| Boyfriend and girlfriend, and she gets up and leaves right after the sex is over!
Posted: 9/6/2009 11:39:42 AM | | Methinks the young lady accomplished her Speed Dating goal. The OP is intriqued with her because: a) she didn't trash her ex; and b) recalling one all too truthful one-liner, a man's definition of Eternity as the length of time between when he comes and she leaves . . . she's a dream date. She used her limited Speed Dating time well. His curiosity has already produced up to two pages here! That girl knows how to produce impact! | |
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| Boyfriend and girlfriend, and she gets up and leaves right after the sex is over!
Posted: 9/7/2009 9:00:00 AM |
Showering at his place saves on her water bill . Just kidding. I don't get that either, I got stuff in my shower I like to use. Would be pretty hard for me to compromise on that. Yeah, you have to keep your fingers crossed they have decent shampoo and a blow dryer I keep a toothbrush in my pocketbook, so no worries with that.
Honestly, if a dude was over back in the day, he could go home. I didn't live with anyone except my husband. They had their own beds to go home to and I had mine. I didn't play house. Unless we were going to get married, why did I need to sleep with them. I didn't notice them when I was asleep. I did when I got up and wanted to shower and get ready to go to work or whatever I had planed for the day. The sleeping part isn't what is important, it is the time when you are awake. | |
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| Boyfriend and girlfriend, and she gets up and leaves right after the sex is over!
Posted: 9/7/2009 11:33:12 AM | Not sure if this counts, but I dated a Mrs Clean.
I jumped into the bed at her place and there was a towel laid out on the bottom sheet in the prescribed location for Missionary. After a brief warm up she jumped on top (Cowgirl) and I was seen to rather well.
Within seconds and I am serious here, within seconds she said, "let's get in the shower."
Well that date turned out be two dates actually, the first date and the last date.  | |
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| Boyfriend and girlfriend, and she gets up and leaves right after the sex is over!
Posted: 9/7/2009 2:31:43 PM | Ah kuddlekitty, no the original post is about this: "Because this one threw me for a loop, do you know of anyone or do you yourself ever find yourself doing this?"
In other words the OP opened this up to pretty much anything and everything, it's basically a troll post asking who has done what. Don't take it to heart that people aren't taking the OP all too seriously, it's not like he wasn't asking for it. | |
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| Boyfriend and girlfriend, and she gets up and leaves right after the sex is over!
Posted: 9/7/2009 3:59:15 PM | IdoDares1
Thanks...LOL...but these forums are frustrating because many times the people who respond barely pay attention to the question and/or don't read other people's comments so it's all disjointed and off topic.
I respectfully disagree with you however; the title of the OP's thread states specifically about a scenario in which a girlfriend gets up and leaves a boyfriend after sex all the time.
People have laughed in his face thinking he's been used.
They've given him advice.
They've said what's the difference if a female does it...guys do it all the time.
Etc.
If you're going to take the time to respond, at least be on topic (I'm not referring to you Ido...).
This is a question about sex in a relationship...not the OP's relationship, not a one-night stand, not who does it more, girls or guys, not how many of you just have sex for sex sake and then go about doing your own thing...I think he was asking if people have just gotten out of bed after sex and left their boyfriend/girlfriend repeatedly...(not have you ever used anyone or had a one night stand and then just left) my take is he doesn't think it's cool and was wondering what others have done/felt about this. Shouldn't be so difficult to answer and I don't think the OP deserves all the snide comments he's gotten. Read a few, especially on the first page...
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| Boyfriend and girlfriend, and she gets up and leaves right after the sex is over!
Posted: 9/7/2009 4:25:32 PM | I think it is a dumb question. Especially since we don't know how the boyfriend felt about his girlfriend leaving after sex. Maybe he was estatic. I can't understand how people would NOT KNOW there is a list of valid reasons for either a girl or guy leaving after sex. I gave a few examples of why I would and have (and I wouldn't shower there either).
I LOVE my bed.
I sleep better in my own bed.
I have a dog that needs to go potty.
My place is cleaner.
I've got necessities at my place (I'd prefer not to lug around).
additionally
My babysitter had to get home.
I didn't want his parents (or child) to see me there (many years ago).
well the list can just go on and on and on
Personally, I'd be all to happy to have this type of arrangement right now. I want a monogamous relationship, but I don't really want anyone spending the night at this point in time. Sure doesn't mean I want to have ONS's either.....I know, thats just me and where I am right now. | |
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| Boyfriend and girlfriend, and she gets up and leaves right after the sex is over!
Posted: 9/7/2009 4:47:22 PM | ammazzed...
It's fine to have a different opinion. What I've said is that many of the replies were not related to his question. I written what I thought several times now. He is stating that IN A RELATIONSHIP this woman implied she ALWAYS did that.
He got answers saying, "she won't call you back." "now you know how a woman feels when a man leaves." "yeah, sometimes people use people."
WHAT DOES ANY OF THOSE RESPONSES HAVE TO DO WITH HIS OPENING STATEMENT!!!!
IN A "RELATIONSHIP" DO YOU DO THAT????
Yes? No? Why?
Simple question/answer. No right or wrong. But people, stop implying the OP's been used and as one poster said, she "can't believe" his age because he asked something like that! Something like WHAT!!!!!!!!
Man! | |
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| Boyfriend and girlfriend, and she gets up and leaves right after the sex is over!
Posted: 9/7/2009 4:56:55 PM | | Sometimes you just want to go home. Some folks like sleeping together, some don't. Leaving is a sign that the relationship is not that intimate, but not necessarily a sign of a lack of deep affection. Sometimes people have habits, such as smoking, or sleeping late, or even staying up real late that making sleeping together not fun. | |
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| Boyfriend and girlfriend, and she gets up and leaves right after the sex is over!
