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 Stumbled In

Joined: 4/8/2008
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Posted: 9/9/2009 11:24:47 AM
m_church wrote:
"As much as some of the people on here try to trivialise herpes... for some people it is a serious ailment... it may affect one person only marginally, another person may have a seriously debilitating affliction"

I wouldn't say anyone has tried to trivialize it. However, a few have tried to put it in perspective. When you have all the stats and facts in front of you, the general public's perception of it simply looks very much out of whack.

I agree though that everybody has different ways of looking at things as far as what they want in a mate, which they may or may not ever be able to find. And the tricky part is that both mates have to find it at the same time in each other. Sure would make life easy if we could just special order a mate the way we want 'em.
 english lass

Joined: 11/14/2007
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Posted: 9/9/2009 2:06:07 PM
tell him before you move, for sure and then see what he decides before you quit your job or change location again
 OutMind

Joined: 2/13/2007
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Posted: 9/9/2009 2:53:18 PM
Until you tell him, you are denying his right to know, and in your silence you are performing a lie. Tell him right away, instead of hooking him deeper emotionally.
 logicalpersonified

Joined: 8/26/2009
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Posted: 9/23/2009 8:14:09 PM
A 2008 report by the CDC have estimated that 25% of women have HSV-2, while 12.5% of men are infected. That's just in the United States. You don't even want to know the numbers for HPV. It's spreading like wild fire...

According to the surgeon general back in 2004, there is over 1 million new cases of herpes annually.

Tell ya what, I'm gonna be a gazillionaire once I get my portable STD test kit on the market. hahah

"I hate to ruin the mood sweetie, but would you mind allowing me to gently prick your fingertip for a small blood sample and run a few quick tests before we do anything?"

Straight up Gattaca type stuff man.
 RedAuraJ

Joined: 8/28/2009
Msg: 130
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Posted: 10/4/2009 7:08:58 PM
You people are ridiculous. Before you post, you should know a little about what you are talking about. Stop being a drama queen, herpes isn't a death sentence so you can stop the talk about giving someone a revolver and pulling the trigger! Also, you don't have itchy sores on your ball sack for the rest of your life, so do a little reading and stop posting stupid crap!
 RedAuraJ

Joined: 8/28/2009
Msg: 131
now I have herpes
Posted: 10/4/2009 7:10:25 PM
how do you know that you don't have it?
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