blood pressure meds. I have to realize that "today's world" is filled with IDIOTS & MORONS.
Of course big guy. Im sure every time you look into the mirror you are reminded of that fact. ARE YOU RACIST AND HOMOPHOBIC AS WELL AS MISOGYNISTIC?
Do you hate blacks and asians and hispanics and gays and jews? Just curious?
And yes, I did EVERYTHING myself without help from anyone. From braiding hair to changing the car's oil Wow how can any meet that high standard of braiding hair and changing oil? Does it get your panties in a know knowing women do hair and change oil as well?
I know the "truth". And its not just "my truth". It is the gospel truth. Unfortunately most folks (especially the younger generation to no fault) of their own, have NO clue what the truth is. Because a majority of them were raised by single moms who just didn't get it.
Ummmmn, its YOUR truth. I dont think God appointed you to decide what is gopsel and what isnt. Gospel truth is that we are all equal human beings, regardless of gender, race, religion, etc. In my humble opinion.
And i was not raised by a single mom.
Yes I hate what most women have become. And your suggestion is to "stay away from them".
I wish I could be I'm a hetrosexual sex machine.
Why on earth would you want to have sex with people you consider inferior to you? That makes no sense.
Why not go get a d*ck, if men are so superior?
Or are you just a little upset because the weaker sex isnt giving you the time of day?Misogyny hardly ever gets the pvssy bro.
It sounds like you can tolerate the idiots of society alot better than me. Is that because of your age or what?? And YOUR suggestion about concentration camps would be excellent if we could put all the LOSERS, PEDOPHILES, CHEATERS, & IDIOTS in one place in one state or on an island. Than maybe just maybe the world would be alot better place to live in.
No it is because I make the choice to judge people on their individual merits, not their gender.
Do women fit into the same class as pedophiles cheats losers etc?
The world would be a better place if there were no sexism.
I feel sorry for those kids who will NEVER know what a good marriage is all about, because their mother(more likely than not) decided her life would be better without a husband and father to her kids. (This is one type of moron I was explaining to you).
I doubt any of your kids have healthy ideas about marriage with the crap about male superiority you rant about. Did you beat your wife? Verbally berate her in front of the kids? if you taught your daughters that men are superior, you set them up to be domestic violence victims. Good job pops. | |
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| Benefit of Dating Single Dad.
Posted: 8/22/2009 9:46:00 PM | Yes I did say MEN are SUPERIOR. Did I misspeak?? Yes, you did misspeak.
If you read my post you would see that my wife was NOT a deadbeat mom. But she was apparently inferior to you, by virtue of gender.
I feel sorry for those kids who will NEVER know what a good marriage is all about, I feel sorry for your kids; sorry that they are not being taught that no human being is "superior" to any other.
You say in your profile that a woman should contact you if she wants to be respected. What a joke. What you evidently mean is "If you want to be respected for the inferior person you are...." 
I can only hope your children have others in their lives - men and women - who are modelling to them true integrity, respect and honesty; and not the incredibly twisted version that you have come up with.
I take no pride in the failure of my marriage, for which my ex-husband and I are equally responsible. It will be my life's deepest regret. But both my ex-husband and I know that all we can do is teach our children to be true to themselves (but never at the expense of another), know that they are in no way superior or inferior to any other person, and by modelling as best we are capable the value and beauty of truly loving and healthy relationships.
Your "truth" is just that. YOURS. It is ironic that despite the fact that you "hate what most women have become" that it does not for a moment occur to you that if "most" people are like this that maybe that is not a reflection on them, but in fact, one on you. But then, that is the hallmark of this kind of misguided bigotry.
The tragedy is no person is born a bigot. It is learned. It is such a shame that you will now pass on this legacy to your children.
It IS the FATHER who is the glue to ALL families. It is the FATHER who makes everything better. It is the FATHER who provides the financial, the stability, the discipline, the love....that very few women could ever provide. This is one of the saddest and most repulsive things I have read on here. That any person, could ever believe this and presumably be teaching their children this is truly a terrible thing.
I can only hug my children tighter tonight and thank my lucky stars that their father, like me does not hold such biogted, mysoginistic and twisted views of the role of father vs mother.
We may no longer be partners in marriage. But we are still partners, EQUAL PARTNERS in parenting. We each have our strengths, each our weaknesses. We both make mistakes. We both have our 'successes'. We work together. We respect each other.
And neither one of us would ever, in a million years suggest that the other can provide love that the other can't or that it is only one of us capable of making "everything better". The arrogance and grandiosity inherent in that statement is frightening.
