| Propositioned by secret swinging ex's friend
Posted: 8/27/2009 3:02:55 AM | | The idea of swinging seems fine, but probably not the most socially strategic person with whom I'd take that, um, position. Try swinglifestyle dot com instead. It's just like a regular dating site, but you go out with couples instead! | |
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| Propositioned by secret swinging ex's friend
Posted: 8/27/2009 3:11:26 AM |
women, and talking about going without sex for periods of time. pretty run of the mill stuff.
You call talking about going without sex run of the mill stuff? Come on man, be honest with yourself. Go ahead and jump right in. But don't forget your Trojans.. Or you just might wake up with a bad case of HERPES. Get real dude, and stay away from this ho | |
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| Propositioned by secret swinging ex's friend
Posted: 8/27/2009 5:13:52 AM |
Hehehehe. I'm surprised NO ONE picked up on that line.
Now, when you read it again, you might understand why thats so funny.
Well, might as well just point it out.
When she's done with you, does she allow her husband to pick up where she left off?
Arez...lol...yeah I got that out of it too! Actually I got 2 things OP and when you stop thinking with that d**k of yours, you'll see why Arez and I are laughing at your silly ass.
1) What would you like to bet that your wife's friend and her husband have done the dirty dog with YOUR soon to be ex? Oh...that never popped into the little head now did it?
2) Your wife's friend says that her AND her husband sometimes share BOTH MEN AND WOMEN...it ain't just her that's bi-lingual, you horny toad. I bet you that her husband might uh...give ya a lil sumthin' sumthin' too!
3) As others have said, what makes you think that soon to be ex isn't setting your ass up? She might use this as further evidence that you're a cheater (if that's what happened...you alluded to having sex with someone else and the friend knows of this interlude...during marriage or not?)
Think REALLY hard about this...you're not quite divorced and you're soon to be ex's friend is already ready to jump you? Your d**k doesn't have any sense but your brain does (well should). What's the harm?
She becomes town crier and lets everyone know your d**k is bad.
She becomes town crier and lets everyone know you'll do anyone.
She becomes town crier and lets everyone know her maybe bi-lingual husband MIGHT have touched YOUR johnson...
Go take care of your kid and dip your pen into someone else's candle dude. You're being set up and when you come back and ask "my penis touched my ex-wife's husband penis while I was doing her, does that make me gay"? we're gonna tell you I TOLD YOU SO.
don't people ever think anymore? | |
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| Propositioned by secret swinging ex's friend
Posted: 8/27/2009 6:09:25 AM | I don't really think i'm seeking permission, so much as Im asking Now what?
well that's for you to decide, isn't it. hopefully, there's a real "decision" [*cough*] process that goes into it.... which sorta begs the question.... why would you be asking us "now what?" WTF man. but hey if you're seeking just lil' outside validation from internet strangers that says its okay for you to let your pecker lead you into bizarro situations, then you've got it. see post #26. | |
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| Propositioned by secret swinging ex's friend
Posted: 8/27/2009 6:16:25 AM | | I doubt it's a trap (but why take the chance at least until after the divorce is final), but given the prior relationship it is definitely too close to home to be wise. There is too much potential here for drama and you don't want to create an antagonistic relationship with your ex. Really, you don't! | |
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| Propositioned by secret swinging ex's friend
Posted: 8/27/2009 7:47:37 AM | It's unlikely a trap. Why do people so paranoid?
But you should clear it with the husband first. You can ask him if they're in an open relationship.
If they're in the swing lifestyle, they may know other "open minded" chicks that they can introduce you to. Then you don't have to worry about how to get your rocks off. Don't miss this opportunity. | |
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| Propositioned by secret swinging ex's friend
Posted: 8/27/2009 8:30:10 AM |
Don't miss this opportunity.
Wow if this is an opportunity that you cannot turn down, I actually feel sorry for you. Is your life that screwed up that this is something that you see as an opportunity.
None of these conversations would I ever consider run of the mill. I think the OP was sending out some serious signals to this woman and she bit, now he is looking for approval to go ahead with his little scheme. | |
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| Propositioned by secret swinging ex's friend
Posted: 8/27/2009 8:57:27 AM | I started joking that the last date, had me meet her friends, one of which swore she knew me, and who turned out to be one part of a threesome that happened publicly in the middle of a frat house, with myself and a whole lot of other half drunk / asleep guys watching. we laugh at it.. how random is that connection.
^^^^^OP
Huh? So were you watching this threesome or involved in a gangbang? I like how you mentioned how drunk you were. I'm just saying looks like you have been playing for quite some time... Tisk,tisk come on and spill the tea baby. No man who is married and respects his wife would watch this and I think you were in the middle of it. Women don't just remember some random drunk guy from way back. Come on, did you join in? We all know your pee pee controls your actions so... | |
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| Propositioned by secret swinging ex's friend
Posted: 8/27/2009 9:08:37 AM | If this is a real scenario, I vote for waiting 2 wks,then banging her like a drum. ( shrugs ) Might not be da popular answer, but if she's hot and nobodies feelings are going to be hurt. Sounds like it could be interesting, ya only live once.
