| are you still sexually experimenting? Posted: 8/26/2009 3:05:21 PM | Each new person is a new "experiment" and completely different than the last one, so, considering that there are 6.5 billion of us on the planet, uh, I'd say we'll never "know" everything about the human condition with regards to sex.
But it helps to have some "knowledge" and "openness" so there are no prudish boundaries. | |
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| are you still sexually experimenting? Posted: 8/26/2009 3:14:53 PM | Do you really think we are the first? I think people from the dark ages had more fun than we do and tried everything we ever thought of trying. Sex is not exactly a new thing and has only been modified by religion and witchhcraft! Use your brain and you might just see why you feel the way you do! | |
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| are you still sexually experimenting? Posted: 9/14/2009 1:06:01 PM | So much still, sometimes i feel like a researcher!!! lol why not, when you stop trying to learn new things about yourself and the world, get the rocker out and wait for your number to be called..... Doug | |
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| are you still sexually experimenting? Posted: 9/15/2009 11:00:53 AM | Sex Experimenting? Sure! Still experimenting!
In fact, tonight's experiment will be an excursion to the left hand mentality!
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| are you still sexually experimenting? Posted: 9/15/2009 12:03:13 PM |
are you still sexually experimenting? Heck YES....!! every day in the shower.. I "experiment and pray it's still working".. that's about the extent of MY "experimenting".. ---SoldierByte--- | |
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| are you still sexually experimenting? Posted: 9/15/2009 12:08:05 PM | I think we all have some ideas that never were made reality...and I think that with some of us who did long term - well, if after 10 years you suddenly said "hey, how about XYZ?"...well, that might cause a problem.
I think every new relationship is a new "experiment" isn't it? | |
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| are you still sexually experimenting? Posted: 9/15/2009 3:26:09 PM | | Always. Sex would get really boring, really fast, if it was the same old same old all the time. Experimenting until the day I take my last breath........ It just gets better with age..... | |
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| are you still sexually experimenting? Posted: 9/15/2009 3:32:18 PM | | Well, I was thinking about doing it in a canoe this summer, but either I lost some flexibility or gained volume. I just couldn't come up with any suitable position. I gather, I need to take yoga or buy a bigger boat. | |
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| are you still sexually experimenting? Posted: 9/16/2009 11:19:26 AM | verygreeneyez:
Regarding your last point, how soon in the relationship does one venture into discussing this type of subject. Being of the male persuasion I can say that men are taught to not push anything other than vanilla type of sex, so many are hesitant to ask or know where to begin. I've wondered if some women would like to "play" a bit more but are hesitant to ask for fear of being labelled a slut. | |
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| are you still sexually experimenting? Posted: 9/16/2009 11:26:41 AM | ^^ LOL, I'll gladly be a slut for the man who grabs my heart, no problem.
(and that doesn't mean the man who simply grabs at the object that is over my heart) | |
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| are you still sexually experimenting? Posted: 9/16/2009 11:57:34 AM |
1.Are you over 45 and still sexually experimenting? or 2. have you got the moves down pat.? 3. Do you know it all , 4. have had it all and 5.been there done that? 6.Is there still a desire to know more about yourself, and 7. more about your lover? lovers?8.Are you 100% fixed about what you will never do and 9. what you will always want.?
1. Absolutely I am still experimenting! 2. No don't have ALL the moves down pat, because I am still experimenting. 3. No I don't know it all. Anyone with a KNOW it all attitude, is a pain in the a$$. 4. No I have not had it all. Someone is always going to come up with some new twist. 5. Been some places, done some things, but not so many places that its routine. 6. Of course there is still desire to know more about myself. 7. I am always seeking new ways to pleasure my lover, and can never know enough. 8. I have not done everything, some things I have never done, but might consider after a proper discussion, with the proper person, but can't say I have done all I will ever do. 9. There are things I like but that does not mean I have to have them every time, with the exception of kissing. I LOVE kissing my guy.
