| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/5/2009 7:47:14 PM | Gonna add this little tidbit too -
there's stuff I might willing to try just for the curiosity of it
but I wouldn't want to marry that curiosity.
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/5/2009 9:23:02 PM | Judging by how uncomfortable I was during a medical exam, I can definitively state:
NAY!
Truly an excruciating experience, by a probe slimmer than a finger. Oddly enough, I wasn't comforted by the nurse patting me on the hand and saying "Relax, it'll be easier for you."
For real?!? 
I wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy, much less myself or my lover. | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/6/2009 2:59:22 PM | yay! bring it!
Every guy has two levels of orgasm:
1) This is the easy one that just about comes out on its own... very little stimulation needed.
2) This one shoots out like a firehose! And only happens when your partner is wearing just the right sexy clothes, saying the dirty stuff we want to hear and doing the dirty stuff we want! Like a prostate massage 
I remember the first time i had a level two! It felt so good I thought I could read Arabic! | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/6/2009 4:56:51 PM | Oh dude, I can't hope to describe the difference in sufficiently descriptive terms between some witch doctor checking for prostate cancer and a lover sucking hungrily on your kok whilst gently massaging your prostate.
Judging by how uncomfortable I was during a medical exam, I can definitively state:
NAY! Truly an excruciating experience, by a probe slimmer than a finger. Oddly enough, I wasn't comforted by the nurse patting me on the hand and saying ...
Have you vere had your teeth cleaned by a HAAACK. Your lips bleed for days, your jaw hurts, there are little nicks in your gum where she "missed" your tooth and it feels like she was trying to pull your adenoids out. Then you go to a pro. It is gawdam sensual. Rubber gloves gently probing the inside of your mouth like some kinky lover. Her pick never touches a gum, she isn't stepping on your lower jaw to get deeper and when it's over and she sez "spit out" (don't be disgusting) it doesn't look like you've ruptured an artery in your throat and are puking blood.
THAT's the difference.
The feeling is very similar to that last few seconds before you cum. You know you can't stop and that is about 30 to 50% of the intensity of the overall orgasm. With prostate massage THAT feeling can and with a skilled (and sadistic  ) lover WILL last for an hour or more. THEN you have your normal orgasm and it feels like your brain is being sucked down a hole in the floor. I know what it feels like to be sucked into a Black Hole ( and no, she wasn't). It feels like your spine is being pulled out your urethra but in a good INTENSE way.
NO, buddy. A doctor poking you there is NOT even close to what we're describing. | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/6/2009 5:17:52 PM | I'd say about half and half of the guys I've been with enjoyed actual anal play, while most enjoyed massage of the perenium and general stimulation. Very few actually were aware (or open to) checking out the prostrate massage. Meh. Their loss. You can only do what people are comfortable with. I'd just start with the perenium and gauge their reaction. Talk about if you feel it will be an issue..but honestly usually that isn't =) And go from there. I've never not been able to tell when a guy's boundaries were getting tested. Depending on the guy, push it (a little) or back off.
Of course..I haven't dated many homophobes..I'm sure that would change things up a bit. | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/6/2009 10:26:35 PM | | Anal play, what's to nay about? A number of years ago I was involved with a wonderful lover who introduced me to the erotic pleasures of play and penetration. Our relationship was short lived due to her relocation (to Europe) for work. In retrospect I'm thinking frequent transatlantic travel wouldn't have been so bad. | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/6/2009 11:11:43 PM | All I got to say is that I've never been afraid to experiment, even though I consider myself straight.
Sex is a private act (IMO)between two (or maybe three people) so I'm always surprised to here on how strident ppl are about "being straight" when the lover on the other side doesn't really care. | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/7/2009 9:15:06 AM | It does not mean he is gay. It stimulates his prostrate.
Some men like it, some don't. If he want's it, nothing wrong with that unless he is obsessed about it as with anything.
Not my thing, but I don't like banana ice cream either so what?
He will let you know if he trusts you what he likes. | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/7/2009 9:41:41 AM | i gotta turn this one back on the ladies;
if you're with a guy... and out of the blue he asks you to don a strap-on... what do you say or feel?
to me it'd be like a girl asking me to put on a fake vag, so she can do cunnilingus on me.
i'd get that whole "why am i even here" feeling
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/7/2009 1:59:21 PM | | have faith, my son. Arse play may not be something you will master or understand all at once. It's not as easy an instrument as the wang, which you probably mastered in about 5 minutes. | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/9/2009 1:05:01 AM | Honestly, I love it so much it's not even a good BJ unless your hand that's cradling my sack has the middle finger massaging the entry point... faking like it's going to try to go in or is actually hooked in and massaging the hotspot.
100% "HELL YEA!" | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/9/2009 6:29:43 AM |
i gotta turn this one back on the ladies;
if you're with a guy... and out of the blue he asks you to don a strap-on... what do you say or feel?
