| Why do girls go for a**holes?
Posted: 7/18/2005 11:25:02 PM | | WELL i treated my 1st Gf like a queen and she went back to guy , who beat her. So, I think it is because most women want to be treated like poop poo!1 They always say they want a challenge. But is not a challenge just equal to playing head ganes. thus creating communication problems. | |
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| Why do girls go for a**holes?
Posted: 7/19/2005 1:39:31 AM | | I know two knock out women who recently married two very average nice guys. These two guys don't make loads of money, they will never make a top ten sexiest list and they are a couple of the nicest guys I know to the point of being a little goofy or even geeky. Go figure. These two girls could have married almost anyone they wanted and had dates lined up for days (one even had a stalker... scary!). I think when it comes time to settle down we all look for something different than when we were playing around. So don't be too discouraged shawn. There is hope for the nice guy (and girl!). | |
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| Why do girls go for a**holes?
Posted: 7/19/2005 3:02:34 AM | | they may not intentionally pick the ***holes, but i'm sure they don't stay with them because of their personality. | |
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| Why do girls go for a**holes?
Posted: 7/19/2005 3:27:06 AM | Posted By: Sundog(d187894) on 11/10/2004 5:36:04 PM
Subject: Why do girls go for a**holes?
Message: You can be bad and be good...as long as you are bad where it counts *evil grin*
!~! this says it all !~!
Intrigue is hot | |
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| Why do girls go for a**holes?
Posted: 7/19/2005 4:14:20 AM | | It all depends on the ***hole. Some are better than you think, but just express themselves in tough terms, say crazy things, but under all that a few are pretty decent in the long run. Then there are your hopeless ***holes who have had a bad time of life, and it colors their thinking into jaded ways and expressions. The human mind is a complex thing, and maybe some women think they see a redeeming grace behind the ***hole image. | |
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| Why do girls go for a**holes?
Posted: 7/19/2005 7:18:03 AM | Here's your answer Shaun:
Girls go for a$$holes instead of niceguys, because there is more drama, and women, (no matter how much they will argue the fact) -LOOOOVE drama and the 'thrill of the chase.'
Guys, have you ever noticed how, when you give a girl constant attention, and call her alot, she eventually gets sick of it and dumps you?
There's no challenge there.
That is why girls like a$$holes. Keep in mind, this is GIRLS, not women.
Women, who are old enough and mature enough to understand relationships and responsibility, do not go for a$$holes.
usually. LOL
This is more of the exception than the rule, sadly this type of game play is what makes relationships complicated for some. I think there are guys that are a little on the needy side and can drive a female away too; there are any number of combinations that may drive someone away.
Being nice doesn’t necessarily suggest that because you’re nice it drives them away, it could be in how you define nice. I’ve seen many people that are nice, but their intentions are a little far fetched and they become like mother hens to their mates.
I consider myself a nice guy but I also realize that this isn’t a formal, its simply exercising common courtesy and mutual respect. I don’t get involved with psychological game play or drama. There is nothing to gain by playing a role or feeling some need to make things conditional. | |
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| Why do girls go for a**holes?
Posted: 7/19/2005 8:23:32 AM | Buzweaver has the right idea, I would concure.
Ever heard of a band called "No Doubt?"
In the song called "Bathwater."
Gwen asks the very same question..."Why is it that the good girls alwys want the bad boys?" | |
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| Why do girls go for a**holes?
Posted: 7/19/2005 9:22:31 AM | i havent figured out why "bad boys" or ***holes are more attractive... they just are
Probably because you dont know anything, and are a loser yourself
(how attractive was that for ya?)
Note the word "boy" in bad "boy"
Like attracts like, remember that | |
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| Why do girls go for a**holes?
Posted: 7/19/2005 10:05:06 AM | ok here is the real deal that every woman will argue till shes blue in the face about, yet since most dont date women I coudl care less what they think. Women say they want a nice guy WRONG!!!!!!!
They want a guy who is a challenge and not boring. They will take a guy who mistreats them time and again becuase they can't get enough of the challenge and "wanting a nice guy" goes right out the freaking window. So when a girl says "I want a nice guy" just reverse it and say to yourself "BVLLSHIT!"
Any girl who says "no but really I DO want a nice guy" is also a nice girl and very boring herself so they make a perfect pair UNTIL a challenging guy comes along and she dumps the nice guy. DON'T ever ever beleive it for one second if you value your life!
