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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 7/14/2008 1:03:01 AM | Sometimes the key to loneliness is to embrace it, as hard as that sounds. I know it seems foolish, that in this day and age people find it hard to connect with others. We put too many demands on relationships it seems. I used to get pretty down about being alone until I realized that no matter what, I will always be alone, even if I did have a wife, girl-friend, or partner there is no guarantee that she will stay with me until the end of my days, regardless of how I treat her. Sometimes you have to make loneliness the solution, or else it can engulf you. I try to meditate allot. Sometimes calling trusted friends helps but I am going to sleep now. I can be lonely in my dreams, or maybe I won't... We'll see... | |
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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 7/14/2008 4:26:57 AM |
i miss real people, real tv, rush hour traffic, happy hours, crowded malls, the long ass line at the bank, the horrible waitress, the late mailman.... i spend my nights in my room cleaning my weapon, wondering what shit i'm gonna be in the next day, hoping my humvee dont break down, and wake up to smell of a burning city, sometimes the sound of mortars, hearing the haji's playing they're prayer music over the city, and then i get ready for anything. am i lonesome? yeah. and what do i miss? i miss my country and everone who's in it..
KODIAK
WOW got to say thanks for everything...i usualy come into the forums to be a jerk
then i seen ur post...i thank you for ur dedication to our freedom..ALL OF CANADA THANKS ALL OF THE SOLDIERS OVER SEAS.....dam how i wish i was one...would love some of the shit u go threw to maybe str8n me out a bit ...... GUNS KNIVES AND KILLINGS been threw allot ...freinds and myself but it was just the street life...what wyld ride tho
PEACE ALL | |
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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 7/19/2008 12:27:47 PM | I've been single like 99.999% of my life. Had one "relationship" where we saw each other 1 or 2 times per week for about 9 months. So I really don't miss much, since I have no idea what I'm missing. But I guess my past relationship inexperience's screams red flags to all the ladies. So I'm sure I wont get much of a fair shot. They would rather meet guys that have 1 or 2 divorces. At least that proves those guys can commit...lol Pathetic. | |
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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 7/19/2008 1:49:09 PM | yep and it sux and its not because i dont have offers, not because i cant go out , not because of lots of reasons, it is because of ME.
I hate holding myself back at times.
Really.
Sux big time. Its the only time i CAN go out and i miss my kids big time and then i have to get myself ready, get myself all psyched up to GO out....i dont know really what the prob is...it isnt the lack of not having a date its the lack of motivation on my part at times. and self confidence maybe? or maybe not? Cause sometimes when i get there im expectin this big tall 6 ft 4 guy and there is no way in heck this guy is that tall. lol....just tell the truth man
its no sweat to me
or once here this guy in this porche gets out....kewl, ok?? but here he is...BALD and at least 45o pounds ok? wow please tell the truth. i would have still met ya. honest...because i actually went back again, but ..just tell me the truth | |
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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 7/20/2008 8:31:52 PM | Not t0tally lonesome. I got my  and human voices on the TV to keep me company. | |
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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 7/22/2008 9:55:34 AM | | i do have a few people in my life but i dont mind being alone.most people always have to have someone there because they cant stand themselvevs to be alone with. | |
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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 7/24/2008 7:13:30 AM | yeah.. I hate being alone. Im such a socialble person, I love having someone to talk to, giggle with jsut someone to be with. It gets to the point of... yeah.. whats wrong with me.. why cant I have someone.
and i totally disagree with mr serious.. keep yer money end up in jail? dude yer with the WRONG people. | |
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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 7/25/2008 1:13:13 PM | Tonight my son who lives with me is out, my son who lives with his Dad wont even answer an email, the date I thought I might've been on I'm not.
Though there is someone I like as a mate that hints that he'd like me to, I dont want to make a booty call. Its not mindless sex I'm lonely for.
I do miss real intimacy like I had in the only serious relationship I've had since my family split though. I miss the tingle of being in the presence of someone I love and who loves me back. I miss the smell and the touch and the sound of breath and how it felt on my skin. I miss the conversations where you are almost speaking out of the other person's mouth because you both know what the other person is trying to say and you talk about everything and nothing. I miss feeling like shit then having someone just stop to notice and smile a smile that says everything and it being enough to make everything ok....
