| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont?? Posted: 10/4/2009 2:40:28 PM | women can get sex anytime they want........difference is, unlike a lot of men, they won't have sex with just anyone just for the sake of it.......if a man wants to get laid he has to go out and work for it......with no guarentees he'll get it......if a woman wants to get laid, she just has to make it obvious and she gets it.
So although women can get it any time they want......it's on their terms.......so there are an awful lot of blokes that go wanting......it doesn't mean the women are sleeping with every man that wants it. | |
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont?? Posted: 10/4/2009 3:26:37 PM | Spot on mizphitz. The other thing is although a man, with a lot of work and spending a lot of money may be able to get a shag, it won't neccesarily be the eg blonde with big tits he desires so prostitues offer a quick and easy solution. Also you need single mates to go out with to do the pulling and if you're mates are shacked up then you'd have to go out on your own which most wouldn't do.
Saying that though I've never had one cause the pleasure comes from knowing she wants me | |
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont?? Posted: 10/5/2009 8:14:51 AM | Women can get sex anytime they want? How. Do people fall at their feet walking down the street? Do you think every female on earth only has to go to a pub or club and someone will automatically offer them sex. I think that is quite frankly a load of rubbish.
Plenty women get nil offers, why do you think there are so many single women? Because they are ALL so fussy and knocking back offers of sex left right and centre?
Or because the women who are getting sex are taking their share of all this sex that's on offer. | |
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont?? Posted: 10/5/2009 8:23:25 AM |
Women can get sex anytime they want?
Yes, most can..of that there is no doubt. Only the really awful ones might struggle!
Do people fall at their feet walking down the street?
No, that's not how it happens.
Do you think every female on earth only has to go to a pub or club and someone will automatically offer them sex.
And nor is that. We men try to be a little more subtle, if only slightly!
Plenty women get nil offers, why do you think there are so many single women?
As I've said, the really bad ones (bottom 5%) probably will get nil offers. You are confusing being single with being sexually open; two different things!
Or because the women who are getting sex are taking their share of all this sex that's on offer.
I very much doubt it!
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont?? Posted: 10/5/2009 8:31:21 AM | I'm a man and I have never "been with" a prostitute.
I have met some lads that have, and roughly the same number of women that claim to have "used" an escort agency at some stages of their lives.
All depends on how important sex is to you. | |
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont?? Posted: 10/5/2009 8:35:37 AM |
No, that's not how it happens.
Ok then, seeing as it's been commented on so often on the thread, how does it happen? I bet you there are some very attractive single females out there who haven't been offered sex in quite some time.
I'm not confusing single with being sexually open, we are after all talking about offers, women don't actually have to accept these offers.
But the comments have been made, women can get sex if they want it, I disagree so I am asking why people have come to the conclusion that most women can get sex if they wish. | |
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont?? Posted: 10/5/2009 9:03:09 AM |
how does it happen?
Well Pauline...I'm taking you on trust here that you're not just having a laugh! How it generally happens is that the man approaches the woman (or vice versa) and a conversation takes place. The man (or sometimes woman) invites the other back to their place. The man will usually "do all the running" (so to speak!) and the woman either partakes or doesn't! Men (with the odd exception) won't just come up to you and say "Fancy a shag?"...but most women will read the signs and know that most men need and want it!
I bet you there are some very attractive single females out there who haven't been offered sex in quite some time.
Probably the same ones who don't talk to men, don't accept dates or offers of drinks etc, and don't accept invites to men's bedrooms!
I am asking why people have come to the conclusion that most women can get sex if they wish
Because it's patently obvious! I absolutely guarantee that the great majority of women with any ability in human interaction whatsoever could get it any time they like! | |
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont?? Posted: 10/5/2009 1:04:29 PM |
Women can get sex anytime they want? How. Do people fall at their feet walking down the street? Do you think every female on earth only has to go to a pub or club and someone will automatically offer them sex. I think that is quite frankly a load of rubbish.
if a woman only wants sex and isn't fussy who from then yes she can most definitely get it any time she wants.