The "glue" in our family is respect. It is support. It is love for our children and their wellbeings. It is in the knowledge that each and every day we both strive to be the absolute best parents we can. That we will fail sometimes. That we will fall. And when we do, the other parent will be there to support us and our children, just as we do for them when they fall.
You think you are a "good" parent by instilling the values and beliefs you espouse? "Superior"? If it weren't so terribly sad and there weren't children that will suffer as a result, it would be funny. But it's not. Not funny at all. | |
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| Benefit of Dating Single Dad.
Posted: 8/23/2009 5:57:45 AM | | Ladies, instead of writing flame messages. I would presume that some of you have dated single fathers in the past, could you share your experiences. Good or Bad. Was it overall, better then dating someone without childern? | |
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| Benefit of Dating Single Dad.
Posted: 8/23/2009 6:00:30 AM | SagMan4u
Never before have I encountered a human being on the planet who needed to take his own advice more than you.
Wake up before its to late. Sadly, you are so far into your own bigotry that this is unlikely to ever happen.
Men like me don't need women like YOU. Well that works out well then, for both of us.
You think I'm a bigot??? No. I KNOW YOU ARE.
Bigot: a prejudiced person who is intolerant of any opinions differing from his own; one who is obstinately or intolerantly devoted to his or her own opinions and prejudices; one who is strongly partial to one's own group, religion ...
Yes, by definition, you are absolutely a bigot. What's worse is that you're a condescending, misogynistic, arrogant bigot with massively grandiose delusions of his own value, importance and competence as a person and as a parent. Your ego truly knows no bounds.
You think I am pissed off that you live under the delusion that you do a better job in single parenting than most single mothers? Not in the least. But thanks for the laugh.
As I said, the poison you spew out would be hilarious, in a crazy, maniacal sort of way if it weren't for the fact that you have influence over innocent children. | |
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| Benefit of Dating Single Dad.
Posted: 8/23/2009 6:10:06 AM |
Ladies, instead of writing flame messages. It may have escaped your notice, but the biggest "flamer" in here at present is a man.
As to dating a single father vs a childless man, I'd have to say that what is "better" is not to do with whether or not a man has children. It's his character, intellect, personality, values or beliefs that I am interested in. And some are "better" than others in that regard.
On a purely practical/logistical level, I have found it a little easier to date a man without children, simply because his availability is more flexible. But really, it's hardly a blip on the radar insofar as what is really important in exploring a relationship.
I think there are 'pros' and 'cons' to dating both single parents and childless people, that tend to balance themselves out. I think bringing together each other's children into a 'blended' family scenario if a relationship were to become long-term and committed could be a huge challenge and could make or break the relationship. | |
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| Benefit of Dating Single Dad.
Posted: 8/23/2009 7:49:37 AM |
I did not teach MY kids that men are superior. I'm telling the moron women on here that we are.
If you were superior, it would be self-evident and you wouldn't have to point it out... If you have to point out to people that you are superior, you have failed.
I'm sorry you feel that way. My children are so much more "superior" than kids of their age because of how I raised them. They are all loving, smart, caring kids....ALL of them.
And how is this different from what any other single parent, male or female feels about their own children...???
But its time women open their eyes. Men like me don't need women like YOU. Well, considering most of the women on here are pretty consistent in their views.... then just what SORT of women do you want?
Why?? Because I put in their place. Why, because I tell people the truth and NOT what they want to hear.
Actually, you're a BIGOT because you tell YOUR truth. That does not mean it is wrong, or that it is right... it's just YOUR truth. The other people have a right to THEIR truth too. They, equally are possibly right, or possibly wrong...
However, YOU are the one who comes across sounding bigoted. Perhaps it's the way YOU word things...
Good luck to you and everybody else that is living a lie and a fairy tale. I love myself , my kids, and my life to lie to me or them.
Wake up before its to late.
Do you not see the irony of your statement?
No I didn't beat my wife, but at times she could have used one......like alot of women on here I'n sure. But I NOT a physical or abusine person. Nice try though. Sorry, but even considering that someone "could have used one" is a sign of an abusive person. I have never in my life remotely considered that a woman needs or deserves a beating. Only men who are afraid of women would need to resort to that level of attitude. Considering the disparity between men and women physically, even thinking of hitting a woman is a cowards way of thinking.
As far as blacks, asians, hispanics, and jews, well all I can say is I love Hispanics. Asians make great food, my doctor and lawyer are jews, and the guy who picks up my garbage is black.
