| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/25/2009 6:19:42 AM |
I'm at that age where I crave it, and it's been awhile so my frustration level is WAY high. I feel like a pressure cooker whose top is about to blow off.
Now you know how we feel. | |
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/25/2009 8:02:28 AM | Im over 40 and my sex drive has increased.
What a cruel trick nature has played on us women, that the mans desire decreases with age. | |
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/25/2009 8:40:18 AM |
Im over 40 and my sex drive has increased.
Ditto.
What a cruel trick nature has played on us women, that the mans desire decreases with age.
Lol. Would never claim to be "The Man", but maybe your eyesight, or hearing, or other sensors are "decreasing with age". My theory, from my peculiar, narrow vantage point, is that these perceived increases/decreases are relative; in your youth, you probably had to fight men off at every turn, but in your maturity, you are more evenly matched, and just as driven to "get it on". lol Naturally, with your recently whetted appetite, you see a fall-off in demand, or supply, lol, however that works. When you pass another car doing 70mph, and he is doing 60 mph, you have the sense that you are flying by him. In fact, both of you are headed "head"-long toward a probably similar destination. jmho | |
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/25/2009 10:58:49 AM | Mine hasn't decreased at all, as a guy, with age (so far). Many days I still feel like I'm about 18, in that regard  But I just turned 34, so I guess that's still pretty much normal. As for women, so when , if ever, DOES it start to plateau out or decrease a bit?? After menopause, or ? Just curious. | |
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/25/2009 11:16:55 AM | Mr Lepetitehomme, After I read your profile I chuckled at what you just said.
Could that be because youre in your 50s and separated..? Or have you always felt this way? | |
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/25/2009 12:01:33 PM | Davidisyours: FYI, I am 61 with a very high libido.
1. I am not in a relationship, and do not have access
2. I am post menapausal, which means been there, done that! however, did take hormones during menapause
3. a)Yes, I can experience orgasm
b)my body self lubricates, do not need any help in that area
c)Sex partner (when I had one) interaction is so much better now than 20 yrs ago
d) you would have to ask the partner.
We are all different. As long as we feel loved and wanted, our libidos are what we both make it. It's all in the brain, my dear | |
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/25/2009 12:52:17 PM | Mr. Lepititehomme, msg 65
You are just about the rudest person, besides Jackeya99 that I've come in contact with.
Since, you are obviously not interested in anyone over 40, I suggest you go to a different forum, instead of the "dating over 45". You obviously have a very low self esteem. And I notice that you do not have a pic posted. Is it because you could be droopy with low hanging ba11s and not much of a garden hose to go along with the gut?
Go on now, youngin, go to the dating over 30 thread, see what you can do there.
Now for you Jakeya, since you are a young whippersnapper, you need to move on too, you also do not belong on this forum, I'm not quite sure where you belong, but I can't stand rude behavior in a man, won't tolerate it. (Woodrow:Lonesome Dove)
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/25/2009 1:14:26 PM | | 47 and kickin it into hyperdrive! When I was married I was a sexual camel! I could go YEARS without sex with my ex! ugh! Not so these days - can't get enough luvin! | |
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/25/2009 4:33:30 PM |
Im over 40 and my sex drive has increased.
What a cruel trick nature has played on us women, that the mans desire decreases with age.
You've not been meeting the right men. | |
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/25/2009 5:17:26 PM |
Decreases? lol... no
I'm at that age where I crave it, and it's been awhile so my frustration level is WAY high. I feel like a pressure cooker whose top is about to blow off.
Huh?!! Wait. You're the "Oops, I did it again" OP, who shoots down every prospect, even before they can get close to your door, whether you like them or not. Too strange for this country mouse. | |
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/26/2009 7:40:51 AM | Women's sex drive increases as they hit 40, and men's sex drive decreases as they get older. This is why men can go many years without sex, where women usually can't as they are horny and crave it.
This is why us older men, I am 40, are less desired by women in general. And is why women over 40 would rather be with younger men for sex, relationships etc.
