| Dating a Gemini
Posted: 9/28/2009 7:39:49 PM | Bimba, sorry about your luck that most guys you have met or dated exhibit those signs and behaviour. On the other hand I have never met a man like him that changes his mind, and I'm not just talking about how he feels about me but about things in general and how he goes from happy to angry within a few seconds for no reason. He is very into me, I'm just trying to decide if i am going to continue being into him.  | |
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| Dating a Gemini
Posted: 9/28/2009 7:57:14 PM | | I am a Gemini and I don't believe that my fate is determined by what date I was born. I don't follow the Chinese calendar either (Rabbit). I don't think I have ever been called Bi-polar and I don't think anyone has ever said I have a multiple personality disorder either. I do admit I can be charming at times, when I want something:), but I doubt every Gemini has the same qualities. -Mike | |
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Posted: 9/28/2009 8:26:26 PM | Just what we need, another stupid ass stereotype.
How about a Gemini that is left handed? We should probably round them up and euthanize them. | |
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Posted: 9/28/2009 8:39:52 PM | Well I've been dating a Gemini man since 2007 and I can tell you that he is exciting and unpredictable and fun and sexy and....but then again I am a Gemini rising...and so are my two kids.....Gemini people can keep their feet planted in two lives. I know I do. So does he. Geminis rock all two of them times the lot of 'em. !! | |
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Posted: 9/28/2009 8:53:28 PM | Yay for Geminis!
We have twice as much fun!
With twice the crazy!
And a dash of sexy.
-8sf8 | |
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Posted: 9/28/2009 8:58:10 PM | Both of me are Gemini.... 
For those who have nightmares of Geminis....
We're EVERYWHERE!!!
Sweet dreams...  | |
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Posted: 9/28/2009 9:02:23 PM | It's odd he looks like them....poor lineage perhaps? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
I have found that Gemini's are totally two sided. And often extremists. One could perhaps label it to be bi-polar....if one was a label maker. | |
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Posted: 9/28/2009 9:20:56 PM | Funny how all the Gemini's starts coming out....LOL
My understanding of the human behaviour is nature and nurture. Anything else is mental,...ooops still a bit of both LOL | |
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Posted: 9/28/2009 10:01:50 PM | I'm a gemini....
And I'm crazy as a bag of rabid weazels. And far too intelligent and charismatic for my own good.
Oops. That's not really helping the stereotype, is it?
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Posted: 9/28/2009 10:15:19 PM |
Just what we need, another stupid ass stereotype.
How about a Gemini that is left handed? We should probably round them up and euthanize them.
Well then, looks like my time is up. I'll start writing farewell letters to people in the morning.
Seriously, though I don't take signs seriously - I can only look back at more than one guy with a certain sign and see a pattern. Could be a reaction to me, or something I'm choosing, or whatever - but the sign in my experience was a common denominator. | |
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Posted: 9/29/2009 3:56:40 AM | | My ex was a gemini and she definitely had two personalities, one was very nice and the other one was nasty and you never knew which one she was going to be. She did have bi polar so that is probably a very gemini sounding illness i suppose, boy was she a handful especially for a capricorn like myself. I was actually surprised it lasted two years in hindsight. | |
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Posted: 9/29/2009 4:05:36 AM | | At the end of the day, you have to judge each person on who they are, how you feel about them, and how you may feel in the future, based on past experience. There are too many exceptions for each rule to shy away from certain people due to astrology. Judge everything at face value: with a bit of logic and a bit of instinct. | |
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Posted: 9/29/2009 4:56:36 AM | | Just got out of a relationship with one. Same thing, although it's got to be psych issues as well. Make sure that you protect yourself sweetheart, because regardless of the cause, you deserve someone you can get along with all of the time, even when things aren't great :-) | |
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Posted: 9/29/2009 5:54:07 AM | @8sf8:
You get it! You are awesome!! | |
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Posted: 9/29/2009 6:07:08 AM | Boy a lot of you are posting on here and not reading soldiergirls (the OP) posts.
First off, her man's has been in combat, probably has unfortunatly seen people killed and had to kill people, so that alone probably weights heavy on the man's mind, not to mention soul. It doesn't make him a bad man, just a man who's probably going through a hell most of us, Thank God, don't ever have to experience. So cut the man some slack.
