Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc. Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing... Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate.
     
Show ALL Forums  > Off Topic  > mature women with lust based profiles      Home login  
 AUTHOR
 ThaDoctor72
Joined: 8/28/2009
Msg: 26
mature women with lust based profiles Page 2 of 8    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8)
It's not so much the women that have pictures like that, to each her own, I say.

If a woman is posting her profile like that just for kicks, to see what kind of rise she can get out of people, that's her perogative and it's all good. However, if a woman is genuinely on POF to meet someone, and getting all bent out of shape because she's attracting the wrong type of guy, then it's her own poor judgement.

Personally, I like to see a middle aged woman confident enough with her apperance to be able to post body shots and lusty pics. Not so much viewing the pics and rubbing one out (as previously suggested), I just enjoy the company of self confident people.
 huggablekiss
Joined: 3/21/2009
Msg: 27
mature women with lust based profiles
Posted: 9/6/2009 10:54:28 AM
As commented by calientecutie:
"if the men can use more than one women...and manytimes younger women
women can be cougars and get more than one partners
we have to play too "

Go girl, go girl........woman power!
 moonbeamlover
Joined: 12/16/2008
Msg: 28
mature women with lust based profiles
Posted: 9/6/2009 12:13:05 PM

I'm still trying to figure out how "trendy bars" fits in with a message to guys to play with themselves now.......


I'm not sure I get that either...

but then mine has weekly play by play of the Vikes, so I somehow hope I'm not one of the aforentioned mature women, except for my age bracket lol (unless, of course, a guy gets lustful thoughts of A Peterson running 75 yards on opening play, and I can't be held responsible for that...)
 amusing_muse
Joined: 8/5/2009
Msg: 29
view profile
History
mature women with lust based profiles
Posted: 9/6/2009 1:54:14 PM
Ha Ha! So true...

B
 1kindMan4U
Joined: 5/23/2007
Msg: 30
mature women with lust based profiles
Posted: 9/9/2009 4:52:20 PM
Hope you mean "Mature" as in age.

I've seen some of the profiles he's speaking about. Provocative poses in bikini's or on their BED or just some pout on their face. ALL of those pictures are very much of a "comehither" look about them. Oh, let's not forget the cellphone picture of their BUTT in the mirror.

I expect the facebook/myspace stuff on some twit in her teens to 20's, but to see a row of pictures like that from a 40-something" Get real.

The part that cracks me up is when you see those pictures, scroll down and see they checked:
"Must not have messaged users seeking Intimate encounter or sex"

THAT sometimes is my laugh of the day.

OP.. some of your post just seemed to be disjointed.
 turtledove101
Joined: 1/18/2009
Msg: 31
mature women with lust based profiles
Posted: 9/22/2009 6:35:32 PM
1kindman
women in our 40's think about sex as much as you guys did when you were 19.

Women are always told we hit our peak in our 30's.. No that's just the beginning. I think the one guy was right about the fact that they aren't getting any. LOL

You would think that they would maintain though. Maybe someone should send them the "proper" website. LOL
 rune3
Joined: 7/13/2006
Msg: 32
mature women with lust based profiles
Posted: 9/22/2009 10:07:39 PM


a woman is going to get sexually suggestive emails regardless of what shes wearing in her pics or writes on her profile. i dont care if shes wearing a burlap sac and praising the lord jesus...
True -- nothing will eradicate ALL sexually suggestive emails, but that's off on a tangent
I am not so sure of this. I've been on the site 3 years and whilst my profile has been mostly hidden, it wasn't at the start and I still get mails via the forums. Nothing inappropriate/sexual. The men who write always behave in a civilised manner. The only person I've had to block was a woman whose rapid bipolar-like messaging craziness was mystifying.

Same in real life. I find men to be polite and respectful towards me: they are quite straightforward. I am entirely non-flirty though. I don't wear burlap sacks, but I do choose clothing that covers rather than displays and I behave to others as I would like to be treated. I don't want people to get flirty, so I don't flirt with them. I observe a difference in the way some men behave towards me and the way they behave towards female colleagues. Quite a big difference. Sometimes I have been shocked at the behaviour of men who have been nothing but polite to me for years at the crap they come out with to others. But those women do behave differently -- they initiate the innuendo, they look and behave in ways that sexualise rather than neutralise (in a working atmosphere where neutral is the appropriate way to go).