There is so much I miss. But hey, I dont have to share my popcorn and can sit square in the middle of the couch whilst I watch my DVD tonight. Small mercies and silver linings! lol | |
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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 7/25/2008 7:22:50 PM | | someone to talk to laugh with, someone to just be close to the loneliness is just a litle old looking around and seeing that there is no one next to you. If you set and watch movie who can you share a great seen with or to talk to them afterwards about what the movie was about. The moment just passes by without any thing to show for it. | |
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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 7/26/2008 8:45:09 AM | | I can usually find something to keep entertained or something that needs to be done. Lonesome? no but know that things would be improved if I had someone I could make smile, yeah. | |
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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 7/26/2008 10:50:44 AM | | I think what i miss most of all is great conversation and a warm body in bed at night as well of course | |
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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 7/26/2008 1:03:48 PM | | I get up when I want. Except on Wednsdays, when I get rudely awakened by the dustman. | |
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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 7/26/2008 3:33:13 PM |
a warm body in bed at night
Well I'm glad its not a cold one you're after!!! lol | |
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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 7/26/2008 5:47:07 PM | | Someone to talk to, share my day...even just knowing someone is there for me. Missing all those things makes being single so much harder!! | |
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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 7/26/2008 8:29:24 PM | | Solitude can be a good thing. I think back on the times when some woman would call me and invite me out to some party or tohang out with her friends. Those days are gone. Now, I get to spend my nights alone watching Discovery Channel and eating herb-roasted poultry. Who needs a relationship all of the time? I'll get married some day or I won't. For now, I'm enjoying my solitude. It's less expensive, less annoying, and requires less respnsibility. Yawn...I'm going to bed....alone. | |
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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 8/30/2008 2:55:34 PM | | hey your not the only one dude... well actually not just tonight but all my life... ive been lonesome for 23 years now and i mean every night... it hurts but what can i do... just wank over some porn and get to sleep... cant help it... wish me luck lol | |
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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 8/31/2008 8:18:04 PM |
Well I'm glad its not a cold one you're after!!! lol
A cold one -  - ummmm
Oh- cuse me- you meant body.
Warm body. cold beer- sounds like the start of a good evening,
Ah the memories- how I miss those days  | |
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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 9/2/2008 6:50:34 PM | | I'm always doing something, if I'm not busy I'm either on the p.c. or reading or something. I dont get "lonely" per se, but tonight I bought some pizza because I thought my housemate was going to be here and they weren't, so it would have been really nice to have someone friendly to share it with. Often I think an experience would be better if I had someone there with me. | |
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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 9/3/2008 10:32:40 AM | Well tonight isn't here yet, and it's wed. not friday but no I am not lonesome!!! And I won't be tonight either. Alone, mmm maybe but not lonesome. I enjoy hanging out with my friends, or doing things at home in my quiet time. I'd love to be with someone but my happiness does not rely on it.
Hey isn't that a song or something?mmmmmmm
"Are you lonesome tonight.......?" | |
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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 9/3/2008 12:05:04 PM | Who are you? Elvis?
Why should tonight be any different to last night, the night before... how about are you lonesome full stop... Hell, yeah...
Sure, there are moments when I was married I wished for the single life... and there will be moments if I ever find someone to share some fun and happiness that these feelings return...
But... we all live in hope and in hope, we prove we're alive | |
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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 9/3/2008 2:58:23 PM |
What do you miss the most of not having someone in your life right now?
Only having to pay half the bills.  | |
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| Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 9/30/2008 8:17:44 AM | Yeah, I'm gonna come off like Dr. Phil, or is it Bill, what ever. Being alone, doesn't have to mean being lonely. Learning to be happy with yourself, a lost art. Trying to depend on others for happiness will kick your butt every time. Have you ever been among 300 people at a club, and still felt alone? I have. I was wishing so much that the one I lost would just walk through the door, come over and be with me. My heart was in so much pain. My happiness, I felt, depended on her. It took time, but I found out, it didn't. It was in me all along. I had to let her go, open my eyes, learn to smile again. Learn to be fine with who I am. Look around, do you see somebody that might need a kind word? Make it ,"Think about somebody other than yourself, day!" | |
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