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 tamra903

Joined: 10/7/2007
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was anyone so angry at a x that they wanted revenge? if yes what happened? was it worth it?
Posted: 10/11/2009 5:27:32 AM
I realize the thing about the Karma and all....but forgive me for not thinking of karma when my "X" left after constantly beating me senseless constantly.Only ONCE did I try and fight back,and wound up in the hospital.After he was gone..I sold ALL his construction tools(air compressor,drills,etc...) new $300 un-built storage building,alot of really expensive stuff....I sold everything for under $20 a piece just b/c I was pissed/hurt so bad.I piled all his clothes in the back yard and burned them....I even had something on my mind that is so bad,you don't want to hear it.;-{
Here's the kicker....WAIT! Don't shoot!!!
I'm the dummy that suffered in the end.I wound up taking him back and having to replace all those things to get back in business.I realize how wrong that was,and I STILL regret doing that.Yes,it was childish and ignorant.That was a long time ago,and I've learned better coping skills PTL.
But I WILL admit,it DID feel good at the time I did those things.
 HappyHappyGirlGirl

Joined: 9/23/2009
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was anyone so angry at a x that they wanted revenge? if yes what happened? was it worth it?
Posted: 10/17/2009 10:25:18 AM

People who have done bad things to me - usually something bad happens to them eventually anyway. I just hope I get to hear about it in the end.


lmao That's priceless.
 Wingsonmyfeet

Joined: 5/7/2008
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was anyone so angry at a x that they wanted revenge? if yes what happened? was it worth it?
Posted: 10/17/2009 1:45:57 PM
Sorry, I definitely don't agree with spending your entire life with someone you hate and obviously doesn't give a crap about you for the sake of the kids, after all, kids growing up in the middle of a toxic marraige don't have it better than kids who have good or great step parents

The problem with revenge, especially in your "friend's" case, all the good things to do are illegal, so she gets caught, seen, whatever, goes to jail, loses her good job, the louse ex gets custody of the kid, and she ends up with a criminal record and paying child support for 18 years, sounds like great revenge!!
Karma!! Soon after I finally got my ex to move in with her new squeeze she had a massive stroke and became a vegetable, a cabbage probably, you just can't get no better than that
 Wicked_Cricket

Joined: 9/26/2009
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was anyone so angry at a x that they wanted revenge? if yes what happened? was it worth it?
Posted: 10/17/2009 2:00:07 PM
If she got rid of a cheating loser with no job and no car, I call that revenge. Her life should be all uphill after this, just remind her that only dogs go back to their own vomit.
 whatever3321

Joined: 12/13/2008
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was anyone so angry at a x that they wanted revenge? if yes what happened? was it worth it?
Posted: 10/18/2009 10:45:36 AM
karma = lazy revenge

My ex did me so wrong that Jerry Springer wouldn't let me on the show. Though revenge is easy to achieve within legal means, you just have to out source to the right people.

Get your ex's personal information and post it up on a website and let the deviants of the web make there life hell. You might get lucky and find their dog for sale on craigslist and have a couple good laughs.
 irinaburcham

Joined: 9/12/2009
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was anyone so angry at a x that they wanted revenge? if yes what happened? was it worth it?
Posted: 10/18/2009 11:21:36 AM
Been there. Revenge is not worth.
 *lilacwine*

Joined: 6/26/2008
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was anyone so angry at a x that they wanted revenge? if yes what happened? was it worth it?
Posted: 10/18/2009 6:39:41 PM
My husband left me for another woman. Married her six months after our divorce was final. They both harrassed me and her ex-husband over the child support and custody and we all spent thousands of dollars on attornee's fees. For years, I dreamed of getting revenge but of course I didn't act on it.

Their marriage ended after five years. She turned out to be a psycho. She went through all his money and left him with tens of thousands of dollars in credit card debt and attorney's fees (from them trying to get custody of her kids from their father, after she walked away from them to shack up with my husband) and was sleeping around with guys half her age. By then I had forgiven him and moved on with my life. At our daughter's wedding, he wanted to confide in me and cry on my shoulder, saying he "didn't know just how fkcked up that woman was." I said, "No thanks, that really isn't any of my business; I don't want to hear about it."

What happens is that the cosmos has its way of exacting its own revenge. Good will always win out over evil. What goes around comes around. That is a law of physics and it applies in the world of human relationships as well.

 Chee Chee Rod

Joined: 10/6/2009
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was anyone so angry at a x that they wanted revenge? if yes what happened? was it worth it?
Posted: 10/18/2009 7:45:25 PM
Did I actually take revenge on the ex...uh, no, but to be honest...just the thought of it is better than sex!!!!
I chose the high road (like other posters) and have decided to just live a good life instead.

