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| Why Do girls go for Bad Boys
Posted: 6/25/2011 7:35:30 PM | and just what is a bad boy?
some one that is into motorcycles, disappearing for long intervals, has a large dose of apathy to the cutsie notions of affection and attraction,
they dont flock to my door.
Maybe if I upgraded to drugs, crime, baby mama breeding, ho'in around, chronic unemployment, aggressive behavior including violence, and joined a band for variety and to show off the new tattoos.....
then maybe I will be 'bad' enough
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| Why Do girls go for Bad Boys
Posted: 7/10/2011 8:59:36 AM | There was a confident guy in Grand Rapids that was the take charge type. Of course he killed himself the other day after taking out a couple of former girl friends and some of their families. Guess the guy that hadn't spent time in prison and had several PPO's taken out against him didn't stand a chance.
The women could have found out very readily about his past on the the internet. They either choose to ignore what he had done prior or didn't care. After all he was the non-boring guy. You know the boring guy; the guy that pays his taxes, has a job, owns his own home, owns his car, earned an education, respects the woman in his life, treats her with kindness, donates his time, money and resouces to the less advantage.
Guess it is better to die a non-boring life than to live at all. | |
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| Why Do girls go for Bad Boys
Posted: 7/10/2011 12:44:46 PM | I haven't read all the posts in this thread, but this is a response as to the first post.
You think girls go for the bad boys...
Often time girls go for something different because depending on the girl you could be giving too much attention. Perhaps what you're doing appears fake and you aren't actually treating her like a queen. I think that girls go for the bad boy because the "nice" guys are easy to get but the "bad" ones give them a challenge. It all depends on the girl.
Perhaps the type of girls you like is the problem? If you date only one type of girl they usually are going to like the same type of guys, which appears to be the bad boy in your case.
Instead of getting all angry about this, talk to them about it. When you are about to date someone new, find out if they enjoy space, how often do they want to be around you and that sort of thing. You don't want to be the type that constantly is there and constantly bugging them when obviously they hate that type.
I wish you luck though! | |
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Posted: 7/15/2011 11:49:41 AM | Love Transcends Prison Walls
Dominick Maldonado shot 7 people in a Tacoma mall and got a 163-year sentence. But that didn't stop him from meeting his soul mate.
He must have asked her how much space she needed! | |
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Posted: 10/12/2011 9:05:14 AM | | welcome to the club! depends how thier father was with mother,/how treated by exs. biggest thing is women compete they want change /be with the one other women want. they are dumb as hell cos cant really change anyone | |
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| Why do girls go for a**holes?
Posted: 10/12/2011 9:08:24 AM | ans post. but how do us nice guys convince you we not bullshitters /tend to tar us all with same brush  | |
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Posted: 9/7/2012 8:14:22 PM | I'd love to see a realistic description of these "bad boys" you men are referring to!!
I've seen everything from abusers to dead beat dads used in this thread!!
Huge difference between what most of us women consider a "bad boy" and what you mean think, quite obviously!! | |
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Posted: 9/7/2012 9:46:15 PM | This is very true,although a woman would never admit to it..Doing so would mean being held accountable for hers and his actions to family and friends,biggest copouts for this are..He is having a bad day..He is just tired and cranky today!
The past couple weeks I have read 100's of profiles and the are all generally the same..
My name is Sally..I am looking for a man who is honest,faithful,trustworthy and kind,must like kids!
If there were to be any honesty in theses profiles,they would read like this..
My name is Sally,I am looking for a man that can teach my kids how to be seen and not heard,to take away any hopes,dreams and opinions that they may have. I am looking forward to spending time with that special someone by holding hands on the way to the bank so I can hand over my paycheck for a night out with the fellas,while i sit home with the kids,watch tv and stare at Facebook..I would stay up late and wait for him,because a drunk driver might run him over as he is stumbling across the street from the bar to his truck..Quality time would consist of him following me around while i run the errands and do all the shopping,to make sure i don't respond to the guy at the register when he asks "paper or plastic,ma'am?" Must care enough about me to know every move I make and must have the patients to wait outside the bathroom door while I do my buisiness to make sure I dont climb out the bathroom window for an orgy in an alley downtown..Last but not least,he must always accuse me of lying and must waterboard me and stab toothpicks under my toenails for the truth! Why? Because I love him!
Outsiders looking in,see the truth..If you show any type of kindness or feelings,you are labeled as weak..So either women don't want anything to do with you or worse,They take advantage of you!
The moral of the story is "NICE GUYS FINISH LAST" we have all heard it a million times..It is what we grow up hearing,so much that we believe it..even at a subconscious level! | |
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Posted: 9/8/2012 5:56:20 AM | Here is the hard fact: women will always want the guy who gets the heart racing.