I have told soldiergirl, that the answers she seeks aren't found out here, that she should be discussing this with a professional. Being a Gemini has nothing to do likely with what he may be going through.
Being an ex-soldier and an ex-volunteer medic, a Gemini and also a man who has had to work through his own personal private hell, for reason's other than being in combat; I feel somewhat in the know about such things, so when I advise someone to seek professional help, it's not in their best interest to not do so. Ignore at your own detriment.
Either way, his behaviour shouldn't be interpreted as, "He's not into you" !
My respect goes out to both of these fine people, who don the uniform, to protect their country, freedom and justice.
Have a great day people.
Cheers
Paul | |
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Posted: 9/29/2009 9:49:34 AM | | Paul, well I also know to about PTSD I have experienced that and not from the military. PTSD is not what he has I know that for a fact. After all these posts I really do believe it is from his sign not from being in combat etc etc. I guess too because I have never met a man or woman like him that I had to step out of the box and see what others had to say about their experiences. | |
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Posted: 9/29/2009 10:01:26 AM | | ^^^^ have you discussed, or made an attempt to discuss this with him ? | |
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Posted: 9/29/2009 10:19:41 AM | | He totally agrees with me and says that is him...I guess it is really up to me if I want to deal with this kind of personality or not. He can sure talk the talk though, it doesn't help too that he is ridiculously tall, 6"5. | |
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Posted: 9/29/2009 10:25:56 AM | Ok well, I really don't know what else I, or anybody else out here can do for you.
Ultimately it's up to you and your level of comfort and security in the relationship.
If these are once in a blue moon events and the rest go's well, then it's a small price to pay, if you're both happy together, the rest is just details.
Good luck.
Paul | |
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Posted: 9/29/2009 10:30:08 AM | This post makes me soooo glad I'm a PISCES!!!
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Posted: 9/29/2009 10:34:57 AM | Geez Louise people, hasn't anyone dated a SANE person born between May 21 and June 21. Wake up people. 
I'll employ the same faulty logical reasoning that you Gemini-haters are employing:
It's no wonder you Gemini-haters are all on here: single, unhappy, incapable of finding yourself in a fulfilling relationship. | |
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Posted: 9/29/2009 5:12:16 PM | | well i am a gemini and a darn good one at that there are alot of people that think they are better well then prove it,this is true when i work with other gemini things go really well ideas and creativaty flow very good,im well educated and a master at many trades the only thing i dont like is all the others that think they can and as it goes they cant boo hoo for them,gemini is loving caring and responsible but one thing for sure gemini dont put up with bs to easily and futher more i think the most of you are talking thru your hat if you had a bad experience with someone perhapes you should look at your willingness and your input to make it work and see where you failed and fix it rather then hide behind horoscopes,it would be a more mature outlook to the problem. | |
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Posted: 9/29/2009 5:21:21 PM | Dang, Geminis are all over this thread. I'm scared.  | |
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Posted: 9/29/2009 5:40:08 PM | Gemini, Virgo, Sagittarius and Pisces) are associated with resourcefulness, holism and adaptability so there you go,no wonder you are all in fear of gemini,they are smart quick and determine people that are packed full of energy and ideas ,go see how many of the worlds smat people are gemini and try not to cry on your keyboard and when you think of cancer or leo or scorpio try not to compare that to us we can manipulate them like little babies ,gemini is a resourcefull and adaptable creature and one should not mess with,because if you are dicovered you will not like the outcome .this is from the mind of a gemini ,but hey on the other hand if you want to be fair and not manipulate you will go to the moon with them.and one more is that when the going get's tough all the other's leave but gemini can split in two and stay till the end,let's see one of you do that gemini haters. | |
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Posted: 9/29/2009 9:03:52 PM | | I'm not a Gemini hater, actually I'm pretty infatuated with his one side, and like i said it wasn't until my friend brought up the fact "Is he a Gemini?" when I said he changed his mind all the time about everything etc etc...that is what started it all. I know I shouldn't try to make excuses for this guy but dang it, i have never met someone like him in my life and I'm trying to figure him all out. I think i am still sticking around because he is very intelligent, articulate, and funny and well to me, that is hot. | |
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