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 NerdStatus
Joined: 1/9/2007
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have you experienced anal of somekind? did you enjoy it?

I've had my salad tossed - LOVE it. Had a finger in my ass... just felt like I was pooping, which killed the mood.

it's still a rather taboo subject

Only if you make it one. Nothing wrong with asking what someone likes... even something subtle like, "Are you into anything more taboo? Do you have any fantasies?"

only homos are into that crap

How articulate and insightful.
 littleaudrey
Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 77
Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/16/2009 10:57:16 PM
My husband loves it. He likes (very very light) finger play and some licking. He would never, ever go any farther than that though.
 Phantasma Juan
Joined: 9/9/2009
Msg: 78
Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/22/2009 1:12:36 PM
[only homos are into that crap]
You should watch your toungue!!! The very thing you respect the most could be used to turn against you!!!
Straight up probability and statistics could prove that there are fighters in the UFC that like a little anal stimulation from their women! As a matter of fact I know a few UFC fighters personally. These men don't prefer it but I'm sure they know a brother who does. I can set something up so you can tell them to their face they are a homo!
 widowsdesire
Joined: 4/7/2009
Msg: 79
Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/22/2009 1:40:48 PM

Prostate massage is effective, but personally I think it's cheating. If you can't make him come any other way its the last act of a desparate woman.


I looked at your profile and see you are a very young 24 year old male. Son, when you get to be 45 or 50, lets see if your opinion has changed.

To say that anally stimulating a man is the last act of a desperate woman, is ridiculous.
The reality, as men age it is not uncommon for them to have difficulty achieving an erection, maintaining an erection and in some cases ejaculating. It is a normal part of aging in some men.

Would you say taking a viagra is the last act of a desperate man? or is the woman still desperate? One of the side effects of these medications in some men is difficulty ejaculating. Would you rather he continues to pump into his lady until she is raw just so he can get off the "normal way"? If his lady helps him orgasm with a bj, is she once again a desperate woman, or is she just helping him along the way without a sexual hang up?

Any woman who offers to stimulate her man's prostate to give him an enhanced orgasm is not doing it out of desperation. She is either doing it for money, because that is how she makes her living, OR she is doing it because she loves him or cares about him and wants him to have one of the greatest orgasms of his life with her. Offering to do prostatic massage is not a last ditch effort on the part of a woman to keep a failing relationship together. It usually is something offered to a partner is a very strong, sexually satisfying relationship, where the couple is open to all sorts of new things and this is just one more thing to add to spice up and already exciting sex life.

A woman who would offer to stimulate her man's prostate is usually open to all sorts of experimenting with a trusted partner. Any man who has a partner like this has hit the jackpot. I think if you were to aske men who experienced this with a partner would never label the lady desperate. More likely they would label her a rare "gem".
 wild heart
Joined: 10/14/2007
Msg: 80
Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/22/2009 2:02:01 PM
Male ego is fragile as hell, and some men are so entrenched in being "manly" that they lose the forest for the trees.


Thank you.

I appreciate those who have responded and said either they liked it or didn't without having to resort to any "gay" stereotypes. Women who are open sexually look for that open type of trait in partners.

For all you men who get so darn excited by a sexually knowleageable women, you will never have a chance with a woman like that with the whole closed-mind "gay" attitude. While this is specific to this thread, it could apply to any sexual activity. It's your negative reaction and attitude towards new and different things that are a turn-off, whether or not you have tried it.
 Shaitan
Joined: 7/8/2009
Msg: 81
Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/22/2009 3:13:01 PM
Im not touchin your brown eye arse!

^T^
 Illusion Of Normalcy
Joined: 10/9/2009
Msg: 82
Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/22/2009 4:00:32 PM
Believe me I am sexually liberated and adventurous, but stay away from my chilly ring! Slap my ass, squeeze my ass (ex said it was her favorite part of my body) but nothing more.
 Psychopomp of Eden
Joined: 9/21/2009
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Posted: 10/22/2009 9:29:50 PM
Too long didn't read... plus I saw dudes posting info about how some like it and it gave me mental visuals that were distasteful.

I would be up for it... get it up for it... bad pun. Any way, never done it but anal play could be a whole new bag of fun. The idea of a chick with a strap-on getting into and being that perverse would possibly force me to fall in love with her, my heart would leave my chest of against my will and fall at her feet. Then of course there is man-whore fantasies of a chick w/ a strap-on that some how can get off with it and wants to do me alot because of being such a perve as well... but then again what are the chances of finding that?