A woman can be married 30 years, but if some guy comes along who can whip her head around, the rest of her body is going to follow.
You can forget all the advice about finding the "right" woman. Instead, learn to have a bit of an edge yourself. Don't always be so "understood".
I have now some women and some pandering men attacking me for posting some out of the main ideas, but, as much as some of these women are saying I'm "trash", I bet I can get the majority into bed later that night. (Most I would not want to).
So, it's an act. Learn to be an actor. Or let your true masculine self come through and see if that works, and it will, no matter what the dudes on here say about women wanting a sensitive guy. They got enough girlfriends. They do not need another one with no boobs. | |
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| Why Do girls go for Bad Boys
Posted: 9/8/2012 10:23:19 AM | i agree ^^^^^
you've got to have your edge on.
show a woman a good time, don't be afraid to skirt to the border of the law, have drinks in your car, take em to a nudist camp or a strip club and even jump into the mosh and invite her in with you for a short while (don't want to get her hurt).
give her some analingus or bang her in the cemetery.
do something with them that they've never done with a man before. but above all be a man. | |
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Posted: 9/8/2012 11:26:06 PM | | (OP) This old question has a simple answer - Girls don't all do this or that. Girls who go for bad boys are idiots, per a certain defintion of bad boy, whereas there is more than one thing referred to by the term bad boy (this term is used in too many different ways). If you learn how to not associate with the girls who go for bad boys, you'll find a quality woman, a wholy different world. | |
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Posted: 9/27/2012 10:39:34 AM |
Why is it when a guy treats a girl like sh*t, she stays with him, but when a guy treats her like a queen, she leaves?
It's been said that good boys/good girls go to heaven, while bad boys/bad girls go everywhere else.
As has been pointed out, if nothing else they usually are not boring. Some people don't like to be bored. Anything but boring. The thing is people expect the baddie to be bad with everyone but them. That's the rub. Why would you expect a tiger to change it's stripes just for you?
Others prefer someone who isn't the bad boy but has a bit of edge to them and see them as an angel with a scruffy face.
Others are completely content with a relatively mundane lifestyle.
Pick what you want, but choose wisely because you may well get what you wanted. | |
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| Why do girls go for a**holes?
Posted: 10/6/2012 3:02:44 AM | I think this applies more to younger women, and on that token, it's not too complicated. I find young women tend to define themselves based upon who they are with. Being with a guy is more of a necessity for them. For their life to be complete. For them to be satisfied and happy.
Another issue is, quite frankly, young girls don't really seem to have fun on their own.
When I look for a girl to date, I want someone to care for. I don't mind if she's normal, safe, intelligent, clean, etc..
A bad boy is exciting and hard to predict, so if a girl is bored with her life and a "bad boy" comes along, she will be very tempted to accept the ride..
Just a theory and a generalization, obviously it does not apply to everyone. | |
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| Why Do girls go for Bad Boys
Posted: 10/6/2012 7:12:29 AM |
A woman can be married 30 years, but if some guy comes along who can whip her head around, the rest of her body is going to follow.
er, probably applies to the majority of men as well? can be married for 30 years (or any time) but if a woman comes along...
or are all men "faithful for life" ?
yeah, riiighht.....my own father was a whore-master so I saw it first-hand | |
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Posted: 10/7/2012 4:40:35 PM | | ^^^that would all depend on what turns a person on. Not everyone is excited by some one treating them badly or ending up looking like a fool. The fact is, if a person likes that sort of treatment they are going to look for it and the 'nice' person who doesn't understand it needs to look more closely at what is attracting them to someone who is looking for the 'bad' type. It's just as dysfunctional to seek those who don't want you as it is to go around wondering why some people do some things and you think they should change for you. Why so much need to get that woman who's not at all attracted to you? Figure out that issue and work on it and you will no longer chase the opposite of what you say you want. | |
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Posted: 10/10/2012 9:15:39 AM | | I think we are dumb sometimes but i learned....I do go for the bad boys usually because the looks but i don't think I would leave a good guy...I think that sometimes if they are tooo nice I don't like it....I like guys that are nice but at the same time have a little bit of bad in them for example in bed..maybe...LOL or every now and then...LMAO to tell u the truth... | |
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Posted: 10/28/2012 8:59:28 PM | | This is not true. I suppose there are women out there that do this as some form of battered women syndrome, but seriously, there are a lot of really nice men out there...why waste time with someone that treats ya like crap? | |
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| Why Do girls go for Bad Boys
Posted: 10/29/2012 8:13:53 AM | Agree with you, Want to Travel -
and Add: The OP's thred title says it all.
Real women go for Real Men, GIRLS go for Bad BOYS. | |
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