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| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 1/20/2008 2:38:30 PM | | Without a second thought,did and married her it was a beatiful seven yr. relationship we were close to the same age,and she was a very open and honest person,unbrideled passion a very well adjusted and happy lady,just wanted to be loved for who she was and when it was over it was over,no drama,no regrets,only left with a cherised memory. | |
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| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 1/21/2008 7:30:59 PM | I did and would never do it again..
She always stunk..Her clothes,hair, hands, everything..
I don't know what kind of chemicals they use when restoring antique furniture, but the stuff should be outlawed..They should just sand the old varnish off. | |
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DonQ
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Joined: 1/10/2008
Msg: 654 | |
| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 1/23/2008 7:12:25 AM | Yes I would. I would have no problem with that. It would be kind of a turn on to think I was the one dating/sleeping with her while so many guys were just dreaming of it.
Of course I really don't think there are too many strippers my age so it'll just have to be another harmless fantasy...
Getting older can really suck sometimes. | |
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MNM08
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Joined: 1/14/2008
Msg: 655 | |
| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 1/23/2008 7:29:47 AM | If you met them in their workplace, no, since they would not give you the time of day unless you were spending big bucks in the establishment and all they want is more money to spend on them. They could care less about you, just your pocketbook.
Now if you met them somewhere else and never asked you to come into their work to see them, then a possibility. They might actually respect you and just do not want you for cash.
Or if you are just looking for a one nighter and goodbye forever, then enjoy! | |
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| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 1/23/2008 12:29:27 PM | when I first got out of the army, I also worked as a bouncer at a strip club, dated a few. you're right about one thing there is a lot of drugs and other things being done. I also went to college for a few years and guess what? I saw as much drugs and other things being done by are future leaders. I do know a least 2 that did pay for their education by working as a stripper, and damn there both doing very well now. so I guess it's all right to judge one but the other is just fine? Or could it be that just saying I did't inhale make every this just fine? We really need to take a long look at our selves before we pass judgement. what other occupation can we pick on? | |
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Kell31
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Joined: 5/16/2007
Msg: 657 | |
| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 3/7/2008 3:03:55 PM | | I have in the past and it was a fine relationship. I believe that open minded people should be supported in any of their endeavors. But what ended the relationship was the entrance of drugs. She needed the drugs to perform but instead of leaving the buisness she decided just to up the drugs. Because how else could she make that much money. It was sad. To see a good friend and love fall by the wayside. So Would i do it again. Yes. It was well worth the love i received and gave | |
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| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 3/7/2008 3:48:41 PM | | i never date a stripper and if a stripper took interest they have to change professions for any chance of dating happening so i know they wouldn't be hanging around the place again.. | |
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| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 3/7/2008 5:15:06 PM | | I have a long time ago when i was a bouncer. I wouldn't now. I have seen to much of what goes on behind closed doors. To much of what a lot of people really don't know is going on. I will leave it at that. | |
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| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 3/9/2008 11:16:16 AM | | What has killed me is a that a man I know thinks higher of a woman he never met that is a stripper and took a barfly on a date I was to go on. Yes, he stood me up because he took a barfly that he said he would never sleep with. I try so hard to be nice and yeah, I know he just wasn't into me, but man that crap hurts. I guess men seem to still dig the fantasy of a bad girl versus a good girl. | |
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| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 3/9/2008 2:19:46 PM | Not a chance.
Not when there are women with higher standards of themselves that I can be with. Usually much more attractive to boot. | |
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| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 3/9/2008 10:20:10 PM | | Only if it was a skinny, pasty, geek-boy stripper....I don't like those square-jawed muscley types. I figure the geek-stripper guy wouldn't have the huge ego and promiscuity problems either. But I don't have any morality issues with the stripping itself. (and probably with male stripping it is more often just a comedy show than an indication of psychological trauma as a result of a history of sexual abuse). I guess it also depends on how far it went. (I don't want to think about crazy drunk stagette women licking whipped cream off his privates every night). And only if he was a part-time stripper, moonlighting from his physicist gig or something like that... Now that would be hot. | |
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| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 3/9/2008 10:30:55 PM | I must say this has been some interesting reading. in my mid twenties I used to be an exotic male dancer 5yrs. This was a second job,, a hell of lot fun. But contrary to some beliefs.. Not all dances male or female, used drugs, got paid for sex, even one night stands didn't happen. Temptation did exist though. While I danced, I was with the same woman 18 yrs, until she passed away 7 yrs ago. There were men/woman/who were putting their way though school, single moms, trying to make ends meet. As for me $300 hr was just fun money, and I got paid to do what I liked to do,, that was dance,, why can't someone get paid for what they like to do..
The question here should be,, can you trust the men and woman who go to these show..Hmmmmmm Now there I have stories, Just like any profession there are the ones who give it the bad name,, Yet,, like so many treads I have read thus far,, it takes two,, so here we have it people,, a willing audience, with very few dancers,, make your own conclusions...   | |
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| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 3/10/2008 2:30:09 AM | As the old joke goes "you're more likely to get screwed by a lawyer"
so why leave a stripper off your shopping list. Some are beautiful people
and "off the job" no worse than any school teacher or nurse or ...!!! | |
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| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 3/10/2008 10:21:04 AM | I used to be a stripper and put myself through college! Loved it, and was very selective when it came to men I would date. I never experience any man saying "no" b/c of my profession. Just my thoughts.... | |
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| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 3/10/2008 11:11:11 AM | | it would depend on somethings. The bad girl dancers give the nice ones a bad name. There are some who are incredibly sweet and normal. It would depend on the girl basically. And an understanding between the two of us. | |
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| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 3/10/2008 11:16:06 AM | Years ago when I was young I made friends with a couple guys at a local bar my friends and I went to.
