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I've personally never seen or heard of a stripper becomeing a millionaire from stripping. They usually spend the money they make as fast as they make it. What good does it do them?
Dita Von Teese, anyone?
Maybe they spend the money as fast as they make it because they have to, like everyone else, pay their bills?
What you seem to be missing is that it is known by all that a stripper is not a prostitute. If a man truly went out just for sex, they'd see a prostitute. Men aren't stupid, they know that when they go out to a strip club, there is a 99% chance he won't be going home with one of the floor show performers!
And as for lying to men, Did you miss the memo? Strippers DANCE. They don't stop to have enlightening conversations with their customers, usually! They're too busy dancing!
And does your opinion cover showgirls? Showgirls are the strippers that come onstage, do their thing, pack up and go home! So when at any point from getting ready to getting undressed, to getting dressed and leaving, do showgirls have conversations?
What I'm aiming at is, how can someone lie to you if they aren't talking to you!
And don't throw the "lying with their bodies" thing at me. How many girls walk down the street wearing a low cut top and a short skirt? They're obviously "lying" with their bodies too, if that's the case!
Just a thought.
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Posted: 3/18/2010 9:06:05 PM |
Maybe they spend the money as fast as they make it because they have to, like everyone else, pay their bills?
????? Wtf???? I knew a girl who stripped. I have to agree with nicecowboy. This girl told me she made 2000 dollars on average a night. She worked more than 3 days a week but for the sake of argument I'll say 3 days a week. That's 6000 dollars a week and that's about 288000 dollars a year. Also that was ten years ago by the way. At the time the average American income was 25000 a year. After ten years of working there she was broke. All her stripper friends were also broke. All their predecessors were also broke as it was an establishment that had been there for 30+ years. That's more than 10 times the income of the average American. That's as if an American had worked an average job for a hundred years. Yet it only took you ten years to make what took them a 100 and your broke? Don't see a problem there at all?
What does a showgirl have to do with a stripper? Showgirls are mostly in Vegas and the original post is for strippers. If your a show girl that is still a dead end job just like a stripper with less pay. This is a thread about strippers though and I really don't see your point.
Here in America it's like cowboy said the strippers do talk to you. How else would someone get a table dance? They charge 20 dollars a table dance. They do lie to the men from their mouths not with their bodies. That's just a weird comment on your part Pagan. No where did he say they used their bodies to speak. My friend said many a guy got beat up cause she promised from her mouth words she spoke anything and everything to get the money from the guys pockets. Get them to buy table dances and her over priced drinks. She would tell them hey I get off at such and such time and when the guy waited the bouncers told him to take a hike and it went down hill from there. If you were a show girl then go to the show girl thread. If you were a stripper then more than likely you would have some communication with the customers. I am not sure how things work where you are Pagan-girl or how things go there. Here in the USA it's just like he said. | |
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Posted: 3/25/2010 8:09:40 AM | i wouldnt date a stripper, not in this life time,
yeah i can just imagine christmas dinner at my mom's place
Me: Hi mom this Candy apples
mom: thats a interesting name what do you for a living
Candy: im a stripper, sorry im a exotic dancer
Mom: drops the plate with the turkey and makes a beeline to the telephone to call her lawyer to take me off her will and to disown me | |
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| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 2/17/2011 6:50:02 PM | | As much as I would date any woman. Exotic Dancers are people too, just like you or me. To judge ANYONE by their career is ridiculous. For any relationship to work, you need openess, honesty and most importantly – honesty. Everything else will fall into place. | |
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Posted: 6/6/2011 8:34:02 AM | would girls date Justin Bieber ?
Who is the bigger lying wh*re?//// um yeah.
I never would because it wouldnt pass muster with the security clearance, but that not being an inhibition, sure why not, they have just as much propensity to lie, cheat, and leave you as the rest  | |
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| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 6/13/2011 12:39:45 PM | | No...Knew one for quite a few years, mostly out of the strip club environment...We were good freinds, but when she started taking a liking to me in a more romantic fashion...I turned and ran...I can't deal with that lifestyle, except at a distance... | |
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gfx260
| | Joined: 11/22/2009
Msg: 963 | |
| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 6/13/2011 7:10:45 PM | | No, it's far too likely she would blend her job into her life & try to take all my monies. that's what happened to my brother. | |
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| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 6/16/2011 7:42:42 PM | | Been there. Done that. Actually she was a nice person, and didn't mix business with any personal issues. She was also a straight shooter. She's over in Los Angeles now. | |
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Posted: 6/16/2011 8:30:31 PM | Many years ago I managed 2 strip clubs and swore I would never date a stripper. Not to say that I didn't get together with a few but nothing serious. I've recently met a ex stripper and of coarse I am no longer in my 20s with a one track mind. We were talking about this and I told her the problem I always had with "exotic dancers," was they always seemed to have a sense of entitlement for lack of a better word. She told me I was right and back when if she wanted something and didn't get it from a guy she just went on the to next... She said she is still like that a little and she is in her 40s but still very attractive.
