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 wannashakeyourtree

Joined: 8/17/2005
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Posted: 10/23/2009 12:48:53 PM
I like...scratch that...LOVE having my salad tossed but digits are off limits for me...just not something I enjoy.

And ladies...when I tell you that my RIGHT nipple is the equivalent of the red phone on Commissioner Gordon's desk (the one that goes to the bat cave...)...then please don't immediately try to take ownership of the left one...as if nobody had thought of it before you...nothing more frustrating than communicating your wants only to have them ignored...
 imforever

Joined: 10/19/2008
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Posted: 10/24/2009 1:39:26 AM
s to the b dude you need some help.

so what it is fine for you to have hangups regarding anal play but if the woman does you respond with
you need a real man baby. me> sissy guys


if a woman plays with your ***hole it by no mans makes you gay. gay =2 boys that simple. I think your hangups bring out your insecurities so deal with them. I think you had a typo I think me>sissy guys means me = sissy guy
 tomf301

Joined: 7/20/2009
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Posted: 10/24/2009 7:41:07 AM
Its all about her enjoyment of it and the prostate. My ex wife and present GF both use(d) a strapon on me. My GF even uses her tongue. I had one of the strongest longest orgasms/ejaculations in my life a few weeks ago while my GF was using the strapon and I'm 53. We are both very uninhibited in bed except she doesnt like anal penetration, so I take up the slack in that dept.
 ooobaby 01

Joined: 10/14/2009
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Posted: 10/24/2009 10:47:06 AM
I never knew that straight men enjoyed anal stimulation because never have any ever hinted to this enjoyment, not alone ever want to try. Until this one guy I dated.....And I agree most straight men do not want to explore it because they are afriad to be labelled gay, but I am sure they explore it in their own privacy.

This always reminds me of that episode on king and queens where wifey wanted to explore his azz but there was no way he was going to allow it until she just went in and he was like wooop.....lmao

Anyways this one guy I dated came out a few times saying he's so horny he'd let me do anything to him like stick a finger up his azz..... I am thinking o HELL NO. I am not sticking my finger up that stinky hole but the thought got me curious of course......I asked if he ever had that done before and he said once and when asked if he liked it he said it was ok but that he'd try it again if I wanted to... well I am no dummy, I knew this is what he wanted so I played it more asking questions and it didn't take long to get him to stick something up it (not my finger) It so turns out this guy had his own anal beeds and dong....

Anyways I just found it funny after learning how much he enjoyed it that he lied in the beginning acting like he'd never done it before. But I understand why. This guy is in no way gay. He loves his woman but really enjoyed it up the azz......so curious me wanted to see how this all played out because I never done this before with a guy so he allowed me to watch him one night get off that way and it was like watching the hyde but in this case the hind personality of jekyl lmao.... He was so turned on that at first I felt uncomfortable because it was a little weird to see a guy sticking something up their azz, but watching how turned on he got it was like he was possessed the things coming out of his mouth as he was riding himself that I couldn't help but get turned on myself

Then the second time he allowed me to be in control of it and this time I guess because it was me getting him off I never in my life seen a guy milk from the volcano it was unbelievable and a huge turn on to see how much it pleased him to have me be the one to do it..

So after that experience I don't see anything wrong with men fully experimenting with their woman all the sexual pleasures out there to enjoy. It does NOT make you gay good lord it just makes you OPEN to explore and that is a quality I love. When people are closed off it can get boring over time. But to be open sexually with your partner is where the best sex comes from and ooobaby it can't get any better then that!!
 kpooks

Joined: 12/23/2008
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Posted: 10/24/2009 11:14:45 AM
After having a prostate exam, can honestly say it did nothing for me one way or the other. Wasn't pleasant or unpleasant, just felt weird. If my lady wanted to go there, I'd let her, and I'd try to pretend I was enjoying it, for her sake.
 5idewinder

Joined: 10/11/2009
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Posted: 10/24/2009 12:17:46 PM
How quickly we forget. We all get it from behind each year at tax time..remember?

Never tried so I do not know.
 Jordanjamesx

Joined: 9/26/2009
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Posted: 10/24/2009 2:07:59 PM
Wow this is an interesting topic. Since I am not straight, I can't speak for straight men. I imagine there are straight men that are into anal sex with women. I remember watching Sex TV and they had an entire episode on the topic. Some straight men like it when a woman wears a strap on.

