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| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 1/22/2009 11:15:14 AM | Dated one when I was younger. Gorgeous and a sweetheart, away from work you would never had known what she did for a living.
Its funny how some say "no way, I would never" maybe thats why you're single, you prejudge. Most that say they would never date a stripper have never had the hint of an opportunity.
You judge them because they strip while you sit and stare at porn in the hideaway you call home, think about it...who's the pervert?
People call them sluts for what they do. I knew of more sluts in college than I did in strip clubs
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I totally agree with statement !...... I was a stripper 25 years ago though, and married one of my customers,we share a son, there are definitely more loose woman in the office romances !! strippers don't have to sleep with anyone to get to the top !! they're at the top. They are NOT hookers !! they don't have to be !!
back then it was look but don't touch .....
now back to the woman in office romances!! hummmm | |
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| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 1/22/2009 5:12:59 PM | | I wouldn't mind having a relationship with a stripper. It really depends what she does outside being a stripper that may affect whether I want to continue a relationship with her or not. Eg: I would not have an intimate relationship with someone who is a stripper and sells her mouth, hands and vagina to interested money-generous men and women. Mind you, this has not happened (yet) to me. Therefore, this is only a conclusion of what I feel at the moment. It really depends on varying factors. | |
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| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 1/28/2009 7:40:41 AM | yeah and the people that judge will therefore be judged by god,me i dont judge anyone but yes there may be things i dont like but i dont judge.would i date a stripper idk you never know who your supposed to be with till you find them. | |
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Posted: 1/28/2009 8:45:58 AM | I dated someone who danced. She didn't tell me about it when I started dating. Later, she told me and we still dated after that for a bit.
At the end, I started feeling that it wasn't the only thing she lied about. I started catching her telling me small lies here and there. I didn't like her choice of profession and some other choices that she was making in life. Ultimately, I didn't trust her and didn't respect her choices, so I stopped dating her. Plus she was bad in bed. | |
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| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 1/28/2009 5:29:58 PM | | Well, I'll give anybody a chance as long as they're not a crab monster, so yes I would and I'd see how it goes. | |
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| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 1/30/2009 7:40:01 AM | as a representative of Crab Monsters local 26 I object strenuously to not being given equal chance under the law. We will picket you sir... we will.
sorry I couldn't resist.
Seriously the point remains everyone makes choices good and bad no one should be forever cursed by one choice. Find out who they are before you judge. | |
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| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 1/30/2009 8:31:12 AM | I just couldn't be with a stripper, because I wouldn't want to deal with the emotional strain of knowing that a room full of drunk, horny guys are openly hooting and doting on her every night... And that she's showing other guys her private parts.
It'd just be unbearable for me. Now, if she was an ex-stripper, No problem. But as long as she does it for work, I just would be too jealous, and it'd be too stressful for me. So I just wouldn't date her. | |
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| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 1/30/2009 4:38:43 PM | It's not really a matter of judging with me. I don't think I could handle my significant other stripping down for a room full of strangers. Then the question gets asked, if they would strip for a certain amount,how much for them to go all the way?
Some people are ok with that, and that's fine,but I'm not one of those people. | |
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| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 1/30/2009 11:03:57 PM | I wouldn't have a problem with it. It's a job like any other. I've known a handful of strippers in my lifetime and they're really no different than anyone else.
They take their pants off one leg at a time just like the rest of us. They just happen to have an audience cheering them on while they do.  | |
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| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 1/31/2009 8:08:25 AM | Seriously: think it over. On the surface, it might seem like the gravy train to a sexual windfall, but after a long day of exhibitionism and flirting, a stripper's not so likely to be excited about being objectified and used for sexual gratification. People are rarely in the mood to do their job once the whistle blows.
How many plumbers can't wait to get home so they can replace old pipes under the ground? How many doctors can't wait to go to a party so they can have their brains picked with medical questions all night?
