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 Cindy A. S.

Joined: 9/3/2009
Msg: 26
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Posted: 10/8/2009 12:02:16 PM
Don't let a stupid inconsiderate girl cause you any worries. You will learn there are alot of those people out there, men as well as women. Learn, read about women, men who know about a woman's body can bring them to ecstacy and size isn't the difference it it the man knowing all about how a woman thinks and feels.
 Thesumofallparts

Joined: 4/5/2009
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Posted: 10/8/2009 12:53:26 PM

do some extension exercise daily to make your size bigger


How is this accomplished, and why aren't you marketing these "extension exercies" to the masses?

You see, this is the problem with men. Even well endowed (and most "over endowed") men want a longer, more girthy, penis. I don't get it. Just be happy with what you have. There is someone out there for everyone. If I was the OP I'd be shattered and messed up, too, but please, get over it and continue on your search.
 Lint Spotter

Joined: 8/27/2009
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Posted: 10/8/2009 1:00:12 PM
Just remember, a 2" tongue will run a 10" pecker out of town any day!
Bullshit. Speak for the women you know because this ain't every woman. I'm always wary of guys who tout their 'tongue' lashings over fvcking. Makes me think that penis is inadequate.
Whoa – whoa – whoa… no need to get bent out of shape on this one…

Maybe the guy is very talented… I for one am not willing to judge that harshly without putting things to the test…
 FarmExe

Joined: 10/1/2009
Msg: 29
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Posted: 10/8/2009 1:36:51 PM

How is this accomplished, and why aren't you marketing these "extension exercies" to the masses?

OP is younger than my son. I just told him what I knew. It's not necessary to market it because I don't do this business...
 no_1_bby

Joined: 5/3/2006
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Posted: 10/8/2009 2:09:44 PM

ahem.... sorry I will have to disagree with that.

NappyKat, feel free to disagree with me. Simple anatomy texts will support what I'm about to say. I didn't say there was NO sensation in the rest of the vagina. I said the nerves are more concentrated in the lower 2-3".


(as taken from www.http://health.discovery.com/centers/sex/sexpedia/vagina.html)

The internal walls of the vagina itself do not have a great supply of nerve endings, thus are not very sensitive to touch. The outer one-third of the vagina, especially near the opening, contains nearly 90 percent of the vaginal nerve endings and therefore is much more sensitive to touch than the inner two-thirds of the vaginal barrel.





I've always wondered about this, because it doesn't seem to make much sense to me. I can feel much more than 2-3" inside my vagina. Even if this was true, wouldn't a longer penis be better as you'd have more surface area friction on each stroke?

Then I read nappykat's post, and read something I already knew, but now it made sense...

But when aroused, these same vaginas can lengthen (meaning the cervix moves further back) and deepen (get wider)


Yes. Most vaginas at rest measure in at around 4". Once arousal occurs it can lengthen and widen up to twice it's *at rest* size.

A longer penis will have more length to use, but the majority of the sensations (in most women) occur at the vaginal opening, not deeper in the vagina, so it wouldn't really make a difference. Long, slow strokes will feel the same until he hits the end of what he has to work with. I've had a 9-10" and plenty of 6-8" and several 5-6"... and I'll take the mid to smaller penises over the monsters any day. Having my cervix pounded is not comfortable.
 TOMic bomb

Joined: 10/5/2008
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Posted: 10/8/2009 2:23:37 PM
i love this woman^^^^^^^^^^^^and all her forum answers!

outstanding, humorous and real!!!
 taal

Joined: 1/27/2007
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Posted: 10/8/2009 2:26:02 PM


How is this accomplished, and why aren't you marketing these "extension exercies" to the masses?

You see, this is the problem with men. Even well endowed (and most "over endowed") men want a longer, more girthy, penis. I don't get it. Just be happy with what you have. There is someone out there for everyone. If I was the OP I'd be shattered and messed up, too, but please, get over it and continue on your search.

Feel free to google jelqing.
 TC1017

Joined: 10/4/2009
Msg: 33
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Posted: 10/8/2009 4:27:12 PM
Thanks for the advice Sweetiepie I have removed the area about liking sex from my profile. I don’t think I really acted surprised until she reacted with shock. She was down there for a bit and then it was almost liked she realized it wasn’t big enough, gasped and pulled hand back. I really don’t think it was a misread. But I have got some good feedback from people and it leaves me with my chin up.
 himynameisSarah

Joined: 5/27/2009
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Posted: 10/8/2009 6:33:05 PM
don't want no short, short, man....
and duh, you should wait longer. Better charm my ass off before you come with that bitty thing, then it doesn't matter.
 isntafraid

Joined: 4/9/2009
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Posted: 10/8/2009 6:35:54 PM
Ima tell OP, most if not every woman has been with a bigger man. Deal with that fact. You will prolly never be her best, longest, richest or anything else. Once you come to terms with that, realize she likes you for YOU, not anything else (unless you lie)
 royalgreeen