One was the doorman, the other his friend, both very what we called 'buff' and both very good looking.
The door guy and I shared jokes every time I came in, the other guy and I hooked up for fun once.
I never took either of them serious as I knew they were strippers and I am not and was not even then someone who could 'compete' physically with that world.
Unfortunately, I learned later the door guy REALLY liked me and that many female stippers were unattractive and although skinny, as I was as well back then, had not much else physically or personality wise going on (hell I have been to many strip clubs with friends since and I now know I had a much better body and a personality too ...lol).
Suffice it to say, I made a judgement back then on what I thought these guys were about and ignored their many attempts to show me and I also misunderstood what women stippers looked like as well.
I was afraid of the competition back then.
Now I am older and would not be attracted to a man that stripped for a living as he would be either too young for me or too old to be doing that.
By the way, I am sure there are many female strippers who have killer bodies and personalities who had guys they really liked who were intimated by them as I was by the guys I knew back then.
Too bad we can't just look beyond the bodies and professions and just get to know each other.
Erotic dancing can be and is an art, there is no reason to belittle it or make it larger than life. It is a job that some do well and make a good living at.
Unfortunately, it is one of the areas as many are, like the mortgage business was and the political business is, where sometimes the money is more enticing than common sense and one's own life's rules.
Would I now date an erotic dancer? No, he would be too old to be doing that and I am too old to be dating anyone who was young enough to make a living of it.
IF I were younger, based on what I said previously, yes, I'd give the guy a chance.
Hindsight...as always. | |
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| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 3/10/2008 11:24:53 AM | | Been there done that! And yeah it gets to that point most guys will ask her to change profession if the relationship is serious and there's feeling involve..No guy once his girl rubbing on another's guy**** lol | |
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| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 3/10/2008 8:38:52 PM | Yes I would and yes I am!
Really surprised me, having known a few other dancers and not being interested at all beyond the physical in that point in time at the club.
This just shows you can meet the best and the worst in every profession.
I met her, knowing what she did for work and not much else. She is one of the most centered, self-aware people I've known. Knows where she is, knows she can't do it forever, is looking towards the next step, and has strict limits in her profession that she keeps without exception. Strong person that got dealt a bad hand and is independently working her way out of it. Remarkable woman. Perhaps somewhat of an exception in the business, but perhaps not as much as you might think.... | |
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| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 3/10/2008 9:41:54 PM | Nope, the hours just don't work for me. Probably wouldn't date a bar waitress or a female Chef for the same reason.
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| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 3/10/2008 10:52:10 PM | | Nah, it would be a waste of time and energy for me where as i could have a more stable relationship with someone else. I would be stressed about how much i could trust her and i dont handle stress well. It would be a train wreck waiting to happen. | |
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medana
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Joined: 12/8/2005
Msg: 673 | |
| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 3/11/2008 12:48:32 AM | first i want to say thank u to those that showed insight, or an open mind, even if they don't agree with the lifestyle.
and that reminds me of one of the main reasons why i do love this job, hard as it is: PEOPLE
being in a lifestyle and a profession that is on the edge of a controversy, most of my week goes by experiencing people both at their worst and at their best, just as in some cases in these threads here - u know a person's true character once u watch them challenged with something that goes against their belief system or against the norm.
usually those that are ok with the lifestyle will be multi-layered people w a varied and complex life experience that comes with a curious mind and a passion for life, arts, freedom and beauty. many are brilliant, or very talented, many eccentrics or world travelers.
so while it's a downer fighting the big block of social stigma, i am most fascinated by those w a bit more rebel bone and wander lust in their eye anyways, so i do think i am luck, and in the perfect place to find those i seek. the circumstance of being in this profession cuts off those i wouldn't get along with anyway, from the start.
and don't forget i was a respected & professional high school teacher for over 7 years. i still have the same personality, and those i wouldn't have gotten along w then r the same today, just now i know how to weed them out faster - the job does, so do the things i learnt first hand about reading people since i've been stripping.
all that anger and hate the world has against the sex worker it itself uses, makes light shine in its true brightness - today i value tenfold an amazingly well developed character and personality. i understand much better its value.
i have surrounded myself w amazing people these past years, and i am grateful.
and when i date, now i have a better set of "no-way"s. for example. before i might not have thought about asking how a man feels about someone else seeing his woman naked. if he is too insecure to handle competition, or not intelligent enough to see beyond the social standards and understand there is nothing wrong w nudity, then he most likely isn't a lover that likes to experiment or connected w his body or someone else's. if there is shame attached to his understanding of sexuality and nudity, then most likely isn't good in bed. too scared and constricted. i don't do good w scarity cats. | |
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| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 3/11/2008 3:09:54 AM | | Nope, I wouldn't. I am insecure, I can admit that. I like men that other women aren't "all over" or are drooling at. | |
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| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 3/11/2008 8:53:22 AM |
first i want to say thank u to those that showed insight, or an open mind, even if they don't agree with the lifestyle.
and that reminds me of one of the main reasons why i do love this job, hard as it is: PEOPLE
I would date a stripper, but I also have to say it would be a big warning flag when I was first getting to know the person. There are enough screwed up strippers to give the stereotype some grounding.
But as I got to know her, if it turned out just to be a job without some of the addictions and seedier aspects of the profession, I would be cool with it. I think it can be a fun job, or a way to make some serious cash, but it would be a warning flag as well. Especially if she seemed to not have any intelligence to fall back on, or was spending her money as quickly as it came in.
'The one who got away' for me is a lady I dated several years ago who was a dancer. She was also very intelligent, good hearted and overall a nice person. The dancing part did not play a part in our break up at all. If she treats it as just a job, I can do the same. | |
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