| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 7/26/2008 8:45:09 AM | | I can usually find something to keep entertained or something that needs to be done. Lonesome? no but know that things would be improved if I had someone I could make smile, yeah. | |
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Ed1967
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Joined: 7/15/2008
Msg: 227 | |
| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 7/26/2008 10:50:44 AM | | I think what i miss most of all is great conversation and a warm body in bed at night as well of course | |
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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 7/26/2008 1:03:48 PM | | I get up when I want. Except on Wednsdays, when I get rudely awakened by the dustman. | |
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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 7/26/2008 3:33:13 PM |
a warm body in bed at night
Well I'm glad its not a cold one you're after!!! lol | |
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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 7/26/2008 5:47:07 PM | | Someone to talk to, share my day...even just knowing someone is there for me. Missing all those things makes being single so much harder!! | |
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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 7/26/2008 8:29:24 PM | | Solitude can be a good thing. I think back on the times when some woman would call me and invite me out to some party or tohang out with her friends. Those days are gone. Now, I get to spend my nights alone watching Discovery Channel and eating herb-roasted poultry. Who needs a relationship all of the time? I'll get married some day or I won't. For now, I'm enjoying my solitude. It's less expensive, less annoying, and requires less respnsibility. Yawn...I'm going to bed....alone. | |
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Hewee
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Joined: 4/29/2008
Msg: 232 | |
| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 8/30/2008 2:55:34 PM | | hey your not the only one dude... well actually not just tonight but all my life... ive been lonesome for 23 years now and i mean every night... it hurts but what can i do... just wank over some porn and get to sleep... cant help it... wish me luck lol | |
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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 8/31/2008 8:18:04 PM |
Well I'm glad its not a cold one you're after!!! lol
A cold one -  - ummmm
Oh- cuse me- you meant body.
Warm body. cold beer- sounds like the start of a good evening,
Ah the memories- how I miss those days  | |
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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 9/2/2008 6:50:34 PM | | I'm always doing something, if I'm not busy I'm either on the p.c. or reading or something. I dont get "lonely" per se, but tonight I bought some pizza because I thought my housemate was going to be here and they weren't, so it would have been really nice to have someone friendly to share it with. Often I think an experience would be better if I had someone there with me. | |
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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 9/3/2008 10:32:40 AM | Well tonight isn't here yet, and it's wed. not friday but no I am not lonesome!!! And I won't be tonight either. Alone, mmm maybe but not lonesome. I enjoy hanging out with my friends, or doing things at home in my quiet time. I'd love to be with someone but my happiness does not rely on it.
Hey isn't that a song or something?mmmmmmm
"Are you lonesome tonight.......?" | |
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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 9/3/2008 12:05:04 PM | Who are you? Elvis?
Why should tonight be any different to last night, the night before... how about are you lonesome full stop... Hell, yeah...
Sure, there are moments when I was married I wished for the single life... and there will be moments if I ever find someone to share some fun and happiness that these feelings return...
But... we all live in hope and in hope, we prove we're alive | |
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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 9/3/2008 2:58:23 PM |
What do you miss the most of not having someone in your life right now?
Only having to pay half the bills.  | |
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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 9/30/2008 8:17:44 AM | Yeah, I'm gonna come off like Dr. Phil, or is it Bill, what ever. Being alone, doesn't have to mean being lonely. Learning to be happy with yourself, a lost art. Trying to depend on others for happiness will kick your butt every time. Have you ever been among 300 people at a club, and still felt alone? I have. I was wishing so much that the one I lost would just walk through the door, come over and be with me. My heart was in so much pain. My happiness, I felt, depended on her. It took time, but I found out, it didn't. It was in me all along. I had to let her go, open my eyes, learn to smile again. Learn to be fine with who I am. Look around, do you see somebody that might need a kind word? Make it ,"Think about somebody other than yourself, day!" | |
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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 10/15/2008 10:38:22 PM | ["What do you miss the most of not having someone in your life right now? "]
I miss having someone to come home to at the end of the day that is excited to see me as I am to see him. I miss having someone that I can fall into their arms and know that they will catch me when I fall and hold me in my vulnerability. I miss someone who will wipe away my tears when I cry, who will laugh with me when I do something dorky (which I often do). I also miss somone to snuggle into at night, feeling the presence of their body next to mine knowing that they are the good part of my life that helps me to feel!