Just a part of how we evolve is all. I accept it now that I am 40, I know I probably won't get any sex unless I pay for it, and there is no way I am doing that
Why do you rhink more women over 40 won't date men over 40? Because a woman's sex drive is in high gear when she hits her 40's. She needs them young guys who can satisfy her every need. | |
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/26/2009 7:53:24 AM | | LOL...it increases bigtime.Every woman I have been with over 40 have had the greatest sex drive.Enjoy it while you can but,dont let it make you cheat like most. | |
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/26/2009 5:23:05 PM | My drive for women over 40 is almost nil.
many of us breathed a collective sigh of relief upon learning this. | |
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/26/2009 5:35:27 PM |
Huh?!! Wait. You're the "Oops, I did it again" OP, who shoots down every prospect, even before they can get close to your door, whether you like them or not. Too strange for this country mouse.
Well whytwater, just because they come a knockin' don't mean the bed will ba a rockin'... hence the craving and the frustration.
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/26/2009 6:23:18 PM | hey there littleman....
just read your message 65...
i have to commend you for your bravery in informing any interested/desperate women who may peruse your profile of your "status"...lol
a magnanimous,
although "hard" decision on your part...
well done. | |
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/26/2009 6:37:35 PM | | All I have to say about my own personal sex drive is that it's never been higher. My kids are grown and married, Im single, I went through my mid life crisis, and all I want to do now is F***! | |
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/26/2009 10:28:28 PM | BS. Complete BS. Also how the hell do YOU know what an ovulating or even a post menopausal woman's arousal factor is??
It's laughable that anyone would think a post-menopausal, 55-year-old woman would have a greater sex-drive than a healthy, ovulating, 36-year-old female.
Since posting the *Technique* for proper GSPOT stimulation on the Literotica (and a few others) back in 2002 I'd say that easily 90% of the feedback from women has women from women in their 40's plus. I've received notes from women in their EIGHTIES who said they'd never felt so horny and alive after trying and discovering their GSPots for the first time. The fact that they were still playing, still enjoying and still exploring says it ALL here.
Some women do want and receive hormone replacement therapy however it seems to me that if she is orgasming a dozen times a night from whatever means or techniques she is as horny as she's gonna get. All she WANTS at that point is 20 a night!!
There are probably a myriad of reasons for this continued interest and love of SEX in older women but listen to them. They KNOW and are letting you in on their little secret so kybosh their claims at your own peril. It seems that measured hormonal outputs do NOT mean squat when it comes to desire and pure unadulterated horniness. YOU, may question this as do researchers but the women know what they're feeling and their sex drive is NOT going down as they age. It's going UP. Instead of arguing the point you need to HELP OUT A BIT MORE!!! | |
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/27/2009 6:12:22 AM | As women age. estrogen decreases and testosterone increases...We are biologically programmed to want sex more as we get older...In fact I've heard many women say that they now understand in their 40's how a teenage boy must feel!!!....
Muwahahahahahahaha! Heeeeerrrreeee little boy....  | |
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/27/2009 6:24:37 AM |
This is why us older men, I am 40, are less desired by women in general. And is why women over 40 would rather be with younger men for sex, relationships etc
Not this older woman!
I prefer my men of equivilent age.....and experience.
and if they can't keep up.......they have no issues my toys!! | |
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/27/2009 8:24:34 AM | I'm not quite 40 yet. I can tell you that the sex drive certainly hasn't decreased. Thank god!!! Want it more now than ever....  | |
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/27/2009 4:56:12 PM |
Hey hun on this site you will not have a problem finding a playmate. LOL
Easy for the beautiful people. Not so easy for those of us who want something other then sex. Had a friend on here that was a pretty boy and able to get a different woman every weekend. But really who wants to live like that? Stupidity in humans of that nature knows no bounds I guess.
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| sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 9/27/2009 9:16:24 PM | I just turned 40 a month ago. My sex drive increased DRAMATICALLY at the age of 37. It keeps going up..I haven't had a lot of luck finding a partner who can keep up..and since then, all of my partners have been in their early to mid thirties. Well, there is one guy..but he lives 2 hours from me, so not convenient.
I am frequently contacted by much younger men, but have yet to wander down that path..tho some days I am sorely tempted.
~shrugs~
I just want a partner who is as into it as I am, and who isn't intimidated by my hunger..rather he embraces it and revels in it. Too much to ask for? I hope not.
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