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Posted: 8/26/2009 11:30:54 PM | Run, run away, fast as you can!  | |
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Posted: 8/26/2009 11:34:35 PM | oh go for it...move in..have a few babies...move out....pay child support for the next umpteen years.
Sounds like a plan stan | |
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Posted: 8/27/2009 4:00:27 AM | | If you intend to keep this animal, take her to the vet and get her spayed ASAP. | |
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Posted: 8/27/2009 4:11:56 AM | | Way tooo fast. If you feel casually about this girl I would end it and move on. If you have any hope of trying to pursue something with her, sit her down, tell her how you feel, set some firm boundaries and expectations and see what her reaction is an go from there. Good luck! | |
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Posted: 8/27/2009 7:15:43 AM | | Way too fast! Unless of course you want to end up trapped into a dependant relationship and possible parenthood with someone you don't know. | |
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Posted: 8/27/2009 7:33:30 AM | Very funny (and true) list of responses. I need not add anything further.
Yep, what they said! Unless you want to start a new race...RUN!!! | |
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Posted: 8/27/2009 9:48:02 AM | | You must test drive the product before you drive it off the lot. If that does not work, everything else will not matter. | |
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Posted: 8/27/2009 6:04:31 PM |
You must test drive the product before you drive it off the lot. If that does not work, everything else will not matter.
And there in lies the problem. When people refer to others as a product. To be used then discarded.
Where the hell is that puke face when you need it??? | |
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Posted: 8/27/2009 6:07:50 PM | It's too fast and if she's pushing you to do so it's because she has reasons that you know nothing about.
Don't be an idiot.
Don't do something so foolish or stupid. | |
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Posted: 8/27/2009 6:08:33 PM | | Are you going to come back and explain your post Vanaheim? | |
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Posted: 8/27/2009 6:12:14 PM |
Hi i am dating this girl for 2 months and we get along good but she wants to move in already and start a family and i am thinking that is a little to fast what do you think? I do like her a lot but we have not even been intimate with each other so does she like me or does she just someone to pay the rent?
Are you 12 posing as a 37 year old?
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Posted: 8/27/2009 6:16:04 PM | Personally that's awfully fast to move in and start a family. Still in the getting to know each other period.
Just express to her that it's too soon, only been two months, your just not ready. Maybe also ask her why she wants these so soon into the relationship. | |
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Posted: 8/27/2009 6:20:29 PM | ~OP~ Don't you know better than to post this stuff in here. You certainly aren't going to get much positive feedback on this topic on this site. I'll switch gears for you for a minute! I didn't start a family, but I moved quickly in my last relationship. I have no regrets. I find it better to say, "I tried." rather than, "WHAT IF I had tried." I'd nix the starting a family idea, but if you are OK with living together the worst thing that could happen is someone has to move out. Good luck to ya. JMO  | |
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Posted: 8/28/2009 4:57:53 AM | | Dude end it now. Seriously I had the same thing happen. Unless you want stalker type behavior and coming home to rabbits being boiled on your stove end it. | |
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Posted: 8/28/2009 5:36:38 AM | OP -
Hi i am dating this girl for 2 months and we get along good but she wants to move in already and start a family and i am thinking that is a little to fast what do you think? I do like her a lot but we have not even been intimate with each other so does she like me or does she just someone to pay the rent?
not a lot of info to make a true call
it seems she is testing you, shes looking for your response. she wants to know if you are serious. | |
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Posted: 8/28/2009 8:13:54 AM |
some folks know the minute they meet .
Some. Sometimes. And others think they know but turn out to realize they were mistaken. And others have big issues that make them try to rush others into relationships too fast before their serious flaws are evident. And you can't figure out what sort of person you've encountered until time has passed. Forget the romantic fantasies of some on this site - the fact is that these things very often turn out very badly and the 'happy ever after' stories are the exception.
If it's real, giving it time won't hurt. If she's got big problems, yes, moving in with her could turn out to be an utter disaster. Bottom line - don't do it. | |
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Posted: 9/2/2009 12:02:17 AM | Run to the Hills...Run for YOOOURR LIFE!!!!
Run to the Hills.... | |
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Posted: 9/2/2009 5:59:47 AM | {we get along good but}
You answered your own question with the very last word in that quote!
You knew the answer when you posted the question. | |
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Posted: 9/2/2009 6:02:20 AM | 2 months and not intimate? move in and play house without even knowing that familiarity?
run forrest, run! | |
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Posted: 9/2/2009 6:05:41 AM | OMFG....
This that same girl you posted about dating for 2 months and not kissing you? Now all of a sudden she wants to move in? HAHAHA 
Will you pay my rent too??? I'll even kiss ya  | |
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Posted: 9/2/2009 6:20:01 AM | | You’ve not been intimate yet and she wants to move in? Huge mistake. What if you’re not compatible sexually? This is probably the number 2 deal breaker after cheating. For that reason alone I would say; absolutely not. What if she’s a transsexual? | |
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Posted: 9/2/2009 6:21:30 AM | "Get your good braking shoes out and slow that cart down before it takes out a small village!"
This is hilarious | |
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Posted: 9/4/2009 6:36:12 AM | | don't buy a car and return it when there is a "no return policy" right front of you in caps. | |
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Posted: 9/4/2009 6:41:19 AM | I'd run from this one. There is NO WAY she could know you well enough in that short a time to make a decision that YOU are "the one" to spend a life with, much less make children with.
I read the first couple of answers to you and agree. End it at once, she is seeing your wallet AND that you are a sucker enough to even consider it. I mean, no sex yet? but she wants you to pay her rent. A LITTLE too fast? Sheeesh.. space shuttles dont travel that fast.
RUN FORREST RUN.
Oh.. dont have sex with her at all. It's a pinhole in the rubber babytrap
Oh.. just read the STUPID ADVICE from all those sighing stupid "harlequin romance novel reader women" who are suggesting you keep dating her until you "get to know her better"
This woman DOESNT KNOW YOU, yet wants your wallet. Can you say GOLD DIGGER? Can you say USER? Can you say a cancerous pox on women? SHAME on your women for NOT suggesting he run like hell.
What part of psycho behavior does he need to know MORE of? OMG. What ARE you women who suggest more time thinking? Would you give that advice to your SON who just barely met a woman? sheeesh.. Where's darwin when you need him
Edit 2. Holy crapola.. now there are stupid GUYS on here advising you to stay for one more second???
I need to get an email can of "slap some sense into your head" and start a mass email campaign to POF'ers | |
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Posted: 9/4/2009 6:55:42 AM | | Well OP - it's only too fast if you think it is. Apparently you do so - yes it's too fast. As to her motives - who knows? Maybe she's looking for someone to take care of her - maybe she wants babies or just maybe...! YOU are the one she's been looking for all her life. I'm not there so I don't know. | |
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