| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 10/30/2009 7:04:47 PM | YES! You are the ONLY one !!!
EVAR!!!
my problem.... a tongue rimming my ass or directly in amd out of my ass is so freakin relaxing and comforting that i do not maintain an erection. for me it's like a massage. i want to close my eyes and drift off to the twilight zone or even sleep!!! ..... am i the only one this happens to????????
NOT!!!!!!!
Forget the tongue. I'll just take the massage. My lower back gets stressed and working down from my shoulders, along my spine and then the lower back muscles to the glutes and upper thighs. I would MUCH rather have a bum/upper thigh massage than a tongue ... I gotta KISS that tongue in a few minutes  so I'd rather it NOT go places it shouldn't. JMHO, OK. Soap it, scrub it, soap it some more and you can play but tongues should NOT go IN there. You can't get "IN there" clean like you can get the outside clean. Bums are fun to play with. I've always loved them and a good long bum massage can put me in a near coma. Tongue INSERTIONS back there is just asking for trouble. Just be sensible. | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 11/3/2009 2:58:00 PM | I would probably go there ONLY if she ask for it because she has this fetish or phantom about it and it will give her lots of pleasure to do it, but be certain, I will ask for something in return  | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 11/3/2009 5:37:04 PM |
If my lady wanted to go there, I'd let her, and I'd try to pretend I was enjoying it, for her sake. Please don't. Faking it is bad. Really bad. Since 90% of my enjoyment is based purely on my partner's responses.. I've had partner's do this and it purely takes ALL the fun out of it. I dislike being lied to. I'd rather hear "this isn't working for me, lets try something different" then "ooo baby!!".. especially if you aren't feeling it.
Word. There's also, "Hey, this isn't doing much for me. I'm willing to do it from time to time if it really turns you on, but I didn't want to tell you it was great for me if it wasn't", or some such. Having a partner who's good, giving and game, and willing to do things solely for your benefit on occasion, is great. But lying is just crappy. | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 11/3/2009 7:40:53 PM | | All of the guys I've dated have always been pretty REPULSED by the thought of having their anal area messed with. lol. So it'll be interesting to see what guys here say. | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 11/3/2009 11:20:45 PM | My answer is NO. That's an exit and the same for a female. If she wants something up her ass,she is welcomed to do it herself.It's hers,she can whatever she wants to with it. | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 11/4/2009 5:28:48 AM | All of the guys I've dated have always been pretty REPULSED by the thought of having their anal area messed with.
I'm willing to bet none of these men are over 30? Alot of men even under 40 have no clue what they are doing in the bedroom. Sure they enjoy sex, but won't venture into anything the least bit different.
Being repulsed and trying it and not being into it are two totally different things. Most men who are repulsed by it have never even tried it. We all have our limits, which is fine but don't expect to be in a relationship with a woman who's sexual repertoire is much more different than yours (no matter how exciting you find it).
Alot of men froth at the mouth when a woman bring up some sort of BDSM or non-vanilla talk in normal conversation. Most of those men haven't a clue what this really means. It's the fantasy created by the media that they see - not the reality.
If they were really interested, they would go and research it themselves rather than wait for a woman to explain it all to them. | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 11/4/2009 7:15:16 AM | One of my lady friends says " There is a whole nother world of sex in your ass"
She is right if done right it is alot of fun. The Latina ladies I know are into it in a big way. Again a cultural thing. | |
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| Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay?
Posted: 11/4/2009 7:58:00 AM |
All of the guys I've dated have always been pretty REPULSED by the thought of having their anal area messed with
That's b/c you're dating young guys who lack security and an open mind. It comes with age | |
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