If anything, she's likely going to be looking for evidence of sincerity -- that she's worth something as a person (like any other woman). A guy who dates a stripper is typically not going to be seeking friendship as much as a "friends with benefits" arrangement. Get real: most women complain of how men just seek a cheap thrill, wanting to "hit it and quit it," so how is chasing a girl with a hot body who makes a living duping horny guys out of their money all day going to lead to a better date?
And for what it's worth, this places a guy at a serious disadvantage: the girl knows he's just trying to use her -- and more so than he would other women -- so she'll just get the jump on him and use him first, whether it's for expensive wining and dining or constant freebies, like manicures, pedicures, do's, clothes and the like. If you're looking for the proverbial "hooker with a heart," like you find in movies like Sweet Charity, An Officer and a Gentleman and Milk Money, good luck.
Sure, you might find a stripper here and there who are good, old-fashioned blue-blooded gals, but then again if you look long enough, you might find a priest who hasn't molested anybody too. The exception doesn't overturn the rule.
So don't be fooled: they know that if you don't want to pay to play, there's a dozen other goofballs in line behind you waiting to make asses of themselves to get her attention.
These women are highly money-motivated, very materialistic -- so unless you're just paying her to be a hooker for the night, there's little point to it.
I have a friend who lived with a stripper for a couple years, and once she finally wiped out his bank account she moved out, leaving only a note. He was devastated -- he thought she actually loved him. Really, he had it coming to him. He wanted a sex carnival and it cost him over $50K.
He learned his lesson and later and married a more conventional girl, and they've been happily married for over 20 years.
I had another friend who was so infatuated with a stripper he wanted to be one of those idiot knights in shining armor who rescues her from her miserable life of making so much money -- with no education or marketable skills -- that she drives a Ferarri. It didn't quite happen.
See, the thing guys don't really get is that the majority of these women have major personality disorders, mess around with dope and drugs and have suffered trauma in their lives. Now, for what it's worth, I'm sure there's lots of dancers out there who are sweet people who aren't greedy or shallow, but just as in the case of nice John Birchers and Nazis who DON'T hate Jews, these are not the folks you want influencing the course of your life.
And whether such people land in this job are victims of one sort or another or not is not the issue. The issue is, to date or not to date?
Date whomever you like, but if you find a decent woman who really digs you, you can easily have as much carnal happiness as you would with a stripper. Flaunting your body on a stage doesn't give you a Ph.D. in buggery.
And besides, you can only spend so much time in bed or the back seat. You're going to actually have to talk to each other eventually. And how great will THAT conversation be? Is she going to have much to say about Picasso's Blue Period? Will she be able to contrast the voice of Byron versus Bukowski where women are concerned? Does she know the difference between how Gore Vidal wrote about Lincoln, versus Carl Sandburg? Does she know what a "concept" album is or that Sgt. Pepper was the first one? Does she have a grasp of current events beyond what is joked about by Jay Leno and Jon Daily? Has she ever seen a silent movie, especially City Lights by Chaplin?
Back at the ranch: there's lots of women these days who are just a much of a freak as any dancer, if that's what you're looking for. (It's not the 1950s anymore.) And it will be a lot more intense because you're being uninhibited with someone you have a history with and who is really into you. Anyone who has loved and been loved will be forever spoiled, knowing there is no substitute for the real thing -- nothing even comes close.
People who date today can actually talk to each other about intimate things if they want to. And they don't have to wait until after they're married to discover if they're on the same page sexually. The stripper mystique is over-rated if not obsolete.