However, I do believe in society there is a"taboo" about a straight man that admits he's into anal sex. The thing is though the prostrate gland is a very sensitive gland for men and when stimulated the sensation can be incredible.
 tjorg

Joined: 10/8/2009
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Posted: 10/25/2009 6:02:58 AM
Not my thing. I'd suggest asking first.
 oneofakind33

Joined: 5/24/2007
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Posted: 10/25/2009 10:50:42 AM
PsychopompofEden... Thats interesting that you would judge me by just looking at my picture... LOL
You are only 25 and you don't have any idea yet... Wait until you are in your 40's... Everything including sex gets better with age...
 oneofakind33

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Posted: 10/25/2009 10:57:43 AM
Sidewinder thanks for throwing some humor in about tax time. Isn't that the truth.
People are taking this way too seriously. Either you like anal sex or you don't. If they haven't tried it than maybe they should. They might just find out that they do like it. I just find it funny that people will commnet on things they don't know nothing about and aren't willing to find out.

Best to you at tax time... LOL
 Hrlyguy

Joined: 8/4/2009
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Posted: 10/26/2009 7:44:32 AM

However, I do believe in society there is a"taboo" about a straight man that admits he's into anal sex.

Seems like in a certain segment of society many sexual acts, between consenting adults, are considered taboo. I wonder what all those judgmental folk think about when they're not imagining the wanton sex they're not having?
 whytwater

Joined: 8/7/2008
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Posted: 10/26/2009 1:24:29 PM

I wonder what all those judgmental folk think about when they're not imagining the wanton sex they're not having?


Baseball? Lol. And half of those are gonna be really bummed out waaayy before Thanksgiving.


People are taking this way too seriously. Either you like anal sex or you don't. If they haven't tried it than maybe they should. They might just find out that they do like it. I just find it funny that people will commnet on things they don't know nothing about and aren't willing to find out.


What a great approach!! Actually, about just anything at all, no just anal sex. Of course, if this post appeared at the head of all threads, 90% of the usual "contributions" would be preempted. Lol
 DALLASDAME

Joined: 8/5/2009
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Posted: 10/26/2009 2:10:40 PM
It's kinky! Who is opposed to kink? Live a little people. Christ you'd think the thread reads: Straight men and sheep - yay or nay?.

If you aren't into it just say yes or no. Leave the gay men out of it. FYI it's a known fact that men who are overly homophobic tend to be suppressing their tenedencies. Watch how you respond.
 Charles1964

Joined: 4/18/2007
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Posted: 10/26/2009 3:09:10 PM
Yes,I love anal simulation.I have done this with women I have been with.No,That doesn't make one gay.The only thing makes one gay is being with another man.Never had a desire for that.Love women.
 SnarkMeister

Joined: 6/24/2009
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Posted: 10/26/2009 3:12:08 PM

LMAO.... did you see S to the B's profile. Absolutely hilarious! Dude, seriously, do yourself a favour and don't post anymore. You're coming across as a meathead.



Yup, that was restaurant quality. I bow down to a true master of the put-on! The only thing missing was a picture of his ride, the Yellow Super PeePee. Real chicks dig that stuff.
 OneMoondance

Joined: 5/20/2009
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Posted: 10/26/2009 4:18:23 PM

Seems like in a certain segment of society many sexual acts, between consenting adults, are considered taboo. I wonder what all those judgmental folk think about when they're not imagining the wanton sex they're not having?


Be glad you're not judgment. It must be really hard keeping tabs on what everyone you disapprove of is doing. Doesn't leave much time for fun and exploring other options.
 DAVE632

Joined: 6/17/2006
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Posted: 10/26/2009 7:06:32 PM
Oh good GRIEF woman. Don't give any of the weirdos any more ideas.


Straight men and sheep - yay or nay?.


Sheep? Iguanas? Next they'll be claiming it's a "lifestyle choice" and pass legislation to protect those who wish to partake of CROSS SPECIES BREEDING. Like they mommas an they poppas haven't already proven it works!!!

Hey StotheB's profile kinda sounds SAD really. He's in here with HOW many posts sayin he hates it, it's perverted, it's GAY etc etc. Read the profile and his parents died, left him what he considers one of TWO important things in life - MONEY and proudly announces on a dating site that he's ""BANGIN TWO CHICKS NOW."" Very mature. VERY alluring to the ladies out there. ... NOT!!!


did you see S to the B's profile. Absolutely hilarious! Dude, seriously, do yourself a favour and don't post anymore. You're coming across as a meathead.



