| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 6/19/2008 9:29:47 PM | And that's why a FEW level-headed women choose this as long as their looks/abilities last. Because they don't want to depend on undependable men for a home or a livelihood, even
though sure, they love men & will have them as lovers. Just not as substitute daddies.
Male strippers R a little different, can't speak 4 them. Think ego drives them more than $.
Again, ppl, there are Strip Clubs, & then there are 5-Star Gentlemen's Clubs, with nationwide affiliations/franchises. I speak about the dancers @ the latter. Not the whole industry. | |
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| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 6/19/2008 9:40:10 PM | What is wrong with them and its better to call them Exotic Dancer thats what they are Dancers. In the end all that matters is how you are to each other. Everything else realy don't matter. | |
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| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 6/19/2008 9:43:13 PM | Yes!! i have and i would again if the opportunity comes again. it's not a big deal. some chicks work at starbucks, what's the big deal? if she likes me and i like her i'll give it a go. i've dated two strippers in my life and they were a good time. has lots of good times with them and i wouldn't mind that kind of fun again.
thats my two cents,
honky | |
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Posted: 6/20/2008 4:45:12 PM | I've never dated a stripper, but I have been friends with a few and I can't think of anything wrong with some of them, though I do have to say that most of the ones I have known were a bit twisted in the brain. I say that affectionly...ha ha.
I probably could not personally deal with having my GF flashing her naked body to a bunch of strange men, but that's my insecurity, not hers. The strippers I knew that got married were EXTREMELY faithful, for whatever its worth. | |
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Posted: 6/23/2008 6:10:37 PM |
The strippers I knew that got married were EXTREMELY faithful, for whatever its worth.
Figured this thread was dead, but the man speaks truth. Just got thru yesterday being a part of a Hollywood film that takes place partly in a highly-esteemed gent's club. I can tell you, from 1st-hand experience (K, no jokes, I get it b4 you even think it!). Even the personable,
able, daytime promotions coordinator of a national (heck, international) franchise lives w/the mngr (let's say manly but a little rounder than even he would prefer). And they've gotten along 4 years. I have other examples in my life. YES, un-congruently, monogamy
remains alive & well in the entertainment business! Truth continues to amaze.
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Posted: 6/23/2008 6:23:50 PM | | I couldn't be in a relationship with a stripper. I would feel it disrespectful to our relationship when there are women putting their hands all over the person who supposedly loves me. If people want to do that, that is their choice, it just is not one I could be a part of. There is a life style of late nights and other things going on. I don't want any part of that touching my life. To each their own. | |
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| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 6/24/2008 1:43:57 AM |
mthomjmark - I'm guessing you're not a big fan of porn , then? Or just soft core porn?
LOL; not into porn; not soft porn either. I do the real thing. I never got how people can get excited looking at a tv or a computer screen or magazine to get off. I dont judge anyone that does it. Thats their thing and we are all adults. Just dont like to be judged either for not being into it. The cool thing is sleaze right now; from the teens to adults. I'm just not into it and I'm not changing.
Whats cool isnt' always right, and what's right isn't always cool. thanks. | |
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Posted: 6/24/2008 1:46:03 AM |
The strippers I knew that got married were EXTREMELY faithful, for whatever its worth.
LOL; this always cracks me up; A stripper is doing a sexual act either with their body or their mind, every time they work. They dont need to cheat; they are always cheating.
Most people that cheat; especially men; do it for a sexual reason; strippers have all their fantasies fulfilled so they dont need to cheat. Your argument is ridiculous in my opinion. | |
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| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 6/25/2008 9:04:52 PM | | Yes, I think it's about time for me to See a "mature" dancer now. The cost-benefit is on her side. She has a notion want she wants & I do too, opposed to the squirmy fisher who's feet are too cold for the water. | |
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Posted: 6/25/2008 9:34:38 PM | | I would date a male stripper if he was maybe exotic dancing his way through school - his PhD in physics or something...though how likely is this combination ever going to happen? He would also have to be the kind of male stripper that is straight but never takes any of the ladies home with him. Even more unlikely, I think. | |
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Posted: 6/25/2008 9:39:36 PM | | I have dated two they were very nice men I did not know what they did as I had no idea what one was until I was told. We only dated about 3 months. They ended it because I have very strict rules about not giving free milk or putting the cart before the horse. Most guys do so I was not surprized. | |
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Posted: 6/25/2008 10:08:41 PM | | yes i would . in fact i have and not only was she a stripper but ours was an interracial relationship, its not about what he/ she does for aliving or what race, its about love , its about honor and commitment and loyality and respect for one another. i never have and never will understand why people refuse to look further than the what they see with there eyes or what they hold in there hands, when it come to love and romance and a lasting relationship , it boils down to faith and not seeing, its feeling without touching, we all know GOD and love him, and i know no one here has ever seen him or touch him. so tell me why is what someone does or does not do figure in to whether or not you would date or love them. and if you did fall in love with this person why would you want to change anything about them. but more over if dating a stripper is a problem why go to a strip club to find a date? just a little something to baffel your minds. but i am serious. get back to me. at spirit01@cfl.rr.com as i don't hang here much anymore love ya and god bless! mike | |
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| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 6/25/2008 10:09:51 PM | [Quote]I would trust my life to an exotic dancer. Than a BS social worker.
