Hes looking for sex not a relationship. If on the first date he cant be bothered to take you out if dosent bode well for the future.
The most worrying thing is the safety aspect I would never dream of having a man come to my home on a 1st date neither would I do to his.
Unfortunately some women have such low self esteem they readily accept this kind of behaviour as thinking its the best they're going to get making it more difficult for the rest of us :/
"Meeting a stranger from an internet dating site at your home is not only silly it is potentially dangerous"
But inviting a guy to go home with you after a drunk night at the bar is not dangerous at all right??
Both are no/no's in my opinion and if this is all a man has to offer it says a lot about him.