| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/3/2009 2:32:00 AM | | Well I am no woman and I am not 40 but I have read a few things about it.This is what I have read . Usually the sex drive increses until you hit menopause then it goes down however it stays low for a few years and then it comes back up again. Thats what I understood anyways. | |
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/3/2009 4:22:01 AM | lol....doesnt matter what the age is...if they are treated with respect and right in the bedroom....they want more.....been there-----done that... | |
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/3/2009 4:40:47 AM | I laughed when I read all of the responses from the over 40 women on here.
Good news: Your sex drive has increased and you want it all the time.
Bad news: You're all over 40 and by the looks of some of you... let's just say, all due respect... best days in rear view mirror.
LOL. It's a sad state of affairs for us men. Too bad the 18-30 girls don't have quite the same libido, when we WANT them to. | |
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/3/2009 11:55:29 AM | Awww come on. Did my little dose of reality kill this thread?
LOL. Pure comedy. EVERY 40-50 something broad had to comment that she is a tiger in bed NOW. BIG DEAL. Where was the tiger when you were 20??? | |
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/3/2009 12:12:36 PM | I dunno, jakey. I can see that in some cases it's like putting a turbocharger on a Yugo, but then there are some classics that give an exciting, reliable ride AND still look great! Besides, when YOU get to that age, you may be dragging you tailpipe.  | |
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/3/2009 12:17:08 PM | | One other thought. A woman's increasing sex drive later in life is just nature's way to trick them into inadvertently winning the reproductive lottery. Last chance! Enter now! | |
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/3/2009 5:37:18 PM | | Its hilarious I just don't get it - all the middle aged women developing libidos of teenage boys. How's grandpa supposed to keep up? No offense to anyone but I highly doubt the hardware will hold up after all, as men all we can look forward to is a downhill crawl beyond our 30's. | |
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/3/2009 7:44:30 PM | | Oh no no no no, Ice! I work in a nursing home and trust me, some of you men have nothing to worry about. lol The outside of the car may have a few dings and dents but the motor in alot of cases just keeps'a goin'!! | |
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/3/2009 8:03:08 PM |
I laughed when I read all of the responses from the over 40 women on here.
Good news: Your sex drive has increased and you want it all the time.
Bad news: You're all over 40 and by the looks of some of you... let's just say, all due respect... best days in rear view mirror.
LOL. It's a sad state of affairs for us men. Too bad the 18-30 girls don't have quite the same libido, when we WANT them to.
This coming from a 38 yr old married man that doesn't have the balls to post a pic.......
Your insults would have more credence if you weren't lusting after teenagers. | |
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/3/2009 8:11:04 PM | | Ice-ey9, Ripley65 is right. I'm 61 and would give anything if "one eye Willy" would just lay down die and leave me alone. All I want to do is hunt, fish and travel, but all he wants to do is jump up a dress. | |
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/4/2009 4:40:54 AM | Ha!!!
So funny to come into this morning.
Hey Ms. Micki. Thanks for Illustrating my point so beautifully.
Bad news: You're all over 40 and by the looks of some of you... let's just say, all due respect... best days in rear view mirror.
LOL!!!
Also, since you asked and you obviously can't figure it out... let me help you. I'm married and here for forums. Is that hard to see that I wrote that... oh... 900 times in my profile?? Why post a picture if I'm not here to date??? You need some intellectual guidance I think. Good luck with that. | |
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/4/2009 4:52:14 AM |
jakeya99: LOL. It's a sad state of affairs for us men. Too bad the 18-30 girls don't have quite the same libido, when we WANT them to.
and it's a sad state of affairs for wives w/ husbands that think so poorly of their wives.
It's your loss that you think 40+ yr old women aren't having some of the best times .....and sex.......of their lives at this point.
Just because your wife isn't........sure doesn't mean the rest of us aren't!  | |
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/4/2009 6:41:26 AM |
It's your loss that you think 40+ yr old women aren't having some of the best times .....and sex.......of their lives at this point.
MsMicki, I so agree with you. Some of us are having the best times and sex of our lives right now. Of course it is different now than it was when I was in my twenties, but I am different now. My love is not some twenty something child, but a man and he satisfies me in all ways, mentally, emotionally AND physically. I am sure I satisfy him at all levels too. I have more desire for him than any man I have ever known.
Of course neither of us has the perfect body of the younger generation, but who gives a flying rats behind? I surely don't. I am making love to a person, with a brain, and personality, and unique qualities. He is far more than just a stiff d1ck. I am sure he sees me as more than just a wet pu$$y. If all I wanted was a fvck, any peter would do, and for him any vag1na. However, I want more than that. That is not to say our sexual time together is less steamy, hot or exciting than those whose bodies have less mileage on the odometer. I would say we can be pretty passionate with each other, considerate and loving. If done right, the ability to make love and express oneself sexually is like wine, it improves with age (at least for some of us). | |
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/4/2009 7:14:52 AM | I would like to make one more point, women are not the only ones whose bodies and libidos change with age. It happens to men too.