Plenty women get nil offers, why do you think there are so many single women? Because they are ALL so fussy and knocking back offers of sex left right and centre
being single has absolutely nothing to do with it.........sex is just sex.......in the context of this discussion it has absolutely nothing to do with being in a relationship. | |
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont?? Posted: 10/5/2009 1:42:05 PM |
Probably the same ones who don't talk to men, don't accept dates or offers of drinks etc, and don't accept invites to men's bedrooms!
Surely you have to be asked on dates first. Or be offered drinks or invites to mens bedrooms. That's the point I am making.
You can only accept sex from someone if they happen to offer you it. | |
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont?? Posted: 10/5/2009 1:50:22 PM |
Surely you have to be asked on dates first. Or be offered drinks or invites to mens bedrooms. That's the point I am making.
no of course not......if a woman ONLY wants sex......dating had absolutely nothing to do with it....she doesn't even have to leave her home!....all she has to do is log on to one of a hundred sites and she can be shagging within the hour ...... guy's can log on to the same sites of course... but they have to hope they are the one she'll pick :) | |
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont?? Posted: 10/5/2009 1:53:45 PM |
it seems like there are millions of prostitutes in the world for men, and therefore there is a massive market for it.
But when it comes down to it , there are no prostitutes for women, this must prove that women are not interested in sex alone?
I think it's as you say, women want more than a fk, even though I have heard that the male pro's are very good, and paid very well, most women do want the extra bit ...
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont?? Posted: 10/6/2009 9:12:51 PM | | I ran/owend/and operated a small male escort service before.The wimen that used the service had different reasons for useing it.Most of them had the money to do anything they wanted in life and paying for male company was no exception.Plus they liked the class and hunks that they could have,i want what i want and I want it now.Some had hangups about men and couldnt or didnt know how to get what they wanted from them.But mostly it was "i got the money and I want what I want". | |
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont?? Posted: 10/6/2009 11:54:58 PM | I think its a lot easier for a woman to go out and get sex when she wants then it is for a man.
And also alot of women would prefer to spend thier money on shoe's and go home and play with bunny | |
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont?? Posted: 10/7/2009 4:05:29 AM | | only ever paid for sex with one women, that cost me the house,dog,car,fittings and fixtures and everything else, mind you we did have to wondeful kids together so it was worth it,sex with your partner, not always what it's cracked up to be, lol, I'd rather go without sex than Pay for it. Although I do miss it. | |
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont?? Posted: 10/7/2009 7:41:54 AM |
Pauline are you for real or a wind up merchant!? It's already been explained to you above how a conversation with a man can lead to sex.
With can being the operative word. Doesn't always does it? That is a bit different from making the statement that women can get sex anytime they want.
It may have been explained but I don't agree, that is the point I am making.
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont?? Posted: 10/7/2009 7:57:54 AM | | A women can get sex any time she wants. Even if you never get chatted up, doesnt mean you cant get sex , if a women went up and asked a man for sex, 9 times out of ten she'd probably get it. Of course most women dont do this so they dont realise how easy it'd be. | |
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont?? Posted: 10/7/2009 9:21:00 AM |
Women often try and argue they're just as much into sex as men...it's a self-perpetuating lie that is proven by the fact that female prostitutes vastly outnumber male ones
Well given that there any loads more female prostitutes they must be into sex as much as men otherwise they'd not have sex with the guy regardless of how much they were paid for it.JMO
I think Pauline means....if she walked up to a random guy and tried getting it on with him then it isnt 100% that she'd get into his pants,maybe but not definate. | |
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont?? Posted: 10/7/2009 9:34:38 AM | Women love sex...just as much as men sometimes...but most women find hiring a male prostitute pretty degrading...and most women can get laid for free. It's much more difficult for men to get laid...especially when they're ugly. lol So, henceforth why God made prostitutes and beer. LOL | |
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont?? Posted: 10/7/2009 12:13:05 PM | I'm confused........
Every time I've offered it, I get a slap!
Perhaps Sainsbury's is not the best place to offer it? Perhaps if I'd paid for the shopping, and then offered?
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| why do men go to prostitutes and women dont?? Posted: 10/7/2009 2:26:53 PM |
Perhaps Sainsbury's is not the best place to offer it? Perhaps if I'd paid for the shopping, and then offered?
They could be worried about where your going to swipe the nectar card.... | |
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