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 NYCman530

Joined: 7/6/2009
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would you date a stripper?
Posted: 10/22/2009 11:28:30 PM
Actually, that all depends. Years ago when I was in my 20's, I worked security in a couple of those clubs for about a year and at the time, I never dated any of them since I had a girlfriend at the time. Some were putting themselves through college, others did it because they couldn't find anything else, or anything that paid decently. Some were doing drugs, some weren't. And a lot of those girls liked to baffle guys with BS if they couldn't dazzle them with brilliance in order to make extra bucks from them. Can't say I entirely blame them since the guys were there to leer. But most of the girls there wouldn't date customers, only guys they met on the outside. But getting back to the question it all depends on her as a person. She can BS her customers, but when it comes to a relationship, that's a red signal, she'd have to be honest and monogamous with a stable personality and also not see me as a walking ATM machine and if she's a druggie, fuggedaboudit!!!
 farceur

Joined: 5/3/2009
Msg: 877
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 10/23/2009 10:03:20 AM
If she turned me on and I turned her on and we got along, then I would. Her lap dance skills would be greatly appreciated. I might even date a woman who wasn't a professional dancer if she could do the lap dances. Life without lap dances is a hollow joke.
 The Green Genie

Joined: 10/8/2009
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would you date a stripper?
Posted: 10/23/2009 9:41:41 PM
I'm in luv with a stripper....
*continues singing*

I'd date one if she's stable and doesn't ask for money all the time, even if it's out of pure habit. Sorry if I hurt any stripper feelings. I haven't dated one yet mostly cuz I never met one and known about it, so you know, don't hate me if I just totally stereotyped all of you as gold diggers by character, and not just by profession.
 twinkle_little_star

Joined: 8/28/2009
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would you date a stripper?
Posted: 10/23/2009 10:04:49 PM
If you are interested and met a stripper I can't see why yu would not date her, she is human as much any one else. Stipping is a profession, probably pays more than most mundane jobs LOL... and besides imagine how interesting your home life would/could be
 Bad*MonkeyFunker

Joined: 7/9/2009
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would you date a stripper?
Posted: 10/24/2009 12:39:52 AM

and besides imagine how interesting your home life would/could be


Oh yes yes! her and her pimp ... you'd be partying like crazy huh...
Oh wait, I am sorry ..Strippers don't have pimps, do they ?


Stipping is a profession


So is prostitution.
 Cynderella

Joined: 3/8/2007
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would you date a stripper?
Posted: 10/24/2009 1:32:50 AM
Not on my to do list

I kinda like thinking not everyone gets to see the goodies but me...call me selfish.
 sglwhtmale

Joined: 7/9/2009
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would you date a stripper?
Posted: 10/24/2009 2:29:53 PM
I have dated two in the past.
Strippers are people just like the rest of us,I could care less how someone chooses to survive.
But one problem with alot of strippers is drug use,alot of the girls use drugs,but so do people in all walks of life!
 simpleguy84

Joined: 8/29/2009
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Posted: 11/10/2009 6:28:12 PM
Tons of my friends have dated strippers, and I even dated one for almost two years. Its always the same story. We fell in love, the whole shebang, and I hate to say this, but stereotypes don't just come from nowhere you know. I wouldn't say that all strippers fall victim to a lot of the problems that are common in such a job (ie: drinking alot, drug use, psychological issues, manipulation of people for your own benefit, lying, etc), but I would say more than 3/4 of them do after meeting tons of them and getting to know some of them personally. The girl I dated was a very beautiful person inside and out, but after being accustomed to a lifestyle like that of a strippers' for long enough, old habits die hard. She had issues with lying, stealing stuff, kinda bad drinking problem, some pretty deep seated issues, being really flirty all the time with everybody for attention, temper, etc. Lol the list goes on and on, and I'm not the type of person to try to change somebody, or judge them for that matter, but after a while it just got to be too much and I gave up on her. Its hard to respect & trust somebody who doesn't seemingly respect & trust themselves, and in the end, I think that's what makes it really difficult for some people. As far as dating one? Sure, why not have some fun, right? But in a relationship setting, that lifestyle doesn't help things, let me tell you.
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