| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont??
Posted: 9/30/2009 6:52:55 AM | | Personally I would visit a male escort so that i can have my brains shagged out correctly not a useless fumble by a man who suffers from premature ejaculation at least I know I will have satisfaction guaranteed and with a male escort less chance of disappointment. An hour later I can kick him out without his stinky male aroma permeating my house!!! | |
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont??
Posted: 9/30/2009 7:42:40 AM | Interesting question, and I think cakey provides some of the answers
But Personally I don't think it's because of sex drive, I think that the reasons are more sociological.
Women have always traditionally had the subservient role in our society.
They only got the vote 100 years ago, that's in the living memory of some!
Recent studies have shown that despite equal pay legislation,
they still earn significantly less than their male counterparts in the same roles.
If the roles in our society (and biology) were reversed, and men stayed at home looking after the children they had had to interrupt their careers to have, and all the top jobs were done by women, and all the boardrooms were full of women, and we men had to take what we could get in the way of employement, and all the odds were stacked against us.....
I think it would be the other way round, men would be the prostitutes, and women would pay us, and we would think.... suckers!!
It's like any market; driven by supply and demand.... | |
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont??
Posted: 9/30/2009 8:10:10 AM | | Because men have a far greater need for sex than women do in general. It's always been the case and always will be. Despite all the nonsense some women talk and you might read in Cosmopolitan. | |
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont??
Posted: 9/30/2009 8:36:54 AM |
There's no need. Any woman wanting casual sex doesn't have to pay for it. There's a glut of it on offer already!
Apparently according to a lot of men I have spoken to there are plenty of women offering it for free too its not only men tarts there is a glut of!
And as long as there are women like that it leaves little hope for women like myself who are looking for real genuine loving sexuel relationships.  | |
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont??
Posted: 9/30/2009 8:46:22 AM | That just sums some women's attitude up really.
there are plenty of women offering it for free
This goes to show how women see it as something that has to be "paid" for by the man in one way or another.
They seem to think that the only way to find a "genuine loving sexual relationship" is if the "sisterhood" takes a universal vow of chastity and therefore men have to keep waiting in the hope of sex. The real truth is that if a man is genuinely attracted to a woman, it won't matter how many other women are "offering it for free"...
Edit below: You might as well say, "men just want sex and will get it from the first woman who'll oblige"... | |
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont??
Posted: 9/30/2009 8:50:46 AM | When I use the word "free" I mean free of any emotion actually. Not in any kind of payment wise.
If the cap fits? lol I can only comment on my own personal experience of dateing and so far....... | |
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont??
Posted: 9/30/2009 9:11:19 AM | Men go to prostitutes to fulfil a PHYSICAL need without the hassle of courtship and the fear of rejection. Women do not go to male prostitutes because sex is fulfilling an EMOTIONAL need and so it is best done within the confines of a loving relationship.
There is no competition between sex workers and regular women. Never has been. And there is nothing wrong with men paying for sex. Saves a lot of the regular women from having to do humiliating things in the bedroom. What bothers me, though, is women forced into prostitution, as in the case of trafficked aliens. Very bad. | |
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont??
Posted: 9/30/2009 9:32:03 AM |
Men go to prostitutes to fulfil a PHYSICAL need without the hassle of courtship and the fear of rejection. Women do not go to male prostitutes because sex is fulfilling an EMOTIONAL need and so it is best done within the confines of a loving relationship.
I beg to differ, maybe some men want the sex for physical reasons. Please don't tar us all with the same brush, some of us fellas want the emotional part too. A prostitute can be many things, not just a vessel to relieve ourselves. To some, they can merely be a shoulder to lean on.
There is nothing wrong with men paying for sex. Saves a lot of the regular women from having to do humiliating things in the bedroom.
What's a regular woman then? There's no physical difference from any woman that I know. Noone is forced into doing anything, in some countries it's the only jobs available. They may have vast families to look after, with no qualifications other than their bodies. | |
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont??
Posted: 9/30/2009 11:29:12 AM | As lots have said, there are male escorts around, who enjoy having sex with a woman and getting paid for it. When I was in Amsterdam with a girlfriend a few yrs ago, we were offered the "services" of a man, on quite a few occasions. It was a shock the first time, but we soon got used to it.
Many women have a emotional attachment to sex, but not all. I beleive there are many women who see sex in the same way as many men.
We are all different, and at different times need differing things. As women we dont always want an emotional attachment, just a bit of fun, like men do.
And lastly using the services of a Prostitute or Escort, men and women can indulge in things that maybe their partner is not happy to participate in.
Who are we to judge? | |
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont??
Posted: 9/30/2009 11:31:51 AM |
There's no need. Any woman wanting casual sex doesn't have to pay for it. There's a glut of it on offer already!
Exactly. Go to any town pub/club on a saturday night and the guys are there, ready and willing! Then even buy you drinks! | |
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont??
Posted: 9/30/2009 5:40:57 PM |
Sorry fella, but that has got to be the front runner for the biggest load of garbage award for the evening.
Oh really? Well it's my opinion. Maybe you fall into the other catagory, seeing a prostitute as just a "hole". A prostitute, is really just a glorified sex therapist with nooky attached if you want it. | |
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont??
Posted: 10/1/2009 1:13:08 AM | | yes missLjaney, but men can go and pay for it ANY day of the week and at ANY time, you are restricted to friday night down the club IF you meet the right guy, no so convenient. | |
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont??
Posted: 10/1/2009 1:40:42 AM | ^^^^^^
If the woman is half decent looking and portrays an image of availability there are very few restrictions..She is not limited to catching someones beer goggles on a friday night,she could just log on here say she is looking for a hook up and be at it in a matter of hours. She may be better off discreetly using an escort to save the hassle of trawling through the misfits,dirty dogs and axe murders though | |
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont??
