| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont??
Posted: 10/3/2009 3:14:01 AM |
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont??
Posted: 10/3/2009 4:43:13 AM |
Thank you for the backhanded compliment, but I'm not on a dating website because I can't get a shag, I'm here because I struggle to filter out offers I want to take up!
Again, women tend to want to like the whole package, not just the hole!
Which is exactly my point Sam, people who meet casuals in bars tend to get somthing thats not worth a week never mind anything else.
It is out there if you want it, and I think most of us are here because we dont want it, we want something more than a one night stand, or something measured in days/weeks. | |
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont??
Posted: 10/3/2009 5:17:18 AM | | Lol. I agree with that Blade Runner, but I'm lost as to how it relates to me wondering why men would rather go to a prostitute and pay rather than just pick up a girl in a club?! | |
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont??
Posted: 10/3/2009 5:39:19 AM | Its all in the head.
There isn't any one specific reason why men visit prostitutes!
The reasons range from far and wide, lack of confidence in one's ability to attract the opposite sex, the desire for a particular sexual act that one would think a girl whom you pick up in a bar wouldn't do, a desire to have sex with somebody who wears overtly sexual clothing, or the desire just have sex because you're not getting it at home.
So many reasons, so many different reasons. | |
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont??
Posted: 10/3/2009 5:55:00 AM | Right, in the cases I know;
- I REALLY can't imagine that confidence is an issue
-Those 'girls who will' in the clubs often dress overtly sexually, if anything more so than women I've seen on street corners, or in lap dance clubs.
-The availability of 'girls who will' in clubs means I don't see why not getting it at home is a reason to pay
-I guess my lack of experience in taking those girls home means I can't comment on what acts they're willing to perform, though the type cast I'm struggling not to think of, would no doubt have practiced in her head at least all the things she's thought made a girl look sexy on Redtube or what ever pornos she's watched! | |
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont??
Posted: 10/3/2009 8:30:02 AM | | my guess is it's because women can get sex anytime they want, it's not difficult.....plus men like the idea of it being purely a business transaction....no need to flirt, face rejection, dress it up as a date, and hope she'll give out at the end of the evening...why waste 3 hours in a restaurant when he can pay for what he wants and just get down to business? | |
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont??
Posted: 10/3/2009 10:00:32 AM | | One thing Ive always wondered about, do male prostitutes hang about on street corners as females do? The thought of ladies kerb crawling makes me laugh. Ive only ever heard of male escorts working through agencies. | |
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont??
Posted: 10/3/2009 10:31:07 AM | No , most of them advertise their services on the backs of pub toilet doors........
well that's how it seems to me, I've only been in my new job 4 weeks, and have had to repaint the gents door twice already. | |
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont??
Posted: 10/3/2009 2:37:56 PM | er there's a quigmire available within every twenty mile radius of this country!
Why would we pay when we can have it on call whenever for free!
"Girl Power to all the ladies"  | |
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont??
Posted: 10/3/2009 4:31:16 PM | why do men go to prostitutes and women dont??
Sex !!! Its that simple... some men can control there urges, the one's that can't seek the services of woman who they can have uncomplicated sex with.
A woman can have sex with a guy they don't fancy as they don't need blood flow to stimulate them like men do. | |
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont??
Posted: 10/3/2009 4:39:10 PM | Of course women use male escorts for all the same reasons men use hookers. If you can afford someone decent you are guaranteed they are clean, open to your requests and most of all discreet. Win win for everyone.
Compare that to your Friday night one nighter who may or may not be sexually healthy, may or may not share your 'interests' and who probably has a load of mates who hear something if not everything about the night.
If you can afford it why wouldn't you?????? Morals aside of course.
Just looking at the business case for it. I can see the reasoning for it when it's in the abstract. If a partner of mine was using one I'd cut his knackers off though | |
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont??
Posted: 10/4/2009 3:30:13 AM |
Of course women use male escorts for all the same reasons men use hookers. If you can afford someone decent you are guaranteed they are clean, open to your requests and most of all discreet. Win win for everyone.
Compare that to your Friday night one nighter who may or may not be sexually healthy, may or may not share your 'interests' and who probably has a load of mates who hear something if not everything about the night.
If you can afford it why wouldn't you?????? Morals aside of course.
Just looking at the business case for it. I can see the reasoning for it when it's in the abstract.
I have to say i agree with you there!
If a partner of mine was using one I'd cut his knackers off though
I doubt if he'd shout it from the rooftops  | |
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont??