Joined: 7/31/2009
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Posted: 10/8/2009 6:42:39 PM
ooh ooh I have a size prefference! My lady friends are always jealous of how much monster clock I tend to get. Like, mega giant. And they laugh when I confess that another guy was like, the smallest I've ever seen. My prefference is acutally the smaller guys. They seem to have something to prove, and wow. Good times to be had. Most recently I was with a guy who got me off completely and amazingly without sticking it in me. It was all jazz hands and glorious fun. And he was averagish, not big or small :)

size matters. size doesn't matter. there are those with prefferences, and those who are open to different sizes and shapes. Get to know the girl, maybe talk about size before she surprises herself. Ooohh!! One of my monster clock friends told me he was huge and I didn't believe him. When my hand was in his pants - magic. I stuttered to him, "It's like finding an iPod in a pinata!" and that was not saying tiny, I was just saying a very pleasant surprise because all you ever find in a pinata is penny candy and plastic toys.
 Fred Bauder

Joined: 7/18/2009
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Posted: 10/8/2009 6:49:47 PM
Blow it off. You're in the normal range, just a little small. Micro penis is 3 inches or less; not your problem. You can satisfy any sensitive willing woman with that monster of yours. Don't hide it or even talk about it; just do it.
 candid_1

Joined: 6/14/2008
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Posted: 10/8/2009 7:13:15 PM
Just remember, a 2" tongue will run a 10" pecker out of town any day!


I'm with nappykat on this one... bring on the meat - screw the hors d'oeuvres.

OP: You can still do a lot with 5 inches...
 girlwPriOriTies

Joined: 9/30/2009
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Posted: 10/8/2009 7:27:49 PM
So, she stuck her hand in your pants on what number date?
 Enchanted*Skies

Joined: 8/17/2009
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Posted: 10/8/2009 7:29:50 PM
I'm with no 1 bby on this.....I too, *hate getting my cervix pounded*. I prefer average to smaller and that's why. I tend to do what your gal did, OP, except I pretend to be sick if I think they're too BIG!

Also - good move on taking out that line about being inexperienced. I would hope at your age you would have more to learn! Forget that gal - she's in no way a good representation of women (I mean girls).
 Leeanne

Joined: 10/14/2005
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Posted: 10/9/2009 4:10:52 AM
When you date mature women you won't find this issue! She sounds like a b:tch to me! What a horrible way for her to behave! She at least could have given you a chance. Obviously she wasn't into you to begin with - better off without her.
 ElleShooTiger

Joined: 2/4/2009
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Posted: 10/9/2009 2:46:48 PM
Do you trim the hedges? Some women cant find the tree for the forest otherwise, so that might have possibly scared her off.
 Connor-19

Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 43
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Posted: 10/9/2009 4:49:40 PM
Did it ever occur to that maybe...just maybe...if the girl won't date you because you have a smaller penis (and she didn't try testing the waters) that she may be worthless, looking for a fling, and her thoughts/opinions don't matter in this regard?
 MarvaJanuice

Joined: 6/3/2008
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Posted: 10/9/2009 5:09:21 PM
"Just remember, a 2" tongue will run a 10" pecker out of town any day! So don't sweat the size. Make this your matto: " it goes all the way in, and makes me happy. That's all that matters!"......."


I think I love you derfofraleigh and I think youre very right!

..There's nothing wrong with you OP..and nothing wrong with 5 inches..

(but I will say regardless to what the experts say..I have feeling all the way deep inside..not just the first 2 or 3 inches..)

But right past that 2 or 3 inches your love stick will hit the gspot..so dont worry.. youre fine..
 namrael

Joined: 8/10/2008
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Posted: 10/9/2009 6:40:43 PM
If you two kept kissing, that may well not have been the issue at all. I think you're jumping to conclusions with no reason. But since you're worried: Just shy of 5 inches is perfectly adequate, as far as I'm concerned. It's big enough for some totally fulfilling penetration, and slightly smaller c*cks are sometimes better at hitting g-spots and such.

At any rate, I think you're projecting your insecurities here, and that it probably had nothing to do with your size (which can be hard to determine from a pants-on grope anyway).
 majyk1

Joined: 4/26/2009
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Posted: 10/10/2009 2:17:56 AM
I think sweetiepi hit it on the head when she said maybe the girl was surprised and embarrassed, not about the size but the situation!!
Even if that isnt the case, each person has their likes and dislikes.
Try learning other techniques, YES, but more importantly you need to learn to be comfortable with who YOU are before any one else can or will!
 ketch

Joined: 8/24/2006
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Posted: 10/10/2009 10:06:10 AM
According to the Kinsey report, normal (90% of the population) are between 5 and 7 inches. You are normal.

There are a lot of women who like a smaller penis. It's easier to blow. There's less pain with penetration.

Those guys in the porn films are chosen for size, Just like the girls are chosen for big boobs.

As for the girl. If she unzipped you, you are not to blame

Ketch
 FarmExe

Joined: 10/1/2009
Msg: 48
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Posted: 10/10/2009 10:58:27 AM

Feel free to google jelqing.

There are many kinds of extention exercise. When one is getting older, extention exercises can help the one not to get shorter fast.
 Timjohn55

Joined: 10/3/2009
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Posted: 10/10/2009 11:47:21 AM
Technique and timing is the true measure of pleasure, sure some ladies prefer a larger part, but if the guy learns technique & timing, he should very possibly be able to please and SATISFY any woman in thwe world who has honest expectations regarding a sexual encounter.
How long to keep it in My Pants?
Posted: 10/10/2009 1:09:22 PM
Why did you go along with the rest of the foreplay after she freaked out on you? I would have pushed her off and asked her what that was all about. It's not like she wouldn't have done the same thing if the situation was reversed. Imagine reaching up her shirt, grabbing a breast, and then yanking your hand away and gasping. Do you really think she'd just go back to making out with you like it was nothing?
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