My friends are great but they can't meet these things that I miss about sharing my life with someone...Someday though...I will find the partner that is strong enough to be with me! I still have HOPE!  | |
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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 10/17/2008 12:38:42 AM | [Home alone on yet another Friday night? What do you miss the most of not having someone in your life right now?]
I miss holding hands with a guy and cuddlying underneath a homemade quilt and watching DVDs. I love to walk in the park and have a picnic packed for us halfway on our trail. I love it when a guy just wants to grab my hand for no reason and places into his and holds it like that for a long time. I love to cook and I miss not making Friday or Saturday night dishes with anyone....its just me. I guess I could go to the local bar and hang out there, but since I'm allergic to ciggy smoke and I don't drink that often, its kinda a waste. I just didn't think it was going to be this hard to find someone after I turned 31. That was the whole reason for me signing up on this site. My close friend Sherry was disscusing this web site where her friend found date and such. So, I went into this not knowing what anything about the whole INTERNET DATING world. I keep my guard up most of the time, but every once in a while, someone amazes me with just one line........ I just want to find MY Prince Charming.........
Thank you all for taking the time to listen. Julie  | |
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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 10/17/2008 7:12:34 AM | Yeah, I'm gonna come off like Dr. Phil, or is it Bill, what ever. Being alone, doesn't have to mean being lonely. Learning to be happy with yourself, a lost art. Trying to depend on others for happiness will kick your butt every time. Have you ever been among 300 people at a club, and still felt alone? ....... Look around, do you see somebody that might need a kind word? Make it ,"Think about somebody other than yourself, day!"
I understand that we are in control of our own lives but to learn to be happy is easier said then done. After 4 years alone, I'm still right where I was the first day I became single.. still feeling the same need to be loved. I'm constantly overwhelmed with doing it all, living alone raising kids yet with each passing day I am more independent and self reliant , it becomes harder to allow anyone close to me
however.. to think about somebody else.... is a good idea! The best way to take my mind off of me is to think of someone else | |
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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 10/17/2008 12:16:38 PM | Laugh..
I’ve been there...
my heart so distraught
tied to the feeling
that your dream had become
opening myself, on the inside
objectively, twas only fleeting
though your lash was extreme
i was happy to take it
looking up i can laugh at the sky again
im not even sure why..im so close...
to discovering the reason
im trapped on the inside..hope still floats
fighting now to stay in touch
a battle fought for eons
tied to the feeling
that your dream had become
looking down i found my path
her arms were awaiting me...outstretched
always enveloping me... so dark had i strayed
perception distorted, I had lost my way
[Have you ever been among 300 people at a club, and still felt alone? ....... Look around, do you see somebody that might need a kind word? Make it]
Haven't we all...??? it get's easier for sure but time will and does heal all wounds .... | |
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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 10/17/2008 12:31:42 PM | t get's easier for sure but time will and does heal all wounds ....
^^ personally i think that is untrue
mine are as fresh as always but with time it just becomes easier to ignore, that's all | |
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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 10/17/2008 2:14:01 PM | | How about a quick smile; a giggle; a devilish laugh; an unexpected hug from behind; a compliment from nowhere; a satisfying conversation; a caress while on the couch...sigh...I could go on... | |
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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 10/17/2008 4:21:11 PM | | what are one of the things I miss............comfortable silence.......just enjoying being next to each other without the need to speak | |
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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 10/17/2008 4:43:21 PM | First I'm very pleased not going anywere tonight.
No hair to do, no war paint to put on my face and no decisions of what to wear.
I am content petting my dog, posting here and there on the forums, talking to friends around the world on IM and working on my writing.
If I had a man of some sort and I were to miss something, I'd say just cuddling watching a movie that maybe we wouldn't see to much of or not see the end of.  | |
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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 10/18/2008 6:53:55 PM | | What do I miss the most? Someone to put my cold feet against at night. Someone to cook for. Someone to do the dishes AFTER I cook. Someone who "has my back." Someone to hang out with when I am putzing around the house in my jammies on a chilly weekend, and don't really feel like getting out and about. Someone to want to freshen up for on my way home from work.....yeah, the list goes on and on.......am I lonely tonight? Not particularly. I just kinda would enjoy most stuff that extra bit more if I had someone special to share it with. | |
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