| question for the bi females
Posted: 11/29/2004 1:02:36 PM | | Personally I look for fun. However, you have to at least have a friendship. Just can't warm up to a one-night stand with a woman anymore. Would love to meet someone that I could just hang out with or play with. | |
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lsmith
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Joined: 10/31/2004
Msg: 77 | |
| question for the bi females
Posted: 11/29/2004 1:07:43 PM | | Hmm. This is kind of how I see it. I believe that there is some chromosomal factor involved. Here's what I mean. Genetically everyone has 13 pair of x and y combination chromosomes. They are in variations of xx yy or xy pairs. MY theory, is that.. if you laid these pairs out in the traditional timeline sort of format. with xx's on one end (totally girl) and yy's on the other (totally boy) and then laid out the variations in between.. you'd find a suprising volume of 'gray' area where a male in the xx or woman in the yy could strongly support relationships of the same sex. Suppose.. 7 out of 13 pair were yy combinations. If you were a girl.. would this give you over 50% male tendencies?.. would that make you like sports and women more?? Don't gag! lol! It's really just a thought. Suppose women with 10 or more pair of the male chromosomes were to be the ones that enjoyed the FULL capacity of dating women, whilst those with under 6 pair.. had thoughts of women.. found themselves attracted to them.. but just couldn't go full bore - Would that not give some explantion (excluding personality and environmental factors) to the variation in what is 'bi'? Would also explain some of why there are men out there who can't commit to women.. and to remain socially 'acceptable' develop unbeliebably strong bonds w/o sex w/their male friends. Ponderous. Anythings possible.. but I've been reading everyone's responses.. and it seems that there are definately seperations between women who want the experience.. whether that be to satisfy an inner drive towards women.. or if they are particularly meepy.. to satisfy the requests of their boyfriends. Perhaps there's somethin' here.. perhaps not. I know I have always been wildly attracted to womens mouths and breasts.. but.. closer than that feels very awkward.. and unfitting to me. I don't bother the persuit because I relate it to how I feel if a guy wants just sex.. kindof turns me off emotionally. .and I don't want to do that to a girl. Blah.. shee.. blahh.. blahh.. blahh. Alright.. my 18cents have been shared. Whataya think? | |
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| question for the bi females
Posted: 11/29/2004 1:11:10 PM | | I agree that you should start as friends and then work from there but it kills me that women say they want to be friends but then don't ever talk to you anymore. | |
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Posted: 11/29/2004 1:12:26 PM | | You make soo much sense it's scary! Actually...homosexuality being related to genetics has been a big debate for quite some time and not to throw off the thread, but pinpoint the actual chromesomes has a lot of people stirred about it. "If you can pinpoint it, you can change it" Good or bad, that is each individuals opinion. | |
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Posted: 11/29/2004 1:13:31 PM | | ok well let me start this one out with the guy who has no business making his statement to my girlfriend branty his name is hrdbody she is not a slut or a hore or traiol park trash it needs to stop plz and thank you britt I love you baby girl | |
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| question for the bi females
Posted: 11/29/2004 1:17:07 PM | | I love you too sweetie. I know how you feel about the relationship or fun factor and thanks for standing up for me! | |
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lsmith
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Joined: 10/31/2004
Msg: 82 | |
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| question for the bi females
Posted: 11/29/2004 1:22:26 PM | | Brateny...why dont you just report the guy and get him kicked off for a while?? I had to do that once, it was not fun. | |
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Posted: 11/29/2004 1:27:26 PM | | I just had a bad thought: "It's okay to be straight, you cant help it, god made you that way......besides....where would all the gay and bi people come from anyway??" Just a wandering thought, not meant to piss anyone off. | |
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lsmith
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Joined: 10/31/2004
Msg: 88 | |
| question for the bi females
Posted: 11/29/2004 1:30:41 PM | | I tried.. I tried just to ignore that mean man's new thread... but .. I'm shamed to say.. that I HAD to respond. Is that gonna get me kicked off here too? | |
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| question for the bi females
Posted: 11/29/2004 1:37:40 PM | | no sweetie that isn't going to get you kicked off here too. He is going to cause of some things he has been saying not just in here but in some of my other posts too. | |
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lsmith
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Joined: 10/31/2004
Msg: 90 | |
| question for the bi females
Posted: 11/29/2004 1:39:05 PM | | I tried to resist.. I really did.. cause obviously the shell is just looking for a reaction.. it's like when a child is too young to communicate.. y/know? | |
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| question for the bi females
Posted: 11/29/2004 1:42:54 PM | | ok listen to me buddy It is not fair of you too be going around trying to start with people about what they believe in it is their choice what they want to do with their bodies not yours and you know when they say well your opinion counts? they were not talking to you. you don't have to be an a** to people like you are puttin gthem down and calling them names you know they say people who live in glass houses should not throw stones? their is a reason why this subject bothers you so much is it because you are gay or just don't get sex at all? | |
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| question for the bi females
Posted: 11/29/2004 1:45:59 PM | Wow...this whole thing has been woefully thrown off track due to one shirtless wonder!!
My stance...Love is love. Find it and hold on to it...NEVER let it go! For all those experimental cats out there who just wanna have fun....Rock on with your bad selves!!! | |
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lsmith
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Joined: 10/31/2004
Msg: 95 | |
| question for the bi females
Posted: 11/29/2004 2:04:58 PM | | OK.. So.. to extend on what goes on in the head of someone that is interested and then doesn't want a relationship? My truly truly gay friend Rose.. always picks up on lipstick lesbians.. and more often .. new recruits.. or even more often hetero girls.. I know there's an ego thing involved there.. but.. people who haven't tried.. who want to try.. well.. you need to walk before you run right? I mean... you don't ask someone to marry you on the first date right? Same as.. maybe the first experiences you had as a young woman, statistically.. would probably be more geared toward sexual exploration. I know myself.. that I was at this party.. a wedding. and this hairdresser was SOO beautiful.. that I couldn't help but be attracted to her... hours later.. we were all drunk and dancing in my living room.. she was incredibly sexy.. looked just like.. what's her face from Labyrinth.. Jennifer Connely; anyway.. I was ready.. to be kissed for the first time.. we wound up in the bathroom together.. and i wanted to explore.. and she wanted me to come to her house on an island for the weekend for dinner and walks. I was bummed, and lost as did she. Perhaps if you're meeting too many people that just want to 'shag'.. I'm wondering.. based on my experiences.. if maybe they're too new? ?? Just thoughts. | |
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Roaul
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Joined: 4/14/2004
Msg: 97 | |
| question for the bi females
Posted: 11/29/2004 2:19:01 PM | to all bi women is it not sad that 1 prat has caused a stir like this.well i take it your all happy with your choice of partners well good on you,and gay marrages why not its not really that different from a hetro one stand up for your rights  | |
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lsmith
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Joined: 10/31/2004
Msg: 98 | |
| question for the bi females
Posted: 11/29/2004 2:19:50 PM | uhm. sorry! I don't always make the most of sense. I often write in this 'stream of consciousness' format.. where my internal dialogue regurgitates on paper (e-paper.. whatever). Is there a particularly cloudy part? Maybe I can clear it up a bit. | |
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lsmith
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Joined: 10/31/2004
Msg: 100 | |
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