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 redheadlady4

Joined: 11/19/2005
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Does this make me a cougar?
Posted: 10/15/2009 7:08:58 PM
Hey five....all I can say is..."U go girl" who cares what anyone thinks, there again the old "double standard" ...do what u want to do !!..U are a grown woman and hes an adult as well....
 bluesunshine29

Joined: 11/6/2008
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Posted: 10/15/2009 9:43:15 PM
Why on earth should you care? I'm sorry your friend made you feel insecure about it.

My mom said this to me once - 'love is hard enough to find, why put any boundaries on it'

Though I think taking that statement too literally would be a mistake, I think in general it holds true. If you like him then go for it. And anyway, if you didn't guess his age then other people probably won't either.
 want to travel

Joined: 7/29/2006
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Posted: 10/16/2009 11:32:48 AM
there something very sad and pathetic about an old woman going after a young male, did you pay for his drinks, sounds like you have serious maturity problems as well as other issues, if my 18 year old daughter wanted to get serious with a 27 year old boy, i would be worried, and i would suggest she look for a man who is at least 30
 Sunsation1

Joined: 7/8/2009
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Posted: 10/16/2009 11:34:36 AM
Women are called "Cougars", men are called perverts...
 cvetlica

Joined: 10/8/2009
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Posted: 10/16/2009 4:16:26 PM

there something very sad and pathetic about an old woman going after a young male, did you pay for his drinks, sounds like you have serious maturity problems as well as other issues, if my 18 year old daughter wanted to get serious with a 27 year old boy, i would be worried, and i would suggest she look for a man who is at least 30

coming from someone who has their age limits starting at *18*...does that make you a *very sad and pathetic old man* ??? *laughs*

27 is a MAN not a boy...everyone has their own comfort level...if you are comfortable then no one elses opinion matters...and your friend is probably jealous no one came up to her lol
 shomesomethin

Joined: 5/4/2007
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Posted: 10/16/2009 8:25:57 PM
To be a cougar by definition: You have to be at least 20 yrs. older than the boy, who btw, must be under 25, ( a perfect age is 21-25). You should also be independently wealthy. You should also have a son whose age is within 8 yrs of your target.
 Street King

Joined: 5/25/2008
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Posted: 10/16/2009 11:51:08 PM
Yes until he hits 30 then it won't make a difference. I know for me I have the problem of telling if a woman is older than me or not. It's really hard because I assume they're my age or younger until the age question comes up (which I totally hate) I'm bewildered that the woman is older than me. I don't get it because she looks as young as I do. I'm not complaining because I prefer older women but it doesn't make any sense how a woman who is 10+years older than me looks better than the women my age. But anyways just see what this dude is about. And don't fall for the gentleman card. See if his talk matches his walk . If they coincide you might have something to work with. If not. Throw him away.
 beatsscrabble

Joined: 9/10/2009
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Posted: 10/17/2009 1:07:04 AM
You are not a cougar until you have feasted on your prey.Hey, at least you're not a dirty old man.Bon apetite!
 LaughterReigns

Joined: 5/18/2009
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Posted: 10/18/2009 9:20:41 PM

there something very sad and pathetic about an old woman going after a young male


So, if my math is correct (based on your profile), I can date someone as young as 31. I guess that doesn't make me a cougar, just like it doesn't make you a dirtly old man, right? As a matter of fact, at least 31 is somewhat mature AND legal in most states. In New York, you'd have to take your 18 year old honey out dancing at the underage clubs. However, I think you'd look rather silly hanging with the teen crowd, but you go ahead, and have fun...you can always have her catch you up on Hannah Montana.

Grrrr! Double standards make me nuts!!!
 Gem With Flaws

Joined: 9/28/2009
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Does this make me a cougar?
Posted: 10/19/2009 12:14:49 AM
Don't worry about what others think. Go by the nature of the guy.

I have met a few younger guys that are a blast, and really sweet, and then I have met total flakes that just can't get past the fact that their lack of maturity and intelligence doesn't appeal to me in the least. It's all in the actions of the individual, allow that to be your guide and enjoy it.

I don't use labels, it is what it is, and quite honestly it is no one else's business.

If someone comments, just smile sweetly and thank them for noticing your affairs.
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