| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/15/2009 10:12:13 PM | | Some men might want to try that on a woman. I wouldn't advise it the a$$ has a lot of bacteria in it that doesn't belong in a vagina unless you want your lady to smell like fish from a bacterial infection | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/15/2009 10:20:51 PM |
Some men might want to try that on a woman. I wouldn't advise it the a$$ has a lot of bacteria in it that doesn't belong in a vagina unless you want your lady to smell like fish from a bacterial infection
I looked at your profile, and was surprised to see you are middle aged. There are many techniques to avoid cross contamination from the anus to the vagina.
Just sayin' anal play can be safe as well as fun.
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/16/2009 2:25:30 AM | | Not something I'm interested in trying. If it's something that feels good, I guess that'd my loss. Don't know what you're missing out on if you don't try it. To all those who do enjoy though, go for it, I'm not here to judge. | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/16/2009 10:29:34 AM | Just wanted to comment on a post from page *1* about finger fine, but not a toy.
My partner from last year introduced me to anal play. In fact, I posted on it back then. That I was willing but a bit intimidated and not sure how to please him. :) I learned.
In fact, not only did I learn but I got him to try a small plug "aka beginner butt plug". And lo and behold, he LOVED it! :) I preferred to use the plug on him rather than my finger when giving him a BJ. One, because it was slightly longer than my finger so could reach his prostate better (I have tiny hands) and two, well, because of the ick factor. and 3, because he'd automatically get out lube when he got out the plug. It's easy to hurt or scratch him w/nails esp if not lubed good....
And lastly, he enjoyed the plug when I wasn't there and he was masturbating... so it was a good move all round.
Look for a small beginner butt plug. It's just barely bigger than a finger. Doesn't vibrate or do anything fancy. I can pretty much guarantee if you ask a girl to put it in you and push on it as she sucks you off, she'll be more open to it than using her finger.
I'd like to introduce my current bf to anal play. He doesn't think he'd like it though. He's not scared of it, just isn't interested. And,well, yeah the ick factor keeps me from pushing the issue. But if I could use a plug I'd be all for it. LOL Hmmm...wonder if I could use my plug on him if it's washed well (I always wash it well, but you know what i mean)? Or is that just too ick to consider?
Anyway, I thought it was very cool tha t I took the ex-bf from introducing ME to anal play to my introducing HIM to a plug. :) Wonder if he thinks of me when he plays iwth it? LOL | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/16/2009 1:10:52 PM |
have you experienced anal of somekind? did you enjoy it?
I've had my salad tossed - LOVE it. Had a finger in my ass... just felt like I was pooping, which killed the mood.
it's still a rather taboo subject
Only if you make it one. Nothing wrong with asking what someone likes... even something subtle like, "Are you into anything more taboo? Do you have any fantasies?"
only homos are into that crap
How articulate and insightful. | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/16/2009 6:57:37 PM | I was aSSuming everybody already knows that. NEVER switch ANYTHING from vag to anal and back again. NEVER. I know they show that in the porn flicks all the time but you really could kill her with an infection by introducing intestinal bacteria to her abdominal cavity. NOT a good thing.
Some men might want to try that on a woman. I wouldn't advise it the a$$ has a lot of bacteria in it that doesn't belong in a vagina unless you want your lady to smell like fish from a bacterial infection
I'm always reading posts and assuming they come from a reetarded 14 yr olds. Wrong!! 37, divorced, 3 kids, married 17 years "loved sex" but is still a little curious about something called an ORGASM and thought she might try one on for size one day!!!
I looked at your profile, and was surprised to see you are middle aged.
You're exceptionally beautiful. Too bad you had to speak.
The male "G-spot"? Does this mean "Gay-Spot"?
One can only IMAGINE what that dude standing behind him in his profile shot is DOING to help him lift and why he could be the one voice of experience in here !!!??!!
