| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/2/2009 4:00:21 PM |
I actually paused last November, for two seconds, before I pulled the lever.
Keep politics out of it.
I'm never thrilled about the idea but if it turns him on, I'll do whatever he enjoys within reason to make sure he's having a good time.
Well that's mighty sportin' of ya. I'd feel like that doing certain things with a partner, if I ever found something that I wasn't thrilled about. | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/2/2009 4:24:21 PM | Several of them men I've been with have loved it. Now that it's on my want-to-do-with-a-partner list, I'm finding in discussing the topic with men, they're nearly always either neutrally positive ("Well, I'd be willing to try it with you") or enthusiastic ("I'm so glad you're into that too!") about it. I've yet to talk about my sexual predilections with any man I've dated who has reacted negatively to it.
Which is to say, those who've tried it generally seem to enjoy it, in my experience. It is something I will ask of any guy I date, and from what I've gathered, not something they seem to mind being asked. | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/2/2009 4:36:23 PM | Been with a few "very not gay" men that loved it!!
If I can make my man's orgasm more intense.....then by all means....I'm all for it!
I even purchased a special little prostrate massager because I have long, sharp fingernails and I was worried about hurting him!
and yes, he loves it! | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/2/2009 6:02:28 PM | | Ilike it- I sometimes masterbate with anal play. I can't take it like my gf though. I love something annaly as I blow. Not too much into strap on play- I have done it but most women tire out quickly, but it gives them an appreciation of what men actually do. | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/2/2009 7:45:43 PM | | I think it all depends on how open minded the man is about other activities. You can simply ask him if there are any places he doesn't like to be touched. If he says no, start exploring and see where it leads. | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/2/2009 7:55:23 PM | The ex loved it, and he was straight as an arrow. When will people get it in their heads...Male+Female=Hetero, no matter what freaky stuff you do!
If you've never tried it, don't knock it. Guys who are afraid it might mean they are gay somehow, try it with your girlfriend, and let her massage your prostate while she blows you, you will lose your freakin' mind. My ex used to cum so hard he would scream my name. It was awesome. You don't know what you're missing! | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/2/2009 8:18:42 PM | If done gently and as part of a bigger picture you bet. Like all sex it really is about your and your partner`s attitude. Oh nooooo, now i can`t stop thinking about glory holes!!!!!  | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/2/2009 8:43:17 PM |
I see you listed UFC as an interest. So you enjoy watching 2 sweaty men wrestle around on the ground wearing nothing but spandex... word on the street is that makes you homosexual... ZOMG! It's okay, openly embrace it as I have, it's more fun on my team!
big difference in the sport of fighting and having a chick play with ur butthole, you little sissy. | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/2/2009 10:49:36 PM | | The very definition of homosexuality is strictly a same-sex attraction. It really doesn't matter *what* you do with a member of the opposite sex; as long as it's with the opposite sex, it can never be "gay." Maybe you could consider it weird or unusual by some definition, but the act has nothing to do with same-sex attraction. Anyone can enjoy it, just as anyone can dislike it. | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/3/2009 9:14:24 AM | i am so gay lol i had an ex while giving me oral stimulate my prostate and that was intense,i actually had a multiple tell you what call me gay but i will not discourage a woman from letting me have multiples. | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/3/2009 10:48:13 AM | I once saw a show where the main character was a call girl. In response to this question she answered "90 percent of guys would tell you before hand that they're not into it... but, hey, once its up there..."
Prostate massage is effective, but personally I think it's cheating. If you can't make him come any other way its the last act of a desparate woman. | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/3/2009 12:18:53 PM |
Prostate massage is effective, but personally I think it's cheating. If you can't make him come any other way its the last act of a desparate woman.
Well that's just stupid!
If a woman told you...."I will cum twice as hard if you pull on my ear while screwing me".....
wouldn't you want to give her a more intense orgasm? or would you think your magical dik would be enough and she can just deal with it ?
besides the fact.....that as some men get older.....orgasms is harder to achieve -
and massaging the prostate is normally that little trick that will take them over that edge. | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/3/2009 4:22:19 PM | I've had a few women I have been with try to stimulate me with some anal play but it seems that I'm one of the guys for whom this is not an erogenous zone. As for guys fearing that it might be a sign of some closeted homosexuality, they only need to worry if they are wishing that the woman who is playing with there bum was actually a dude!  | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/5/2009 8:16:51 AM |
big difference in the sport of fighting and having a chick play with ur butthole, you little sissy.
If you had half a brain cell you would have looked at my profile and see that I also have UFC listed. Unfortunatley that's not the case and I refuse to get into a battle of wits with an unarmed person. Point of view and ignorance can be close friends. | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/5/2009 12:26:37 PM | Not a fan of it. After 2 Full-Flexible Sigmoidoscopies I've had my 'fill'. lol However, if my partner wants to play/experiement there I will, and have, let her. Tis only fair.
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/5/2009 5:31:22 PM | I'll second that times 2!!! More like idiotic ...
Well that's just stupid!
MOST people in here GETIT. If your sexual partner has NO penis and you are guy and enjoy her body the way it is and are not fantasizing about a body that does have a penis then pretty much ANYTHING you do to and with and for each other is NOT gay ... providing you DO have a penis. Got it kiddies?
Gays have orals sex. So anybody suggesting that a guy getting blown by a woman is gay? If they do then nothing ... np amount of logic written here will convince them otherwise. They are morons and losers with a capital LOSER!!!
There is another interesting thread here:
Milking Thread
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=98657
I posted there after a recent meeting in NYC. Lemmie tell you the prostate massage during an enthusiastic BJ is THE I mean THE most intense orgasm a guy is able to have shy of wiring a 115KV hydro line right into his cerebra cortex!!
Oh and just to clarify. Although she had NO penis she did have a beautiful place to put one so things were good!! | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/5/2009 5:39:53 PM |
I never understood why some people think it's gay if a woman is doing it to a man. That's like saying men giving women anal is gay. If it's heteros , male with female, enjoying each other, it's not gay.
 makes perfect sense to me......................I'm in! | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/5/2009 7:40:49 PM | I think any guy who tries it will like it.
But there are some guys who don't want to try it at all and don't care if they will like it.
One guy likened it to getting to a proctologist exam or getting your anus check by a doctor - 'is that enjoyable?' Hey, I don't like my doctors fingers up my cootch, but under the right circumstances, that could be enjoyable. So while the doctor or the proct might not be enjoyable - some other circumstances can make it enjoyable if you are open to it.
Men's straight-out rejection of anal stimulation may not have something to do masculinity, but what about his boundaries? Can't a guy have some? If this crosses his boundaries, then why not let his boundaries be respected.
Oh.... because he usually tries to press a woman into compromising her boundaries while holding onto his. Tsk, tsk. Respect is as respect gives.
So if he can respect your boundaries, then I say respect his. Personally, I'm not all that interested in having my ass stimulated, tossed, or penetrated either, so that one boundary I can respect for a man. Feather tickling is about as far as I would take it and hopefully he would be open to that.
And no, I don't think having your ass stimulated makes you gay. Voluntarily having other men stimulate your ass makes you gay. | |
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