| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/11/2009 10:30:24 AM |
And I married a man 13 yrs my junior. He was more of a novelty to me than I was to him.
Uh huh. I see. Good for the goose now... isn't it miss contemplative? So you thought of him as a novelty? How novel of you. So if young guys do the same to you, they get a pass for banging an old broad and running to tell their friends? I see. Take note fellas.
I don't even know why I'm bothering. Honestly I think anyone intelligent can tell you're just being an A$$hole in your delivery. Well, wait, I'll take responsibility in saying that I think you're a butthead who lacks tact.
Yes, I did lack tact. I find this thread so funny and I had to "up my game" because I was provoked by previous threads. In other words, some hags made me. 
P.S. I hope you need to strap a 2x4 to your arse with your next young, fresh and tight girlfriend. LMAO
Tisk tisk... casting aspersions on young women now?? Saying that they have an absurdly large vagina, from over-use I suspect. I do appreciate your concern for my safety. I will wear goggles and bathe in vagacil before engaging. Sounds to me like you made a blanket statement... tisk tisk. You lack some decorum.
Nice way to talk about your mom.
My mom is not a cougar, as I know them to be. But I'll make a point to ask pops. She's not on POF trolling for dudes so she doesn't count, come to think of it. Besides, she knows she's an old broad. It's not news to her. I love her though, as I love you.
You are pretty hot as old broads go. Happy Friday. | |
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/11/2009 8:17:36 PM | Ladies, obviously our unlearned and uncouth "married" forum commentator is offering his words of wisdom only to stir the pot, so to speak.
If one quits responding to comments made by this type of person eventually they go away to another dating board and share their words of wisdom elsewhere. Put the gas cans away ladies and the fire eventually goes out!
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/11/2009 10:55:54 PM | Amen 2HEDZ, nothing wrong with my sex drive, just as good or better than in my 20's
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/11/2009 11:39:03 PM | My wife is like 41 now. Her sexual appetite is probably close to what it was three years ago when we met but medical issues, mostly due from age makes it a little less frequent.
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/12/2009 8:45:04 AM | Women in their 40s are in their prime! We can’t wait to explore the wild side. We are not afraid to say what we want and how we like it. Sex is on our mind just as much as it is a man, and yes we check out guys young and old. We don’t want to miss out on anything so we try everything… ok we might have a little more common sense then the guys do there but lol… our sex drive increases it does not decrease. Half the time guys in their 40s can’t keep up!
I love my 40’s I look sexier , I’m happier, healthier, heavier lol and if I had to swing off the chandeliers.. I think I could! Ha ha
No complaints here. | |
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/12/2009 9:17:23 AM | Women sex drives increases based on many premises.
Firstly, hormonal changes pre -menopausal is the biggest factor in libido.
Secondly more women now than ever before, are single and in
their early to late forties. These women are more than ever 'comfortable in their skin', hence the expression 'cougar'.
Thirdly women overcompensating for loss of time while raising family, and or poor sexual experience in the past.
They are experiencing more sexual freedom as they are leaving preconceived notions being personal or society imposed. | |
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/14/2009 1:03:50 PM | The sex drive for women above 40 has increased. At 20 they only had to drive 5 miles on average to get laid, now it is 12 miles...
Sorry, Texas is still too far at 49 (today) but maybe at 50 it won't be!
