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| would you date a stripper? Posted: 8/21/2005 4:56:49 AM | | dated one for 6 months. she was a beautiful person inside and out but had several issues to work through for herself. they came from a bad childhood and not from the job. she quit after settling with a guy and having a child. her sense of self worth was very low and i think she used the job to bolster the feeling she was wanted. i'm not a shrink but i feel anyone in this job needs a good straight head to start with or would fall into bad habits pretty easily as they have the money to do anything they wish. most i have met or known anything about had drug and alcohol problems but a few did well and got out after goals were met, like education, housing, getting, out of debt, etc. i would do it again if she was a good person. a job is just a job. i'd personally have a harder time respecting a lawyer. | |
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| would you date a stripper? Posted: 9/5/2005 9:58:44 AM | | Would I date a stripper, i often wondered that then i dated one for a short time and i actrualy enjoyed watching her dance and do lap dances, for the simple reason later that night the guy would go home and fantasise about her while im geting the real deal it was a blast,but in all seriousness ones profession shouldnt matter, its whats in the heart and soul so would I date a stripper again it depends on the stripper | |
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| would you date a stripper? Posted: 9/5/2005 10:06:49 AM | | Just from personal experience......Most guys would KILL to date a dancer,just for the bragging rights to their buddies.....and Women are always saying things like "if I were single I'd......or Are you single ? In some ways Women are much more forward then men about wanting in your pants.....at least in a "club" enviroment.......... | |
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| would you date a stripper? Posted: 9/5/2005 10:56:28 AM | I had one bop me in the nose last night..
i was at the arts, eats, and beats festivial and went to a club on the street (not a strip club) with friends and my buddy introduced me to these two girls whom where strippers.. well i was talking to one and she went to say something and POW hit me right in the nose with her hand.. then hugged my face
there people like anyone else.. | |
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| would you date a stripper? Posted: 9/5/2005 12:39:38 PM | I would date a stripper, but if it got serious, I would ask her to find some other line of work.
Why? I think strippers, porn stars, prostitutes and others who make a living off the sex trade get very cynical and jaded about men. | |
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| would you date a stripper? Posted: 9/5/2005 1:04:28 PM | I disagree. These women know guys for what they are. And neither of the ladies that I was with were jaded. They were very mature, laid back, confident, and sexual women.
Now it's true...some of them are messed up...but they were that way before they ever started dancing. | |
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| would you date a stripper? Posted: 9/5/2005 2:34:33 PM | They only see one kind of men. I have never slept with a prostitute, and I can count on one hand the number of times I have gone to strip clubs.
Sorry, I'm a whole lot more turned on if the girl performing a sex act with me or shaking her goods in my face is doing it because she likes me--as opposed to doing it for the almighty dollar.
So, they don't see me or guys like me. At least not often. | |
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| would you date a stripper? Posted: 9/5/2005 2:39:20 PM | Yes, if I got to know them away from their profession and there was some connection as two people who truly like each other, and no, I wouldn't ask them to change professions...as that's like meeting a pilot and saying please don't fly for a living anymore...it makes me nervous..."shrugs"... them being a stripper doesn't change who they are as a person...and whatever attracted you in the first place is still there, despite their profession..... and ..ahem....particularly if it was BB.....oh yeah... I'd date him in a heartbeat... | |
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| would you date a stripper? Posted: 9/5/2005 2:40:53 PM | | I remember reading an article one time and it said that 98% of all strppers were sexually abused as children, and it manifests itself in nymphomania later in life, so there'd be no faithfulness ther,so I'd steer clear of a stripper. | |
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| would you date a stripper? Posted: 9/5/2005 2:42:44 PM | | ^^^ Well then I guess half of the worlds population should be strippers... wtf is that? Faithfulness has nothing to do with what you do for a living.... | |
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| would you date a stripper? Posted: 9/5/2005 2:49:59 PM | | ive dated a stripper,i had no problem with what she did at work,,it ended up being the outside of work things that were a problem | |
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| would you date a stripper? Posted: 9/5/2005 2:53:13 PM | >>Sorry, I'm a whole lot more turned on if the girl performing a sex act with me or shaking her goods in my face is doing it because she likes me--as opposed to doing it for the almighty dollar.
I've known girls who, fully dressed, can give me hard on with a look from across the room. And strippers who couldn't even with their **** a few inches from me. Just being honest. | |
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| would you date a stripper? Posted: 9/5/2005 3:10:00 PM | | That's what I'm saying, what happened to meat1972 is a very common problem amongst strippers. That belladonna is what I meant. | |
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| would you date a stripper? Posted: 9/5/2005 3:22:46 PM | | I've had strippers ask me out. I just didn't know if it was part of their act or not. | |
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| would you date a stripper? Posted: 9/5/2005 3:25:44 PM | | Most respectable guys would not, I mean would I really want a girlfriend whose job is to get guys excited by lap dancing and such and explode in their pants, c'mon! | |
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| would you date a stripper? Posted: 9/5/2005 4:25:10 PM | | I would date a stripper. I'm sure they would like the comfort of a man who sees them as something more than just a stripper. Everyone needs to be loved. | |
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