| Bi-curious?
Posted: 9/2/2009 12:08:37 PM | There is a difference between bi-curious and bi-sexual. One involves physical attraction and the other includes a longer emotional relationship. So do you want to screw around with other women or have a relationship.
If it is the former, I would say that you should tell him that you are curious and see where it leads. If it is the latter, I would say nothing, unless you plan to dump your boyfriend and be with another woman (or man).
I don't think on the latter, it is the gender that is important but the fact that you plan to be with someone else.
As for him cheating, two wrongs don't make a right. | |
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| Bi-curious?
Posted: 9/2/2009 12:51:20 PM | | My opinion, male or female, you would be cheating on him. Unless he'd agree to a threesome, you seem like you may want to take a step back and decide which of the two you want. if you are a decent honest person, you will not want either of them getting hurt. | |
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| Bi-curious?
Posted: 9/2/2009 12:51:50 PM | | He already said he doesn't accept the way you are. There are no rules, that's his perrogative as it's your's to leave. It's so obvious you should not be in that relationship, I don't know why you keep asking questions or making comments. | |
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| Bi-curious?
Posted: 9/2/2009 1:48:58 PM | | Maybe he would like the idea of being with two women. If that goes well, then things mught happen after all, he will be pleasured and you both will be together in the threesome. Most men willnot turn that down | |
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| Bi-curious?
Posted: 11/4/2009 9:11:52 AM | ive been bi all my life and ive been with the same woman for 15 yrs and have not strayed, i still have sexual feelings for men but i just look ,since i like both sexes either is ok with me, i just found a better partner who is female, and yes it would be cheating | |
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| Bi-curious?
Posted: 11/4/2009 9:58:35 AM | I suppose you are what you are. If your a bisexual attracted to both sexes no one can prevent that attraction from occuring to both. I imagine it can be difficult in a relationship with straight men and women, dependant on who your heart is attached to and not your genitalia. As a man I use to imagine two women together, but that view changed in monogomous relationships. My view of things then switched and it wasent about her sexual diality but if her heart was connected, like the bonding aspect that sex incorporates. As I was corrected in this matter, sex usually come first before love to flourish in a relationship. Friends first, sex, then a deeper relationship can develop. I know it sounds narrow minded but I have come to believe this is the progression.
If I concent to a girlfrind sleeping with other women, I would be concenting to just being FWB. I dont beleive in a fulfilling relationship one needs to look outside the relastonship regardless if one finds the opposite sex attractive as well. If your with someone you do risk loosing them if you start to sleep or think about doing it with somone else and not your SO. And that is cheating, not exploring your sexuality. You explore your sexuality when you are single and not involved with someone. You have no right to have this boyfriend and be thinking of doing it with a women, thats a one way ticket to trouble. | |
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| Bi-curious?
Posted: 11/10/2009 10:27:36 AM | im bi and i like women and men duh?? ive been with a woman now for 15 years, i can have a relationship with either sex, if screwing around with either sex is wahat you want go for it, i happened to find a good relationship with a woman, probably could have found a good relationship with a man but she had the qualities i was looking for, being bi doesn't mean to incorporate both kinds of relationships into one, won't work | |
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| Bi-curious?
Posted: 11/10/2009 12:45:03 PM | What do you mean "how do I tell my bf that I like girls"?
You just tell him! Let him decide what he wants to do. Honesty darling, honesty!
ive been bi all my life and ive been with the same woman for 15 yrs and have not strayed
matutum why does your profile say you are looking for women for intimate encounters??? Honesty sometimes seems so hard for bi people from what
I have seen. Not JUST bi people of course, but the ones I've known do seem
to be very flexible with the truth for some reason. | |
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| Bi-curious?
Posted: 11/10/2009 3:43:11 PM | | Looks like you are the only one that can make that decision, as you are the only one that knows what you want. You have to be open about it though, and if he doesn't like it, which he already told you, then you have to decide if you want him or women, or find someone else who is ok with all this. Best you be upfront. | |
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| Bi-curious?
Posted: 11/10/2009 4:08:27 PM | | What a silly bf...most guys would like to be in his position and would like to watch if you allow them Hahaha | |
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