Just find someone you're sexually compatible with and you won't need to do dumb things like having to accept that 1,000 other men a week will get to see your girlfriend naked before you do. | |
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| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 3/6/2009 12:07:18 AM | | I never thought I would, but i went to a club last weekend expecting it to just be a bunch of trashy girls blah blah but some of them are actually pretty cool. Any most of them are just doing this for now to pay their way through school. When its slow some of them will actually come sit with you and just talk and they have some pretty interesting stories. So ya I would date one if i got to know her pretty well and knew that she wasn't just all about the money. | |
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| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 3/6/2009 12:38:24 PM | | Yes, i have dated a few and married one. Unless you buy into the assumptions that so called "polite society" has placed on ladies that are in this profession then you will find like me that many of them are very nice normal ladies that have a a strong sense of self and just the same as anyone else that you would date, Hmmm maybe a better selection of heels! LOL but i have and would have no problem with dating them. | |
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| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 3/15/2009 1:36:25 PM | Would I date a stripper, HELL NO, yeah I can just imagine at my families thanksgiving dinner the conversation at the Table?
Me: Hi Mom, this is Candy Apples
Mom: thats interesting name, what do you do for a living?
Candy: Im a dancer, Exotic dancer to be exact
Mom, drops the plate with the Turkey and makes her way to the phone calling the
lawyer to take me off her will and pointing towards the front door. | |
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| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 3/15/2009 2:01:11 PM | ^^^^^^LOL...G. you kill me!!!!  ^^^^^
Yep, I can see my mom doing that if I brought a male stripper home! Kiss on the cheek and Cement Boots ! | |
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| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 3/15/2009 2:55:56 PM | | Would I date a stripper? Sure. Would I date a stripper who provided lap dances, or in areas where it's legal, sexual services for money? No. Never. | |
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| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 3/18/2009 5:42:44 AM | people who live in glass houses...
amazing how many men have been in a strip bar, and think the women they degrade by throwing dollar bills at, are now unfit to be seen with
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| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 3/22/2009 3:53:45 AM | | yes, why not? Its an honest profession. I'm a secure person and don't mind other men looking at my woman with their tongues on the floor!! | |
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| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 3/22/2009 9:46:06 AM | | No! When I was younger, my friends paid for a private stripper for me. He partied with my friends and I later that night and he was really into me and asked me out. I refused to date him although he was gorgeous....simply because he was a stripper. Oh shallow me! I still wouldn't date a stripper....but oh well. | |
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| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 3/22/2009 11:50:29 AM | I'm not so sure how I'd feel about this. On one hand I'd like ot think I'm mature enough to handle it, but I dated a girl that did something similar to stripping and I absolutely coul not turn my back on that girl or she'd be up to no good, (doing drugs, cheating, etc..) so that experience has left me a little wary and jaded of the idea.
I know that not all women who are dancers are like that, but that one experience burned me really bad and I would have a very hard time trusting someone else that did it having known the lifestyle. | |
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| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 3/23/2009 7:26:15 AM | I've dated a stripper before, it didn't really bother me. She said it was a job like any other.. repetive and boring, the novelty of it had worn off pretty quick for her but it was good money. Also I like to think that I can trust a girl no matter where she is or what she's doing.
I met her at a club, but she told me on our first date what she did for a living, which I appreciated. I did find it hard though that I would work all week, then she would dance for other men on the wkends..
However, she was the last girl I dated and one of the reasons i've joined pof. I got over trying to meet my ideal gf at a club/pub where you're really just going on looks.
So yeh guess i'm undecided! | |
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| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 3/23/2009 1:37:54 PM | | How you make your money is no concern of mine as long as it's legal. However, if you've got no long term ambitions beyond dancing/stripping then I would be turned off. | |
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| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 4/19/2009 6:09:43 PM | I have a friend that is a male stripper. He told me he was a bouncer at a bar, but I found out otherwise. No, we only frequent the same restaurant, and that is all, and he is intelligent, articulate, and very classy from what I can tell. He was embarrassed to tell me that he was a stripper, which I take as a compliment. I am sure he makes pretty good money, though.
In stripper situations, the rules are much more relaxed for male strippers, and the women actually conduct themselves with a lot less class than the men could get away with on top of that.
As a female, would I date a male stripper.? Probably no. Not to be territorial, but if he were my boyfriend, I would want to be the only one touching his thingie and caressing his a$$, even if it came with thousands of dollars. Some things are more important than money! | |
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