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 Jeff M

Joined: 2/23/2008
Msg: 751
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would you date a stripper?
Posted: 9/23/2008 7:25:42 AM
In the end its just a job, and if you have an open mind. Then theres no problem. I guess most people have trust isses, and will think, If someone gets their clothes off for a living. Then theres more happening.

I'm open minded. So my aswer is yes I would. And be proud of what she does.

Jeff m
 Knight197222

Joined: 12/3/2008
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would you date a stripper?
Posted: 12/8/2008 12:22:39 PM
Yes I would because whoever says no is being very judgemental. In effect they are saying that all strippers because of the profession are evil women. That is the wrong sterotype because strippers are human as well. There are good ones and bad ones again just like people. The bible says dont judge for a reason because if you do you just might miss out on a terrific person
 scorpiomover

Joined: 4/19/2007
Msg: 753
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would you date a stripper?
Posted: 12/8/2008 6:08:25 PM
If I say yes, do I get a discount?
 heavyiron

Joined: 8/23/2008
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would you date a stripper?
Posted: 12/15/2008 7:08:09 PM
I would recommend avoiding it and I have personal experience in this matter as I was foolish enough to support my wife in fullfilling her desire to become a dancer, the limelight was to overwhelming and she ended up leaving me for a customer at the club she worked at [we had a child and an 8 year marriage] her only reason for leaving is that she said she deserved to be with a better looking guy now that she was a stripper and that I was not "hot" enough for her anymore........The whole thing made me very upset.
 heavyiron

Joined: 8/23/2008
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would you date a stripper?
Posted: 12/15/2008 8:27:42 PM
Please bear in mind gentleman that the your typical dancer[and I have known many] is not looking for a decent man with morals ethics or a decent career or job to sweep her off her feet and a raise family with, she is looking for either a sugar daddy or some chump who she can use for material gain. The other type of guy she will go for will be the abusive badboy type who will use HER and treat her like the garbage that she feels she is because ALL strippers have one thing in common and that is serious issues with there fathers that started in childhood and you my friend will pay the price for that. and by the way why does every dancer claim to be doing it to put herself through school? Another quirk about strippers is that they will sleep with the dirtiest guys imaginable so I would be careful about certain viruses or unfriendly bacteria they may be harbouring down there.
 Cuddle6942

Joined: 8/9/2007
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would you date a stripper?
Posted: 12/18/2008 11:19:59 PM
I guess my thought is why would you have supported your wife in fulfilling a dream to become a 'dancer'? Unless it was to have a hottie on your arm whom all the other men wanted?? Maybe a lil ego stroking on your part? I really can't see how you could imagine she would be happy being a housewife and a mom after becoming a 'dancer'?.. a night time job at the best of times..
Sorry you got rooked.
 altmagr

Joined: 4/27/2008
Msg: 757
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Posted: 12/20/2008 6:20:45 PM
Already have and would do it again strippers are smarter than most girls so its more fun as long as you get use to seeing them at work, work is work as long as they're not a whore doin asian business men at private parties
 altmagr

Joined: 4/27/2008
Msg: 758
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Posted: 12/20/2008 6:28:12 PM
you cant lump all the girls together some just loose track of themselves and get caught up in the lifestyle but alot are nice people that are just doing what they can to survive. Hell the way the economy is can you blame someone when your kids are hungry you do what you have to do
 Tuck4x4

Joined: 8/8/2008
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would you date a stripper?
Posted: 12/20/2008 10:53:18 PM
I didnt just date one, I fell in love with one. She danced for 8 years. When I met her she hadnt been full time in 3 years. She only danced occasionally for christmas money etc.

She was amazing for the first few months then became very jealous and started having huge mood swings.

We went to a counselor together and she was diasgnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder and possible Schizophrenia.

I tried everything I could but she became very abusive, verbally and emotionally, and even headbutted me in the nose once. I finally moved to be away from her.

Last week I had to file harassement charges on her.

The hardest part is knowing that in there somewhere is probably the most perfect match for me ive ever found.... and I will never get what I want because she denies she has a problem, but she refuses to fully let me go my own way.
 rdcnorm

Joined: 3/7/2007
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would you date a stripper?
Posted: 12/29/2008 3:32:47 PM
I was an exotic male dancer, I woman dated me, we married, happily married for 15 yrs until she passed away 8 yrs ago,,,

so it can work,,
 forallintents

Joined: 12/16/2008
Msg: 761
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Posted: 12/29/2008 3:48:52 PM

you cant lump all the girls together
You can, but that's extra.

I would date a stripper, for sure. I would go to her work and watch her make my money. Then for a change I would ask her to wear a heavy overcoat at home.
 lelathecat

Joined: 6/14/2008
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would you date a stripper?
Posted: 12/29/2008 9:26:04 PM

Well...since I only date women in my age group, the thought of dating a stripper that old is well. .... is that even possible?


There are former/retired strippers.
 mountain_biker_88

Joined: 4/2/2007
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would you date a stripper?
Posted: 12/30/2008 10:01:34 PM
Hell No.....

I don't think i would be comfortable having a serious relationship with someone who dances naked and performs lap dances for dozens of guys in a night. But that's just me.