Well, that's really one of the most bigoted things I've ever read on here.... See, bigoted people notice those sorts of things... Me, I don't categorize it one way or the other...for that matter... why would you?
Oh, and YES I AM the "imagine of God". Does that upset you?? TO BAD.
Great, well this explains a lot... There is really no god. It's a fcuking superstition for primitive people... Oh yeah, god was created by Semitic people... do you look Semitic?
You want to judge people individually? Really. Read your history books. Read TODAY's NEWSPAPER, put on the tv. There are CERTAIN CULTURES that BREAK the LAW MORE than others. FACT not fiction.
That is NOT BIGOTRY...that is the TRUTH.
Yep. All those nasty CULTURES selling drugs to the white folks... Who the fcuk do you think is buying the marijuana and Cocaine and crack? If no one was buying it, they'd stop selling it...
So, how many BLACK motorcycle gangs are there....? Not too many...
By the way, Hispanics, Hmmm You love them... we already established that... don't a lot of them operate the big drug cartels in Cental and South America????
BTW, who commits "white collar crimes"????
Oh before I forget...nice to hear that YOU can change oil AND have a game of catch with your kids. I just hope your son doesn't throw a ball like a woman ......you know, like a sissy My son never really learned to throw or catch a ball for that matter - he had no interest. He was learing other things. He's inherited that from me. I'm a lousy catch too... I can throw really well though. Thank god I don't judge some one by how well they play ball though. Otherwise, I'd think that inspite of the fact he his big, can defend himself against more than one opponent, is quick, athletic confident and intelligent. Not to mention he's, like me, a very good shot with a rifle that he was a sissy for not knowing how to play a stupid fcuking ball game. He also has a lot of women vying for him.
After reading quite a few of your posts, I do feel sorry for you... I also feel sorry that you have these 'issues'. So far, you're doing a great job of embarrassing the rest of the male gender. | |
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| Benefit of Dating Single Dad.
Posted: 8/23/2009 7:59:09 AM | So far, you're doing a great job of embarrassing the rest of the male gender. Nah, the only person he's embarrassing is himself. Even us 'inferior' types know that he is in no way representative of the male gender. THANK HEAVENS!!!!!
And he has done the women on here who might have considered writing/responding to him an enormous favour. Now they don't have to waste a moment's time on that. All they need to know is contained in this thread and in this gem:
ARE YOU WOMEN SERIOUS???? WHY should I have to wait for YOU to make a decision about WHAT I WANT??
And women want to know why men get pissed off at them. There is a prime example. Thankfully, I am with a woman now. But, I told her in the beginning when we met. I"m NOT WAITING weeks or months to have sex with you. If I have to wait, keep on moving. I'm NOT going to let ANY WOMAN tell me or control me or my needs.
MY last girlfriend made me wait for TWO MONTHS before sleeping with me. Was she kidding. I must have been really crazy about her. I waited two months to sleep with her, only for her to dump me after a SIX month relationship. NEVER will I allow a WOMAN to have that control of my feelings and wants....NEVER. Anyway, I told my present girlfriend, you like me great. If you do, this is WHAT I WANT. If you don't like it.....get lost.
Well, we are still together and still humping like crazy. That's the "good-night" that I wanted and needed. That wasn't so hard to do now was it??? What a respectful, charming and loving man. Makes your heart sing, don't it gals? Bet you're all crying buckets that he's taken..... | |
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Posted: 8/23/2009 9:18:30 AM | | Meplustwo, it didn't escape me. It was an attempt to bring the thread into a positive direction. I think you've all made your point. I really didn't want this to devolve into a gender arguement. | |
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Posted: 8/23/2009 9:41:08 AM |
I really didn't want this to devolve into a gender arguement. Seriously? Your opening gambit was that dating a single father is typically better than dating a single mother and you didn't think that wouldn't devolve into a discussion along gender lines? Come on now...... | |
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| Benefit of Dating Single Dad.
Posted: 8/23/2009 4:24:37 PM | Meplustwo, It was poorly worded, and you'll see that I tried to "fix" it in subsquent posts. The point I was trying to make is that is necessary for a man to have stated items whereas, those that believe in the tender years doctrine, a woman does not. As you can see, even in the intal post that it was a some not all senerio. I never said that the father was better then a mother. If you believe I did you misinterperted my meaning.
BTW I do okay in dating. I just haven't found anyone to be serious with yet. ;) | |
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