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 Mizphitz
Joined: 9/12/2009
Msg: 26
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I'm often told I don't look old enough to have a 29 yr old daughter...and people are often surprised when I say I'm almost 50..........see......there are some benefits to being fat..........no wrinkles :) We have our own natural "collagen" around the eyes ...LOL

I guess its nice to look younger........but then I don't feel any different inside than I did when I was young anyway.......some say I should grow up and act my age... ...but I plan to grow old disgracefully :)
 jaqi
Joined: 2/2/2008
Msg: 27
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Looking good for your age
Posted: 11/13/2009 10:56:16 AM

but I plan to grow old disgracefully


Me too!

I get told all the time that I look much younger and that suits me fine... it's a great compliment whichever way it comes.

Just yesterday I briefly popped in to the pub where my daughter works... I must add I had just done a hard session in the gym, got blown away in the wind and rain with my brolly turning inside out, had virtually no make-up on and my hair looked like it had been pulled through a hedge backwards! On the way home she text me and said her boss ( late 20's) said I was hot! Yeah think he must have been referring to the red glow on my face fron the workout!
 samstyles
Joined: 6/6/2009
Msg: 28
Looking good for your age
Posted: 11/13/2009 11:01:09 AM
Being told you look good for your age can be flattering or derogatory, with so many things people say to you, they can be meant totally well, or have an undertone, a hidden insult in them. I prefer to give people the benefit of the doubt, but just occasionally, there's no doubt exactly how these things are meant!

The best example in my experience I can think of, was when I first met my ex-partner's ex. Her children lived with me, and that was how she wanted it, but I didn't blame her for having mixed feelings so I chose not to react but being from Halifax, she was able to call me 'bonny' and feign innocence as her brother explained in great depth that in Yorkshire it meant fat rather than pretty. They obviously both found it pretty funny.
 Lorri55
Joined: 10/5/2007
Msg: 29
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Posted: 11/13/2009 11:02:31 AM
I take it in the spirit itis intended...as a lovely compliment
An auld trout like me needs all the compliments she can get hehehe
 soulfire37
Joined: 10/24/2009
Msg: 30
Looking good for your age
Posted: 11/13/2009 11:03:55 AM
Ive been told that , but to be honest I am neither complimented or insulted , I am my age and looking foward to being 40

as for skin regime , etc it could be as I dont have one haha ..I dont however bake in the sun , use sunbeds or wear make up everyday..so in that sense it could be
 Gucci Girl
Joined: 7/22/2006
Msg: 31
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Posted: 11/13/2009 11:21:19 AM
Whether its back handed or not its still a compliment and i would accept it as such, im often told that i dont look my age, whether i do or dont there is not a great deal that i can do about it, i dont understand why people are so snipy and willing to put other people down all the time!
 oldndazed
Joined: 10/12/2009
Msg: 32
Looking good for your age
Posted: 11/13/2009 11:34:59 AM
I take it as a compliment wether or not the 'for your age' is tagged on.
Had quite a few messages from younsters 'til I put my age filters on. Sort of sweet, but maybe they thouight the oldie was desperate?
 Violator_Girl
Joined: 10/18/2009
Msg: 33
Looking good for your age
Posted: 11/13/2009 11:47:52 AM

Does it mean that I looked like this at 20 ( which is an insult, who wants to know that at 20 they looked 55? ) or that I look now like a 20 yr old which is a whooping lie!( but proof that Oil of Ulay works)


Now you're showing your age!!!...I can remember when it was called Oil of Ulay...its now been changed to Oil of Olay...God knows why!

On topic, If someone told me I looked good for my age I'd take it as a compliment...Hell, I'll take ANYTHING as a compliment

I'm often told I don't act my age ...and I don't. How SHOULD a 33yr old act?...is there a rule?.
 As_bad_as_it_ever_was
Joined: 10/10/2009
Msg: 34
Looking good for your age
Posted: 11/13/2009 1:58:29 PM

How SHOULD a 33yr old act?


Marginally more immature then a 33 and a 1/2 year old.

Most people think I look closer to 40. That'll be the paper round I had in Beirut.
 loula lou lou
Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 35
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Posted: 10/15/2010 2:52:11 PM
im often told i look about 20 ..... wow !!i think i must look fab then
 doyouwantchipswiththat
Joined: 5/3/2010
Msg: 36
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Posted: 10/15/2010 2:58:48 PM
I look fantabydosy for my age, but I put it down to the fact I didn't laugh for the first 16 years of my marriage!
 x x Happy go lucky x x
Joined: 1/4/2010
Msg: 37
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Posted: 10/15/2010 3:46:52 PM
You previously said you looked great as well, yet no picture ?
 loula lou lou
Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 38
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Posted: 10/15/2010 3:48:47 PM
LOL maybe she is shy ...
 lynx-1950
Joined: 6/22/2009
Msg: 39
Looking good for your age
Posted: 10/15/2010 5:18:51 PM
It doesnt matter if you look your age as long as you look good for your age. Someone famous said that. Think it was victoria principal and she always looks good.
 CerberusHD
Joined: 6/27/2010
Msg: 40
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Posted: 10/15/2010 6:23:40 PM
someone told me I look 40 lol that was 3 years ago as well
 aries074
Joined: 5/11/2009
Msg: 41
Looking good for your age
Posted: 10/16/2010 12:03:33 AM
A back-handed compliment? Far from it as far as I am concerned.
I would say that the older you are. the more of a "real" compliment it becomes.
 stillsparkly
Joined: 5/26/2010
Msg: 42
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Posted: 10/16/2010 6:08:14 AM
I think its a compliment!
Bring it on - especially today where I look and feel like Im about 406!
Iast year I got asked for ID for alcohol - Im wondering which one of my friends paid the girl at the co op to say it!
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