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/16/2009 10:57:16 PM | | My husband loves it. He likes (very very light) finger play and some licking. He would never, ever go any farther than that though. | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/22/2009 1:12:36 PM | [only homos are into that crap]
You should watch your toungue!!! The very thing you respect the most could be used to turn against you!!!
Straight up probability and statistics could prove that there are fighters in the UFC that like a little anal stimulation from their women! As a matter of fact I know a few UFC fighters personally. These men don't prefer it but I'm sure they know a brother who does. I can set something up so you can tell them to their face they are a homo! | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/22/2009 1:40:48 PM |
Prostate massage is effective, but personally I think it's cheating. If you can't make him come any other way its the last act of a desparate woman.
I looked at your profile and see you are a very young 24 year old male. Son, when you get to be 45 or 50, lets see if your opinion has changed.
To say that anally stimulating a man is the last act of a desperate woman, is ridiculous.
The reality, as men age it is not uncommon for them to have difficulty achieving an erection, maintaining an erection and in some cases ejaculating. It is a normal part of aging in some men.
Would you say taking a viagra is the last act of a desperate man? or is the woman still desperate? One of the side effects of these medications in some men is difficulty ejaculating. Would you rather he continues to pump into his lady until she is raw just so he can get off the "normal way"? If his lady helps him orgasm with a bj, is she once again a desperate woman, or is she just helping him along the way without a sexual hang up?
Any woman who offers to stimulate her man's prostate to give him an enhanced orgasm is not doing it out of desperation. She is either doing it for money, because that is how she makes her living, OR she is doing it because she loves him or cares about him and wants him to have one of the greatest orgasms of his life with her. Offering to do prostatic massage is not a last ditch effort on the part of a woman to keep a failing relationship together. It usually is something offered to a partner is a very strong, sexually satisfying relationship, where the couple is open to all sorts of new things and this is just one more thing to add to spice up and already exciting sex life.
A woman who would offer to stimulate her man's prostate is usually open to all sorts of experimenting with a trusted partner. Any man who has a partner like this has hit the jackpot. I think if you were to aske men who experienced this with a partner would never label the lady desperate. More likely they would label her a rare "gem". | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/22/2009 2:02:01 PM | Male ego is fragile as hell, and some men are so entrenched in being "manly" that they lose the forest for the trees.
Thank you.
I appreciate those who have responded and said either they liked it or didn't without having to resort to any "gay" stereotypes. Women who are open sexually look for that open type of trait in partners.
For all you men who get so darn excited by a sexually knowleageable women, you will never have a chance with a woman like that with the whole closed-mind "gay" attitude. While this is specific to this thread, it could apply to any sexual activity. It's your negative reaction and attitude towards new and different things that are a turn-off, whether or not you have tried it. | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/22/2009 4:00:32 PM | | Believe me I am sexually liberated and adventurous, but stay away from my chilly ring! Slap my ass, squeeze my ass (ex said it was her favorite part of my body) but nothing more. | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/22/2009 9:29:50 PM | Too long didn't read... plus I saw dudes posting info about how some like it and it gave me mental visuals that were distasteful.
I would be up for it... get it up for it... bad pun. Any way, never done it but anal play could be a whole new bag of fun. The idea of a chick with a strap-on getting into and being that perverse would possibly force me to fall in love with her, my heart would leave my chest of against my will and fall at her feet.  Then of course there is man-whore fantasies of a chick w/ a strap-on that some how can get off with it and wants to do me alot because of being such a perve as well... but then again what are the chances of finding that? 
I have never approached a partner, one I thought might be interested in it but I wussed out.. T.T ...I don't think of myself as gay but I have fapped to shemales... but I did start with chicks with strap-ons though. Figured it was easier to find porn and almost exactly the same (what can I say I was 14). | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/22/2009 10:03:53 PM | | This topic cracks me up... It's not about being gay, it's about being open minded and trying a new experience and possibly enjoying it. Most men and women that don't like it have never tried it. If it is done right it can be very intense pleasure. Who is against pleasure, right? Besides great sex comes from being open minded and communication with your partner... | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/22/2009 10:05:22 PM | Oh my god, does this ever bring back some bad memories.
