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| The limits of patience Posted: 10/6/2009 2:24:35 AM | | Stop trying so hard and read "The Seven Spritual Laws of Success" by Deepak Chopra. From this he would learn the power of intention without being attached to the outcome. This is a much more effective & enjoyable route than down right just trying. | |
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| The limits of patience Posted: 10/6/2009 2:44:41 AM | taking advice on dating from single people on a dating site is never advisable
the very fact that they are on a dating site looking for a date means that they aren't exactly successful in the art of finding love .. the blind leading the blind. | |
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| The limits of patience Posted: 10/6/2009 4:35:07 AM | Lowering your expectations usually helps ;)
For example being a paying member of some dating site doesn't mean they have to provide you with a beautiful woman double younger than you  I think this is some guys unrealistic expectation for paying maybe 10 pounds per month to a dating site | |
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| The limits of patience Posted: 10/6/2009 4:48:40 AM |
For example being a paying member of some dating site doesn't mean they have to provide you with a beautiful woman double younger than you
oooeerrt double younger than me will be 92 - far too wrinkly methinks. | |
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| The limits of patience Posted: 10/6/2009 5:44:42 AM | The OP is a very educated man and that sets him apart from the hoipolloi. Most overeducated men find it hard to socialise with women, probably because they have no interest in soap operas, shoes and gossip.
We do not know if he is describing himself in the post or if he is trying to make conversation - better not to judge and offer links to the Samaritans, etc. until we are sure. And there is nothing wrong with his looks or the fact he is wearing glasses. If anything, they are rather smart glasses.
Anyway, we are discussing the limits of patience. I feel patience goes alongside with hope - the hope that things will improve in the future. When you have hope, you have patience. | |
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| The limits of patience Posted: 10/6/2009 5:54:34 AM | taking advice on dating from single people on a dating site is never advisable ..
I like that! Im of the opinion that if its meant to happen it will and if it isnt then it wont, as in every day life. I think its all mapped out for us. You could walk to the bottom of your road tomorrow and meet the love of your life.
I remember years ago coming home from work one day with a really bad cold and feeling and looking like death. There was a knock at the door and it was a strange man looking for someone (not me I might add). He never did find him but we got chatting and I dated him for months. 
Lisa44 what a horrible thing to say. You realise we are all clicking on your profile now to see if youre so perfect. | |
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| The limits of patience Posted: 10/8/2009 1:20:41 PM | | Thanks for your spirited defence lynx-1950. But, ironically, I do love books and collect them madly - and I am often called boring by people, especially here. I also work in education so I clearly fit some sterotype somewhere. I am also a bit bored myself with so little happening apart from what is on the schedule. So there must be something in what she says! The rest of Lisa444's comments don't seem to be on target though. | |
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| The limits of patience Posted: 10/8/2009 2:51:04 PM | | totally agree message 25 ,to tell some one to get more trendy when not trendy them selfs is totally out of order and quite nasty | |
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