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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 10/18/2008 9:47:47 PM | I'd rather be alone than have someone sittin beside you that you can't stand being around and when there are hardships he clams up and doesn't talk to you. I'm in a relationship like that. Met a man on POF and thought I really lucked out - bzzzzzzz NOPE - I's wrong. Now I sit in another part of the house when all the kids are in bed so I don't have to see him. We are together now outta convenience for me. I have to start all over FROM SCRATCH and that takes some bucks.
Yup, would rather be alone - than lonely!!
Cheers All
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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 10/24/2008 8:18:26 PM | I'm home alone on this Friday night. I did go out to see a movie with my sister, but here I am checkin' to see who else is online. Kind of wondering if there are any average guys lonely tonight too. Well off to browse the men.......  | |
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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 10/26/2008 7:46:07 PM | | Not haveing adlut coversation, and haveing someone to cuddle with..........yeah I know what your thinking..." you ****"! but thats how it is. | |
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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 10/26/2008 8:53:59 PM | I just drove across most of AridZona, and New Mexico.
It would have been nice to have a hand to hold during some of that run today. | |
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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 10/27/2008 7:34:04 PM | There are sooo many of us out there yearning for the connection. The human condition is a constant battle against lonliness and boredom. steeling for a really bad partner so as to avoid lonliness is never good, but it seems like the only thing that will work at the time. Someone. Anyone. Senior citizens biggest problem is lonliness. They have usuallt lost the partner of 40 or 50 years.
You are niot alone in your lonliness. Don't ya wish we could all just drop the crap we carry and hook up with someone nice? | |
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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 10/27/2008 10:37:22 PM |
Ok, how the hell do you use the quote feature? What do I miss? Holding each other, just THAT. | |
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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 10/27/2008 10:41:52 PM | Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 10/18/2008 10 47 PM
I'd rather be alone than have someone sittin beside you that you can't stand being around and when there are hardships he clams up and doesn't talk to you. I'm in a relationship like that. Met a man on POF and thought I really lucked out - bzzzzzzz NOPE - I's wrong. Now I sit in another part of the house when all the kids are in bed so I don't have to see him. We are together now outta convenience for me. I have to start all over FROM SCRATCH and that takes some bucks.
Yup, would rather be alone - than lonely!!
Cheers All
Boy can I relate! THIS is exactly how I felt the last few yrs of my marriage. I'd rather be alone and lonely than live a lie. I feel your pain and wish you all the best. | |
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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 10/28/2008 6:26:59 PM | | cuddling......someone waiting for you when you come home at night to give you a big hug | |
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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 10/29/2008 3:01:07 PM | | for me i guess the most lonesome time i find is when i settle in bed and wiggle a little to find that comfy spot and start to fall asleep and just befor you take that last deep breath that takes u into slumber u realize the heartbeat u hear and feel is your own and you are completly alone | |
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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 10/29/2008 4:01:50 PM | yes... I tragically lost my wife of 13+ years. been with her over 18 years!
hardest thing i will ever go through...
i miss everything! we take soooooo much for granted. you never realize it until it is to late. i miss having someone to watch tv with. i miss being fussed at! i miss getting kicked in the middle of the night. miss giving foot rubs. i miss my kids having a mother. i mean, i could go on and on here.
guys, if you have a wife you love, get your act together! you really don't know what you've got till its gone! | |
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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 1/11/2009 2:32:26 PM | Are you lonesome tonight
do you miss me tonight
Are you sorry we drifted apart
Does your memory stray to a bright sunny day
When I kissed you and called you sweetheart
Do the chairs in your parlor seem empty and bare
Do you gaze at your doorstep and picture me there
Is your heart filled with pain, shall I come back again
Tell me dear, are you lonesome tonight? | |
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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 1/11/2009 5:57:54 PM | | I'm not lonesome tonight since I'm glued to my TV watching 24... but what I miss most about having someone in my life is just the intimate moments. Even just being held in someone's arms. Sigh. | |
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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 1/11/2009 7:32:02 PM | loneliness hits at odd times. seeing to people embrace with the world around them. hearing that song. in bed feeling that warmth. xmas, bdays etc. movie night, future plans. almost anything is better with the right person. However, as a once married individual, having the bed to my self at night, is great. Planning without having to consider others can have its up side too. when i am in a good brain moment, i think "yes i miss that loving feeling" but is it really attainable, no matter how good looking they have been or how rich, it just has to be right. so lonesome tonight is going to have to be for now, but i look, act and yes hope.
be well | |
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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 1/11/2009 7:33:35 PM | | being with anyone out of convenience is wasting your time. yes it gets lonely, but at least that negative stuff is gone. best of luck | |
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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 1/18/2009 8:26:30 PM | I just miss having someone outside of my immediate family to do stuff with. As much as I enjoy my mom's and brother's company (they live with me), occasionally, I do like to hang with someone of the opposite gender for activities, dating, etc. I can handle being single, but it gets boring sometimes, not just lonely.
I start to miss the little things about men. Their smell, their facial hair, their shoulders, the way they laugh at a joke, etc. *sigh* Ok, maybe I'm lonelier tonight then I thought.  | |
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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 1/22/2009 5:22:22 AM | ~OT~ I never thought I'd be one who misses everything, but I suppose we can surprise even our own selves sometimes. I haven't been afraid of the dark in years ~ I seem to be now. Sort of funny how we forget some things until the lonelies sink in, or life changes suddenly. Sigh.  | |
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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 1/23/2009 1:28:33 AM | i am not lonesome because i am alone..... i am lonesome for a relationship that breathes fire and magic and yet safe and comfortable as well... i am lonesome for the kind of relationship we thought we had and the kind we want to experience again
i have a great family and friends who i do not long for because they are here for me... so i admit to being lonesome for that special woman.... i not depressed or manic about my future... i am actually hopeful and excited cause i feel someone special will come into my life
proverbs-- it is better to be alone at the corner of your housetop, than to be with a contentious woman.... a contentious woman is like a continual dripping of rain
contentious meaning... a perverse and wearisome tendancy to quarrels and disputes
the worst feeling in the world is being with someone and realizing you are lonesome,lonely and alone....been there a few trying times
until then i will remain happily lonesome lonely and alone ....ridin around with my 550lb girlfriend | |
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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 1/23/2009 7:13:16 AM | | I was more lonely in my last so called relationship than I am alone, as have lots of friends its when I got so unhappy that I didn't want to make the effort to see them and get out. Heres my suggestion take up a hobby, think of something anything that you like doing, dancing drawing or anything even if you think you'll be rubbish that you'd like to have a go at. Occasionally my friends are all occupied and I can't be bothered to drag myself out and I wont say I don't miss being in a stable relationship cause its wonderful but I thin k you'd be surprised at how many things you can do without one and still be very happy. Each day is a gift. I tend to try and live in the now its the best way to be. Maybe find a friend from here that you can have a drink with after work or something. I have met a few guys from here that are truly dear friends :) I do know how you feel | |
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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 1/25/2009 5:16:30 AM | | I do yearn for a wonderful man in my life, but lonely...NO! I would love to feel someones hands on my skin who really, really loves and cares for me as I do them...the smell of his skin, chilling together... yes, that would be nice. Spent Friday night with the best girlfriends ever and Sat night snuggled in bed watching Wall-e with my sons. Life is good. Bless the soldier who posted earlier and the man who lost his wife...may the road rise to meet them. | |
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