I will continue to experiment until I am dead, I think, as long as my partner is willing. Even if the experiment is only with a new lubricant, a different toy, a different location, different mood music, different lingerie, different perfume, there are countless things you can tweak there is no need to ever feel like things are routine. | |
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| are you still sexually experimenting? Posted: 9/16/2009 2:27:07 PM |
I know I'm in for something new when I come home and find her wearing nothing but a lab coat.
Too funny.. recently I have been wearing lab coats as grooming smocks.. but I might save a new one for hope chest.
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| are you still sexually experimenting? Posted: 9/16/2009 2:32:11 PM |
Well, I was thinking about doing it in a canoe this summer, but either I lost some flexibility or gained volume.
Just get the boat rocking and you both end up in the water!!! Problem solved!!
thecatsmeoww | |
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| are you still sexually experimenting? Posted: 9/16/2009 2:35:00 PM | | I think that ANYONE answering this question is totally DOOMING their chances at having a quality relationship from this site. Especially the women. It puts you out there in a "seeking sex only" mode. | |
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| are you still sexually experimenting? Posted: 9/16/2009 3:30:08 PM | ^^^^ I guess i missed the post that said the women wanted to jump any man available to conduct their twisted sick experiments. Did i say that outloud? Anywho, I enjoy meeting woman who are comfortable with their sexuality and have given up the pretence of being new found virgins. Just because they like sex, enjoy sex and might even crave sex does not mean in anyway shape or form that they are easy, sluts or would jump in bed with any guy that buys them a drink. Nope most seem to have some class, good natured and just letting others know that they are still alive and looking forward to the day or night when the man in their life will be begging for mercy. | |
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| are you still sexually experimenting? Posted: 9/16/2009 3:40:09 PM | | Certainly im still experimenting. Id love to experiment with one of those UFC boys. Nothing turns me on more than a braindead man with big muscles. | |
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| are you still sexually experimenting? Posted: 9/16/2009 7:43:02 PM |
I think that ANYONE answering this question is totally DOOMING their chances at having a quality relationship from this site. Especially the women. It puts you out there in a "seeking sex only" mode.
Ah contraire, 1kindman4u, you are operating under the presumption that everyone who participates in the forums is still looking. Many of us are not single and not looking. I happen to be deliciously entangled with the man of my dreams at the moment, and he does not mind at all my willingness to sexually experiment, after all he is the beneficiary of my learned knowledge. | |
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| are you still sexually experimenting? Posted: 9/16/2009 7:44:14 PM | cat - Msg 69
Well, I was thinking about doing it in a canoe this summer, but either I lost some flexibility or gained volume.
>>> Just get the boat rocking and you both end up in the water!!! Problem solved!! I know you mean well, but as a woman you typically overlook certain logistical issues. That would work only when the water temperature is over 20 degrees (Celsius). Anything colder, and the experimentation apparatus fails. | |
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| are you still sexually experimenting? Posted: 9/16/2009 7:50:57 PM | i don't "experiment". i sense, am sensuous and evolve. no two people are like any other two people when together, "if" they are in sync.
sex is not what determines one's evolution, rather it's an expression of it. when i find the right man for me and he finds me as well, the rest will follow and it will be between him and me. hear us roar! | |
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| are you still sexually experimenting? Posted: 9/16/2009 10:26:17 PM | Widow.. I was referring specifically to those women ON this site who are still seeking to find what you apparently HAVE found. Wasnt that implication obvious? I mean let's get real.. the foundation of this site is for single to meet other singles who are also fishing.. any other joiners are on here, (cause it's free) but the FOUNDATION is for Unattached SINGLES
Based upon that, my comment has even MORE merit | |
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| are you still sexually experimenting? Posted: 9/17/2009 5:29:47 AM |
I think that ANYONE answering this question is totally DOOMING their chances at having a quality relationship from this site. Especially the women. It puts you out there in a "seeking sex only" mode. How rude. Don't include me with that "ANYONE". I qualified my reply with "for the man who grabs my heart". | |
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