Yup, that was restaurant quality. I bow down to a true master of the put-on! The only thing missing was a picture of his ride, the Yellow Super PeePee. Real chicks dig that stuff.


Without his momma an poppa to tell him what a complete DORK he is making himself out to be, all he has are US to tell him what a complete DORK he's making himself out to be. Maybe he'll back off taking all them stereos ( ) for awhile and grow up - not to mention THAT sexuality issue which ""he doth protest too much."" and is just a weeeeeee bit too judgemental IMHO.

Sad!
 oneofakind33

Joined: 5/24/2007
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Posted: 10/26/2009 7:39:52 PM
Dave632...
I couldn't of said it better myself.
So far "s to the b's" profile was the dumbest one I ever read.
I can't imagine any woman responding to that, no matter what her age is.

I just don't know why people feel the need to talk about things they know nothing about it.
 DAVE632

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Posted: 10/26/2009 10:32:10 PM
Or tell everybody who is even open to the possibility that they're GAY just because he doesn't like the idea - or perhaps he DOES and is just fighting the concept with every fibre of his bean ...


I just don't know why people feel the need to talk about things they know nothing about it.


There is a vaginal vs clitoral orgasm thread where some lady just trashed me while admitting she's never experienced a GSPOT orgasm. So not only are more than willing to talk about stuff they have never experienced they even feel the need to cut up anybody who does know about stuff that they have never had happen to them. It is indeed STRANGE. I'm used to it though. The TRY THIS thread is salted with those twits. "Never happened to ME but you're FOS because there is NO way YOU know something about MY body that I don't know about." Damn, with THAT attitude they never will either!!!
 no_1_bby

Joined: 5/3/2006
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Posted: 10/27/2009 5:24:19 PM

If my lady wanted to go there, I'd let her, and I'd try to pretend I was enjoying it, for her sake.

Please don't. Faking it is bad. Really bad. Since 90% of my enjoyment is based purely on my partner's responses.. I've had partner's do this and it purely takes ALL the fun out of it. I dislike being lied to. I'd rather hear "this isn't working for me, lets try something different" then "ooo baby!!".. especially if you aren't feeling it.

And I can promise you that a lover playing with your ass is NOTHING like a prostate exam given by a doctor. A prostate exam isn't supposed to be arousing.
 misssynne

Joined: 10/18/2009
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Posted: 10/29/2009 2:03:41 PM
No i dont like men wanting to bend over and do them...
 TOMic bomb

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Posted: 10/29/2009 3:57:37 PM
i've had a goodly handful of women voluntarily perform analingus on me without my asking. they wanted to please me and they were open in their sexual desires.

my problem.... a tongue rimming my ass or directly in amd out of my ass is so freakin relaxing and comforting that i do not maintain an erection. for me it's like a massage. i want to close my eyes and drift off to the twilight zone or even sleep!!!

am i the only one this happens to????????
 skillfull40

Joined: 5/28/2008
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Posted: 10/29/2009 5:58:55 PM
My personal experience with applying a thumb to the canal of my partner was very stimulating and with further discovery found self -anal play a realization of total inner beauty. I suggest anyone seriously thinking about anal play first discover self-anal play before allowing a partner to experiment and remember your manhood is not whats at risk. Its your pride and fear of ................................losing what?
 keep1

Joined: 5/10/2009
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Posted: 10/29/2009 9:52:36 PM
yes,and i'm straight.it's full of nerve endings and the prostrate is just inside the opening.
 DAVE632

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Posted: 10/30/2009 7:04:47 PM
YES! You are the ONLY one !!!

EVAR!!!


my problem.... a tongue rimming my ass or directly in amd out of my ass is so freakin relaxing and comforting that i do not maintain an erection. for me it's like a massage. i want to close my eyes and drift off to the twilight zone or even sleep!!! ..... am i the only one this happens to????????



NOT!!!!!!!

Forget the tongue. I'll just take the massage. My lower back gets stressed and working down from my shoulders, along my spine and then the lower back muscles to the glutes and upper thighs. I would MUCH rather have a bum/upper thigh massage than a tongue ... I gotta KISS that tongue in a few minutes so I'd rather it NOT go places it shouldn't. JMHO, OK. Soap it, scrub it, soap it some more and you can play but tongues should NOT go IN there. You can't get "IN there" clean like you can get the outside clean. Bums are fun to play with. I've always loved them and a good long bum massage can put me in a near coma. Tongue INSERTIONS back there is just asking for trouble. Just be sensible.
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