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| ~~~Ultimate SINGLES Pre-Sweetest Day Party, Fri Oct 16: Plainfield IL~~~
Posted: 10/1/2009 8:22:49 PM | | Hey...I just want everyone to have fun! And I want everyone to feel welcome and comfortable! These parties are alot of work to put together, maintain, and host! If people write me with what is a legitimate concern to them, I am going to try to address them so they feel comfortable. AND...Everyone is Welcome! | |
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| ~~~Ultimate SINGLES Pre-Sweetest Day Party, Fri Oct 16: Plainfield IL~~~
Posted: 10/4/2009 11:02:58 AM | Tammy these guys are great guys John and Ray and clean and having fun....they did a pole dance not stripped just having fun ....who are the massive e-mails from because if either one of these cutie guys ever decided to make the young ladies get a peek it would be a sure bet you would have one of the hottest dance parties pof could have...and also these guys might not be the only cut ones but they are having alot of fun and maybe some guys should join in it's called flirting...and as for another comment you made about the dances you held...we are a bunch of friends that enjoy each other's company so when some of us are split up for some reason as who is hostessing and co-hostessing we like to be together that's called friendship and supporting your friends in dances they hold ...for everyone that's why this site is a big friendship site and everyone that wants to be part of the friendship is always welcomed new and old friends ...so if John and Ray are having fun why doesn't anyone join in because everyone is welcomed to joke around and make your dance and anyone else's dance something to look forward and Ray and John are the cleanest cuts guys I know....Sorry I can't be there with you guys because of prior committments which I totally am looking forward to , but have fun and I will definately catch you guys on the next dance  | |
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| ~~~Ultimate SINGLES Pre-Sweetest Day Party, Fri Oct 16: Plainfield IL~~~
Posted: 10/4/2009 12:38:04 PM | Deb, I didn't say I had massive emails. I said I had a few emails. And as you know likely know, along with the gazillion emails we hosts receive with positive energy, we also have to contend with some that are negative. We even get some that are downright nasty and rude when we host these events. And luckily we don't take them personally.
I only responded publicly because I have heard it a million times over again with each party that I host...There are some people out there who have preconceived notions of what goes on at these parties. And so those particular people do not attend because they get the impression it is a huge pickup environment of singles on the prowl. I have had men on this site who choose not to talk to me because I host parties. These are some of the people with preconceived notions about the parties.
As for any parties I have hosted in the past...I have hosted a variety of types of events. And as you know, depending on the venue and its ambiance, it creates a different environment and energy for the event.
My words and efforts are to assure everyone these parties are fun for everyone, all are welcome, and the environment is warm, friendly and inviting! | |
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| ~~~Ultimate SINGLES Pre-Sweetest Day Party, Fri Oct 16: Plainfield IL~~~
Posted: 10/4/2009 2:10:46 PM | Tammy well said...but you have to agree these posts always invites everyone to join in so when they come to their first event or gozillian events it's always so much fun and on line is more then a pick up then these dances....I believe the dances are about enjoying dancing and talking without any expectations and if more people all ages and genders just came to one event they would be hooked it is about fun and friendship and sometimes meeting that special one ...but for a pick up scam it's on line dating and opportuntity to meet people and have fun....no one wants to be alone and the posts gives everyone a chance to get in and join and have fun and say what they want even to flirt.....everyone have fun and I will catch up on the next dance..... | |
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| ~~~Ultimate SINGLES Pre-Sweetest Day Party, Fri Oct 16: Plainfield IL~~~
Posted: 10/5/2009 6:20:57 AM | Debbie, you will be missed...
To all the newbies...we are just joking around on this forum...there are no pantless men running around...it is just some of us giving John and Ray a hard time...Why? Because they are such great guys and are able to have fun with all the women on this site. As said previously...we are friends. We all met at these dances and now know that if we go to any dance hosted by POF we will know at the least one person attending...which is always a good thing.
Newbies, you are only newbies ONCE, then you are a part of the POF family and you will most likely join in the fun on these forums as we do now.
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| ~~~Ultimate SINGLES Pre-Sweetest Day Party, Fri Oct 16: Plainfield IL~~~
Posted: 10/5/2009 6:58:09 PM | They really are all very sweet !! I have been out of the loop for some time, I think that is still True, right?? Everyone is welcomed to all the POF Dances, get out and dance and find Friendship ! We are just people looking to connect and maybe find the perfect match! God Bless everyone have Fun and be real!  hmmm about that bon fire sound fun!!   | |
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| ~~~Ultimate SINGLES Pre-Sweetest Day Party, Fri Oct 16: Plainfield IL~~~
Posted: 10/9/2009 8:41:25 PM | Sounds like fun, but I agree with the earlier post about not enough ladies!!! from my count approx 35 ladies out of 116 respondants and each brings three guests on ave. sounds like a sausage fest to me!!! I can go to any night club for that!!!
Indian Girl You need to do some recruiting!!!!!!!!!!   | |
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| ~~~Ultimate SINGLES Pre-Sweetest Day Party, Fri Oct 16: Plainfield IL~~~
Posted: 10/10/2009 1:59:44 PM | Actually Jeff......think about how this site works....if the ladies have restrictions on their profile that only men can email them.....THEN I CANNOT RECRUIT THEM!!!! If they do not have those restrictions...then they already have received an email from me about this party!
It is up to you GUYS to start asking the ladies to go!!!!   | |
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| ~~~Ultimate SINGLES Pre-Sweetest Day Party, Fri Oct 16: Plainfield IL~~~
Posted: 10/11/2009 1:41:06 PM | Hotmama, We'll see. My niece is coming in from North Carolina on Friday evening. If she's up for going out to a singles event then we'll come.
Carol, I'm sure you'll have a great time whether I'm there or not. You don't need me to shake your cute lil bootie. You had soo many men wanting you to dance Friday night. Besides. I think I'm going to take a full time job as the "Human" pole. Karen, Deb, Tracey(1), Carol and Laurie. If I do show up, hope we can all dance as we did on Friday night. And I promise to be good again as I was this last time. No more shows like Galways' ;-) | |
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| ~~~Ultimate SINGLES Pre-Sweetest Day Party, Fri Oct 16: Plainfield IL~~~
Posted: 10/11/2009 7:15:31 PM | | Ok, look for trouble on Friday night... Sounds like I might be coming. My sister, her daughter and I. So there goes the party... The riff-raff may show. I'll add myself and bring down John's Numbers for the ratio of men to women when I know for sure. We'll have to pack a dinner and stop for three tanks of gas to get there lol... But It would be great to be with all of you again. And I'll remain on good behavior to keep my angle status.. | |
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