| My ex fiance contact me again, why???
Posted: 9/21/2009 8:32:08 PM | "because you were
probably such a STAND UP guy with her she can come back,"
No...he was the "nice" guy. a.k.a. Door mat!
"She has regrets- oh well. When she had you she did not appreciate
the goodness OF you- your worth and your value."
Yah..she jumped all over the dirtbag! So what does this teach us about being a gentleman?
"Dont look back - always look forward. "
Only smart statement in the whole response!
If you take her back...get it in writing with a warrantee! | |
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| My ex fiance contact me again, why???
Posted: 9/22/2009 4:53:11 AM |
Women always keep backups
Guyd42, you have to be one of the most bitter men I see on here. Good God, no wonder you have had 17 relationships in as many years. - So what in the world are you doing on here in the first place?
The statement that woman always keep back ups totally bogus. - yes, some do, but not all of us. - I could probably say the same thing about men as well. Can't tell you how many times a guy will break it off with his current g/f , leaves for someone he perceives as better, the new relationship tanks, and then he tries to come crawling back.
- Hell it happened to me. - Only I had the sense to tell my ex that he had made his bed.....now he could lie in it without me. So yeah, I told him in not so many words to f*ck off. | |
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| My ex fiance contact me again, why???
Posted: 9/23/2009 8:40:37 AM | Just food for thought,
For one thing It's never a good idea to keep in contact with your ex. What I would suggest it would be best to disconnect the communication process with her. From what that sounds like to me you are her "back-up" guy. As soon as she persues another guy that attracts her attention, she'll drop you like a hot potato and never to be heard from thereafter. Utilize your means of communication and your time that is well worth your company. Don't put your feelings in jeopardy for that individual, they're some decent women out there. Be patiant and one will come your way. Just hang tight, wait, and keep looking. trust me you'l start seeing results. you deserve better than that.
I wish you the best. | |
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| My ex fiance contact me again, why???
Posted: 9/23/2009 12:02:13 PM | There are so many reasons why she may have contacted you.
If you hear from her again, just ask her.
She could want you as a back-up, friend, maybe she felt she needed to apologize for her past behavior in person.
Either way, don't bring her back in your life.
Move on.
Best of luck. | |
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| My ex fiance contact me again, why???
Posted: 9/23/2009 1:42:35 PM | Ya I think it's her guilt. My ex contacted me 14 years later to lay it all out on the table. So far every girl I've loved has tried to come back and I was busy with someone else. My Fiance just left me this past May. She moved out and got a new guy now. Soon as she did she became very nasty wo me and wanted me to stay away.
I feel it in my gut that someday she's gonna contact me too. I am sick of being right, for nothing.
Mike | |
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| My ex fiance contact me again, why???
Posted: 9/29/2009 9:38:45 PM | My ex-wife contacted me after THIRTY YEARS. Hadn't seen each other the whole time. Gave me the whole "I missed you so much, you were the only man I ever really loved, we need to spend the rest of out lives together. Got me going real good for two weeks then "this just won't work, bye."
I think they like to twist the knife, prove that they still have a hold over you and that you're still a fool. | |
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| My ex fiance contact me again, why???
Posted: 10/2/2009 8:29:29 AM | wow i must say you have alot of paticants to exept her back i dont mean to be rude but giveing alot of strikes just would incurage here to leave you again but my addvice to you is if you really like her that much stay in contact afew times a day and if its once in awhile thers someing wrong with that picture so watch your step   | |
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| My ex fiance contact me again, why???
Posted: 10/16/2009 8:09:49 PM | an update
my ex sent me an email today
she wans to know if i canceled my facebook or deleted her
what should i tell her???? | |
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| My ex fiance contact me again, why???
Posted: 10/17/2009 4:42:54 AM |
my ex sent me an email today.......she wans to know if i canceled my facebook or deleted her.........what should i tell her????
Not a damn thing! What the hell does she care??? She is no longer a part of your life and doesn't need to know what you are up to and who you are talking to, etc.
Just ignore it - better yet, block her emails, phone calls, texts, etc. don't answer any of her correspondence what so ever and in time, she'll get the picture and leave you alone.
My ex-wife contacted me after THIRTY YEARS. Hadn't seen each other the whole time. Gave me the whole "I missed you so much, you were the only man I ever really loved, we need to spend the rest of out lives together. Got me going real good for two weeks then "this just won't work, bye."
Good God! (see message 33) what nerve! It was bad enough my ex tried it a little over a year after he left!
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| My ex fiance contact me again, why???
Posted: 10/18/2009 8:18:47 PM | She contacted you because she is lonely and wanted some company.
Don't get the idea of getting back with her. She would just use you for companionship and then find someone else. And it ended before for a reason.
You were someone to spend some time with when she is feeling needy.
Nothing more. | |
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| My ex fiance contact me again, why???
Posted: 10/19/2009 3:36:39 AM | Sometimes We have relationships where by we cannot be permanent partners (due to the blantant obvious which broke the relationship up to bgin with)HOWEVER, we did manage to shape, assist, form or brighten anothers or their lives as people who genuinely cared at the time..
I too personally attest to leaving people alone after a break up....but in one paticular case after 18 months I wanted to say thank you for I was grateful and he truly deserved to hear the good he had done, regardless of blow up. Most certainly don't want another kick at the cat
Bascially what I am trying to say is don't read too much into it....sometimes people just want to know your ok and say thanks for being my friend once upon a time, thanks for the kindnesses showed.Maybe they are human eneough to want you to feel good about the good you shared...perhaps they should be congradulated for their courage and caring enough to find you of value even though its dead as dead can be.
Just keep it in percpective and enjoy the nice interaction without pyscho analysis ing every action or word. | |
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