Ps I definitely vote for increasing .....and the God's cruel joke thing...definitely driving to Texas next September???? | |
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/14/2009 1:16:17 PM | | Having a greater desire for sex and also being able to effortlessly find a sex partner, you're all set. | |
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/14/2009 1:35:40 PM | | there is more confidence...a woman is able to be more sexual...she know what she wants and she is not ashamed...yes i am happy being 44 years old...would not want to be young again...had no confidence | |
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/14/2009 4:01:21 PM | | Now you women now how it feels to be a man at 20 something and be sexually frustrated. It's payback time! It is a cruel joke nature played on us... | |
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/14/2009 4:05:20 PM | Listen....woman that are treated right dont loose their drive.....who wants to get intimate or what-ever with an A-hole.....yeah...yeah...yeah...there is a chemistry thing that could go arye but all in all if they feel the genuine feeling and carring they love it...goes for a man too....no one wants to be with someone thats just going thru the motions....noooooo goood...later | |
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/19/2009 4:33:51 PM | | Look this up. In some women it increawses, others, decreases. After childbirth and with age, gravity takes its toll and the sex act feeling often decreases. | |
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/20/2009 11:51:03 AM | | Sweetheart, you have nothing to worry about. I am in my late 50s and am enjoying intimacy now more than ever. | |
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/20/2009 12:18:10 PM | | No worry about having to stop the fun because baby is hungry and needs a diaper change, are confident that men enjoy an uninhibited woman that knows how to please him without putting on an act because she is enjoying herself just as much as he is. Being 40 has not stopped me and it feels just as good. | |
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/20/2009 1:16:09 PM | I am happy to know and tell you are wrong, and the exprience is much more rewarding with an older woman who knows what she likes and doesn't play shy about getting it, and she is not shy about givng and trying either.
Mostly going with older nowadays.
Okay, there can be exceptions and those women may need some help or just the way they are, and that's the way it is; these women have to recognize, accept the fact and don't try to force reversing the hormones to do what they don't feel like any more.
Nothing worse than having sex when you are not into it, or with that kind of partner. | |
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/23/2009 12:32:05 PM | The colorado river does not flow and is not as wet as I am. LOL    
And it can be that way for many many hours, Again, nothing wrong with my sex drive, | |
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/23/2009 1:38:01 PM | One reason your sex drive can get higher is that when you are in menopause - or close to it - hormones change, and there is an increase in testosterone. You know, the stuff that makes guys think about it all the time. You might have to pluck an odd stray hair here or there because of testosterone - and that's the way the medical profession seems to want us to think of how we react to it - but the fact is, testosterone makes you want it.
Another reason is you get to a point where you no longer have to worry about birth control, no small kids will wake you up in the middle of the night - in other words, you can simply relax and enjoy it - when you're younger, you have a lot of competing interests and concerns making you uptight. | |
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/23/2009 1:52:55 PM |
The colorado river does not flow and is not as wet as I am. I'm rethinking why my grandparents kept the good furniture under plastic. | |
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/24/2009 10:25:11 PM | As to the question of sex drive in women over 40...
Today I just booked a cabin in Gatlinburg Tennessee for my man and I for a little romantic getaway.
I did the screening of possible places to stay during the trip. The cabin that won out has three bedrooms, an indoor jacuzzi, a shower with two showerheads big enough for two, an outdoor hot tub on the deck, fireplaces in the master bathroom, master bedroom, dining room and living room, a full kitchen, and a pool table.
Now of course you must understand I am thinking about sex in the hot tub, in the jacuzzi, in the living room, in the dining room, in the master suite, on the pool table... the possiblities are endless. With so many features in our cabin, we won't have to leave its four walls the entire weekend. We will have a self contained little love nest. I will be packing a cooler full of food and drink so there is no need to leave our little haven once we settle in. Will have to provide him plenty of sustenance. 
Of course women over 40 have a sex drive. For some of us its raging. I am blessed to have a man who does his best to keep up with me. It's all his fault anyway, being around him puts me into overdrive. | |
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/24/2009 10:50:40 PM |
I am just wondering about how a womans sexual drive changes after 40 i had been taught that it decreased in women with age but it seems to get more intense with me as the years pass im just wondering is this normal and could you please give me some in put thanxsfor your time.
Decreases? lol... no
I'm at that age where I crave it, and it's been awhile so my frustration level is WAY high. I feel like a pressure cooker whose top is about to blow off. | |
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/25/2009 1:11:31 AM | Na, it is a scientific fact that a woman is in her sexual peak at 26-30. You must remember these things are studied.
Many of these type of scientific studies are conducted by university students and some of the members on such research teams have barely been out of high school 2 years. They form a hpothesis and set about proving it in much the same way that the 'make it fit' works in Microsoft Word's page printing options.
I take the majority of such studies with a grain of salt. | |
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