The PURE truth:
Aholes get more women
Aholes get laid more
Aholes get to choose their partners not "settle"
Aholes have "hotter" girlfriends
If you don't like it tough nuggets cause thats how the world spins around.
Don't shoot the messenger! I know I'm generalizing here but its overall true.
Now let the flames start coming but who cares they are the ones who will try and convince you that they want a nice guy but given the chance they eat their hearts for lunch lol | |
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| Why do girls go for a**holes?
Posted: 7/19/2005 10:07:34 AM | LoL...
I dont know bro... Maybe it is something about them wanting a challenge too... If a guy threats you like a queen... then there is no challenge there...
Maybe it is the "bad boy", girls have always been after... If you treat a girl like shit... you probably are after the "bad boy" image... and girls get turned on at bad boys...
It is something we will never know... | |
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| Why do girls go for a**holes?
Posted: 7/19/2005 10:09:15 AM | | because then we dont have to blame ourselves when the relationship doesnt work everyone knew he was a bad boy | |
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| Why do girls go for a**holes?
Posted: 7/19/2005 10:15:26 AM |
because then we dont have to blame ourselves when the relationship doesnt work everyone knew he was a bad boy
haha very true and well put lol | |
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| Why do girls go for a**holes?
Posted: 7/19/2005 10:19:31 AM |
Why is it when a guy treats a girl like sh*t, she stays with him, but when a guy treats her like a queen, she leaves?
I ask becouse of my current situation...
I'm to the point where I think girls are just stupid as h*ll, and not worth my time anymore to try to be with.
Never treat a woman as if she is better than you. Most guys call it "being nice" or "being a gentleman", but it's really called "being a wussy". Being a wussy will make a girl lose interest faster than if you rolled around in dog crap before a date.
Women want to be RESPECTED, not coddled. They want to be treated kindly, not queenly.
Think of treating a woman "queenly" as eating chocolate : if you eat chocolate all the time, you will get sick of it, and probably vomit. But, if you eat chocolate occationally, it's extra sweet. And if you aren't given chocolate at all, get the hell away from there and find some chocolate! :P | |
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| Why do girls go for a**holes?
Posted: 7/19/2005 10:27:04 AM | The PURE truth:
Aholes get more women
Aholes get laid more
Aholes get to choose their partners not "settle"
Aholes have "hotter" girlfriends
I think I'll throw my no hitting/yelling at girls right out the window with this truth, and hard to get sounds fun as well! No more even Semi-nice guy for me! In truth, from this day forward, I shall be rude to everyone and be quite the bad boy! (before I was a semi-bad boy, but boy is not a mature enough term for me so) | |
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| Why do girls go for a**holes?
Posted: 7/19/2005 10:29:17 AM | nope nope nope your missing the point I never said rude aholes, if you walk around being a rude ahole off the bat u wont have many friends let alone girlfriends. lol
read the post above its very good | |
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| Why do girls go for a**holes?
Posted: 7/19/2005 10:29:22 AM | | And if a girl complains to me about her bad boy boyfriend I'd tell her to shut the f*** up about him and that she obviously has better out there for her, or I'd boycott emotional support until she leaves him, and if they break up I'd say "its youre own damn fault girl". | |
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| Why do girls go for a**holes?
Posted: 7/19/2005 10:31:37 AM | | i wouldnt say shut the **** up thats crazy. I would say sorry im not your shrink and I'm not here to analyze your brain and leave it at that. She wants a shrink have her pay it with her own time and money. | |
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| Why do girls go for a**holes?
Posted: 7/19/2005 11:00:53 AM | the same reason primates do
go for the alpha
usually the prick appears to be the dominant one
most people shouldve learned by now not to mistake kindness for weakness
it,s a good way to end up with a row of missing teeth | |
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| Why do girls go for a**holes?
Posted: 7/19/2005 11:10:08 AM | i wouldnt say shut the **** up thats crazy.
Yes, but it is very A$$ hole like, and that's what girls apparently like. | |
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| Why do girls go for a**holes?
Posted: 7/19/2005 11:14:01 AM | | I have always been curious of that myself Shawn, or rather why girls choose to be with the half witted jerk offs that populate the world even though there are better guys out there for them. it kind of bothers me actually cause I thought some girls I have met were smart till i see them clinging to some idiot who treats them like crap. | |
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| Why do girls go for a**holes?
Posted: 7/19/2005 11:16:58 AM | | Here's a question, how do you *know* that the ***holes get more women ? I certainly haven't seen any stats. | |
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