I have never approached a partner, one I thought might be interested in it but I wussed out.. T.T ...I don't think of myself as gay but I have fapped to shemales... but I did start with chicks with strap-ons though. Figured it was easier to find porn and almost exactly the same (what can I say I was 14).
 oneofakind33
Joined: 5/24/2007
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Posted: 10/22/2009 10:03:53 PM
This topic cracks me up... It's not about being gay, it's about being open minded and trying a new experience and possibly enjoying it. Most men and women that don't like it have never tried it. If it is done right it can be very intense pleasure. Who is against pleasure, right? Besides great sex comes from being open minded and communication with your partner...
 YoucancallmeGod
Joined: 9/26/2009
Msg: 85
Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/22/2009 10:05:22 PM
Oh my god, does this ever bring back some bad memories.

I don't like anal. Honestly, I don't see how anyone could. That part of the body is just wayyy too... well there is nothing sexy about a person's ***hole. Not to mention anal stimulation of any kind just doesn't do it for me. Anyway, I once had a guy play with ass while I was giving him head. No heads up, no warning beforehand, he just dug right in there completely spontaneously. I didn't even know men did that, so I was pretty shocked to say the least. It was about the unsexiest thing anybody has ever done in front of me. But what is a person to do? I couldn't just be like "eh, that's gross.. could you please stop?" I mean he was really liking it. So I kind of just had to keep on going and pretend like not only was I completely, ridiculously UNhorny now but also felt a little sick to my stomach as he kept taking that finger out and moving it closer and closer to my face. ECK. It still gives me nightmares. If it hadn't have been for the coke he promised me, my ass would have been outta there.

Ps: i don't do coke.
 Psychopomp of Eden
Joined: 9/21/2009
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Posted: 10/22/2009 10:27:17 PM
Wow oneofakind33 , you look kind of straight laced.
I wouldn't have thought and you are pretty damn cute. Milf, please?
I got to remember that and keep an open mind... don't judge a book by it's cover. Kinky can be a on the title page.
 867love
Joined: 3/16/2006
Msg: 87
Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/23/2009 3:27:16 AM
When i'm getting frisky with a naked women, i'm just not thinkin about my ass, (not thinkin about her starfish either -unless she says something) trust me, i'm dyin to get jiggy with her sweet spot, craving a piece of her warm pie and i don't need any back door stimulation to get me in the mood -i'm already goin about 90 mph and i don't need anything in the trunk to make me go any faster
 S to the B
Joined: 9/21/2009
Msg: 88
Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/23/2009 7:34:10 AM

I don't like anal. Honestly, I don't see how anyone could. That part of the body is just wayyy too... well there is nothing sexy about a person's ***hole.


you need a real man baby.

me> sissy guys
 verygreeneyez
Joined: 3/15/2006
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Posted: 10/23/2009 7:51:01 AM
These threads used to crack me up (no pun intended...LOL) and? They still do.

~OT~ There are those who not only like it, they love it. There are those that don't as well. It's another one of those personal preference things. Personally? I like the man in my life to be open to all sorts of things, if he tries eomthing once and doesn't like it, fine ~ but to NOT try at all? That's just a little too closed-minded for me. I do wonder how many of those professing they would NEVER do such a thing or allow it, want anal sex from the woman in their life.....I would assume many, but that might just be my assumption. JMO
 floatman
Joined: 12/2/2008
Msg: 90
Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/23/2009 8:02:33 AM
I have to say in a country as great as ours, there's a lot of homophobia still being tossed about like it was 1950. Get over yourselves men and women. You may not like having your salad tossed, or tossing salad. But, there's a significant amount of people who do.

If you meet them and it's not your thing. Good for you. But, because someone enjoys having their ass eaten while having their c@ck stroked means one thing - they like having their salad tossed. Sheesh.

I enjoy having my ass eaten and there's no reason to think it's a homosexual act because it's a female eating my ass. So, lets get this straight - a man has his ass eaten by female, so what we have here is a man and woman having and enjoying sexual stimulation. Man and woman, get it? There's nothing homosexual about that. Now, if a man and another man were tossing each others salads, then maybe they're gay. Maybe not. They could be bi.

Regardless, there are a lot of people who enjoy it, men and woman alike. If it's not your bag of tea. Then, do something else. But, there is a significant amount of the population that is much more open minded than the naysayers here. So do what you want as long as it's legal and consensual.
 namrael
Joined: 8/10/2008
Msg: 91
Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/23/2009 9:41:56 AM

you need a real man baby.

me> sissy guys


Real men aren't horrified at the prospect of a little anal play. Only sissies are afraid of that.
 forumrum
Joined: 5/25/2009
Msg: 92
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Posted: 10/23/2009 9:57:58 AM
LMAO.... did you see S to the B's profile. Absolutely hilarious! Dude, seriously, do yourself a favour and don't post anymore. You're coming across as a meathead.
 S to the B
Joined: 9/21/2009
Msg: 93
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Posted: 10/23/2009 10:45:08 AM
thanks, but i do fine with the ladies.
 wannashakeyourtree
Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 94
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Posted: 10/23/2009 12:48:53 PM
I like...scratch that...LOVE having my salad tossed but digits are off limits for me...just not something I enjoy.