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<div class='quote'> I think the OP was sending out some serious signals to this woman and she bit, now he is looking for approval to go ahead with his little scheme
According to the OP, she's a bi-sexual swinger, in an open marriage. Doubt seriously if he would need to send many signals. Sounds like she'll screw anything that moves. Ladies, ladies, ladies, .... itz a guy thing. U will never understand. Stupid ? Quite possibly. Really stupid ? There is that potential, but boyz will be boyz. :D | |
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| Propositioned by secret swinging ex's friend
Posted: 8/27/2009 2:25:07 PM | | Even if this is on the up and up, there is no reason to be messing around with your ex-wife's friend. If the break up is amiable, let it continue to be amiable. These things have a tendency to explode, and why allow it to take out your social circle when it does... especially if it's people that are going to be watching/seeing your child. | |
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| Propositioned by secret swinging ex's friend
Posted: 8/27/2009 3:09:52 PM | | Personally, I wouldn't do it. I'd be worried about STDs, even if she claimed she were clean. If you decide to hook up with her, just wait until the divorce is over and for goodness sake wrap up your love helmet. | |
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| Propositioned by secret swinging ex's friend
Posted: 8/27/2009 4:17:16 PM | Oh sure - go right ahead! This makes TOTAL sense.
Good gawd. Hoping a crack or fisure in the Earth's surface opens up and someone drops into the steaming magma.
Jump on in - if I say FOOL is that considered insulting?
Anyone know?
What's the position with the mod's on that term for someone with this silliness in their head?
Fool ok? It seems appropriate but maybe that's just my opinion only....
Is stating my opinion of the truth an insult? | |
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| Propositioned by secret swinging ex's friend
Posted: 8/27/2009 11:33:41 PM | It probably IS a trap and that's not paranoia. That's an intimate knowledge of the mind of a very angry woman. We don't know that the divorce isn't excessively acrimonious. We don't know if she's wildly angry with the OP.
Let's face it, we women can be exceedingly underhanded. The fact that this proposition was made only two weeks before the final court date speaks volumes -- at least to me.
Besides, tapping that would be the epitome of TACKY, dude!!!  | |
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| Propositioned by secret swinging ex's friend
Posted: 8/28/2009 12:56:36 PM | Ok got my list of quotes here and will proceed in an orderly fashion.
for goodness sake wrap up your love helmet.
This is partly a public health service announcement. But more importantly itz a funny way to say wear a rubber, so I quoted it.
These things have a tendency to explode, and why allow it to take out your social circle when it does...
Becuz she's a hot bi married woman, thatz why dammit !!! What more reason should a guy need ? Well, U do somewhat have a pt. OP, tell her she's going to have to invite a hot friend and make it a 3 some.
Let's face it, we women can be exceedingly underhanded.
Ummm U mean evil, women can be cold hearted, psychopathic, EVIL bytches from HELL !*!*!* Which she also haz a pt, no matter how grossly understated. She probally knows her friend haz da herpes. And is counting on your d**k leading U into a bear trap. | |
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| Propositioned by secret swinging ex's friend
Posted: 8/28/2009 1:08:01 PM | The OP has been dating on and off and he isn't even divorced yet? That tells a lot in itself.
If he is so desperate to get some sex, then that's the only thing he should ever get, I guess. | |
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| Propositioned by secret swinging ex's friend
Posted: 8/29/2009 8:48:20 AM | Sounds like fun maby the one woman she was with was your x to be .You could end up in a very embarrasing threesome. Let it go think about how you would face her husband.Maby she just wants to add you to a list and compair with x to be.
RUN FOREST RUN.all of her partners and thers for seven years.That is huge chance to take. | |
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| Propositioned by secret swinging ex's friend
Posted: 8/29/2009 4:13:03 PM | The observed threesome was 15 years ago+, and I can't recall the amount of alcohol consumed, but it was a frat keg party, and 7-12 guys crashed out on couches and / or the floor. It was on a pull out sofa if that helps. my dates friend knew many of the same people that I did from high school...
I haven't had sex with my ex to be since a year ago, May... 15 months. We decided to end it in Oct, after 16 months of failed counseling. CT where I live has a 90 day waiting period. but we waited a while to file.
I have been initimate since. You define what cheating is, because my thought is that if its hidden, married or not, its cheating. Some people think your married until papers are signed and some think its when conjugal rights are recinded. We were done, I was openly free to go elsewhere and i did. don't judge me for that.
I've turned down 2 different threesome offers in my lifetime, both FFM because I wasnt all that attracted to the gatekeepers, but was hot for the friend.
I wouldn't know if the hubby likes a good stiff one. I think the sausage fest would have been for her, but you never know, and I don't plan on finding out.
I am not going to hook up with her, not because as you all claim she a diseased ridden harlet, who probably has a whole circus act lost in the wilderness that is her VJJ.
Its too close to home and no good will come of it, I am on here to meet someone afterall and I am hoping that my future dates can read. this is a public forum afterall...
I still have to figure out how to address it with her when i see her this week. | |
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| Propositioned by secret swinging ex's friend
Posted: 8/31/2009 12:43:38 PM |
The OP has been dating on and off and he isn't even divorced yet? That tells a lot in itself.
maybe he's been separated for awhile. if you are legally separated, it is ok to date | |
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