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Joined: 7/31/2009
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| A (different) woman's views on sex/Sorry it's so long, but worth it, sooo worth it!
Posted: 9/18/2009 10:42:03 AM |
I really don't get what your big epiphany was? Maybe i'm missing something?
People like orgasms apparently.
That being said, I can't imagine a blow job that would be good enough to make me not care if she is a terrible person and a cheater. A blow job is a blow job, and awesome; but it doesn't make me love the person giving it unconditionally. | |
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| A (different) woman's views on sex/Sorry it's so long, but worth it, sooo worth it!
Posted: 10/5/2009 8:32:06 PM | I disagree with almost every response you've had so far.
This sounds to me as though what you discovered in yourself, was a deep seated conviction that men are more free and powerful sexually, BECAUSE WE DON'T GET PREGNANT.
The fact that you excitedly think that if you were a man, that you'd put the rails to everything in sight is a strong indication that you have a powerful desire to achieve sexual freedom, but doesn't necessarily mean you want to be a man. You just want to be free.
I would advise you not to be too hasty to conclude that you are lesbian, or that a sex change operation is in order. Either might be true, but the revelation you've experienced isn't enough by itself to indicate it.
This is only a beginning discovery about yourself, and you need to delve further into your inner beliefs and feelings about sex to get a complete understanding of where you are, and where you want to be in the sexual world. I'd recommend that since you have this powerful fear of pregnancy, that you see a doctor about how to reliably prevent it, in order to free yourself of that anxiety while you explore how to recognize and develop your sense of sexual self fully and ACCURATELY.
Good self-discovery hunting! | |
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| A (different) woman's views on sex/Sorry it's so long, but worth it, sooo worth it!
Posted: 10/5/2009 9:05:13 PM | | You seek an open an honest man. It's hard to find your soulmate, but they do exist... I never EVER wanted to get married and at 31, I am dying to put a ring on my gf. She has a great attitude, we communicate sooooooooo well, sex is crazy good- if we want something, we tell eachother. Giving BJ's shouldnt feel bad to you- do whoever you want. I am a stickler for traffic rules also, I always use my blinker ... | |
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| A (different) woman's views on sex/Sorry it's so long, but worth it, sooo worth it!
Posted: 10/6/2009 10:12:50 AM | Re : " Well, as I understand it, she's trying to see sex from a guy's point of view. She's fascinated by the male orgasm. I think it's natural. I mean we all wonder what it feels like for the other sex. "
I do think it's somewhat normal to wonder what it's like for the oposite sex ?
Hell I've often wondered this Myself & Even wished I Could change
into a woman For one day just to see what it's like 4 Her ? LoL
Also on the subject of porn ,,, Me personaly I Prefer Amateurs no fakes &
over Done Moaning & Screaming ? LoL just Real Sex & Real Orgasms ; )~
& I Prefer To Make Long Passionate Love & Not Just Sex ,,, Yeah a Hot & Heavy
**** Fest is nice sometimes But ,,, I Like to Build it up slow & steady ,,, Give Her
lots of Pleasure & Watch Her reactions & Feel Her Passion & Love ,,, Feel a real
connection W Her ,,, Kiss her - Love Her & Meen it ,,, Is Really nice
to Have a partner That's Totally Into ya & You Them ,,,, Have Had Gf's want Me to
pound them Silly & been there done that ; )~ But mostly prefer Love & Sex , Passion
Affection Etc. combined ,,, Is that too Much to Ask ??? | |
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| A (different) woman's views on sex/Sorry it's so long, but worth it, sooo worth it!
Posted: 10/6/2009 12:14:12 PM |
My point is that men and women view sex differently, and if we could try to see it from the other person's point of view, how much better would that be?
I have to agree somewhat with the previous post. Its pretty obvious what the point is. I can't say the delivery was coherent and free from ambiguity however.
Myself as a man, in the bedroom I can't say I would like to ram my thing down my lovers throat. But I am intrigued that a woman would understand why such a thing could be arousing to the male mind. So much so that it is routinely filmed in a porno.
As for seeing things from the other person's point of view. I think no sex manual or sex coach or tantric sex book can top that advice. Its really just the golden rule in the context of sex.
Do unto others as you'd have them do unto you. And if you're a man just imagine your a woman and what you'd love to be done to you and do that to her........I'm not sure if that would work in reality though. Women seem to be extremely fickle creatures; impervious to logic when it comes to love and sex...keeps us guys on our toes  | |
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| A (different) woman's views on sex/Sorry it's so long, but worth it, sooo worth it!
Posted: 10/6/2009 2:27:47 PM |
My point is that men and women view sex differently, and if we could try to see it from the other person's point of view, how much better would that be?
Your just now figuring this out??!!
Hell, just read the "How do I deep throat" thread.....lots of women trying damn hard to give men what they think they desire!
This is why communication is very important! No need to guess or wonder, when you can just ask what makes someone tick! | |
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