Women may lose interest in sex all together. These women most likely didn't have interest at twenty. Women whose interst increases with age probably were pretty sexually charged in their younger days. Now that we are older, we have maturity, life experience and confidence that makes the sex better and better.
While some men boast of a libido and stamina to rival that of their youth, I would hazard to guess that for most men, things taper off as they age. They probably last longer, but their erections are not as hard, and it takes more stimulation for them to get aroused than it did in their youth. This is a normal part of aging. Likewise, their bodies have undergone the stress of aging.
It is a bit hypocritical for men to point fingers at women of maturity and laugh at us
for our sexuality, saying who would want us with our stretch marks and flabby thighs and sagging breasts. Go look in the mirror fellas. Your bodies have changed too. To be perfectly honest at this stage of life what makes a man sexy to me is his attitude and what is going on between his ears. That is what makes him hot. These men will take one look at a woman like MsMicki, or me and say Dayum! that woman is all that because they can see what we have going on, and they highly value what we have to offer them.
Aging happens to men and women alike. You little boys who like to make smart a$$ comments about older ladies will get your come upins some day. Pay back is a b1tch.
You should be so lucky when you are older to have the attention of a sexual dynamo who can make a man with middle age spread , graying hair, a double chin and wrinkles around his eyes feel like an Adonis. | |
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/4/2009 7:22:28 AM |
If done right, the ability to make love and express oneself sexually is like wine, it improves with age (at least for some of us).
There is something uniquely different about sexuality after forty, or even fifty. Insecurities, or vulnerabilities experienced at younger ages, seemed to have vanished. Discovery of a lover who is compatible physically, as well as in that soul-mating way leads to bliss. Now, if only I could just find that one in a million again. le sigh | |
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/4/2009 7:35:24 AM | | Jakeya your body probably aint that great and you make all the down comment on us ladies 40 plus because you are dreaming you could have one of us . im very sorry you are not satisfied at home and that the young teenagers you are looking at dont want you because you r too old at least some of us have a fulfilling sex life good luck in finding yours | |
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/4/2009 10:36:43 AM |
These men will take one look at a woman like MsMicki, or me and say Dayum! that woman is all that because they can see what we have going on, and they highly value what we have to offer them.
You were exactly correct. I saw your pictures and said "Damn!". Right on the money.
Good lord.
My wife is a spry 32 year old woman who looks like a Renior painting when naked. I have no issues with her at all. We have a great marriage and she does enjoy the "Polish sausage".
I like to tell it like it is in these forums... don't like it? My (ha) apologies.
Jakeya your body probably aint that great and you make all the down comment on us ladies 40 plus because you are dreaming you could have one of us
Is the NASCAR race over already? Great. Ummmm, nope, can't say I would want any of you women who commented on my posts. My eye sight is just fine. I don't know of any guy that would fantasize about a 40-50 year old. Nope, sorry. If it helps you sleep at night, keep that thought. | |
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/4/2009 11:47:51 AM | | I personally think that women over 40 is so much better at sex.Judging from my experience I would say that women over 40 has a much higher sex drive than their younger species.Maybe its just me but I perfer older women-over 40ish. | |
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/4/2009 3:19:50 PM |
I don't know of any guy that would fantasize about a 40-50 year old. Nope, sorry. If it helps you sleep at night, keep that thought.
Since you want 18 yr olds to have a high libido.....I would imagine YOU aren't fantasizing about 40 - 50 yr old women......
But I guarantee you.........there are men out there that do.
Just like there are those of us women fantisizing about 40 - 50 yr old men.
Is this what your wife has to look forward to?
A man that thinks her best days are behind her just because she had the audicity to turn 40?? | |
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/4/2009 5:02:01 PM | Well Jakeya99-
You certainly are a charmer. When I looked at your profile and saw you are 38 I was surprised. I expected you to be much younger, your posts and responses are more reflective of an adolescent. Thinking you must have some serious issues of your own, to be so rude to a group of lovely ladies. Age, unfortunately does not guarantee maturity or wisdom. You seem to be lacking both. Perhaps you just haven't had enough lfe experiences yet.
My eye sight is just fine. I don't know of any guy that would fantasize about a 40-50 year old. Nope, sorry. If it helps you sleep at night, keep that thought.
Sikhism considers men and women two sides of the same coin, equals. Have a close friend who is a true Sikh, and would never be so blatantly disrespectful to a woman.
Now, I suggest you post a picture of yourself, come out of hiding, so all of these ladies can see what they're missing. | |
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/4/2009 5:55:37 PM | Op....well as it happens my birthday is today and my sex drive has just gone through the roof.....problem is , I have nobody to play with at the moment  | |
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/4/2009 6:10:47 PM | Women's peak years are about 36 - 46. After that, there is a slow decline in their libido; but, from what I've been told, it still remains relatively strong for years after that. There's nothing to worry about as long as a woman's general health is good.  | |
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