| was anyone so angry at a x that they wanted revenge? if yes what happened? was it worth it?
Posted: 9/23/2009 5:39:33 AM | Well to be honest with you, Revenge is never an option. I am a furm belever in what comes around goes around. It's time to set back in your recliner with a tub of popcorn and watch he fireworks. Always let karma do its magic. trust me he'll get his just deserts.
or you can shit in a box and have UPS or FED-X deliver it to his residence.
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| was anyone so angry at a x that they wanted revenge? if yes what happened? was it worth it?
Posted: 9/23/2009 9:18:08 AM | I had a ex that keyed my car and even had one of her friends do it for her.. Thank god for security camera's and the local police. This taught her a couple things 1. don't mess with someone who is sneakier and far more patient 2. Don't mess with someone that has dirt on you and can prove it.
It was worth it once I handed the videos to the police officers and knowing it was a felony charge. But I was nice and felt justice was served I didn't turn her in for plagiarism and having her college degree stripped from her, I like getting even and felt I did just that with the legal action but crushing her dreams and career is not my style.... but knowing I can has made my life so much easier | |
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| was anyone so angry at a x that they wanted revenge? if yes what happened? was it worth it?
Posted: 9/23/2009 8:45:52 PM | | Hi guyd42 I found u response interesring. I tried to message u bit couldn't bc I don't live in canada:( so it wouldn't allow me ..I'd love to here your story about what happened and hoe u got revenge. I find this a very intersting topic for diacussion. As I'm sure that many people have acted out revenge in some way shape or form if they r hurt badly as my friend was. | |
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| was anyone so angry at a x that they wanted revenge? if yes what happened? was it worth it?
Posted: 9/24/2009 11:09:15 PM | Kind of, with one ex.
We broke up, I felt like shit for a few days. He came back and wanted to get back together--I agreed, but only because I had a plan in store.
I wont get into detail. But lets just say, I felt GREAT after our second breakup because I got revenge and I was able to piss him off severely.
Not saying it was the best thing to do, but....had we not got back together, I would have been moping around for WEEKS over him. Instead, I only had a couple of days of that. hehe. | |
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| was anyone so angry at a x that they wanted revenge? if yes what happened? was it worth it?
Posted: 9/25/2009 10:09:44 PM | | Well I appear to be in the minority here but yes, I was once so angry at an ex I got revenge; what happened was he ended up getting divorced because of my actions (which he made possible), yes it was worth it. But I will also add this occurred in my wild, intemperate youth. I can't forsee an occassion where as an adult, I would take the same course of action. | |
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| was anyone so angry at a x that they wanted revenge? if yes what happened? was it worth it?
Posted: 9/26/2009 12:00:21 AM |
But she loves him and wants to keep the family together especially for the baby.
What he's exhibiting is not love and how she's responding to his behavior is not love...it's something else that is twisted and unhealthy for her to accept his behavior and want him back...she just needs to lose him and move on...and no i've never been so angry at an ex to want revenge...altho I did have a cheater once...but I just walked away. But it appears this relationship started wrong from the get-go based on her twisted perception of the situation...she's wasting her life on him...she needs to move on. | |
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| was anyone so angry at a x that they wanted revenge? if yes what happened? was it worth it?
Posted: 10/4/2009 4:35:47 AM | i've allowed myself to extract revenge on my ex. was cheated on, we broke up, she kept seeing the guy she had cheated on me with. I went and kicked the ever-loving-crap out of his car. OMFG, it felt sooooo good, and i even got to admit to them that i had been the one to smash the car up....
then i was told that the car he was driving......wasnt his...it belonged to the long-distance GF that he was cheating on . wow....i felt like absolute trash. his long distance GF was even a great girl, who i saw on a regular occasion after that.
since then, i've learned that 'revenge' need not be a negative action directed at those that have hurt you. like others have said, move on, and become the best that you can be....what goes around, comes around.
satisfaction comes when you least expect it. being a sh!+y person is it's own punishment, so i try not to giggle when i hear that life has bit my last GF in the ass. instead i'm pleasantly motivated to continue my upward shift towards personal growth and happiness. | |
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| was anyone so angry at a x that they wanted revenge? if yes what happened? was it worth it?
Posted: 10/4/2009 10:08:27 AM | I've seen couples doing things to each other at the time of a breakup and it made me see that they ---trying to find words for this idea ---- were hurting their own spirits, degrading themselves, by going to war with each other when they could have just put it behind them quickly. I lost respect for them.