 Illusion Of Normalcy

Joined: 10/9/2009
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was anyone so angry at a x that they wanted revenge? if yes what happened? was it worth it?
Posted: 10/18/2009 8:17:31 PM
My ex screwed me over good... and I did nothing about it. All I would have accomplished by getting revenge is causing more animosity and making my the break harder than is already was. I just left and never looked back.
 damassteel

Joined: 7/22/2009
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was anyone so angry at a x that they wanted revenge? if yes what happened? was it worth it?
Posted: 10/20/2009 6:30:44 AM
I'm not the moral high grounder on certain things... like getting cheated on.
Yes I did seek and GET revenge on a cheasting GF and the guy she cheated with.
She brought this guy by my house when we were together and she introduced him as a friend. We were all gettin cozy and drinking MY wine, eating MY food,etc. Somewhere down the line she announces that she's attracted to him and If don't do his or that she' thinking of having an affair with him. I tell her that I don't care what she does, just conclude our bussiness first. No way she's gonna be living in my place eating my food, bathing in my hot water etc. and F*cking some guy too! She backs off... or so I thought. Later it comes out that she actually did do this guy...Three times! Took her back...only with the idea of setting up a Macheavellean plan. I suggested we start another branch to my business. She's a fairly decent project manager and he a pretty fair computer and film guy. I arrange all the contracts and paper to insure my exposure in the case of failure is minimal. I wait until he's thousands invested in time and capital and she's got major time against it. Then I scuttle the whole thing and neither one of them can do a thing about it. She never got paid and it cost him about 15K. Sweet.
 Shanadoah

Joined: 4/24/2006
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was anyone so angry at a x that they wanted revenge? if yes what happened? was it worth it?
Posted: 10/20/2009 10:14:22 AM
Seriously people...this let the Karma Gods handle it is all well and fine and will work no doubt, an A$$ will get paid back eventually without any effort. I must say though taking it into your own hands speeds fate along and makes for some hilarious deserved stories.

Buddy there talking about security cameras the internet and blah blah blah...nothing says loving like a good key stroke program and balaclavas. 200 bucks will arm your pc with a key stroker and MR/MS will never know the difference til they rip your heart out...then vengeance is yours. If they behave then no worries otherwise you have their passwords and banking info.

Lets see Halloween is coming the possibilities are endless, kids and I are planning it...yep I have taught the next generation. Commence the outcry. They are pretty decient deviants...just gotta teach em how to not get caught in all their excitment.

No I'm not a total deviant in the sense I measure pain given verses that dealt. Just sick of a$$holes who think they will roll over as many people as they do unaccountably. and this most certainly includes a list far outside the boundaries of ex's.Vigil anti probably...not real worried about jail time either, could use some sleep time to perfect the plans, but have yet to be that apparent.

Come Nov 1st I'm sure there will be some new laughs...feel free to seek this ISP....lots of people use this PC....and I haven't a clue where this came from.Just an innocent law abiding citizen who's had enough .

 B0N1TA

Joined: 8/25/2009
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was anyone so angry at a x that they wanted revenge? if yes what happened? was it worth it?
Posted: 10/20/2009 3:04:00 PM
D'you know what?
He did her a big mmmassive favor. She shouldn't take revenge on him, she should thank him. For setting her free. For making her finally realize what a waste of human substance he his and for making her life such a shitty place to live in. She should go out and celebrate, not planning to get even. He's not worth it. He'll always be the father of her child, but that's no reason to stick with him. He 's worthless. I mean come on, no job and no car?? Let him be the other woman's problem. She'll soon get bored of him, they often do.
So if I were your friend? I'd tell her to concentrate on starting fresh. A fresh new start with a new baby and a life without that...that... LLLOOOSER!! He's so not worth it.
The BEST! revenge by far...is being TRULY happy.
 B0N1TA

Joined: 8/25/2009
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was anyone so angry at a x that they wanted revenge? if yes what happened? was it worth it?
Posted: 10/20/2009 3:06:05 PM
D'you know what?
He did her a big mmmassive favor. She shouldn't take revenge on him, she should thank him. For setting her free. For making her finally realize what a waste of human substance he his and for making her life such a shitty place to live in. She should go out and celebrate, not planning to get even. He's not worth it. He'll always be the father of her child, but that's no reason to stick with him. He 's worthless. I mean come on, no job and no car?? Let him be the other woman's problem. She'll soon get bored of him, they often do.
So if I were your friend? I'd tell her to concentrate on starting fresh. A fresh new start with a new baby and a life without that...that... LLLOOOSER!! He's so not worth it.
The BEST! revenge by far...is having a fulfilling and happy life.
 *lilacwine*

Joined: 6/26/2008
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was anyone so angry at a x that they wanted revenge? if yes what happened? was it worth it?
Posted: 10/20/2009 7:10:37 PM

My husband left me for another woman. Married her six months after our divorce was final. They both harrassed me and her ex-husband over the child support and custody and we all spent thousands of dollars on attornee's fees. For years, I dreamed of getting revenge but of course I didn't act on it.

Their marriage ended after five years. She turned out to be a psycho. She went through all his money and left him with tens of thousands of dollars in credit card debt and attorney's fees (from them trying to get custody of her kids from their father, after she walked away from them to shack up with my husband) and was sleeping around with guys half her age. By then I had forgiven him and moved on with my life. At our daughter's wedding, he wanted to confide in me and cry on my shoulder, saying he "didn't know just how fkcked up that woman was." I said, "No thanks, that really isn't any of my business; I don't want to hear about it."


I forgot to mention she also gained about 100 pounds.

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