This seems to be the basic mentality of most dancers. I speak of the majority of dancers that I've met but not every single one is the same of coarse. I believe the problem with most of them is most men are putty when they meet them and they get use to that. That's why many date abusive men and or men with a lot of money. They aren't so easily swayed by the charms of a beautiful semi naked women making them feel like an Adonis as long as the money flows.
Bottom line, your chances aren't very good finding the qualities most look for in a long term love relationship. | |
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| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 6/16/2011 8:55:14 PM | I have when I didn't know they were. But they admitted it on the 4th or 5th date. At first I didn't care much, since she said she rarely does it anymore since going to college full time.
Then as time went on in the relationship, important truths about stuff that is a red flag for me comes in. Like when she introduced me to her kids after a few months, and I find out they all have different fathers (3 of them.) Then when she was brushing her teeth, and they were dentures. Then admitted she hadn't used in almost a year...
I was looking for more longterm. Neat lady, cool family and friends. But our previous lifestyles had been so much different. | |
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| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 7/22/2011 1:25:35 PM | I have known and dated several.I find Dancers to be very intelligent and savvy women who are very good at sizing up someone in an extremely short period of time. They can read a man before he gets 10 steps in the door, great conservationist over a wide range of subjects and interests, and know how work a man for every penny in his pocket, if he lets them. Like the previous poster said, typically, if they don't get what they want, it's on to the next one. The combination of their beauty, brains, and ability to get a man to give them whatever they want makes dating one a very tricky situation. You have to have confidence in yourself, hold her to respect your principals, not think about or judge her about what she is doing she is working, and be open to a lifestyle that's completely outside the norm.
My experiences from dating dancers has made me more aware of the ways women in general use basic tactics to get a man to do what they want for them. Anything from taking out the garbage to getting a new car, every woman learns how to work a man. Dancers are just like any other woman, the only difference is their manipulative skills are on steroids.
Would I date one...absolutely. Their beauty, brains, confidence, and sexuality makes one dynamite woman to be with. The only draw back.... you can have one...but you probably can't keep her. | |
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Posted: 7/22/2011 4:02:48 PM | Yes,yes,yes, If she knows how to restore old,beautiful furniture, which was made in such early locations as,NC,MA.NY,MI.IL. then a good paint remover stripper would be very welcome in my abode.
Then, if you are the other type of stripper, who was abused but your parents,or also was abused in relationships & others,or is working her way in college, waiting on tables,or is also now addicted to drugs, or has as low esteem about yourself,
then I would have to say no......jmo | |
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Posted: 7/22/2011 6:54:10 PM | I was an adult entertainer. I did not date while I was working. Why would I sit across listening to man drone on about his world after spending 8 hours doing just that. It is not a easy job. A lot of guys who claim to have dated an entertainer were really sponsors paying to have dinner with a pretty fake toy. They didnt have a desire to know the woman or what she was really about. That isnt a relationship.
And all the male dancers I met were gay or bi sexual. And I do not date gay or bi sexual men. | |
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cinsav
| | Joined: 6/10/2009
Msg: 970 | |
| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 7/22/2011 7:03:24 PM | To answer the original question.... hell no!
I've been with strippers... it never ends good. 99% of them are gold diggers. And most of them are hooked on some type of drug. Most of them have zero self resepct or dignity - and have such low self esteems that they think the only way they can make money is to take of their clothes....
Of course "they" will argue that it's really good money and bla bla bla... but the fact is - they are train wrecks waiting to happen.
NEVER date a stripper. They are nothing but drug addicted, single mother, trouble...
They will rob you blind without thinking twice. Sure, they look good - but in the end they are just trash. I don't give a damn if anyone agrees or not. I know from PERSONAL experience.
They really are all the same. | |
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| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 7/22/2011 7:06:56 PM | | I dated a stripper for a few years. She was also a nursing student. She was way more fun before she got her degree. | |
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cinsav
| | Joined: 6/10/2009
Msg: 972 | |
| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 7/22/2011 7:10:24 PM | And didn't marry her because? I mean she was so wonderful, right?
I have dated 10 or 11 strippers and they ARE all the same. Can you really and truly marry and respect a woman who thought so low of herself that the only way she could make money was to rub her ass all over guys who saw her as a peice of meat?
Seriously?
That makes me wonder how despirate are you... | |
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| would you date a stripper?
Posted: 7/22/2011 10:54:46 PM | | In a word, hell no! One buddy of mine who is foolish with the types of women he tends to date has become financially bankrupt and depressed by the games and trauma he has dealt with dating strippers and low class women. I want to meet someone who is at least somewhat normal and does not have a drug addiction or owned by her "pimp". | |
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