I went with it and found another thing that I really enjoy. My reaction was along the lines of, "Hmm, I'm not sure, but I guess I'd be willing to try it." Yes, the strap-on was his idea, at least initially. As it turns out, I quite enjoy the experience.
to me it'd be like a girl asking me to put on a fake vag, so she can do cunnilingus on me.
i'd get that whole "why am i even here" feeling
You analogy doesn't make sense.
Okay: strap-on sex stimulates BOTH partners. There are harnesses that sit directly over the clit, and many of those come with bullet vibes to slip into the harness and stimulate the female wearer. There are also dildos like the FeelDoe that don't get held up by a harness, but are designed to be held in place by a woman's vaginal muscles while she penetrates her partner. Both options will stimulate a female wearer, and she can choose where she wants that stimulation. In addition, she's f*cking her partner. It's not a "'why am I even here' feeling" because she's a very active participant, as the one doing the f*cking and the penetrating. She can vary the speed and depth (which means it's also essential that she communicate with the penetrated man), etc. There's definitely some trust involved in this act.
Cunnilingus on a fake vagina might be equivalent to someone wanting their partner to don a strap-on so they could go down on it, but certainly not to strap-on sex. (And if performing cunnilingus on a fake vagina really did it for her, why wouldn't you be willing to do that for her on occasion? IMO, that's part of what makes a good lover.) | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/9/2009 2:14:45 PM |
I went with it and found another thing that I really enjoy. My reaction was along the lines of, "Hmm, I'm not sure, but I guess I'd be willing to try it." Yes, the strap-on was his idea, at least initially. As it turns out, I quite enjoy the experience.
Nam I'm sure you'd have a few males panting hopping to their knees and assuming the position. | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/9/2009 6:30:40 PM | | A guy is not considered gay if he likes his ass played with even if his significant other enters & plays with his g spot. My xbf loved touching his & he is completely straight. | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/9/2009 7:17:39 PM | Did a quick scan of the comments and most male posters are quick to encourage it....several guys whose pics scream "homophobia" won't accept nor comprehend the mature concepts that whatever is done between a man and woman does NOT make someone gay! No more than having vaginal penetration "doggy style" makes one want bestiality.
However, if something feels uncomfortable neither party should pressure the other to participate in anything.
Whats interesting is that NONE of the females posting appear to have any problem performing the act on a man.....I broadly am going to assume THESE women are the exception......I am willing to bet many women would repulsed by the thought of doing this to their "bo". Right?? | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/10/2009 3:05:56 PM | | if any of you women are "squirters" you will understand. what causes women to "squirt" is stimulation to basically her prostate. it not exactly the same as males but closer than you think. if a males prostate is stimulated correctly he will "squirt also" my girlfriend explained this and she demonstrated this on me and if you don't let her you are missing something! try it if you don't like it then don't do it. if you do great | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/12/2009 8:01:57 PM | | I'm bisexual, but I prefer the top role than the bottom role. I don't get off on anal stimulation myself. I've had it done once or twice, but I didn't really care for it where as I've been with guys who love it. I'm amazed that women are into it, I've never had a woman offer me. | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/13/2009 12:33:12 AM | One of my past partners snuck the cap of an ink pen up there once. I hated it! It stung and hurt for hours afterwards. Obviously, I'm not gay.
Another one of my partners want to experiment with slowly sticking her finger up there. I allowed her to and it was okay, but it wasn't really a turn on, though.
My current wife plays with my butt and I love that, but she doesn't do anything with the actual hole, though, so that's probably a good idea.
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/15/2009 8:51:07 AM | | Personally, I very very much like prostrate massage. Yes, it provides the best orgasm possible. And since most men secretly want to know which toy provides the best release? I would have to say the "Aneros" is probably the most comfortable. I know there are probably several different manufacturers so to each there own. Haven't quite built up the nerve to ask for a strap-on to be used, but I am sure if I truly trust the individual it will eventually happen. My concern is that some folks like the dominance/submissive aspects of starp-ons so some men who might otherwise try it are reluctant. And yes, I am 100% straight. | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/15/2009 3:26:36 PM | Male + male(anything sexual)= homosexual!
Male + female(anything sexual) = straight!
No doubt about that!
I'm straight and I enjoy prostate stimulation! | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/15/2009 3:50:34 PM | | "my EX STUCK AN ink pen there once!!"now thats just lame.... was that all was handy on the night stand??!!OH my goodness that was funny in a uh does anyone have a pen??????ya hear alot and learn so much on the forums!!who knew????LOL as for me my big bald ex biker loved it kinda made me wonder what the biker gang would have thought of the big bad dude????? hey whatever floats your boat but somehting kinda getle with a bit of lub would be so much more welcoming!!just saying ...... | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/15/2009 4:12:34 PM | Damn, with all this anal play there must a BUNCH of stinky fingers!
WHATEVER!...EXIT ONLY!
FYI for the ones who like their asses played with...If you ever get locked up...Keep that one a secret...
...but what do I know? | |
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