Posted: 10/1/2009 10:57:38 AM | I think men and women tend to go and see pro's due to the fact that they know they are having their physical needs tended too without the possibility that the other party will see it as more than that or become emotionally attached and hence probably causing problems/ending a rather good relationship with the others partner.
People need to remember that it does not mean that just because a man or a woman goes to see a pro that they are not inlove with their partner or have a really good relationship with the significant other. Majority of the time it just means that physically their partner might not want sex anymore hence cutting the other off. And rather than end a normal relationship just due to not getting any nookie from home. Men tend to take the other route a more business like route. they pay and have their physical or kinky needs fullfilled without pestering the partner or making the partner feel guilty for not doing so.
Now for the bible basher brigade!!!! | |
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont??
Posted: 10/1/2009 11:07:36 AM |
And lastly using the services of a Prostitute or Escort, men and women can indulge in things that maybe their partner is not happy to participate in.
Who are we to judge?
I'm amazed no one else has picked up on this...
Well, I'm not judgemental often, but I'd have a very low opinion of the person who used prostitutes/escorts behind their partner's back for the sake of a sexual practice their partner wasn't comfortable with.
It's still cheating, its still letting their partner believe they're in a mutually fulfilling relationship.
If they can't feel fulfilled with out certain acts in their sex life, then they need to own up to that, let their partner decide if they want to carry on sharing them.
Folk justify these situations by saying how much they love their partner and don't want to live without them and risk losing them. They even claim they are protecting their partner!
Anyone who tried to make my decisions for me and thought it was ok to lie to me about such things just wouldn't be good enough for me, end of! | |
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont??
Posted: 10/1/2009 11:18:03 AM | It was acceptable and the 'norm' for men to pay to support a woman much more readily than for a woman to pay for a man.
It is only now, in the last generation becoming usual for a woman to earn her own living and in fact to have her own sexual preferences and needs.
It is only a matter of time until eventually women will catch up with the men in thier use of these services.
However we must also bear in mind that it is much easier for a woman to find a 'free' man for sex than it is for a man to find it. | |
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont??
Posted: 10/1/2009 12:10:38 PM | whats that phrase..."every woman is sat on gold mine"!!!!!
I want to make love, not have a quick fumble and wham bam thank you mam with a drugged up female that only wants your money, this here guy will go without rather than pay for it.
Women can always find a man for sex, therefore they don't have to pay for it...statics show that STD's are rapidly increasing in the 40's and 50's age group because women are more liberated now and go out with the intention of finding a one night stand.
If they can afford it they will go with a male escort, but isn't that where they have a meal and the booking is for the full evening or afternoon?
or are they on here looking for a date and to be taken for a meal on the first date...we men pay and then back to hers....isn't that another form of prostitution????
As for sexual fetishes, why can't people discuss it with their partners and have an open discussion? communication and compromise are two elements of a successful relationship...and it could be something their partner has wanted to try but dare not say because of social conditioning and the partner being judgemental.
Wish I was the Guy that invented the rabbit... | |
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont??
Posted: 10/2/2009 12:39:26 PM |
I've never understood why some reasonably decent looking blokes have a fascination with paying for it when I doubt they actually need to.
Its that thing about forbidden fruit that seems to be more important to some men than many women in my opinion.
Being good looking has nothing to do with the, just because you're good-looking doesn't mean you're going to get anybody, a good case in point would be you yourself, I mean you're good-looking but you're a dating website!
Exactly. Go to any town pub/club on a saturday night and the guys are there, ready and willing! Then even buy you drinks!
Theres no shortage of it for either sex, both men and women can go out over a weekend and pull, take them home have sex with them and then when they leave in the morning they will never meet them again.
Having is more to do with how a person feels about themselves rather than how they are viewed by other people, just because you think a bloke is attractive it doesn't mean he thinks he is attractive so we'll go out and sleep with a prostitute because he thinks he wouldn't get anything else, and to be totally honest these days you're probably better off with a prostitute anyway some of the main dishes see out on a Friday and Saturday night really aren't worth bothering with which is why most of it here anyway if honest, I think of all been near a Friday night looking round the bar to see if there's anything day worth trying for, and in the past we've got what we were looking for and after it was all over it was all very disappointing.
Deals seem to think they have cornered the market in walking away from unsatisfactory sex, whereas in reality it's probably a fairly even exchange on the lack of satisfaction from a sexual partner, it is only human nature to think that you are good at something you want to be good at, and just because you think you're good at it it doesn't mean you are!
I'm sorry deals but where ALL guilty of that, after all satisfaction is based on whether or not you come is it. | |
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont??
Posted: 10/2/2009 4:22:18 PM |
why do men go to prostitutes and women dont??
maybe because men are happy to pay to ensure they can, without drama, walk away after the action....
and women dont want to?
vvvv pretty much my point too..... I have no qualms about anyone's intentions.... | |
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont??
Posted: 10/2/2009 7:22:20 PM | Because Men need love and warmth and cuddles n stuff.
Women dont like doing this as much.
But some heroic Women will provide this service in exchange for cash..
And everyones happy
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont??
Posted: 10/2/2009 8:29:39 PM | just going off the title the thread ,
wrong wrong wrong ohhh ever so wrong !
women do go to male escorts. ok isnt as bigga business, but women do !
ive a friend who thru mid late 80s & into 90s was male escort, & again in early 00's
& he said he had "dates" every nite he wanted, again all shapes all sizes & all same reasons!! | |
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) but if his g/f was busy and he felt the need he paid for a service. No emotion was involved and no guilt on his part as it didn't involve intercourse ........... although he hadn't told his g/f about this and she was a bit miffed when she found out.
