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 aussiesealady
Joined: 11/10/2011
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Ok. Most people here are presuming the woman is the stripper.

So ladies...
would you date a male stripper?
 mysterioustallmn
Joined: 2/17/2010
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Posted: 3/13/2012 2:44:47 AM
Doubt I'd knowingly date a stripper since I was a bouncer at a strip club in a former life. Most if not all the girls had major problems, children from multiple fathers, husbands in jail etc etc. All of them could be had for the right price and nothing for the right guy, usually a cop, probation officer, DA, or just some guy they think might give them a real job. It's lousy life for most of them. However, if I was dating a stripper and didn't know it until she had proven to me she is a quality person, then I wouldn't hold it against her. Sometimes people just get backed into a corner with very few options.
 Whatheheck1
Joined: 11/16/2011
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Posted: 3/13/2012 8:48:13 AM
Maybe for an afternoon......

Come on man! Have you ever been to a stip club and listened to these "ladies"? Have you watched them prey on the clientele? Have you witnessed one cleverly separating a drunk man and his cash?

A woman who takes her clothes-off in front of strangers for money and lies all day long could not be trusted. She's bound to be dishonest, conniving, materialistic, self-entitled, selfish, vain and jaded.

Not the makings of a good long-term partner.
 ItsDebiSue
Joined: 5/3/2011
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would you date a stripper?
Posted: 3/13/2012 4:10:07 PM
NO.. no need to date a stripper..

but i would like to lick whiskey off HIS nipples.. hahah
 benc1987
Joined: 12/3/2009
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Posted: 3/18/2012 8:38:15 AM
Yes I really want to date a stripper actually, I dont have a problem with a women taking her clothes off for money, its totally different from been a prostitute or anything like that, not like she is sleeping with other guys.

So if theres any single strippers in the UK out there, come check me out, im interested :P !!
 amore01
Joined: 2/14/2012
Msg: 1006
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 3/18/2012 12:58:59 PM
and my answer to that would be a NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 Dukelane12inc
Joined: 3/9/2012
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Posted: 3/18/2012 1:35:13 PM
Sure I have no problem with it in damn near same profession.Wish I know where to come see you
 im_a_rockstar
Joined: 12/29/2011
Msg: 1008
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Posted: 3/21/2012 3:01:15 PM
I would. I've known a lot of them in my life, I'm friends with a lot of them (outside of the bars).

To most of them, it's a job. It's good money for taking advantage of how dumb guys get when a girl talks to them.

Being a stripper doesn't mean they're a prostitute, it doesn't mean they have problems, hardly any of them actually have sex with anyone they meet in a club... a lot of them are just doing it for the easy money to pay for school, or to help cover bills.

They're just like all the rest of us. Normal people working to make some money. Almost every time, outside of the club, the flirty personality is gone too, and you'd never guess that they were strippers.

Also, the guy saying that you really want to date one, there's obviously a wrong reason to want to do it behind that. It'll really just be exactly like dating any other girl, except any trust issues that you personally have with other people will show themselves.
 OneGodfather
Joined: 3/4/2012
Msg: 1009
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Posted: 3/21/2012 3:22:36 PM
hell no.
 mr.dade305
Joined: 3/28/2012
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Posted: 4/2/2012 6:21:36 AM
Yes i would date a stripper
 mr.dade305
Joined: 3/28/2012
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Posted: 4/2/2012 6:23:16 AM
Yes i would date a stripper
 KingofSnuggles
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Posted: 4/2/2012 2:40:00 PM
I have but have asked them to change professions, here's why.

I was a manager in the business and saw what all went on between customers and dancers. No, not all dancers fall under this experience/umbrella but at the same time I cannot do anything about what the customer's would do.

Many girls become very accustomed to the perps touching them, from the slightest brush of their hand on the girls legs to far worse. Some move the hand and even admonish the guy but plenty(too many in fact) are numb to it. I guess they consider it's one of those "comes with the job" type of things. So it really has NOTHING to do with insecurity....nothing.