Posted: 9/8/2009 7:27:10 AM |
He got answers saying, "she won't call you back." "now you know how a woman feels when a man leaves." "yeah, sometimes people use people." So that is what their opinion is, they feel he is lying about who the question is about. Usually when someone say it is a friend it is them. No big deal...geez...grow up, this isn't bashing like some of the threads.
It isn't any big deal period.
And yeah, at his age wtf. | |
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| Boyfriend and girlfriend, and she gets up and leaves right after the sex is over!
Posted: 9/8/2009 7:37:07 AM | If she acts like a guy, you have to react like a girl: Don't put out. :-)
Epic.
Anywho, that would probably severely tick me off, as I am a cuddler :P Hell, i'm happy not having sex (okay, not ALL the time, I can be a horny **stard too :P) as long as we're cuddling!
ahmagawd i sound like a faggot. LOL well, iyam 'oo iyam, an' dat's all dat iyam!
ammazzed...
It's fine to have a different opinion. What I've said is that many of the replies were not related to his question. I written what I thought several times now. He is stating that IN A RELATIONSHIP this woman implied she ALWAYS did that.
He got answers saying, "she won't call you back." "now you know how a woman feels when a man leaves." "yeah, sometimes people use people."
WHAT DOES ANY OF THOSE RESPONSES HAVE TO DO WITH HIS OPENING STATEMENT!!!!
IN A "RELATIONSHIP" DO YOU DO THAT????
Yes? No? Why?
Simple question/answer. No right or wrong. But people, stop implying the OP's been used and as one poster said, she "can't believe" his age because he asked something like that! Something like WHAT!!!!!!!!
Man!
I rofl'd. Hard. I love how you're ranting about others being off-topic... so..... off-topicly! *snort**snicker* | |
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| Boyfriend and girlfriend, and she gets up and leaves right after the sex is over!
Posted: 9/8/2009 8:42:25 AM | Yo, I tink...
You're LYAO??? Now THAT'S funny, cause you're putting me in hysterics! If you think clarifying what an OP is saying is off topic...so that people can stay on topic...is funny, that's funny! Sad. But funny. It all comes down to comprehension...but that'd be difficult for you to understand. (Comprehension. Understand?) Get it? ROFLD! Oh, and someone who uses words like "faggot" in his anti-gay slur should be concentrating more on his small mind and big mouth.
To the other chick.
You say in your profile you don't want to get flamed on the forums, or start one. Then you antagonize me, and say that the OP shouldn't ask a question at "his age...wtf?" Yeah, wtf. Which is it, you don't want to get flamed, ...or you start one and then wonder how it happened. | |
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| Boyfriend and girlfriend, and she gets up and leaves right after the sex is over!
Posted: 9/8/2009 8:55:43 AM | TO answer the OP's QUESTIOn:
yes I knew of someone...who did this
He said to me..
" in order to keep my FWB type of life..I get up right after and leave..that way there is an understanding that I am not there to bond emotionally"
He also said he told the women that that is what he would be doing..
There is no wya we can JUDGE this as right or wrong..
it just is...for some..
and we may have experienced results of it..and thus feel a "wrong" at times
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| Boyfriend and girlfriend, and she gets up and leaves right after the sex is over!
Posted: 9/8/2009 11:46:38 AM | Soo... the strange part was showering after sex? Nothing wrong with that... and then after showering, they leave? Sleep-over required? I guess it depends on the seriousness of the relationship. If they wanted to keep their space, and it they were just dating exclusively (but not meshing lives, ie not serious relationship), then I wouldn't find that to be too odd.
I think it's probably an indicator that she wasn't pursuing something tooo serious with him. Some people like their own private space (lives)! | |
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| Boyfriend and girlfriend, and she gets up and leaves right after the sex is over!
Posted: 9/8/2009 1:38:56 PM | I've often left or kicked the guy out after sex. If he snores, there's no point in me even trying to sleep in the same bed. Same if he moves around alot or talks in his sleep.
If he's quiet and doesn't move much while asleep, I love having an all-night cuddle! The I can also have midnight romps, and early morning play! | |
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| Boyfriend and girlfriend, and she gets up and leaves right after the sex is over!
Posted: 10/28/2009 7:13:43 AM |
Why does she shower there? Heck, I used to go home and shower at my place, why shower at his? Showering at his place saves on her water bill . Just kidding. I don't get that either, I got stuff in my shower I like to use. Would be pretty hard for me to compromise on that.
Isn't that just basically called "clean up after sex"? Might have been easier than getting a spit bath at the sink?
OT ..
I like to have time with my mate when being intimate and also very much enjoy the cuddling afterward. So I know I'd never just get up and leave, but then I would not start an intimate session with my lover without knowing I have all the time in the world to be with him. Unless I got a call from one of my patients (emergency) ... I'd be right there next to him. | |
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| Boyfriend and girlfriend, and she gets up and leaves right after the sex is over!
Posted: 10/28/2009 8:21:30 AM | Long ago, in a faraway land, actually just about ten blocks from where I live now,
I was with a 10+ lady one night. I was young, horny and couldn't believe my luck. We were in her bed, warming up for the main event, her phone rang, and after a brief conversation which went, "nothing, I just have to take a shower", she returned her attention to me and politely asked me to leave. Took me a long time to ever tell anyone that story, now it's just a funny anecdote from many years ago.
Left a kind of bitter taste in my mouth, but, I was young, and life goes on.
I like to sleep with a lover, I like to wake up together. For me, it's part of intimacy, the connection, the whole package. Getting up and leaving just doesn't do it for me anymore. | |
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