Anyway, this post was just to counter the notion that no matter what a woman does, men are going to treat her the same. It's not true and it's unfair on men to represent the majority as moronic pigs when mostly they do take their lead from the woman's behaviour. There is such a double standard here too. It's okay for her to wear a 'look-at-me' top which leaves nothing to the imagination, but it's not okay for him to look or comment. It's okay for her to make provocative comments in his direction, but not for him to join in?

I've seen those types of profile and I agree that they are rather scary. And rather sad. I think some women feel very helpless -- they want to attract many men so that they get some sense that they have choice (choosing from those whose interest in them is unconfirmed is not an option for many women, it seems, their only option is trying to attract). They get a higher volume of mail with the sexy pics/profile and so this gives them the illusion of greater choice. But it is an illusion because the volume of mail comes from a certain type who responds to the superficial, which is a poor basis for a relationship at the best of times.
 eydies
Joined: 9/20/2009
Msg: 33
mature women with lust based profiles
Posted: 9/26/2009 7:07:08 PM
lets face it sex sales... and men are biting...
i personally dont want to meet some one under those circumstances only.. what does it get you? a 1 night stand? i rather be able to meet some one and maybe hold on to them every night, some one thats no matter what your always there for each other.. maybe im a dreamer..
 SteelerJeff
Joined: 7/6/2008
Msg: 34
mature women with lust based profiles
Posted: 9/27/2009 1:02:00 AM
I've never been 'menatally molested' by a profile. I feel cheated!
 whitetigeress
Joined: 7/18/2009
Msg: 35
mature women with lust based profiles
Posted: 9/27/2009 2:41:44 AM
sorry.. didnt read all the posts

With the "play with yourself now" profiles.. you truly get a sense of what these women are like in the bedroom.. long term is when are they are not in the bedroom
so
choose wisely men
 thesilverdevil97
Joined: 8/8/2008
Msg: 36
view profile
History
mature women with lust based profiles
Posted: 9/27/2009 7:54:41 AM
I would like to say I have been on this site for over a year and never received an email that suggested I run over and have sex with him.

As to the thread, if you want to post semi-porn pictures of yourself, that is your choice. I know it send the wrong message unless you are just looking for a series of one night stands and or short, fitful relationships.

However, what makes it completely comical is the fact that I see these same women, with the hooch shots in the forums posting threads like “Why do all men want is sex”, “I don't understand, everything was great for the first two dates”, “He doesn't call or text me anymore”, blah blah blah.
 Paul.W_1967
Joined: 8/8/2009
Msg: 37
mature women with lust based profiles
Posted: 9/28/2009 7:03:20 AM
Baywatch, the cellulite years ! lol

I don't have hours to browse looking at profiles with lustfil whimsical women's discriptions.

I would feel about such women, probably the same way I feel about strippers.....

What's the point of peeling the fruit, if you can't taste it's sweetness ?

 verygreeneyez
Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 38
view profile
History
mature women with lust based profiles
Posted: 9/28/2009 7:13:13 AM

Maybe they dont realise at first, they are just oversexed because they have not had it properly in a while, and yet have to deal with the consequences of being too horny on a dating site, when actually what counts is finding someone with the same temperament

Uhhhh hmmmmmm ~ to be oversexed would mean they're gettin' busy a LOT, not NOT gettin' busy for extended periods of time. And why on earth is it the least bit alarming that a woman would be "horny on a dating site" when a large percentage of men's profiles here clearly state they have the winky of Long John Holmes, the libido of a 20 year old (cough cough) and the expertise of Don Juan (i.e.: I'm horny and I'm the best you'll ever have.) Maybe they are putting that stuff in their profiles so they can find someone who thinks exactly as they do: sex is a healthy part of a relationship and some find sex healthy without the relationship attached. It's clearly a personal preference. JMO
 REDDRAGON.
Joined: 10/9/2008
Msg: 39
mature women with lust based profiles
Posted: 9/28/2009 7:22:57 AM

I have never read a profile and thought "if only I was wearing pants, then I could control myself."




Mentally molested?

Wow..they must really know how to write.