And ladies...when I tell you that my RIGHT nipple is the equivalent of the red phone on Commissioner Gordon's desk (the one that goes to the bat cave...)...then please don't immediately try to take ownership of the left one...as if nobody had thought of it before you...nothing more frustrating than communicating your wants only to have them ignored...
 trotko
Joined: 10/19/2008
Msg: 95
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Posted: 10/24/2009 1:39:26 AM
s to the b dude you need some help.

so what it is fine for you to have hangups regarding anal play but if the woman does you respond with
you need a real man baby. me> sissy guys


if a woman plays with your ***hole it by no mans makes you gay. gay =2 boys that simple. I think your hangups bring out your insecurities so deal with them. I think you had a typo I think me>sissy guys means me = sissy guy
 tomf301
Joined: 7/20/2009
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Posted: 10/24/2009 7:41:07 AM
Its all about her enjoyment of it and the prostate. My ex wife and present GF both use(d) a strapon on me. My GF even uses her tongue. I had one of the strongest longest orgasms/ejaculations in my life a few weeks ago while my GF was using the strapon and I'm 53. We are both very uninhibited in bed except she doesnt like anal penetration, so I take up the slack in that dept.
 ooobaby 01
Joined: 10/14/2009
Msg: 97
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Posted: 10/24/2009 10:47:06 AM
I never knew that straight men enjoyed anal stimulation because never have any ever hinted to this enjoyment, not alone ever want to try. Until this one guy I dated.....And I agree most straight men do not want to explore it because they are afriad to be labelled gay, but I am sure they explore it in their own privacy.

This always reminds me of that episode on king and queens where wifey wanted to explore his azz but there was no way he was going to allow it until she just went in and he was like wooop.....lmao

Anyways this one guy I dated came out a few times saying he's so horny he'd let me do anything to him like stick a finger up his azz..... I am thinking o HELL NO. I am not sticking my finger up that stinky hole but the thought got me curious of course......I asked if he ever had that done before and he said once and when asked if he liked it he said it was ok but that he'd try it again if I wanted to... well I am no dummy, I knew this is what he wanted so I played it more asking questions and it didn't take long to get him to stick something up it (not my finger) It so turns out this guy had his own anal beeds and dong....

Anyways I just found it funny after learning how much he enjoyed it that he lied in the beginning acting like he'd never done it before. But I understand why. This guy is in no way gay. He loves his woman but really enjoyed it up the azz......so curious me wanted to see how this all played out because I never done this before with a guy so he allowed me to watch him one night get off that way and it was like watching the hyde but in this case the hind personality of jekyl lmao.... He was so turned on that at first I felt uncomfortable because it was a little weird to see a guy sticking something up their azz, but watching how turned on he got it was like he was possessed the things coming out of his mouth as he was riding himself that I couldn't help but get turned on myself

Then the second time he allowed me to be in control of it and this time I guess because it was me getting him off I never in my life seen a guy milk from the volcano it was unbelievable and a huge turn on to see how much it pleased him to have me be the one to do it..

So after that experience I don't see anything wrong with men fully experimenting with their woman all the sexual pleasures out there to enjoy. It does NOT make you gay good lord it just makes you OPEN to explore and that is a quality I love. When people are closed off it can get boring over time. But to be open sexually with your partner is where the best sex comes from and ooobaby it can't get any better then that!!
 kpooks
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Posted: 10/24/2009 11:14:45 AM
After having a prostate exam, can honestly say it did nothing for me one way or the other. Wasn't pleasant or unpleasant, just felt weird. If my lady wanted to go there, I'd let her, and I'd try to pretend I was enjoying it, for her sake.
 5idewinder
Joined: 10/11/2009
Msg: 99
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Posted: 10/24/2009 12:17:46 PM
How quickly we forget. We all get it from behind each year at tax time..remember?

Never tried so I do not know.
 Jordanjamesx
Joined: 9/26/2009
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Posted: 10/24/2009 2:07:59 PM
Wow this is an interesting topic. Since I am not straight, I can't speak for straight men. I imagine there are straight men that are into anal sex with women. I remember watching Sex TV and they had an entire episode on the topic. Some straight men like it when a woman wears a strap on.

However, I do believe in society there is a"taboo" about a straight man that admits he's into anal sex. The thing is though the prostrate gland is a very sensitive gland for men and when stimulated the sensation can be incredible.
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