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 The_Big_Slim
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As long as she isn't the type to do extra's ..... I would be game for it. Had a couple of buddies date some in the past, no different than dating someone who isn't in their cases.
 rbk183
Joined: 5/1/2012
Msg: 1027
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 5/18/2012 9:09:43 PM
I probably wouldn't date a stripper either, and if I did, I wouldn't take the relationship seriously at all.
 TheoneandonlyGeoff
Joined: 5/17/2012
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would you date a stripper?
Posted: 6/30/2012 2:46:22 PM
Yea why not its a really good job, self supportive. Strippers are usually hot too, Nothing wrong with a beautiful woman supporting herself.
 Walts
Joined: 5/7/2005
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would you date a stripper?
Posted: 6/30/2012 5:40:13 PM
Right about now, I'd probably date a dead stripper.

 wanderer1999
Joined: 2/10/2007
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would you date a stripper?
Posted: 6/30/2012 5:54:18 PM
Yes, but carefully.

Went down that road a few times when I was young and while there were some great women, a significant number of them had issues.

The bigger issue for me would be her long term plans. I would eventually want to see her transitioning out of that career at some point when it was practical.
 Happy Dude 63
Joined: 5/3/2009
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would you date a stripper?
Posted: 7/4/2012 2:53:13 AM
it seems to me first question is how do you feel about dating anyone with an unusual job..
this is probably the most unusual because it is sexual in nature towards the opposite sex.
and it has health risk issues, maybe.
then dating some one that was in a life style that is usually over whelmed with drugs and being in the company of
all sorts of disgusting people.
I am not sure if I would. I think it would not be her being on the stage naked that would get me...it would be everything else. And I am not even slightly the jealous type. I am very secure.
Now if I met a woman some where and she was amazing and we hit it off and her life was clean and together then she told me she stripped for a living, i would deal with it and support her...i think.
 newenglandguy28
Joined: 3/16/2009
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would you date a stripper?
Posted: 7/4/2012 5:48:18 PM
Short answer yes, to do so you can not be jealous person or if you are you can never go to the club while she is working.

Long version it would all depend on how we met. If i met her at the club as a customer then i would tread lightly, if outside then not so cautions. It would also depend on what club she was working at around here are some clubs that are real strict and dont allow any funny business while some that are anything goes.

All depends on the person i knew one girl that had a 6 fiqure day job that danced 2 nights a week because she liked the attention and the thrill.
 aaronlawd
Joined: 6/27/2012
Msg: 1033
would you date a stripper?
Posted: 7/5/2012 12:37:04 PM
why not its just a job
 Dennis0515
Joined: 7/21/2008
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Posted: 7/6/2012 8:54:32 AM
I would be dating her for more then what she does for a living. As long as what she is doing is "legal" then i would have no problem with it. The real question for me is does she meet my other standards of what I am looking for in a women. Her job is far down that list. If she doesn't meet my previous standards her job will not matter.
 4uazianfish
Joined: 10/7/2011
Msg: 1035
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Posted: 7/7/2012 6:50:47 AM
**** yea.........there is nothing wrong with dating a stripper.......most of the stripper i know are mentally F up to begin with. So why not date them, used them and abuse them. stripper are money hungry hoe's.
 Dolphinboy1976
Joined: 6/16/2012
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Posted: 7/9/2012 8:09:37 AM
I have no problem if my date is a decorator and needs to strip paint
 SirDorksAlot
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would you date a stripper?
Posted: 7/9/2012 10:37:09 AM

would anyone out there date a stripper? would you have a serious relationship without asking them to change professions?


Date yeah sure Maybe...
long term or serious relationship? hell no never, why? because some of them would do almost anything when someone offers them the right amount of money. i have friends/roommates who were escorts strippers for a while.... yeah they told me all the crazy shit they've done for money and stories of the other girls too. I'm not saying all of them but a LOT of them would ;)

I feel bad for the poor suckers who fall for one.
 Whatheheck1
Joined: 11/16/2011
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would you date a stripper?
Posted: 7/9/2012 11:00:39 AM
Send pictures, please....
 peryusx2
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Posted: 7/10/2012 4:25:21 PM
Date? Absolutely. Date long-term? I dunno, that's pretty much up in the air. Just like a few other posters I used to be in the business for a time. My thinking has always been a woman is a woman regardless if she's a lawyer, doctor, stripper, whatever. I've known women that held office positions and are very professional at their respective jobs, but they go all out, party hard during their downtime, and are just total freaks. Others I've known that are strippers are very down-to-earth, hard working, and sweet (despite the few that are pill poppers and what have you).