Ok that was funny. ........................
 campin_joe
Joined: 8/25/2009
Msg: 40
view profile
History
mature women with lust based profiles
Posted: 9/28/2009 3:18:58 PM
I stay away from those ladies profiles that show off a lot.
Murphy's law: The more they show, the less the likelihood of you getting to touch it.
Every gal I have taken out, who on the first date wore the push up bra & low cut dress,
didn't let me get near them. (Other people may have had different results)
The ones that wore turtleneck were a different story.
If a lady talks dirty at first, I have to ask myself, "Now just how did she learn that?"
Sometimes you don't want to know.
 christ on a crutch
Joined: 2/1/2009
Msg: 41
view profile
History
mature women with lust based profiles
Posted: 9/28/2009 6:20:35 PM
i've seen one of these kind of profiles. an IE gal emailed me.

i don't make a snap judgment based on provocative photos. i know women IRL who are anything but skanks even though they have an overt sexuality and like to show skin; why wouldn't they represent themselves honestly here?

the guys who are the best catches like sex and are visual too, so why wouldn't a smart woman play that angle, if she doesn't mind wading through the chaff messages? people forget the only thing a profile is for is to get you an email. it's not your freakin life's resume.
 PinkOleander
Joined: 9/21/2009
Msg: 42
mature women with lust based profiles
Posted: 9/30/2009 6:21:17 AM

you get the idea.

I really don't.



the profile is intended to make any ordinary guy get abit confused and heady and write something just as a revenge for being mentally molested because she is asking for it.

Isn't that the plot of "The Accused"?



I wonder if they intentionally make profiles that sound like 'PLAY WITH YOURSELF NOW' just because they can, weather they just want to stimulate as many guys as possible and get a completely rowdy disfunctional collection of replies.

I still don't know what you are talking about. It sounds like you may have anger and control issues.

For all I know you are really a 70 year old man living in a basement somewhere trolling 18 year old profiles and reading "not looking for a father for my kids" and you say to yourself "you're naughty, you broke one of the seven, I'm going to be your daddy..."

I have seen women attempt profiles heavily laden with innuendo, but to me those always seemed like jokes. Or really really sad. I have never read a profile and thought "if only I was wearing pants, then I could control myself."



Maybe they dont realise at first, they are just oversexed because they have not had it properly in a while, and yet have to deal with the consequences of being too horny on a dating site, when actually what counts is finding someone with the same temperament.

This sounds a lot more like your wishful thinking than anything based in reality.



have you noticed such profiles? are you one of them?

I thought I had, but after reading your reaction I must not have.
And no.
And you are scaring me.