There are good and bad in all professions.
Society would be less screwed up if we got rid of social workers.
The one thing you need to trust the most is whats in your heart.
My best friends are... One was my coach, who taught me to play guitar(me 43 now and Jeff 55) Jeff married my teacher(Nancy, 53, supervisor of social services in a central southeastern state) Jeff founded and owned a very successful cycle shop in a top-ten college town(T I double G-RRRRRRRR) and recently sold it... Nancy is still doing a compassionate job at her calling...
Oldest daughter just finished her Masters as did the only beau she ever had, and they were married last year. Youngest daughter just graduated summa cum laude from Duke with a complicated biology degree, is dating the musician love of her life. The son born between the daughters is as stop-traffic good-looking as they are(their dad's words, and I have to agree. If you like Julia Roberts or Cindy Crawford, this is the league we're talking about... Son looks like Russell Crowe) and is faithful to a beautiful girl- I had the honor of spec'ing a one-off high-end acoustic guitar for him for his 18th b'day, Jeff and I spent all day with the luthier, and it was one of the greatest honors of my life.
These people are neo-hippie, vegetarian, and grow the best damn weed I've ever smoked, kept for personal use, nothing more.(I am a semi-pro musician, grew up playing bluegrass and have friends in the biz today that you are all familiar with...) Fantastic friends. Even more wonderful people. Raised beautiful kids... Achievers.
Point being... I have dated two girls who danced. One for a little more than 5yrs. This girl rivaled the virtue and integrity of the pretty girls I just mentioned(Older daughter doesn't smoke, btw...) and I use the comparison publicly for the first time ever, because I want to support social workers who are committed to what they do, and don't support the kind you mention because there are too many of them in the world who suck... I also want to support the wonderful, secure, committed to the man they love kind of women who do the (dancing)job but don't live(snort/fvck)the lifestyle. This beautiful woman was a schoolteacher whose husband was a pig- didn't realize what a blessing he had. She was left to fend for herself, and so danced out-of-county on weeknights to augment her income.
Don't draw the line in the sand unless you've walked on both sides of it. I don't typically condone the dancer thing, but I understand it intimately and understand the incentives on both sides of the life. Dancer or social worker, hippies, weed and everything in between.
"To each his own", said the old woman as she bent down to kiss the cow...
-Nomad-
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| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 6/25/2008 10:23:57 PM | Cool truth, Charlie Daniels' cousin, Spirit...nice Lab, nothing but freakin' love in his eyes, guess that comes from U beating him every night! Right, lol. Yes, you say it like it is.
Even love at different levels is still love. People are the same all over. Spread the Word man,
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Posted: 6/26/2008 4:17:14 PM | | Sure I would. I take guys on face value and you have to trust in your instincts about someone. Anyone can lie to you and cheat on you regardless of profession! | |
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Posted: 6/27/2008 11:17:08 PM | | yarimelma i liked your quote it is so much easier to live with yourself if you know you have not done something killer stupid with the only body you get in this life | |
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Posted: 6/29/2008 9:19:53 AM | Yes i would date her as long as her heart and soul will always love me for who i am and what our realtionship stands for. Trust and honesty between each other.
Ty for listening --- Eric Carhart Jr | |
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Posted: 6/30/2008 9:59:20 PM | | The first stripper I ever dated was a guy I met in college. He was a very good student we studied together. I found out he was a stripper at a party a girl came over to me to break the news. I did not even know what a stripper was. I am a prude was even more so then. I think that is why he liked me I was not a customer. I did not ever ask him to stop or anything but from the time he knew i knew how he was making money he started changing in two months we were over. | |
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| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 7/8/2008 4:29:15 AM | I think it would take a special kind of person to fill that role. I just can't imagine being in that type of environment and not becoming so jaded about physical intimacy. I've only been to a strip club 5 or 6 times ever. Just knowing what a stripper has to do in order to make money. Even when you're not seeing them working, the average person would be thinking about a whole host of possibilities.
I actually tried to date a stripper once. I didn't know going into it that she WAS a stripper. She was just in one of my sociology classes. She told me after we had gone out a few times what she did for a living. I'm sorry, but your identity and the way people perceive you is influenced by what you do for a living. No matter what your job is, you'll see this. Forming the kind of relationship you want to have with someone is hard enough as it is. To each their own, but I don't think I could ever do that. Being intimate with someone that's a stripper just wouldn't feel the same. | |
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Posted: 8/6/2008 10:05:19 AM |
LOL; this always cracks me up; A stripper is doing a sexual act either with their body or their mind, every time they work. They dont need to cheat; they are always cheating.
Most people that cheat; especially men; do it for a sexual reason; strippers have all their fantasies fulfilled so they dont need to cheat. Your argument is ridiculous in my opinion.
I wonder if all the people who said they would date a stripper, that they are fine with stripping would want their son or daughter to do it? What makes it so just like any other profession? It isn't prostitution, no, but it is a sexual act, it is mean to arouse, not just entertain. | |
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