Posted: 10/4/2009 4:11:55 AM | Its beyond me why any man would part with good money to stick his d1ck somewhere that another guy may have only recently vacated. Its gross. Even bagging it up is not enough in my opinion. And I am not a hypocrite. I feel the same about male prostitutes. I dont want anyone coming near me who has been poking someone elses vagina in exchange for a few quid.  Eww | |
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont??
Posted: 10/4/2009 4:41:10 AM | | In almost every debate on this forum i see people making equivalent arguments for men and women to try and make out they are the same. This topic is interesting cause it is proof that men and women are different. Women can get sex anytime they want with minimal effort, hence the massive female prostitute market | |
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont??
Posted: 10/4/2009 4:45:27 AM | Because men like other males in other species need s*x, and as most women know, many men will have contacted them for s*x, it's in our instincts to breed. Female prostitutes know this, so what better way to make money.
You might say that a relationship where the woman doesn't work and the man does is another form of prostitution, depending on how you want to put it lol.
Put the boot on the other foot, why don't women go to male prostitutes? Because theres hardly any male prostitutes around and women wouldn't pay for something that they could get easily enough for free. Women in general find it easier to get laid than men, even though they don't need s*x as much as men. Even a relatively unattractive female could get laid easily where as a unattractive male couldn't. Maybe this is why most s*x offenders are men? | |
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont??
Posted: 10/4/2009 5:22:00 AM |
Women can get sex anytime they want with minimal effort, hence the massive female prostitute market
And therefore so can men, because these women need to be sleeping with someone. | |
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont??
Posted: 10/4/2009 7:47:42 AM |
And therefore so can men, because these women need to be sleeping with someone.
Perhaps then another possible reason could be that it allows unattractive men to have sex with gorgeous women who would normally be out of his "league"?
The earlier point about arousal being necessary is a valid point in this context.
Men may be er... unable to rise to the ocassion,
- if the "customer" was less than appealing?
And most men would certainly struggle with 20 a day surely?
(or whatever figure it is)
Whereas all women need is a little bit of "lube", and the ability to say oooh.
whilst filing their nails... | |
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont??
Posted: 10/4/2009 8:12:13 AM |
Perhaps then another possible reason could be that it allows unattractive men to have sex with gorgeous women who would normally be out of his "league"?
Perhaps, but your average streetworker who is turning tricks to feed a habit won't necessarily be gorgeous.
Neither will someone doing it because they want to, necessarily be model material either. | |
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont??
Posted: 10/4/2009 9:11:39 AM | | Because the women who want sex are on here and don't have to pay for it.Even the lets say not so pretty women can get sex.Women are just as interested in sex as men are too. | |
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont??
Posted: 10/4/2009 9:18:22 AM | Going to a prostitute isn't just about sex or whether a woman is nice looking. Who are all these women on here who are getting sex sleeping with then? Men I presume.
But yes in order for that argument to work then average looking girls would be bagging all the male models leaving the average looking guys to go to prostitutes.
Some people are addicted to going to prostitutes full stop. Many men who use prostitutes are married or have girlfriends and possibly have regular and decent enough sex lives at home. I also find the comment about women wanting sex being on here and not having to pay for it rather offensive.
Please don't tell me that there aren't men on here only looking for a legover? There are and I'm sure some of them have been quite successful.
It isn't just single men who visit prostitutes. | |
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont??
Posted: 10/4/2009 9:28:31 AM |
even though they don't need s*x as much as men
I don't beleive that at all. In fact, in my experience, some men feel threatened by women who have a high sex drive. | |
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont??
Posted: 10/4/2009 9:54:32 AM |
Even a relatively unattractive female could get laid easily where as a unattractive male couldn't. Maybe this is why most s*x offenders are men?
So if someone is struggling to get laid at home, they then go out and commit a sex offence?
Rape has very little to do with sex, it's about power and control. As for other sex offenders like the one that has been all over the press this week, 2 of them were women.
Not getting laid doesn't make people turn into rapists or peadophiles and I think that's a massive assumption to even suggest. | |
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont??
Posted: 10/4/2009 2:26:47 PM |
And therefore so can men, because these women need to be sleeping with someone. What are you talking about? Why do the women "need" to be sleeping with someone? They can get sex anytime they want, doesn't mean they are. Men can't, hence the prosititute market. I really don't know what you're arguing about the facts speak for themselves, the market doesn't lie | |
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont??
Posted: 10/4/2009 2:31:54 PM | Ah I see, they can get sex anytime they want but they don't actually get it therefore the men they would have been sleeping with are visiting prostitutes.
Makes more sense when you put it like that. The point you made was that women can get sex anytime they want. Well if so, I would assume they might be sleeping with a man, who is also getting some sex.
HTH
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