It's possible to have a long term relationship with a stripper, but I think it depends on that stripper's mindset. On one aspect she could be so into you, initially, then dump you making you become her "flavor of the month" (actually had a conversation a few days ago with a guy that used to be a manager in the business cause his GF is starting to stray, unfortunately). Then there's the one that say she's so tired of dating losers that she just wants someone to treat her right, but she still gets bored because she's set in her ways with making money and possibly doing other gigs that eventually she has no time for you. And then there's the one that does want to be with one guy (probably because she's older and wiser than others or is a single mom).

I know one manager dated a stripper for a while and during that time he was very stern in making other strippers not to touch him or make him touch them. That stripper he dated was loyal to him as well and they just recently had a baby. A former stripper I know decided to stop dancing after she got married and promised her husband...but that was because they were highschool sweethearts. I dated two strippers at different times. First one I didn't know she was a stripper because I wasn't brought in to the business yet until she told me, but I was the typical "flavor of the month" because she hardly had anytime for me because on her days off she would go out of state to make more money. Gorgeous and determined girl, but in any relationship I don't think anyone should play second fiddle (unless there's a child, of course). Second one, so beautiful and caring. We dated for a short while but I wanted to end it before our feelings got deeper because I know her life and her family is here while I will more than likely be moving in a couple of months.

If you want to date a stripper, go for it. It is fun, and take it for what it is cautiously. But if you plan to invest a lot of effort and emotions into the relationship you might be left with a heartbreak. Been there, not fun, and would hate to see that happen to another guy (or gal).
 ADG9292
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would you date a stripper?
Posted: 7/25/2012 11:15:19 PM
yes I would date a stripper
 ohenryx
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Posted: 7/26/2012 7:24:01 AM
I did when I was younger. I had a lot of fun, no regrets. They are human beings, just like the rest of us, some better, and some worse.
 abmccray
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Posted: 7/26/2012 11:25:40 AM
I've dated a few people who ended up dancing, or who once danced, and met and hung out with other strippers via them - and they were all crazy to one extent or another. it basically can't be helped in this area - there is too much heavy drug use and prostitution in the strip clubs here.

It depends on region, though. In Michigan, for instance, there's a high ratio of dancing to prostitution since 50% or so of the clubs are full of women that offer extras IN the club, whereas that's basically unheard of right across the border in Windsor. So, in some places, not the worst idea, in others, stay far away.
 alexvanlee
Joined: 7/25/2012
Msg: 1043
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Posted: 7/30/2012 2:03:53 PM
would i date a girl with the sex appeal of a ferrari...

yes
 alexvanlee
Joined: 7/25/2012
Msg: 1044
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Posted: 7/30/2012 10:49:40 PM
also, have you ever even heard of a unhappy man dating a stripper?

perks
1. great shape
2. your friends will think your a god
3. mind blowing sex
4. the sex appeal
5. you will never get erectile disfunction

cons
1. a little drama
2. could be into drug use. if she's got it under control though, who cares?
3. could possibly steal your wallet
 doig60
Joined: 7/29/2012
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Posted: 8/1/2012 11:40:43 PM
yes if i was their one and only love
 CaptainA.D
Joined: 6/10/2012
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Posted: 8/2/2012 8:16:18 AM
Drug free? Check
Disease free? Check
Not do "extras" Or goes home with customers? Check
Is she hot? Check
Is she independent? Can she support herself? Check

If all those requirments are met, them heck ya i would!!
 r00tzzzz
Joined: 7/14/2012
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would you date a stripper?
Posted: 8/2/2012 9:03:36 AM
No I wouldn't date a stripper. Many of these women have emotional issues or drug problems. If it's not those problems they are more likely use you for your money. Yes there is a few good ones out there but very hard to find.
 curvesweetblonde99
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Posted: 8/4/2012 6:02:56 PM
No. I can honestly say I would not date a stripper.

Next question.
 Iredurbio2
Joined: 3/6/2009
Msg: 1049
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Posted: 8/5/2012 4:17:13 AM
We have a few who come into our store from time to time.That's with out thier painted faces.When that second
persoality is applied it is truly amazing.I could only recognize one of them.I have to give a resounding no.
I hope that answers your question O P .That is if your still alive.Sorry it took so long to respond.I was just getting into computers back when you asked this in 2005.
 Perspektiv
Joined: 6/28/2012
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Posted: 8/5/2012 6:37:59 AM
I wouldn't.

I respect the stripper, and wouldn't respect the man who religiously seeks one, but it would be hard to get close to a woman like that, knowing how she earns her dollars.

I'd respect her as a person, and respect her hustle, but I couldn't involve my heart into a woman like that.
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