I don't have anything against strippers, but in my opinion, they are not girlfriend material.....
 acitalriwt sixela

Joined: 5/5/2008
Msg: 764
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Posted: 12/30/2008 11:45:21 PM

I would recommend avoiding it and I have personal experience in this matter as I was foolish enough to support my wife in fullfilling her desire to become a dancer, the limelight was to overwhelming and she ended up leaving me for a customer at the club she worked at [we had a child and an 8 year marriage] her only reason for leaving is that she said she deserved to be with a better looking guy now that she was a stripper and that I was not "hot" enough for her anymore........The whole thing made me very upset.


She leave because she was unhappy with you, not her profession. If she was nurse, she would leave you for better looking x-ray worker. If she work at Best Buy, she would leave you for better looking guy in video game department. Should guys avoid dateing nurses and Best Buy employee?
 mikedose

Joined: 8/29/2008
Msg: 765
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Posted: 12/31/2008 7:10:31 PM
we are talking about strippers not hookers
if you say she a stripper = what do most think= she a hooker =drug user=nasty=etc
thinking like this
stripper=a women that dances or performs naked =a naked women
keep in mind most of these women are hot very hot and most would break there necks
trying to talk to them [not know she a stripper] and alot of these girls are paying for school ,driveing new cars,and getting fake tits [its funny]

so yes i could date a naked women
ok dont yell= love= sex= trust =simple put love is not sex,sex is not love,trust is not given but earned

ps you got to go to the high dollar clubs ant nothing but hookers at the cheap clubs

support your local stripper
 mountain_biker_88

Joined: 4/2/2007
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would you date a stripper?
Posted: 12/31/2008 11:10:09 PM
I just have a question for the people who would date a stripper? Would you feel comfortable with your girlfriend flirting and sitting on the lap of a random dude at an ordinary bar?

Why is it ok for her to do that for money?

I just want to hear some of your views on this.
 cdn-iceman

Joined: 11/23/2008
Msg: 767
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Posted: 1/1/2009 9:46:02 AM
spare me the holier than thou crap rwade, Its not a holier than thou attitude that some of us dont want to date a stripper? I cant speak for others but for me Its not of any interest or desire to date a stripper.

I dont have a desire to date someone who a percentage of the population seen naked as a profession or has a lap dance or what ever, sorry that doesnt appeal to me.
 Knot Yet

Joined: 10/24/2008
Msg: 768
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 1/10/2009 2:14:33 AM
not only that ~ ALL OUR GIRLS are required by LAW to sign agreements that they dance and only dance......anything other than dance they are fired, if they are ARRESTED - for ANYTHING......even a parking ticket - they are let go.......

Always hiring male & female dancers

Tell the operator Jamie sent ya !
http://www.apollodancers.net/
 Geo1971OH

Joined: 4/10/2008
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would you date a stripper?
Posted: 1/10/2009 6:23:29 AM
No my ex became a prostitute the emotional and devestation it caused ruined evrything even down to a possible friendship with her.

NO GIRL SHOULD BE DOING THOSE TYPES OF THINGS!

and don't tell me because of money BS if you are resourcefull enough to go into doing that sort of thing you are smart enought to find a way to get by

Sorry Ihave no respect for strippers, escort prostitues whores, sluts whatever you want to call them
 forallintents

Joined: 12/16/2008
Msg: 770
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 1/10/2009 7:47:15 AM
How about calling them human beings? Got any respect for them?
 audioace

Joined: 2/9/2006
Msg: 771
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Posted: 1/10/2009 7:53:49 AM
I have only dated one stripper. She was a beautiful woman. I knew her from college, and I saw her at this strip club my buddies and I went to.

We talked for a while, and I asked her out. We went out for a few months. She quit her job as a stripper and then went to work at olive garden. She told me that I made her want to better herself.

After the months went by, we were in bed and she broke up with me cause I was going to be deployed soon. Good logic, but now she is a stripper again at the same club.

So yes, I would
 jjairbourne

Joined: 12/12/2008
Msg: 772
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Posted: 1/10/2009 8:39:57 AM
i dated a girl who worked behind the bar in a strip club, and yes having spoken to a fair few strippers, i would def date them, they are good all round people, doing a job, and they enjoy what they do,

i found them all to be very interesting people, i did work in the bar on the door for a few weeks, so i got to speak to the girls :)

so in answer to the question YES
 ck1time

Joined: 9/10/2005
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Posted: 1/13/2009 5:19:08 PM
Yes, Yes, & Yes. Because I know what I'm getting, & she does too. Plus, they are everyone's eye-candy, (she obviously thinks I'm handsome in a big-bro/cute boss/type way) & whenever she knows I'm not her sugar-daddy, there is a friendship there too.
 Jakinthebox

Joined: 12/13/2008
Msg: 774
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Posted: 1/13/2009 6:20:41 PM
Hell NO!
Maybe yes if I wanted to catch an STD.
 rdcnorm

Joined: 3/7/2007
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Posted: 1/13/2009 6:51:48 PM
^^^^^ hold on,, I was a male dancer many years ago,, never has any STD,,
Dancing and STD do not go hand and hand
Hookers there is a good chance.....of STD
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