My thoughts exactly. And I was going to say I hoped to be on the jury during his rape/dismemberment trial but he lives in the UK. Two words for the OP: impulse control.
 Snowboardfreedom
Joined: 2/25/2009
Msg: 43
view profile
History
mature women with lust based profiles
Posted: 9/30/2009 7:45:43 AM
hey Conf-Real, I agree with your statements (most) and have to add some things and an example I've found and I'm going to write her back!
I just today-ish turned 33, so BTW, that is why I took a look at this forum. Anyhow, I don't exactly get the OP's points, and wish he'd explained better. But the gist being women let's say age 40, who ARE "hot", showing cleavage in one pic or more and other pics that look great, talkin bout ideally wanting to find the proverbial "knight in shining armor" (Riiiiiiiight!), BUT, this one in particular at least ADMITS that idea is from reading books as a girl, and instead there are dead-on "details" or words that really indicate what this woman (these types of women) REALLY want...
From what I found now, tell-tale signs of women that show cleavage pics and talk about "integrity", BUT "really" want something else, like NSA sex, could include things like "Here For: (Friends, Other Relationship)", the "headline" or whatever, being like "I was good but this girl went bad!"- that's obvious she wants NSA sex OR MAYBE, just MAYBE, IF she found the TOTALLY right guy, she'd go steady or whatever.
Another tell-tale sign other than those examples is in their Interests; is "sex" an interest? If so, then there's no confusion, unless she isn't attracted to "you".
So, this is where I disagree with you but only if there isn't enough clarity to the "profile's" message.
And as far as "if you are to criticize them (like in the forums)", I in this instance, jokingly "criticized" her of her spelling- a silly, simple thing, but along with a clever Subject, she wrote back in no time! I just hope she realizes that I'm kidding, even though I plainly tell her that. Anyhow, on subject, I agree with you that a gal 40-ish or so will weigh looks with a certain amount of****ness and humor-- us guys have to be somewhat**** in order to not be "Mr. Nice Guy" who really hardly ever gets the attention that's deserved. Many women "say" one thing but really mean the opossitte, at least when ATTRACTION is "forming", which doesn't take too long! LATER ON, is when they might really want that "nice guy", but it doesn't make good for attracting. Anyhow, also like you mentioned, they "may actually want 'that' (sex, right?) behind the scenes (just not FROM ones they find ugly or loserish). " I guess now that you meant not sex necessarily, but rather "that" refers to "horny emails", to which I'd refer to as erotic emails, but anyhow, I really think that "cougars" love attention because they know they can still attract many men and maybe they feel like they MUST do "something" to make them feel free before the dreaded "menodotdotdot" sets in OR before they basically lose their libidos. But yeah, just like the younger counterparts (young women), they will still do something to upkeep their self-image & "act innocent".
Anyhow, mature women with lust-based profiles certainly doesn't bother me at all. Ya just gotta know how to communicate with them, and it should all be a lot of FUN.
Lastly, at least it seems that "mature women" KNOW what they want!! No indecision or confusion there! : )p
 RobertKoi
Joined: 11/9/2008
Msg: 44
view profile
History
mature women with lust based profiles
Posted: 9/30/2009 2:50:11 PM
The answer is quite simple: they don't know what they want or what they're looking for. That's why a person like that is single - mainly. Then add all the demands that no one can fulfill, which is basically the point. It scares off 95% and leaves a poor 5% who are competing in vain. Eventually some poor ba*stard who's done nothing but wasted his time on a fantasy gets her out on a boring date. She thinks that she's the queen of England and he regrets every minute he spent talking to her. At the end of the day no one wins. It's worhless from start to end. Looks gets you far but not all the way.
 NappyKAT
Joined: 7/2/2008
Msg: 45
mature women with lust based profiles
Posted: 9/30/2009 4:19:46 PM
Mature, hot, wet, and horny. What other reason is there?

I hope to be like that until I get old and die.
 PinkOleander
Joined: 9/21/2009
Msg: 46
mature women with lust based profiles
Posted: 9/30/2009 5:49:46 PM
How many times must we revisit this topic? If a woman likes sex too much she's a whore or a slut. If she doesn't like it enough she's frigid. If she is young and sleeps around she is used and then looked down on. If she's older and loses interest she's a pathetic old woman who no one would want anyway and laughed at. If a woman doesn't sleep with a man soon enough after beginning dating, then why should he stick around? If she sleeps with him on the first date she's a slut and doesn't hear from him again or only when he wants to get laid again. Etc. etc. etc. And men wonder why women "play games."
 robkia
Joined: 8/18/2009
Msg: 47
mature women with lust based profiles
Posted: 9/30/2009 6:33:43 PM
hi how are u tonight
 Miss W
Joined: 12/4/2006
Msg: 48
view profile
History
mature women with lust based profiles
Posted: 9/30/2009 7:12:03 PM
Really? These profiles exist? Interesting...yes, please share. But then again, I had a phone conversation with a guy last night who said that he had several 1st dates and these women are as bad as the guys wanting sex right away. I got the impression that he was actually somewhat offended. If he was right, it was downright refreshing.

Editing to say that my own profile can be interpreted as such, but I was just having fun...being provocative was the last thing on my mind.
 NappyKAT
Joined: 7/2/2008
Msg: 49
mature women with lust based profiles
Posted: 10/1/2009 12:55:03 AM

Editing to say that my own profile can be interpreted as such,


Oh you mature lusty mental molester you.
I was just thinking the same thing when I saw your picture and read your first sentence. And it took you a while to catch on to your own picture and this subject.

Funny.
 dale5of7
Joined: 2/12/2010
Msg: 50
mature women with lust based profiles
Posted: 3/8/2010 10:15:44 PM
Such mixed messages are the result of women who desperately and pathologically need attention. If you google the term "histrionic personality disorder" You'll find that what you just said is a good verbatim list of that mental dysfunction. I'd steer clear of the lusty loving type of profile ya mentioned. Many of them are serial predators as deranged as any "fvck and chuck" womanizer.
Show ALL Forums  > Off Topic  > mature women with lust based profiles