| Is it possible to be romantic without opening one's wallet?
Posted: 10/18/2009 9:21:41 AM | I knid to agree with guyd42. I think being wealthy is a big turn on for most women.
Well, if you are not goodlooking,not smart and poor ,trying to score on a beautiful and well to do, intelligent young woman, you won't land even a par...Yah know the saying ,Birds with the same feathers flock together....
So if I were you ,to save my face on complaining ,I will stick to my own kind like everbody else, here in this pond of fishes..  PS, I will not date a man who has no car, and just renting a room, and a man who drives a Maserati,or Lamborhini or BMW will not date me either................ | |
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| Is it possible to be romantic without opening one's wallet?
Posted: 10/18/2009 9:36:03 AM | | 100% absolutely possible. Find an anorexic woman majoring in Art at the university. Here you have an intelligent (enough to get into the University), creative (art majors usually are) individual that a.) doesn't require you to wine and dine her (thanks Anorexia!) and b.) Art galleries are free for the most part, and c.) they have the same body as super models. As far as I'm concerned, they're pretty much perfect. Love you, anorexic art girls! | |
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| Is it possible to be romantic without opening one's wallet?
Posted: 10/18/2009 5:01:42 PM | "romance" isn't buying a girl things.
it's measured by your actions. what you say to her, and how you treat her.
If the woman you're seeing complains that you don't buy her stuff like chocolates and jewelry all of the time, and says you've lost your "romance", she's not the type of girl I think that ANYONE would wanna be dating.
Me, I speak from the heart, and treat women with the respect they deserve. Some deserve more respect than others, and that's just how I will treat them when I am around them. | |
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| Is it possible to be romantic without opening one's wallet?
Posted: 10/19/2009 8:52:12 AM | i am speechless. will agree with the last 3 posters. do anyone remember the first date of michelle obama and barak? she tells how they went for ice cream and sat on the park bench , drove off in barak's old car with a hold in the floor. she was already a lawyer at the law firm where barak was just getting his feet wet and did not have to go on a date with him in that raggedy car! i know she had all kind of men trying to date her who had more money and higher caliber but she saw him in something SPEcial. i think this is what's missing in dates or relationships , people are looking at now and now looking at what tomorrow or the POTential of a man or woman.
pres. obama knows this and like any smart man know he has a good thing because she could have dumped him like the other women did because he didn't have a mercedes and $1500 italian suit , living in an exclusive area.
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| Is it possible to be romantic without opening one's wallet?
Posted: 10/19/2009 12:57:30 PM | I have actually written a book on inexpensive, romantic dates and I'm willing to share one at no charge.
Pick her up and head for Mickey Dees. She will not want to seem like a glutton and will only order a couple things off the dollar menu. Park in the rear of the lot and have a romantic diner. After diner and conversation, it is very easy to slip into the backseat and cap the evening off.
For a copy of my book send check or money order to:
Damn Cheap Dates
Box Lunch
Urcheap ASS. | |
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| Is it possible to be romantic without opening one's wallet?
Posted: 10/19/2009 7:22:10 PM | Let's just say that biology propels men to find women who are attractive (which spells "health" to a man) to increase the chances their offspring will be as well (because was that not man's main purpose, to spread his seed?)...and women are motivated to find a man who is a provider (for shelter, clothes, and food), to be sure her children do not suffer, and she can devote their early years to nurturing and raising and teaching her kids.
So, I think biology forces men to search out the most attractive/healthy mate, while women search out a man who can not only father her children, but provide for them as well.
I don't think it is too much to ask, that a woman look for a man with money...if she is someone that plans to get married and have a family, she wants to know that she won't be shivering and starving with her kids out on the street once he knocks her up.
Women look for men with money as "insurance"...no one wants to plan to have a kid only to find out that it's financially impossible to support it...so if she knows you have money when she meets you, she can trust you will be able to get a job/make money in the future to create and support a family.
UNLESS she is a real gold-digger and just never wants to work and just wants to live in the lap of luxury...which you will be able to tell right away if she never offers to split the bill or pick up the full tab or even just participate in dates that DON'T cost money. Or if she ever complains about gifts you get her, or why you don't "take her places"....those are all red flags. | |
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