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Anyone who would do that, in my opinion, is a douche...
I love this answer! And I agree wholeheartedly. | |
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Posted: 9/1/2009 8:26:16 AM | Wow woman you've passed the test? When will you get your diploma?
Give him another chance? Run for your life and don't forget to tell him that he failed all your tests.
Test for a stand-by woman that will be there every time he needs to without having to explain where he was meanwhile. He has the S.O.S center for that. | |
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| Has anyone else passed a weird test from a potential suitor?
Posted: 9/1/2009 8:49:15 AM |
This morning I get an email telling me I "passed his test" ... meaning that he could just randomly disappear and that I wasn't going to freak out by calling, texting or emailing constantly. He apparently thought I was a stalker material and needed to test me to make sure I wasn't.
Test my arse. Things didn't work out with his other prospects so he figures now is a good time to make it look like he was in control the whole time.
This one is a bit whacked OP. Good choice to dump any possibility of a "relationship" with him. He sounds too high maintenance with his little tests and head games.
Oye veye. Some mother's children. | |
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| Has anyone else passed a weird test from a potential suitor?
Posted: 9/1/2009 8:52:00 AM | Yes I have passed someone's test before but then I dumped him immediately after he said "I tested you". It's a little different story he called and texted me often then he stopped doing that for a while I started worrying about him so I called him and he said he was very glad for me to call him cause he intentionally didn't call me for a while to test me to find out whether I really liked him or not??? WTF! But the craziest part was he kept texting and emailing me after that It was sad but I had to block him cause I have rights to protect myself from unhealthy people.
He is not worth of your precious time and energy Dear Just block him | |
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| Has anyone else passed a weird test from a potential suitor?
Posted: 9/1/2009 8:55:57 AM | Girl - he's a player. Come on - no genuine man with the intention of building something real or lasting or solid with you plays these dumb azz games.
It's not how it's done.
Dump him. Fast!
He's a definite Frosted Flake! | |
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| Has anyone else passed a weird test from a potential suitor?
Posted: 9/1/2009 9:45:15 AM |
Has anyone else passed a weird test from a potential suitor?
I've had a couple relationships where the girls blatantly said I "passed the test". Later in the relationship - I was constantly being tested... which made me wonder if EVERYTHING was a test. It was lame, I didn't like it, and ended up ending it both times. I'm still friends with one of them, and she still doesn't consider what she's doing, "game playing". Not sure what happened to her to make her have to constantly test boundaries & trust... but... I couldn't handle it... and neither have any of her potential suiters since... | |
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Posted: 9/1/2009 10:43:21 AM | LMAO @ Rune, reply #10! Love it...
Tell him you just signed him up for "Survival - The Tested Strike Back"! | |
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| Has anyone else passed a weird test from a potential suitor?
Posted: 9/1/2009 10:48:30 AM |
This morning I get an email telling me I "passed his test" ... meaning that he could just randomly disappear and that I wasn't going to freak out by calling, texting or emailing constantly. He apparently thought I was a stalker material and needed to test me to make sure I wasn't.
I thought not freaking out was being normal! Why would anyone but a weird person freak out over some game player?
What gave him the impression you were a stalker if you weren't e-mailing him frequently?
Naturally, he now wants our relationship to progress. I'm not inclined to give him another chance -- I really think he's a flake.
Has anyone else passed a weird test from a potential suitor?
If you think he's really a flake why waste time wondering?
Your question doesn't fit unless people freak out over a game player ,but if they do freak out then they too are weird and enjoy playing games. | |
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Posted: 9/1/2009 10:55:06 AM |
Your question doesn't fit unless people freak out over a game player .
I *think* what the OP meant by 'freak out' was more like get needy/clingy/act desperate by emailing/texting/calling/etc when this guy dissapeared. | |
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Posted: 9/1/2009 10:59:57 AM |
Simple reply... you failed ...
Ha. I'm with what appears to be just about everyone else - this is great, use it!
OK - that is just too funny...if I've ever passed (or failed!) some test, at the least the guy wasn't stupid enough to tell me so!
Yeah, I don't think I've encountered this, either, to my knowledge.
I can't say I recall everything from the teen years, though, which come to mind because on the off chance that this is true, this guy is 14. He may be wearing a grown-up on the outside, but that's just a suit. | |
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Posted: 9/1/2009 12:11:32 PM | People test people all the time. Women are notorious for doing it to guys. The thing is, it's not exactly good form to inform someone they're being or have been tested. That just makes you look either strange or immature.
OP, your call on what to do with this one. Hard to say whether he was actually testing you or just trying to cover his ass for being flaky. Trust your gut. | |
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Posted: 9/1/2009 12:20:47 PM | LOL - what a complete tool.
Only a jerk-off would think he's important enough to get away with playing his childish games and that the recipient would give a rat's ass whether they "passed" his so-called test.
Amateur.
It's so obvious this married/committed loser is sneaking around and giving you pathetic excuses for his random disappearances. | |
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Posted: 9/1/2009 12:26:27 PM | | I've had 2-3 girls come up with some Cosmo crap during the first time we met for a drink. I sat there and thought "I wonder if she has a ruler in her purse!" that was it for me. if you need a test to ferret out the losers, you must be one. | |
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Posted: 9/1/2009 12:44:44 PM | That guy is a douchebag who wants to be able to "disappear" on you and have it be "ok" with you. He probably just told you it was a "test" to get out of explaining his asinine behaviour!
I actually DID have a guy test me. He told me through text that he had made a "doll" to masturbate in. I texted back "lol this I gotta see..." to which he replied that I had passed his "test". He wanted to see if I'd think he was a perv; I thought it was a genius idea, very creative! | |
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Posted: 9/1/2009 1:27:28 PM | | It doesn't surprise me that a man has come up with such a test. I have been that woman stalker. I know many other woman that have been like it also. He is either trying to protect his self, or he's just a bit of a loser, and is seeing people who he thinks may be more suitable inbetween. Unfortunately your just going to have to trust your own judgement on this one. Good luck. | |
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Posted: 9/1/2009 1:35:35 PM | | He used you as a backup while he was testing waters elsewhere. The “test” is bullshit. He’s a player (like most people online) move on! | |
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| Has anyone else passed a weird test from a potential suitor?
Posted: 9/1/2009 1:42:34 PM | Well I have been told by a couple of men (friends), that after a while (not after one date) they will test a woman for her "freak out" out factor. To determine how she will handle a crisis, change or emotional news. They may not necessarily tell them about the test, but they will put a woman through the paces just to see what she is made out of. They will also do the disappearing thing to see if the woman has a life of her own, does she have her own interests or will she be constantly dependant upon him for her entertainment and amusement or is she desperate and sitting waiting by the phone for his call.
And you know sometimes after reading the forums, I can't say I blame them. | |
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I'd be blocking him and let him test trying to ever contact me again.
