| How do you let a guy know...
Posted: 10/14/2009 9:09:40 AM | it all just happens naturally... and I am certainly not one that sits around and waits to be led by the hand... its pretty understood its a mutual thing in the eyes...
however, Ive had women just come out and ask - some very pragmatic and direct, others playful and sweet... I guess they were impatient at my pace or didnt want to waste any time... | |
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| How do you let a guy know...
Posted: 10/15/2009 1:27:57 AM | I would think the average women are indeed waaaay into sex, she may not be horny 24 hours a day, however at certain times, they have an insaitable sexual appetite that would probibly scare most men (if they really knew how much she thought about or wanted sex)
-Thats the reason why battery operated boyfriends are a billion dollar industry!
However women are more into finding boundries, intentions, honesty and integrity before they are ready to get naked and naughty with someone they just meet.
-obviously the o/p bringing up this topic confirms this.
Most of the time someone gives telltail signs they really have interest in the other person with subliminal signals. -eye contact and hand/arm touching is a big factor, if they can't make eye contact, act introverted or pull back to light hand/arm touches, -probibly not your cup of tea, however don't mistake shyness for lack of interest.
The signals aren't hard to pick up, its usually quite easy to tell if a gal is dyin for a kiss -or she thinks your stinkin the place up like something dead in the trash...
A warm kiss definately is worth 1000 words, however just because they are great kissers doesn't mean it's an invitation to the bedroom.
give it time, rushing will put unnecessary strain on a new relationship, possibly damaging or turning a possible relationship into a one night stand...
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| How do you let a guy know...
Posted: 10/15/2009 3:28:31 PM | Just put down that you are into ren faires in your interests. That's code. All guys know that ren faire chicks are kinky little fvck-bunnies. BONG!!!
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| How do you let a guy know...
Posted: 10/15/2009 4:14:10 PM | | I initiate the sex talk if I can. I tell her I want to wait for a while and let her know she decides when she is ready but I don't want to wait up to a year to find out she hates sex and resents every time. I also like to find out what she likes as I like a woman that likes to be touched all over as well as kissed and if she hates it we are not going to be compatible so I don't want to waste a year of her time or mine to have her resent me for trying to talk her into being more open to what I like. If you can't have that conversation early on and be comfortable about it you are not the one for me. | |
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| How do you let a guy know...
Posted: 10/15/2009 5:10:24 PM | heres one, take it slow....
why does it have to be verbalized that you like sex?
just like saying i love you.....hold out as long as you can so that way when you do it, it means so much more. | |
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