Spin it another way: Say youre dating or married to a woman and she comes up with the idea of stripping. Would you REALLY be ok with her showing yalls business to every swinging****in town?? I think not
 chef4unow
Joined: 12/16/2007
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Posted: 4/16/2012 4:11:20 PM
Yes, they are like any other person, trying to support a family, make money, just for the sheer joy to dance, it would lead to a equal partnership. If she so chooses to go out, she knows where her bed is, there has to be trust and communication as in all relationships.
I would not ask to change what she enjoys doing. I do not bother her at her work, if she is not working then I will be at her work, to be open minded, to enjoy similar activities.
Some of the girls danced for pocket money, I met a Backhoe drive who made $35 an hour and on weekend made tips, met an RN who enjoyed dancing but it was not permitted by her employer.
 VTECturbo
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Posted: 4/17/2012 5:24:09 PM
Cant take one seriously. Also I'm going to assume her body has a price for which she'd let others 'sample' her wares.

A stripper would get the bone, but not the rest of me.
 optimismfirst
Joined: 2/29/2012
Msg: 1015
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Posted: 4/17/2012 7:51:39 PM
just imagine, while you are at home waiting for her to finsih work, shes griding and dancing and taking her clothes off and other men are watching
just sayin if you are cool with sharing your girl than thats fine
 TempusFujis
Joined: 4/5/2012
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Posted: 4/20/2012 9:48:58 AM
I would never date a stripper , not a chance in hell I can just imagine at Christmas dinner If I brought a stripper to the family Xmas dinner

Imagine the scenario

Tempus: Hi Mom, this Candy Cherries
Mom: Hi Candy, interesting name what is it that you do?
Candy: I'm a Stripper
Mom: excuse me? you're a what?
Candy: A stripper, as in a take my clothes off for a living
Mom: yes I heard you the first time, as she drops the plate of Turkey as she
makes a beeline to the phone to call her lawyer and have me removed from her will
and kicks me out of her place my date and I.
 InMyOwnTime25
Joined: 4/16/2012
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Posted: 4/20/2012 8:34:45 PM
I'm a female (I guess that's obvious from my pic.. I hope :P) and I probably wouldn't date a male stripper because I'd have to sit at home and think about them being all over other females all night.. if they wanted an upgrade from me they could probably easily start dating a super beautiful client.
 ixtlan09
Joined: 12/12/2010
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Posted: 4/22/2012 5:46:18 PM
Depends on if I'm attracted to her or not.
 Mafia23a
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Posted: 4/25/2012 7:52:35 AM
I would love to date a stripper , but it would be very hard to trust her.
 snowstorm22
Joined: 4/22/2012
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Posted: 4/25/2012 12:28:04 PM
When your in bed with her, she'll be on top of you and waiting for you to throw some dollar bills down her panties/bra
so i don't know lol....
 lad3da
Joined: 3/12/2012
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Posted: 4/25/2012 10:23:08 PM
No, I wouldn't date a stripper.
 bigeazzie
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Posted: 4/26/2012 9:03:43 AM
I've dated strippers and I always enjoyed it. They always apreciated the things I did for them and being treated as a person and not an object more than most of the other woman that I have dated. The ones that I have dated were very down to earth, fun to be around , and by FAR the best lovers.
 RyanReed
Joined: 3/14/2012
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Posted: 4/26/2012 12:20:05 PM
I would date a stripper for a week...or two.
 cover_me
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Posted: 4/26/2012 12:51:15 PM
I used to, and would again. She was a great person.



Come on man! Have you ever been to a stip club and listened to these "ladies"? Have you watched them prey on the clientele? Have you witnessed one cleverly separating a drunk man and his cash?


Come on man! Are you ****ing kidding me? Seems to me, the men wandered in there for that very purpose. Did they not know they were wandering into a strip club? Did they not know what the hell goes on in a strip club? Were they forced in there at gunpoint? I think not.


A woman who takes her clothes-off in front of strangers for money and lies all day long could not be trusted. She's bound to be dishonest, conniving, materialistic, self-entitled, selfish, vain and jaded.


And your "better than thou" post proves it, right? I think not. A woman who takes her clothes off in front of strangers for money is nothing other than a woman who takes of her clothes in front of strangers for money. It's a job, that's all.

If you don't like it, don't go in there, but for ****'s sake let's not act like men are victims here. That's bullshit.
 emptyvases
Joined: 4/4/2012
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Posted: 4/26/2012 5:01:14 PM
I tried it one time long long ago. It was a nightmare.
The girl was nutso. Gorgeous, yes, but very crazy. She had men by the hundreds
and thought it was a big game.
Never again.
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