It's best to behave in a classy mature manner no matter what wrong was done to you. | |
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| was anyone so angry at a x that they wanted revenge? if yes what happened? was it worth it?
Posted: 10/4/2009 10:26:45 AM | my g/g found out her husband was cheating on her-she went to his work(where they didn't even know he was married) and threw a fit-she got "escorted" off the property...she's plotted oout scenarios for her revenge...but never has done any of them....then i know a girl that found out her husband cheated on her with her sister so she slept with 3 of his friends...that backfired tremedously.....bad divorce.....
i've thought about trying to get my "just desserts" but then i realize....why the hell am i even wasting the energy on this person? move on and be happy IS THE BEST REVENGE!! | |
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| was anyone so angry at a x that they wanted revenge? if yes what happened? was it worth it?
Posted: 10/5/2009 7:21:12 AM | | I find it funny that almost everyone on here seems to think that people who do bad things just naturally get what they deserve. It sure would be nice if it worked that way, but really a lot of the time ***holes just get away with being ***holes. Life isn't fair. Unfortunatley, going out of your way to get revenge doesn't usually make things any better. | |
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| was anyone so angry at a x that they wanted revenge? if yes what happened? was it worth it?
Posted: 10/5/2009 8:12:37 PM | | When I was with one of my ex's he gave me lice for 5 months, knowing that he had it, lied to my face about it and treated me like shit on top of it. I outcasted him from my small-knit high school, and let everyone (including the school district ) know that someone with lice was around 100's of kids. I don't care what other people say it felt DAMN good to get back at him for those 5 months of hell he put me through. And yeah being with him was stupid, but I learned alot from it. Some people need to learn by getting a slap in the face, and this guy's family has had lice in 8-9 times....I mean talk about gross!!! So yes it can be worth it, but don't sacrifice your well-being for his sorry ass. | |
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| was anyone so angry at a x that they wanted revenge? if yes what happened? was it worth it?
Posted: 10/6/2009 6:48:34 AM | Absolutely, considering I lost my job and had a breakdown because of my X. The games she played pulled me apart. Anyways several months after telling her to get lost, she tried to start an arguement on the street with me, near where she works at a Methadone clinic in Oshawa. I told her to leave me alone and went right to the Police, they marched into her work and spoke to her, telling her to leave me alone. I also found out the guy she was with after me dumped her as well !! Well this past Aug. she shows up at my bar, telling people she's looking for someone to take care of her, I look over and pipe up, " Good F-ing luck with that" ! Then I told her to take a hike, because I knew she was planning on getting me back! Now she's on PoF looking for victim # 3 !!
Very, very toxic woman ! I laughed about her when I saw her out here !!!!
Sorry guys can't tell you who she is !
But yep, I smile now when I see her these days, knowing what a big time looser she is !!!! | |
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| was anyone so angry at a x that they wanted revenge? if yes what happened? was it worth it?
Posted: 10/6/2009 9:59:38 AM | | The best way to get back an ex is dong nothing but showing that person your stronger then he/she besides getting revenge is rither childish and nothing good will ever come out of it ....Tell your friend to be a strong women not for herself but for her child loving a man who's quick to jump in the sack with another women is nothing more then a dog and as they say if you lay with a dog you'll catch fleas | |
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| was anyone so angry at a x that they wanted revenge? if yes what happened? was it worth it?
Posted: 10/7/2009 2:49:51 AM | | You bet revenge is sweet. I've scrawled a**hole into paint, took a Harmon Kardon into the streets...opps it dropped. As for that camera opps again...that sweet old truck you've been rebuilding looks like it might have a few baseball bat dents while being stripped. You bet revenge is sweet....makes me smile everytime and I couldn't agree more. Living a life well is good...creating pain priceless. | |
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| was anyone so angry at a x that they wanted revenge? if yes what happened? was it worth it?
Posted: 10/7/2009 9:11:47 AM | Ok now ladies dont get any ideas...
When my husband left for the girl he knew 3 days after meeting her in a bar I was hurt. But when she had the gall to call me and say "How about you take care of your kids and Ill take care of your husband" I kinda got pissed.
I took a syringe. Extracted the oil from 5 large cans of tuna (the tuna packed in oil!) snuck over, used my truck key, and injected the tuna juice into the passanger seat of his truck (yes into the foam under the upholstry!). Yes it was summer, yes it was a horrible smell! He never knew it was me. But he sure must have wondered why every time she sat there it reminded him of a tuna factory.
I would never do that now. Just sinks you to their level.
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