I don't like anal. Honestly, I don't see how anyone could. That part of the body is just wayyy too... well there is nothing sexy about a person's ***hole. Not to mention anal stimulation of any kind just doesn't do it for me. Anyway, I once had a guy play with ass while I was giving him head. No heads up, no warning beforehand, he just dug right in there completely spontaneously. I didn't even know men did that, so I was pretty shocked to say the least. It was about the unsexiest thing anybody has ever done in front of me. But what is a person to do? I couldn't just be like "eh, that's gross.. could you please stop?" I mean he was really liking it. So I kind of just had to keep on going and pretend like not only was I completely, ridiculously UNhorny now but also felt a little sick to my stomach as he kept taking that finger out and moving it closer and closer to my face. ECK. It still gives me nightmares. If it hadn't have been for the coke he promised me, my ass would have been outta there. 
Ps: i don't do coke. | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/22/2009 10:27:17 PM | Wow oneofakind33 , you look kind of straight laced.
I wouldn't have thought and you are pretty damn cute. Milf, please?
I got to remember that and keep an open mind... don't judge a book by it's cover. Kinky can be a on the title page. | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/23/2009 3:27:16 AM | When i'm getting frisky with a naked women, i'm just not thinkin about my ass, (not thinkin about her starfish either -unless she says something) trust me, i'm dyin to get jiggy with her sweet spot, craving a piece of her warm pie and i don't need any back door stimulation to get me in the mood -i'm already goin about 90 mph and i don't need anything in the trunk to make me go any faster | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/23/2009 7:34:10 AM |
I don't like anal. Honestly, I don't see how anyone could. That part of the body is just wayyy too... well there is nothing sexy about a person's ***hole.
you need a real man baby.
me> sissy guys | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/23/2009 7:51:01 AM | These threads used to crack me up (no pun intended...LOL) and? They still do. 
~OT~ There are those who not only like it, they love it. There are those that don't as well. It's another one of those personal preference things. Personally? I like the man in my life to be open to all sorts of things, if he tries eomthing once and doesn't like it, fine ~ but to NOT try at all? That's just a little too closed-minded for me. I do wonder how many of those professing they would NEVER do such a thing or allow it, want anal sex from the woman in their life.....I would assume many, but that might just be my assumption. JMO  | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/23/2009 8:02:33 AM | I have to say in a country as great as ours, there's a lot of homophobia still being tossed about like it was 1950. Get over yourselves men and women. You may not like having your salad tossed, or tossing salad. But, there's a significant amount of people who do.
If you meet them and it's not your thing. Good for you. But, because someone enjoys having their ass eaten while having their c@ck stroked means one thing - they like having their salad tossed. Sheesh.
I enjoy having my ass eaten and there's no reason to think it's a homosexual act because it's a female eating my ass. So, lets get this straight - a man has his ass eaten by female, so what we have here is a man and woman having and enjoying sexual stimulation. Man and woman, get it? There's nothing homosexual about that. Now, if a man and another man were tossing each others salads, then maybe they're gay. Maybe not. They could be bi.
Regardless, there are a lot of people who enjoy it, men and woman alike. If it's not your bag of tea. Then, do something else. But, there is a significant amount of the population that is much more open minded than the naysayers here. So do what you want as long as it's legal and consensual. | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/23/2009 9:41:56 AM |
you need a real man baby.
me> sissy guys
Real men aren't horrified at the prospect of a little anal play. Only sissies are afraid of that. | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/23/2009 9:57:58 AM | | LMAO.... did you see S to the B's profile. Absolutely hilarious! Dude, seriously, do yourself a favour and don't post anymore. You're coming across as a meathead. | |
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